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PAGE 4 - PLA1NDEALER - WEDNESDAY. NOVEMBER 19.1980 ROBERT MUSIKflNTOW, Ph.D. psychologist for the Family Servico and Community Mental Health Center for Mchenry County (Editor's note: This is another in a series of especially written articles for McHenry County readers .Joseph Cool is a psychologist on the Family Service and Community Mental Health Center staff. This article is Being a Good ^Listener".) How many times have you had the experience of wanting to talk to someone about something that is really important to you, only to find that the other person ends up talking about one of his problems" It is easy to recognize this habit in another person because it leaves you with- the frustrating feeling that the other person is not really listening, is not really un­ derstanding completely. Not so easy to recognize is the possibility that you may do exactly the same thing to someone else. Being a good listener is not a passive activity It is an active process and ex­ tremely hard work It is difficult to concentrate all of your attention on another person,-and honestly try to understand everything they are trying to communicate to you The natural tendency •1980 rent soft\ R E N T A L NO installation charge NEW fully automatic softeners TWO year option to buy with FULL rental fee deducted ONE phone call can answer any questions 312-259-3393 FOX VALLEY DIVISION when someooe is upset is: to reassure them that it is not as bad as they think; to top their story with one of your own; or to tell them that they are wrong to feel the way they do The "active" listener will not try to persuade the other person that it is not as bad as it appears. The active listener will try to find out why it appears so bad. The active listener will not try to come up with a better story in his own life. The active listener will realize that the experience being related is of utmost importance. He will not try to shame the other person out of feeling bad. The active listener will accept any feelings from the other person - positive or negative. Listening takes a good deal of practice. When you have mastered the elements of the afrt of good listening, then you may expect the same from others; then you may say, "Look I was there to listen to you when you really needed me. Now I need you to listen to me. I don't need answers from you. I just need to know that you care, and can listen for a while." - Next: Alone on the Holidays. If adults set youth the proper example, it might be possible for young peo­ ple to follow their lead. Legal Notice NOTICE OF JUDICIAL SALE STATE OF ILLINOIS ) )SS ) WE RESERVE THE RIGHT TO LIMIT QUANTITIES ON SALE ITEMS BELLIIQUORS merchants of fine wines and liqu i 1385-3200: SALE BEER NOT ICED NO SALES TO MINORS LIQUORS 4610 W. RTE. 120, McHENRY,ILLINOIS! SALE DATES: WED., NOV. 19 - MOM., NOV. 24 OUR McHENRY STORE ONLY - WHILE QUANTITIES LAST , WCMTE BROS. | LE BLANC DE BLANCS A 750 ML FIFTH 2 099 FREE TASTING FRI. I SAT. ANCIENT AGE BOURBON n i GILBEY'S OIN 1.75 OIN " / : -7 - LITRES 7" OILBEY'S VODKA ̂1 | I'nSs I29 FRANCISCAN VINEYARDS 1977 JOHANNISBERG RIESLING (TEMECUU) 15UTR[ 1979 CHARDONNAY (RIVERSIDE) uLcmu 1976 CABERNET SAUVI6N0N (SONOMA CO.) (RES. 6.99) 4 99 ft •IMtNOR \ l » l \ > '..V* WINDSOR CANADIAN 1.75 LITRES B & L SCOTCH 1.75 LITRES E A J BRANDY 1.75 LITRE TAYLOR TAYLOR LAKE COUNTRY WINES RED WHITE GOLD PINK 1.5 LITRE MAGNUM Your Thanksgiving wine shopping will be lots easier this year at Bell when you find this card on specially selected wines best suited for a gala roast Turkey Din­ ner. Wine Suited for Turkey CINZANO ASTI SPUMANTE 750 ML FIFTH You'll find a resume7 of the recommended wine describing its degree of sweetness or dryness, its flavor and other pertinent qualities. All to help you choose the wine that suits you best this Thanksgiving. Only at Bell-your wine store. ODARBY'S IRISH CREAM LIOUEUR 500 ML (16J0I) 7 99 THANKSGIVING HOLIDAY TASTING SCHEDULE - Fri.. Sat., Nov. 21,22 Sunday, Nov. 23 Mon., Tues., Nov. 24, 25 Wed., Thurs., Nov. 26, 27 Fri., Sat., Nov. 28, 29 Wente Bros. LeBlanc de Blancs Augsburgep Beer Boggs Cranberry Liqueur Mirassou Chenin Blanc Jeremiah Weed Liqueur BOMS CRANBERRY UOUEIM 750 Ml FREE TASTHtt MOM. I IKS. CANFIELDS MIXERS EACH PLUS DEPOSIT QUART EVERYDAY LOW PRICE ALL 8 PACK SODAS A & W ROOT BEER COCA COLA FRESCA h TAB J1 SPRITE RCCOLAl DIET RITE PLUS DEPOSIT PEPSI DIET PEPSI MOUNTAIN DEW SUNKIST 116 OZ. 7.||p BOTTLES DR.PEPPER ORANGE CRUSH SQUIRT CANADA DRY ALE EVERYDAY LOW PRICE! 1 49 RC 100 NENI FLAVORS BUBBLE-UP DAD'S ROOT BEER DIET DAD'S 19 8-16 OZ. BOTTLES OUR EVERYDAY LOW PRICE LI6HT OR DARK AUGSBIIRGER BEER 6-12 OZ. BOTTLES 1 99 FREE TASTING SIM OLYMPIA (ILVMPIA ••CO w 1212 OZ. CANS 3 59 24-12 OZ. 1212 OZ. N R. BOTTLES COUNTY OF McHENRY IN THE CIRCUIT COURT FOR THE 19TH JUDICIAL CIRCUIT McHENRY COUNTY. ILLINOIS McHENRY STATE BANK, an Illinois Banking Corporation and THOMAS F BOLGER, Trustee, Plaintiffs, vs. ELINOR D.WHITE, et al, Defendants. IN CHANCERY General No. 80 CH 28 NOTICE IS HEREBY GIVEN that in pursuance of decree heretofore entered by said Court in the above entitled cause, LEONARD BRODY, Associate Judge of the Circuit Court will on Tuesday, the 16th day of December A.D. 1980, at the hour of 9:30 o'clock A.M. (CENTRAL STANDARD) TIME, in ROOM 307 of the Court House in the City of Woodstock, in said County, sell at public auction to the highest and best bidder for cash all and singular, the f o l l o w i n g d e s c r i b e d premises and real estate in said decree mentioned, situated in the County of McHenry and State of Illinois, or so much thereof as shall be sufficient to satisfy said decree, to-wit: Lot 6 in Block 1 in Indian Ridge Unit No. 1, a Subdivision of part of Section 7, Township 45 North, Range 8 East of the Third Principal Meridian, according to the Plat thereof recorded June 27, 1939, as Document No. 139953 in Book 9 of Plats, page 34, in McHenry County, Illinois. ADDRESS OR LOCATION OF PROPERTY: 4509 E. Lake Shore Drive, Wonder Lake, IL. together with all buildings ana improvements thereon, and the tenements, hereditaments and ap­ purtenances thereunto Belonging. DATED, Woodstock, Illinois, this 13th day of November A.D. 1980. VERNON W.KAYS, JR. Clerk of the Circuit Court of McHenry County, Illinois Attorney for Plaintiff COWLIN, COWLIN & UNGVARSKY E x h i b i t A No. 800006 (Pub. Nov. 19,26& Dec. 3,1980) Legal Notice NOTICE Public Notice is hereby given that on November 14, A.D. 1980, a certificate was filed in the Office of the County Clerk of McHenry County, Illinois, setting forth the names and post-office addresses of all or the per­ sons owning, conducting and transacting the business known as THOMAS LOTITO MASONRY & SON, located at R. R. l Route 120, P.O. Box 521, McHenry, IL., 60050. Dated this 14th day of November, A.D. 1980. Rosemary Azzaro, County Clerk (Pub. Nov. 19,26& Dec. 3,1980) No. 800005 Legal Notice IN THE CIRCUIT COURT OF THE 19TH JUDICIAL CIRCUIT, McHENRY COUNTY, ILLINOIS PROBATE DIVISION ESTATE OF OTTO E. Parks And Recreation I The City of McHenr^r Department of Parks and Recreation is now taking registration for its Winter session of Aerobic Dancing. This winter program begins Dec. 8 and will run for 12 weeks. Classes are held on Mondays and Wednesdays at McHenry high school East campus from 7:30-8:30 p.m. Classes will not be held for two weeks during the holidays. Aerobic Dancing combines the health and figure benefits of jogging with the fun of dancing. It's a series of easy to learn dances fof non-dancers, a carefully choreographed blend of jogging, lunges, arm swings and leg kicks set to music from the ragtime 20's to the Disco 80's. now city pf in Registrations are n« being taken at McHenry hall, llll N. Green street in^ McHenry. For further in­ formation on this program, call the Department of Parks and Recreation at 344- 3300. Install Y, Men's Club Officers At Dinner The Lake Region YMCA Y's Men's club is having it's annual Thanksgiving dinner Nov. 25. A guest speaker will be present and induction of all members and installation of officers will take place. BIRING Deceased, File No. 80-P-379. CLAIM NOTICE Notice is given of the death of OTTO E. BIRING, of McHenry, Illinois. Letters of office were issued on Oc­ tober 29, 1980, to Virginia Krispin Ames, a-k-a Virginia E. Ames, 4816 W. Shore Drive, McHenry, IL., 60050 whose attorney is McKen- ney, Chapman & Graham, 95 Grant St., P.O. Box 408, Crystal Lake, IL., 60014. CI may be filed in the office of Claims against the estate aims aga be filea the Clerk of the Court at 2200 N. Seminary Avenue, Woodstock, Illinois, 60098, or with the representative, or both , within 6 months from the date of issuance of letters and any claim not filed within that period is barred. Copies of a claim filed with the Clerk must be mailed or delivered to the represen­ tative and to the attorney within 10 days after it has been filed. Vernon W. Kays, Jr. Clerk of the Court (Pub. Nov. 19,26& Dec. 3.1980) No. 800004 The Lake Region Y's Men's club was founded in 1967. In 1977 the club allowed women to become active members. With all the work needed at the "Y" when the building expansion nears completion and with the Christmas tree project, more members are needed. The "old timers" wish to take a less active role, but will help guide the newly formed club. The goals of the club are service, fellowship and brotherhood. The professional advisor is Phillip Baaske, program executive of the Lake Region YMCA. Those with questions should feel free to call him at 459-4455. Save Heat When cooking, match the size of pots to the range units. Heat is wasted when the pot is smaller than the unit. Good Source A serving of lamb provides a high amount of protein and sig­ nificant quantities of vitamin B-l, vitamin B-2, iron and cal­ cium. 1980 THANKSGIVING DAY ft V ( v)j SERVING FROM 12 TO 6 CHOICE OF ONE Cream of Turkey Soup, Cranberry Cocktail. Tomatoe Juice WHOLE TURKEY S?V Dod wi!l CQfve't ot your table. All The%x*°/> :l.. -I _ w. T . Cfrx ' 3 Trimmings Served Family Style. You Take Home The Leftover Turkey. 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