BPW Scholarship Winner Back "Four Years Later" ANITA ARNDT "Four Years Later!" will be the subject of Anita Arndt, speaker at the McHenry Business and Professional Women's club business meeting June 19 at the Gilead House, Wilmot. Ms. Arndt is the daughter of Mrs. Mildred Arndt of Island Lake. In 1974 she was active at the university as a guide, working in the office, dorm president, residential advisor, orientation advisor for Foreign Exchange students, hostess at the inauguration of college president, narrator for con ducted tours through Washington, D.C. and was graduation speaker for Junior college. The McHenry Business and Professional Women's club is proud to have her as a past scholarship winner. Maurie Taylor, chairman for the evening, and her committee promise an interesting program. Reservations can be made by calling 385-0258. Guests are welcome. Dinner will be served at 7, the cocktail hour is 6:30. J "MEANWHILE BACK AT THE COURTHOUSE" There's An Answer (by Norman Vincent Peale and Ruth Stafford Peale) Moved His Clothes Out Q. My husband has been seeing another woman and yesterday moved his clothes out. We are both 54 and have been married 35 years. God help me, but I still love him and am so lonely. My blood pressure is way up and my herves are all on edge. I shake and cry so much. Normally I'm a very happy, contented person. I need advice so desperately. > A. It is possible that you may have been overreacting and that is why your husbnad moved out. Who would want to stay around someone who shakes and cries so much? It is right that you should get him back, but you'll never do it until you become again as you once were, a happy, attractive woman. When you do that, the other woman may not have a chance. What's more, you will enhance the possibility of a satisfactory home life. We have a booklet, How to Have a Good Day, which has helped others develop more positive attitudes in the face of problems, and a copy of it is on its way to you. Anyone wishing a free copy may write to us in care of Box 500, Pawling, NY 12564. Discouraged Stepmother Q. After being widowed for five years I married a kind, gentle man whom I love very much. Our problem centers around his youngest child, a bright, lovable little boy of 8. Before we were married he was allowed to do exactly as he wished. He lived on cokes and cereal. He was anemic, irritable and unhappy. I truly thought God had placed me in this family to meet their needs and to "save" this little boy. But my husband gets angry when I discipline this child. I am not cruel or harsh. I do not nag. I am firm and insist on obedience in important things, and the little boy loves and respects me. I never expected it to be easy, but I didn't know how difficult it would really be. Sometimes I am tempted to end this marriage and return to my lonely but comfortable "cocoon." A. You have a tough diplomatic problem. You cannot simply avoid the matter and let the child do as he pleases. On the other hand, naturally, you do not want to incur your husband's anger. ' Your best tactic is to try to convince your husband by both attitude and action that you want the best for his son. Point out that when a child is denied discipline in the loving atmosphere of the home he is being denied a vital heritage. As for the little boy, give him large doses of love and approval. When he feels safe and loved he will need less discipline. Feels Like a Prude Q. My daughter would like to have a young man stay overnight as a guest in my home. I have told her I didn't approve of it, and said no. Now she is asking again, and I really feel like such a prude. She is in college and he is also; they are not in their teens. But I am a widow and do not like the idea. What would you suggest? A. It is your house and every woman's house is her castle. However, a situation like this can be proper and decent. If your daughter maintains high moral standards it would be a mistake to refuse her request to bring home a friend. Opening your home and heart to young people could bring to you and them happy times. If there is something you would like to ask Dr. and Mrs. Peale to discuss in this column, write to them in care of Box 500, Pawling, NY 12564. If you would like to talk directly with a prayer partner, call Prayer Line 212-481-1050. Reduced long-distance rates are in effect nights and weekends. SPIRITUAL REMINDER-Parishioners of St. Paul's Episcopal church were recipients of small metal crosses and a verse from Pastor Arthur McKay and acolyte Kenny Lang during services Sunday, June 4. Designed to be carried in the pocket of the individual, the repUca serves to remind that "Jesus Christ is Lord of my life if only I'll let Him be". SECOND SON A second son, Mathew Ed ward, is welcomed by parents David and Gloria Olson of 5003 W. Pyndale drive, McHenry. The baby boy was born at Memorial hospital, Woodstock, Tuesday, May 30, weighing 6 lbs. 14 oz. He joins a 3-year-old brother, David, at home. Delighted grandparents in clude Mrs. ' Mary Ann Prima vera and Mrs. and Mrs. Harold Olson, all of Lowellville, Ohio. IT'S A BOY! Warmly welcomed into his family is Brian David Snyder, infant son of Richard and Harriet Snyder of 2914 W. Lincoln road, McHenry. The Memorial hospital 'rettdrds show the birth date as Wed nesday, May 31; a birth weight of 8 lbs. 5 oz.; and 20 inches in length. Baby Brian will receive a lot of attention from brothers and sisters, Lee, 20; Mark, 18; Ann, 17; Ruth, 16; Judy, 14; Paul, 13; John, 12; and Carol, 10. His grandparents are Mrs. Harry Abing of Platteville, Wis., and Peter Snyder of Galena, 111. MEMORIAL HOSPITAL WOODSTOCK It's a girl!...born Monday, June 5, to Mr. and Mrs. Ronald Maxstadt of Wonder Lake. An infant son born Tuesday, June 6, is welcomed to the Wonder Lake home of Mr. and Mrs. Mark Meier. Mr. and Mrs. Lee Pankiewicz of McHenry are the parents of a baby daughter born Tuesday, June 6. Gem-Mineral Members Plan June 11 Picnic The Hiawalha Gem and Mineral society will have a picnic Sunday, June 11, at 11 a.m., at Spring Bluff park, near Winthrop Harbor, 111. Members are asked to bring their own food, beverage and a dessert to pass. Beach combing for rocks will be one of the activities. ' BRANCH III COURT Associate Judge In hearings before Judge Leonard Brody June 7, James C. Headtke, 1016 N. River road, was found guilty of illegal parking and was fined $5 and costs. Rydolph M. Klimo, Chicago, guilty of no. valid registration, .fined $10 and costs. Michael F. Heelein, 2117 English Prairie road, Spring Grove, guilty of improper display of license plates, fined $15 and costs. Michael W. Caldwell, Wauconda, guilty of reckless driving, fined $25 and costs. s Jeffrey A. Smith, Crystal Lake, guilty of transportation or possession of open alcoholic liquor, fined $25 and costs. Laurence W. Wood, 524 Kingston boulevard, guilty of speeding, fined $20 and costs. Claudia K. Cleveland, 5208 Lee side, guilty of speeding, fined $13 and costs. Frank J. Carbone, 2507 S. Lilac street, guilty of speeding, fined $25 and costs. Charles D. Cowgill, Antioch, guilty of speeding, fined $20 and costs. Deborah L. Baldachi, 3410 W. Washington street, guilty of speeding, fined $12 and costs. Tommy J. Steigler, 8901 Ramble road, Wonder Lake, guilty of speeding, fined $17 and costs. DIVORCES ARE YOU MOVING? Subscribers are requested to provide immediate notice of change of address to The McHenry Plain- dealer, 3812 W. Elm St., McHenry, II. 60050. A deduction of one month from the expiration of a subscription will be made where a' change of address is provided through the Post Office Department. SATURDAY-SUNDAY OR MONDAY PRIME RIB of BEEF au jus Special *4 50 Includes: Our famous Salad Bar, Cholca of Potato, Soup or Y Tomato Julco, Mini loof of Brood and Button TRY OUR FAMOUS SALAD BAR FOR LUNCH MON. thru FRI. ...AND FASHION SHOW AT LUNCH ON WEDNESDAY I LONGMN STEAK HOUSE <£ Route 120 • V/i Miles Eoit of McHenry - 385-986^^^^ Decrees and judgments of dissolutions of marriage recently granted by the 19th Judicial Circuit Court include: Judy Cunningham and Alan Cunningham; Margaret M. Foreman and James W. Foreman; Rosa M. Mall and Richard R. Mall; Christine K. Peto and Joseph A. Peto. Sandra B. Walsh and James P. Walsh; Dian Sue Hansen and Richard H. Hansen; Rogelio Olmos and Shirley F. Olmos; Vicki Jill Heelein and Rodney Steven Heelein. Patricia E. Church and Franklin D. Church; Rebecca A. Everson and Charles O. Everson; Candice P. Tritz and Donald R. Tritz; Virginia M. Barcklay and Robert E. Barckley. To be informed people must first be willing to listen and respect the opinions of others. Larry J. Hanley, Lombard, guilty of transportation or possession of open alcoholic liquor, fined $25 and costs. Sophia E. Malina, 7609 Pheasant road, Wonder Lake, guilty of speeding, fined $13 and costs. Mary Ann Brennan, 1504 Third avenue, Spring Grove, guilty of speeding, fined $21 and costs. BRANCH I COURT Associate Judge In hearings before Judge Haskell Pitluck on June 6, Donald G. Mitchell, Marengo, was found guilty of driving while his license was revoked and was fined $150 and costs. Kenneth E. Falk, Crystal Lake, was not prosecuted on charges of aggravated assault and battery. Richard Looper, Crystal Lake, guilty of permitting a dog to run at large, fined $15 and costs. Dennis E. Jeschke, 1506 Hickory, entered a negotiated plea of guilty to a charge of possession of cannabis and was fined $25 and costs, Brett A. Gardner, 2614 Shorewood, entered negotiated pleas of guilty to charges of purchase or acceptance of alcoholic liquor by a person of non-age and was fined $50 and costs and disorderly conduct and was fined $25 and costs. Robert E. Anderson, 3408 W. Third ^venue, entered a negotiated plea of guilty to a charge of purchase or ac ceptance of liquor by a person of non-age and was fined $50 and costs. Brad H. Zednik, 205 S. Park road, guilty of retail theft under $150, fined $30 and costs. Lawrence M. Braidman, 3304 W. Third avenue, guilty of theft under $150, fined $40 and costs. Richard J. Jacobson, 4212 Ponca, guilty of purchase or acceptance of alcoholic liquor by a person of non-age, fined $50 and costs. Timothy M. Freund, 4210 W. Fountain street, guilty of purchase or acceptance of alcoholic liquor by a person of non-age, fined $50 and costs. Paul V. Noe, Marengo, guilty of interferring with officers, fined $15 and costs. Betty J. Crago, 7205 Seminole drive, Wonder Lake, guilty of disorderly conduct, fined $25 and costs. Gary W. Underwood, 7708 Deep Springs road, Wonder Lake, guilty of disorderly conduct, fined $25 and costs. Mark T. Pattison, Crystal Lake, guilty of criminal damage to property under $150, fined $25 and costs. A teacher should be spar ing of his smile. -William Cowper. Teaching of others teach- eth the teacher. -Thomas Fuller. PAGE 3 - PLAINDEALEK - FRIDAY. JUNE 9,1978 based at Whidbey Island Naval air station. Oak Harbor, Wash His squadron was embarked aboard the aircraft carrier USS Enterprise. Conducted in the mid-Pacific ocean area adjacent to Hawaii, "Rimpac '78" involved ap proximately 22,000 men, forty- two ships and 225 aircraft from the United States, Canada, Australia and New Zealand This marked the sixth annual, joint maneuvers conducted by naval forces from "rim of the Pacific" nations. "Rimpac '78" tested and evaluated the combat readiness of participating units. Areas covered included antisubmarine warfare, air defense and carrier operations, at-sea rearming and replenish ment, plus missile firings at pacific Missile Range facility. Barking Sands, Hawaii. Overall commander for "Rimapc '78" was Vice Ad miral Samuel L. Gravely Jr.. IJSN, commander of the U.S. Third Fleet. A 1976 graduate of Webster college, St. Louis, with a Master of Arts degree, Lt Thomson joined the Navy in December of 1971. fsERVICENEWs| Grandson Of Local Resident Naval Graduate Michael J. Conklin, lieutenant, United States Marine corp, graduated from the United States Naval academy June 7, 1978. He is the grandson of Mrs. Marjorie H, Conklin of Whispering Oaks, McHenry, and the late Gilbert >A. Conklin, Sr. Michael is the son of Catherine and Gilbert a; Conklin, Jr., of Arlington, Va. His father is a retired Marine who served twenty-two years in that service, and is now a security guard in the nation's capitol, Washington, D.C. Michael is the second oldest child of seven children. He will serve in the Marine Corps for at least 5 years or may choose to make it his career. Ingleside Navy Man Crewm ember Aboard Carrier Navy Lieutenant Tim Thomson, son of Mr. and Mrs. Carl A. Thomson of 1302 E. Route 134, Ingleside, recently participated in the major allied exercise "Rimpac '78." He is power plants branch officer of Attack Squadron 1%, LUNCHEON-CARD PARTY The Blessed Virgin Mary sodality of St. John the Baptist Catholic church, Johnsburg, is sponsoring a salad luncheon and card party Wednesday, June 14, at the Johnsburg Community club beginning at 11:30 a.m. Proceeds will benefit the church Restoration fund and the public is cordially in vited to attend. J t j i |toi!l help D4P enjoy the outdoors with 3 \c>V*V uO«,s1 these specials... 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