_- nt RENAE. ALY SS fut Ld Cs a 4 WAM OLD ER ACCRA A Wale : 1350 3 PR rp Ul FE MAX ie hd ATE RED IN a CANAREE CRORE AVAL x Fe AAR SIS, LEN 3 PPAF Al ™ VATE al. Fe SR a LT Sah d SESE EERE SAR A [ANNE HI RST Your Family Counselor ------------ "Dear Anne Hirst: [I am a divorced woman who is going out with a married man. I worked for him for. three years, He never paid any atten- tion to me until his wife left him some months ago -- though now he says he was always fond of \ nme, "His wife has the children, whom he supports properly. ' "One day he says he wouldn't take her back. The next, that he would, for the children's sake. He claims he hasn't loved her for two years. y "He says he'll fight for a divorce, and begs me to wait 'for it. Again, he tells me he'd rather she get it; If she refuses, he will go ahead himself. "I sce him three times a Hé¢ has so many plans future! Me says for me week. for our not to USE SCRAPS to kitchen cheerful and gay! Pothold- ers that look like flowers, hang them in their own handy basket near the stove. Easy to sew! make your Potholders in gay tulip Basket-holder too! [Pattern pattern pieces for set. Send TWENTY-FIVE CENTS in coins (stamps cannot be ac- cepted for this pattern to Box I, 123 Eighteenth St., New Toronto, Ont. Print plainly NUMBER, your NAME and AD- DRESS. Such a colorful roundup of handiwork ideas! Send twenty-five eents now for our Laura Wheeler Needlecraft Catalog. Ghoose your patterns from our gaily illustrated toys, dolls, household and personal accessories, A pattern for a hand- bag is printed right in the book. shape! 625; PATTERN. worry, I won't get hurt in the end. "He has his own home, a car, and a partnership. He is smart and well-mannered. But I don't know if I should believe everything he tells me. I'll be waiting for your advice, IL." * First, do you really think you * can date a married man regularly * and not risk your good name? * And doesn't he know that he * endangers his divorce by seeing * another woman during this * period? A defendant must come * into court with clean hands. * I hope, for both these reasons, * you will stop secing him. His * promise that you will not be hurt * will sound pretty thin if you are * named co-respondent in a divorce * suit. - * You are old enough to realize * * - * * + all this. T expect you have been - so upset you have not faced the realities. "* Face them today, and go ahead alone--until he can come to you a free man. A Romantic Child "Dear Anne Hirst: I am engaged "toa hoy in Korea, whom I'll marry as soon as he comes home. But my voung sister is making a fool of herself over him. "In his last letter to me, he en- closed two she has written him-- crazy love-lettérs that said she would make him a better wife, and why doesn't he realize it? She is only 16, and incurably romantic, but she should know better. I am so ashamed! } "Shall I show them to my father? (My mother is dead.) Or deal with her myself? SO WORRIED" * Hand the letters to your sister.- * That will put an end to her * nonsense, * And, if you can control your- * self, don't tell her what you * think. Your unexpected silence * will shame her as nothing else * could. She will learn her lesson, * and with no ill feeling toward * you. She will understand, too * that vou could have given them * to vour father, with resulting * unpleasantness. » Jy the time vour fiance re- * turns, she will have gotten over * her infatuation and no harm * will have been done to anyone. " * * If a married man is making you the customary promise, turn a deaf car, Don't get mixed up in a scandal. . . . Anne Hirst will help you find courage to do right. Write her at Box 1, 123 Eighteenth St., New Toronto, Ont' . - COURTESY Linda Young, three-year-old daughter of one of the New York's leading printers, has a new En- glish governess who is teaching her perfect manners. Her parents wonder if they are not a shade too perfect, The other morning, she followed her father to the ward- robe and asked sweetly, "Daddy, may [ borrow a clothes hanger for a moment, please?" When he gave her the hanger, she curtsied pret- tily, took careful aim, and conked her mother squarely on the head with it. Then she returned it to her father, saying, "Thank you ever so much." -- 8. Retatn ~~ 33. Coasting CROSSWORD 9. Crossing device , 10. Head - 34. Epoch covering 35. Dwelling : PUZZLE 11. Watch 37. Understand 4 narrowly 40. Stick together 13 Héddow ig Bathe than . Make 5. Storms v 1. pa hoss . DOWN 23. Be indebted 46. Bevel - . 6 Inquire 1. Port 25. Determine 47. Behind time 9. Article 2. Fatty fruit 27. Addition toa 49. Handle 12. Substance fn 3. Salt-peter ullding 61. Interrogative Portland 4. Greek letter 28. Malt beverage 63. Pronoun cement 6. 8hrill bark 30. Rowing 64. Born ( (clinker) 0. - implement 65. Institute auft | 13. Pastry 7. Knght's title 31. Knock 67. Wine vesrel 14. Beam 16. Living 16. Church dignitary 18. Feminine ame ik Before (prefix) 1. te 22. Roman . - emperor ' 8: Finish ° 26. On the ocean Answer Elsewhere on This Page A "Out Of This World" Lhasa is truly out of this world; "scenically, geographically and cul: - turally, Standing at th ehead of a green valley; only twelve thousand- feet above sca level--low for Tibet --the city is almost surrounded by tall mountains, the highest of which looms up eighteen thousand feet. Even in the summer, new snow can be scen almost every morning on the majestic peaks towéring to- ward the deep blue sky. To add to' the splendor, scattered up and down the mountains are red and white monasteries, some of which cling precariously: to rock cliffs like _ cagles' nests, bright, fantastic costumes, Dorje now led us away from the center of the city, across several flooded meadows to what was to be our home while visiting Lhasa. He took us to a government villa, called 'I'reda Linga, on the south- ern outskirts and almost on the banks of the Kyi Chu. There we found ample room and comfort both for our animals and our- selves There always has been a strict rule that a visitor to Lhasa must "pay his respects to the Dalai Lama . before hie sees any other persons of importance. But the custom is that three days, at least, must pass before he is permitted to, enter the audience hall where the Tibetan pontiff blesses pilgrims, usually only from China, Bhutan, Sikkim, Nepal and India, the nearby Budd- hist countries. Well, for the first time in Tibetan history--so they said--that rule was disregarded . . . The closing day of the summer festival dawned bright and clear over Lhasa, with plenty of sunlight for our eolor film. Early in the morning we joined the stream of Tibetans on the two-mile proces- sion to Norbu Linga. We rode leisurely past the towering Potala, dismounting every few minotes to film the coloriul crowd in their Never had we seen more photogenic peeple: Tibetan officials and their wives were riding gaily ornament- ed horses and mules--the men dressed in flowing robes, with yel- low hats of the inverted saucer type. The color scheme of their silk robes varied according to rank and office, some gold" and blue, others orange and red. The wives, who brought up the rear, were - decked out in long silk dresses of bright blue, with green and blue hats that had twelve-inch visors to protect their complexions from the intense high altitude rays of the sun. Some women wore on their heads wooden frames studded with turquoise and coral. Over these frames, which looked like antlers, they draped their long straight hair., The ordinary townspeople, ceeding on foot, were no less color- ful, perhaps not dressed so cle- gantly, but just as gaily. Some of the men wore-large fur caps that for centuries have been character- istic feaures of the Mongol cos- tume, and many had on the curious Tibetan cloth boots with flat soles of yak-hide.--~From "Out of This World," by Lowell Thomas, Jr. Half-Size Fashion 4592 ayy, by-APone Abs TWO PIECER in Hall Sizes! Here it is -- your new Spring Dress! That narrow scalloped neck- line is very new, very face flatter- ing too, This is the size range designed for the fuller, shorter figure, No alteration worries! Look taller and slimmer! Pattern 4592: Half-Sizes 1414, 16Y;, 185, 20%, 22Y4, 24%;. Size 16% takes 414 yards 39-inch, This 'pattern easy to use, sim- ple to sew, is tested for fit. Has complete illustrated instructions, Send THIRTY - FIVE CENTS {35¢c) in coins (stamps cannot be accepted) for this pattern. Print plainly SIZE, NAME, ADDRESS, STYLE NUMBER, Send order to Box 1, 123 Eigh- teen St, New Toronto, Ont, - : pro- © past. A Movie-Inspired--This lovely negligee in nylon net, worn over a graceful nightdress in nylon tricot, will be shown in the textile section of the 1952 British Industries Fair from May 5 to 16, Both negligee and nightdress were inspired by a dress Empress Poppaea, -Nero's wife, in the film, worn by the "Quo Vadis." YGiNGERFaRM Gwendoline D Clarke 4 It is too cold for housecleaning; too wet for seeding--or for raking the lawns or flower beds, but it is a grand time for "redding up™ odds and ends that have accumulat- ed during the winter. And how they accumulate! Just recently friends of our moved away. from their spacious farm hore to much smaller quarters. 1 just about wilted when I saw all the stuff that had to be sorted, and then sold, given away or thrown out, according to its usefulness or value. What an ordeal! And yet how uninteresting our homes would be if we didn't hoard anything at all, Imagine housecleaning the hoxroom of the attic and having no old letters or school books to look through. Or patch work picces to sort, or pic-« tures: and snapshots to look over, some of which had been almost forgotten. What fun to take an- other look at those old *school- 3] group pictures; think of Mamie as she is now and sce the shy little girl 'she used to be--or the sturdy youth who was such a puny little boy. And of course Old Country people waste (?) a lot of precious time looking at postcards and other relics of bygone days, taking us back, to the past and making us wonder if we shall ever again sec those old familiar places. And if we did would they have any meaning for us now? Times and places have changed a lot and in many cases the folk we loved are no longer where we left them, [ supose, too, there are fashions in hoarding as in everything else. The things that we hoard now are very different from those of grand- mother's day. Then it was heavy clothing to make over for the chil- dren, or to be cut up during the winter Yor rugs and quilts. Now in many an attic, instead of clothing there are antique pieces of furniture waiting to be refinish- ed -- probably _rescued from the woodshed or picked up at an auc- tion sale. The other day I saw a beautiful cedar-lined, hand-carv- ed oak chest. It had been brought over from England and had been salvaged from an old back kitchen, or scullery, where 'it had been used as a handy place on which to cut up the meat after an animal had been butchered) The time we spend in "redding up" depends to a great extent on the weather. As long as it stays cold, wet, or stormy we are in- clined to dawdle on the job, en- joying it to the full. But let the , weather change and very, soon sen- timent gives way to ordinary, everyday common sense so that in our desire to speed up the work we find ourselves a little more ruth. less in discarding treasures of the _ little - sunshine! and we really step .around, especially after a'rainy spell such as we have had just recently, Of course spring is really just around the corner. No doubt it would have beer here be- fore but apparently an extensive detour was necessary before it could actually get here. But don't worfy--it is coming all right-- must be, Why? Well, three days ago I heard geese going over , . . and snowdrops are blooming; daf- fodils are in bud; rhubarl is peck- ing rosy-red through its winter bed, and the swamp frogs, though silent now, have been heard sing- ing. To say nothing of two cock robins that were carrying out pre- cision exercises on our front lawn SALLY'S SALLIES bokeh Weck rg mr t "If the cleaners would only shrink their bills like they did this!" only yesterday. The Mountie's Musical Ride had nothing on these two robins. They ran, stopped-- ran, stopped; left wheeled and right wheeled as one bird. It was a fascinating exhibition to watch --only by watching could one be- lieve such a feat was possible. Today 1 saw something else that was equally extraordinary. Tippy and a visiting dog were having a little argument which showed promise of developing into a first class fight. However, before it Had. a chance to materialize a black streak of fury was upon them, back arched, tail in the air and using the most awful language. That streak was our Black Joe. Now, I thought, I've seen everything. When dog chases cat, that's noth- ing, But when one lone cat chases two big dogs and breaks up a fight, that is really news, As soon as he had the dogs separated, Black Joe shinned up a chestnut tree and stayed on guard. Yi Today 1 watched as good a feinting match as [ am ever likely to see, Tippy came on a ground- hog unawares. She caught it, then dropped it. And then Tippy and the groundhop circled and jockey- ed for position with lightning speed. Twice Tippy caught it and dropped it again and the perfor- mance was repeated until the third and last time, the groundhog gamely fighting in defence of its life. Poor little cteature--I would like to have rescued it. So tiny and yet so brave. - ONCE--BUT NOT NOW People of the theatrical and lit- erary worlds place the usual pre- mium on success, but they still have time to show compassion and understanding for those "who no longer can. make the grade. In Hollywood, however, the competi- tion is so fierce and the sense of insecurity so pervading that no- body has any time for fallen big- shots of yesterday. A star who has managed to hold his place through the years « unconsciously - summed up the Hollywood atti- tude at a dinner party recently. "The time to salt "your money away is when you're rolling along on top," he announced. "You never know whenyyou're going to hit the skids. For example, take the pic-- ture I'm doing. It calls for a flock of extras, I was looking them over at the studio this morning--a mot- ley crew--and you'd be amazed to know how many of them were once my friends!" HOW TO RELIEVE In well, Massage neck, At druggists' for 85 : Modern Etiquette By Roberta Lee Q. Are showers for prospective bridegrooms appropriatg? A. They are growing in popular~ ity, although mostly humorous in character, Usually they consist of socks too gaudy to wear, "dainty" handkerchiefs, budget books, .ball- . and-chain, and the like. Of course," the shower of useful gifts is also . appropriate--such as a book shower, smoking - necessities or workship-tool shower. . Q. I've been told it is permissible to leave the soup spoon in the soup bowl. Is this correct? A. If the plate on which the bowl rests is wide, it is better to lay the spoon on it. If very narrow, how- ever, it is all right to leave the spoon in the bowl. Q. Is it necessary that a pall bearer at a funeral wear a black suit? A. No; any dark business-suit is appropriate. Q. How should one take the olive stone from the mouth? A, It should be removed from the mouth with the thumb and fore- finger, and laid on the plate. Never be guilty of ejecting it from the mouth directly to the 'plate, or into the palm of the hand! Q. If several members of a family go together to buy a wedding gift, is it all right for the bride to write a note of thanks to just one of them and ask her to thank the other members of the family? A. No; the bride must write a separate note of thanks to each person. : : Q. Is it correct to have a mono- gram engraved on the envelope of social stationery? A. No; the monogram should be engraved only on the note paper. Q. When you are talking with someone whose name you cannot remember, readily, .arnd .another friend joins you, should you at- tempt an introduction? A. It is better to attempt an in- troduction than to leave two per- sons standing awkwardly staring at cach other. Here you can say, "I am very sorry, but for the moment I cannot recall your name." Q. What is the correct way to address a letter to a friend whose husband has recently passed away? shower, A. The same as always--"Mrs, ~ Frank J. Wilson." Q. What is the proper way to eat an apple at the table? A. Cut the apple into quarters, then peel it. The pieces are then conveyed to the mouth with the fingers, Q. What is customary to use as a centerpiece for the wedding breakfast table? i A. The wedding cake. Petticoat Hints When you go shopping for an important petticoat to set off an important dress, be sure it takes to soap and water. Look for a fabric that's made to be washed, that won't wilt at the first wetting, or lose its crispy rustle. A petti- coat that can't be sudsed like other undies is a luxury few women can afford. Take time also to look for easy- washable trim such as permanent- ly pleated ruffles which will save valuable time at the ironing board, or choose a fabric that riceds no ironing at all. Care of Coats Before tucking away that old pet hunting coat in moth-balls and putting it in the family cedar chest, be sure to give it a coat of good canvas. water-proofing such as is used for tents. This will not only preserve the material but will keep those blood-soaked places at the bottom of the game pockets from rotting. DIDN'T KNOW THEIR OATS -- When you eat your oatmeal Just thank your stars that the old Ro- man farmers didn't have weed sprayers, The Romans figured oats, were 'weeds--but they never quite killed them all off. These days Canadian and U.S. farmers grow about 134 billion bushels of oats yearly. Lh aj: 3 For Cleaner Rugs A brush is better than a cloth for removing stains from a deep- pile "carpet, according to Miss Florence ~ King, noted clothing specialist. She also advises wash- ing the soiled areas in the direo- tion of the pile--not crosswise to "it Use a thick soapless lather, she says, for the first step in removing the stain. After you finish the lather treatment, wipe the spot with a clean cloth that has beea dipped into clear warm water and squeezed to. remove excess mois- ture. If this treatment does not re- move all of the stain, follow with a grease solvent, such as carbom tetrachloride. Use a brush to get / the solvent well into the pile. If these two treatments do not completely remove the stain, start all over again. Repeat the lather and solvent treatment to refhove the remaining stain. SPEEDSTER A woman was talking with a friend about the athletic achieve- ments of the latter's son. "Your boy must be an excep- tionally fast runner; I see by this" morning's paper that. he fairly burned up the track with his record breaking speed. I suppose you saw him do it?" . "No, I didn't see him do it" replied the boy's mother, "but I saw the track /this morning and there was nothing but cinders there." Tastan _RELIEF IS LASTING There's one thing that brings really fast relief from the discomfort. .. the headache «+ « the muscular aches and Pains that often accompany a cold + + « INSTANTINE., And the relief is prolonged! So get INSTANTINE and get quick comfort. INSTANTINE is compounded like a prescription of three proven medical ingredients. You can depend on its fast action in getting relief from ® everyday aches and pains; headache, rheumatic pain, neuritic and neu. ralgic pain. - : . Get Instantine today and always keep it handy 12-Tablet Tin 25¢ Economical 48-Tablet Bottle 75¢ rey Upsidedown to Prevent Peeking Al ISSUE 17 -- 1952 Success Tip= Bake it with MAGIC! grated lemon rind and 34 c. oranga juice, Mix and sift once, then sift into a bowl, 134 o.once-sifted pastry flour (or 134 c. once-sifted hard-wheat flour), 234 taps. Magic Baking Powder, salt and 3{ e. fine granulated sugar, Mix in 8c. corn flakes, slightly crushed, and pitted dates. Combine 1 well-beaten ogg, 34 c. -milk, 1§ tsp, vanilla and 8 tbs. sho y melted. Make a well in dry ingredients and add : guide; mix lightly, 'in moderately hot oven, 375° about 40 ns Borate ho Yield--86 servings, DATE-ORANGE PUDDING Combine in a greased casserole (6-cup 'size) 34 c.~corn syrup; 1 tbs, 3 tap, 14 ©. .cutup Turn into prepared dish, with pouring cream,