-- [ANNE HIRST amily Counselor J "Dear Anne Hirst: I'd like to ' "give you my opinion of that flance whose intended wife will continue working after they mar- . ry. He's the one who insists that- CA she 'help 'pay for their. home. "Any husband can suggest that his wife -help "save for 'that, but - to say she must -- well; he's not much of a man. He marries her - to give her a home and provide for her--not for her to help sup- port herself. 1 think a man -is- scheap to expect his wife to con- |' # the home running smoothly. tinue working after marriage. As . ! you say,- he should be proud to support her, not take from her, "And her. clothes? It's all right for her to pay for some of them, but he should provide her with an outfit part of the time. . "My husband doesn't think a a wife should work at all, "He says a home isn't § home unless it is beautiful and clean all the time; then if unexpected uests drop in, you don't have to excuse dust on the furniture." And you know as well as I do, Anne Hirst, you can't keep your house looking like it should, and have "* this questf®n is the fact that a * career girl, or one that has been * successful in business for a * long time, is .nqt content to * settle down as 'a homemaker. * ¢ She has too many talents that -* will-lle fallow, and she would * be restless and bored = with * household routine. That is why * some wives of well-to-do men " * prefer .to continue in business, HS, * the man's attitude is vital in * settling the problem. He may * ask her if she prefers to go on .* working; but to demand that * she earn extra money to help * pay for the house and its up- * keep, and to buy her own ¢ clothes, is a very different in- * terpretation of the marriage ¢ partnership. _ * Each couple must settle the * matter between them. 1 -do * think, however, that any girl ¢ contemplating marriage should * have some profitable talent to * to date anyone else. You think it a reflection on- their capa- bilities if she takes an outside job. They can both do without some luxuries and manage to get along on his income. A man's pride is precious to him, and it should not be offended. In many cases today, the two could not possibly live on the man's income. The wife 1s as anxious for marriage as he, so she is glad-and proud to pay her share of their common ex- * penses. Transfer Designs i " a time to find another escort. in 3 colors E: * know * (or * it means he * marrying you--when usually it * only indicates his selfishness and * his laek of confidence in you * both. - * You should not promise any- * one that you'll confine your * dates to him, or have to tell * Unless two people are engag- * ed, they have no right to make * such a demand, Suppose either * one finds another person more _* attractive? You are left alone * and when a girl has been dat- of Bar Badal th i Ai A see the other: one and refuse to you write him) a ¢ bind yourself to any agree- * menf. oy 5 i * Why do you allow any 'lad HEEL, : * to break dates? Don't you see EVIE - * how that cheapens you, makes eo "* him think he can treat you as. ly * he pleases? You should -have Hy * more respect for yourself -- i " * or he will. not have any for i * you. 3 oo 2 The young man to cultivate = --* js -the one who wants you -té * enjoy yourself (even with * somebody else) and is willing *-to take his chances that you * will decide you like himi more. If your husband disapproves © of your working, cut your bud- get to fit his income--and do it = cheerfully . £ nne Hirst is glad to discuss enconomic problems as well as emotional difficulties, Writc-yours to her at Box 1, 123 Eighteenth St., New Toronto, Ont. li © is Wheedi X-Ray Treatments r= i y Be "Harmful - FRESH _ SPRING TOUCH for your home! Just glide your iron X-ray prontingnt may cndan- once over lightly--presto! Pretty ger the growth of children's pink, gay yellow, soft blue motifs | - bones, according to a report trim your scarfs, pillowsligs, published in Radiology.- Their guest towels! No 'embroidery! studies were paid for by grants Washable! Such a thrifty, quick from the Atomic Energy Com- way to redo your bedroem or mission and the Playtex Park guestroom! 2 x Research Institute. The children _ Send - TWENTY-FIVE CENTS examined had received X-ray in coins (stamps cannot be ac- treatment for cancer. A follow- cepted) for this pattern to Box 1, | yp thirteen years after treat- 123 Eighteenth St, New Toronto, ment showed definite effects on Ont. Print plainly PATTERN Lthe--growth----of the spine. A re- . NUMBER: your NAME. and AD- lationship between the X-ray ne Parva MA vrs dosage and the effect on the EXCITING VALUE! Ten, yes growth was demonstrated and TEN popular, new designs to £r0- the limits of safe dosage deter- - chet, sew, embroider, knit--print- mined; Though only the spine ed in the new 1953 Laura Wheel: ms studied. the findinis ne er Needlecraft Book. Plus many Wor -Sudieds he tings. 1d ; irre ent pr ~--1--just-as applicable to other bones - Yiore balers 10 send 20 atu of the body. The inference is 2 tasks Send 25 a a : _obvious: Treatment with X-ray copy! PEER must be supervised by experts. "Folks sure favor a MAGIC ca ke! SELL ICED : Hi, SPICE CAKE Mix and sift 3 times, 21 c. once-sifted pastry flour * (or 2 c. once-sifted hard-wheat flour), 234 taps. Magic Baking Powder, 14 tsp. salt, 114 tsps. ground cinna- -mon, ¥{ {sp, each of ground cloves; ginger, allspice, nutmeg and mace; mix in 14 ¢. washed and dried soedless raisins and 1{ c. chopped walnuts, Cream 3% ¢. butter or margarine and blend in 114 c. lightly- packed brown sugar, beat in 3 well-beaten ogg yolks ; . and 14 tsp, vanilla. Add dry ingredients to creamed fe PEE gl mixture alternately with 3¢ ¢" milk and spread bat- ) ter in 9" square pan, which has been greased and the bottom lined with greased paper. Beat stiff, not dry, 3 cgg whites and a few grains salt; gradually beat in 1 ¢, lightlg-packed brown sugar and spread (y over cake; sprinkle with 14 ¢. chopped walnuts and. ; A Iq \ bake inh a Tather slow oven, 325°, 11{ to 114 hours; 2 I f cover lightly with brown paper for last half hour, POWDER : Anothef. important angle ta . -* and hire domestic help to keep I agree with your point that those homemade pies and. cakes, * fall back on, in case of emer- it vou're out working all day! J pencies. ' A STEADY READER" } = * Wy : an nen with boi, * To "CONFUSED": Like so * Most men take . pride in-sup- - many young girls, you.are flat-. a 2 lly * ered when a boy asks you not * porting a wife, and some feel B E is serious gbout - * lim whensyou see anyone else. - *"ing only one boy, it takes quite: Play fair. Let both these boys - Eighteenth St, Deep Hole : Ape Ton a Trench in the South " Pa c is af least 34,000 feet deep. There are frequent earthquakes along a gradually deepening plane beginning at the bot- tom of the trench and extend- ing - westward toward the Fiji . Islands, Scripps Institution scien- tists on the Capricorn Expedition to the South Pacific recently surveyed the trench.' A delayed "message from Dr. Roger Revelle, leader of the expedition aboard the research vessel Baird, said "Horizon (another research ves- sel) has made a fine survey of ° the Tonga Trench over a length of nearby 1,000 miles. We didn't find . the deepest spot on earth but certainly came pretty close to it. Temperature and water samples in the Tonga Trench down to 25,000 feet show a mark- ed increase of temperature be- low 18,000 feet; a somewhat sim- ilar increase was observed by the Snellius and Galathea Expedition in Mindanao Trench off the Phi- lippines. Seismic runs over the Tonga Trench show the earth's mantle depressed beneath the trench. We are also getting good measurements of the effect of submarine rocks and topography on the local earth's magnetic field." : Crime. For Children . The vice- president of a major broadcasting company--has stated that crime programs on radio and television "can be used to im- press upon millions of Americans that lawbreaking is a sordid busi- ness in which the criminal can- not win." iE The Journa! of the American Medical Association, writing about a survey of the deleterious effects of TV crime-and-horror programs on children, declares: ~The over-all impression gained by the monitors from the majori- ty of television programs for children was that "life. is cheap; death, suffering, and brutality are subjects of callous indiffer- ence; and that judges, lawyers, and law officers are dishonest, incompetent, and stupid. When is the industry going to face up honestly and construc- tively, without pharisaical plati- _ tudes, to the "sordid business" that crime-for-children has be- come on the air waves? From The Chr istian " Science Monitor: T 00 MUCH! When Ole Janssen ~job as janitor in a famous night club, he was given a pass key to every room in the building .in- cluding the girls' dressing rooms. Two weeks later the inanager ran into him in the hall and said, "What's the matter, Ole? You haven't come round to collect any wages yet." "By golly," gasp- - ed Ole. "I get wages too?" Dream-Sewing! BR aN = / / 4651 dlls SEW- EASIEST ever! Two main pieces! Send now--run this up in a jiffy for a shower gift! Be- sure 'to make another for your- self, too--it's such: a sweet slum- ber-number with those feminine draw- string bows. A nightie you'll enjoy making and wearing! | Pattern 4651: Misses' Sizes 12, 14, 15, 18, 20. Size 16 takes 3% 12-20 : * yards 39-inch fabric. This pattern easy to Usé, sim- ple to sew, is tested for fit. Has complete illustrated instructions. Send THIRTY-FIVE CENTS (85¢) in coins (stamps cannot be accepted) for this pattern. Print plainly SIZE, NAME, ADDRESS, STYLE NUMBER. Send order to Box 1, 123 . New 'Toronto, Ont, secured a was not depressing: - I Gun-Manning Girls--Guarding the ancient "Pillars of Hercules" for Great Britain, these pretty English girls are among the first ever assigned. to fighting duties overseas. Stationed at Gibraltar to "man" an aircraft predictor are, from left to right: Lance Cpl. Grieg, and: Privates Bull and Taylor. Members of the 46th Heavy _ Anti-Aireraft Regiment, they are "top. men," rades in her Majesty's service. according to com- «eden, wads HRONICIES %GINGERFARM A Gwendoline D Clarke \- As I was. finishing this column last week news was just coming in of the disastrous floods in England and Holland. At the time I 'did not quite realize the lo- cation of the floods, more details ~found--it- was East Anglia --tlrey- were. talking about--the district in which Partner and I both lived before coming to Canada. Yar- mouth --- where I spent many a summer holiday with Aunt Lot- tie . . . Clacton, Felixstowe -- popular seaside resorts for all Fast Anglians -- and all well fortified, with seawalls and break- waters. Partner and 1 remember very rough seas in all these plates but never flooding to any ~-serious- extent. The _ doesn't make the disaster "better or. worse but it always |-- seems-worse when one knows the places that are spoken of. Along the cast coast the sea has been encroaching for years; cliffs have crumbled. into the sea, houses have had to be demolished or moved back for safety; now this 'terrible tidal wave will weaken still further the seawall defences of many a coastal town. Someone said to me -- "Well, I don't suppose people who have lived. in those places will ever want to go back again." Oh, but they will: In time, when the de- bris has been removed, and the immediate - danger has ypesied 'the people of East Anglia will return and build thelr 'homes anew. Inconveniences, to Eng- _lish country folk, are always re- garded as of a 'temporary na- ture. Near our home, 'on the banks of the River Stour, there were many cottages. Every spring. the Stour would overflow its banks. Every spring these cot- tages would be flooded and peo- ple rescued by boat from the bedrooms. And every spring, as soon as the floods had subsided, these people would return to their river-washed homes.. Yes, the English are a stubborn race. Happily, all news {ast week wonder how many people thrilled with delight as the' Captain, without the "aid _ of tugs, docked the mighty Queen Mary at New York harbour. That would have been wonderful to see. I expect the people-on-deck: were far too ex- cited to even think of being ner- vous. Of course our Canadian weath- er is also in the news again, Today "it might as well be spring." But we hate to think what ~this changeable weather is do- ing to the wheat and clover. "However, time will tell. -- and ~"no amount of worrying with, Laf= fect the resulf. . Of greater concern at the mo- ment. are the changes taking place in U.S. Governmental pol- 'icy, which can affect us to-a - greater extent than most of us probably 'realize. It is rather like an occasion when two great doctors disagree. One says "op-~ erate"; the other says "don't op- . YOU CAN DEPEND ON When kidneys fail to remove excess acide Ei KIDNEY X PILLS then, as' were broadcast 1 - otherwise. location_ |. any nificance for us. We also experi- . wedding anniversary TOGETHER "writers of gangster scripts on the 'paniment. The infuriated passer- For Quick Cough Relief "ouives Hy ve turned crate." Meanwhile friends of the _ patient are bewildered, not know- ing which doctor is right. = But we don't need to cross the Border -- or the Atlantic -- in search of problems. We do have a few of our own -- what with the weather, labour trouble, de- cline in farm prices and contro- versial government reports, Even nearby cities have thc i troubles, 'more than the country if we did but know it. At any rate'we don't expect to be compelled to drink fluorinated water. Come on out to the country, folks, where we have fresh, spring water. Fine, until the well gives out. At such times we aré ready to accept any kind of water, fluorinated or- And now may I be forgiven if 1 touch on a more personal mat- ter. February 6 is a date for us: to remember. On that date, a year ago King George VI died. Two years ago our sister-in-law passed away while here on a visit. Eight years ago it was the wedding day for two friends of ours. Thirty-five years ago Part-/ ~ner and I were married, And this year we lost a very close friend - who lived in Guelph. So you see we have plenty of reason to re- member February "6. It could hardly be Sh that Partner and 1 celebrated our thirty-fifth wedding anniversary --we don't go in for celebrations very much -- but we did have cards, letters, phone calls and some beautiful red carnations -- flowers which have a special sig- enced a great feeling of thank- fulness: rried couple who are able to observe their 35th have a very real cause for re- joicing, don't you think? So many have. far less -- more's the pity. REALLY TOUGH "One of the most successful Coast learned angles in the hard school of experience, The neigh- borhood in which he grew up, he explains, was so tough that when- ever a cat stalked down the street with ears and a (tall, everybody knew it was a tour- ist. A hardboiled kid who lived next door to him poured a pan of water on a passerby, and shouted a number of interesting four-letter words as an accom- by yelled, "Come down here and I'll beat the tar out of you" "Come down?" repeated the of- fending brat. "You're nuts. I can't even walk yet." Mix This Syrup In Your Home Thousanda of Canadian house- ipe fi itex pis Rms own recipe for relieving cou, due to colds. It's oy to prepare, and gives you four times as much for flour money. Your usta) dr supply. ou wit 14 ounce bottle X CO CENTRATE. Pour this into a 16 ounce bottle and nl up with granulated sugar s or honey or maple syrup. To ma the sugar syrup, simply | mix 2 cups of sugar with one cup of water... 'no eooki ng I needed, and it takes but a minute, Now you'll have an am ple supply of fast acti ng, effective 0 counter can cough syrup for the whole family, "302 pleasant tasting the "children - will like it. PINEX -- a concentrated blend of proven ingredients--must help Or our Taney refunded, Get a bottle today! . PINEX FOR COUGHS--EASY-- ECONGMICAL ..plastics--a . key..inventio ISSUE 9 -- 1933 Their eva 4d The man who diseuverad odes. one of the world's first formulas for which. made millions -- died the day and left only $400. In his old age Francis -Maries had sought humble employment as a hospital storekeeper on the outskirts of London ., . and now his white- haired widow . has to go out to work. Yet we live in the plastics age. In every electric switch, every radio set, every elephone and fountain-pen; Francis Maries fac- ed a constant remainder of his bitter misfortune, Thirty years ago, while experi- menting with baby foods in his kitchen, he discovered the milk plastics 'formula that opened glowing vistas of fortune, In a converted stable, hq and a part- ner turned out plastic door plates, cutlery handles, ashtrays and other articles. Home Sold Up But Maries' bright idea' won no support--or money. The business crashed. Even his little home had to be sold up. Until relatives came to the rescue, he and his wife had to sleep on bare floor- boards. Maries lived to see others. reap. the fruits of an invention similar to his casein formula. His failure broke his health, It 'so often happens. Not long ago Walt Disney was decorated with the Legion of Honour at.a stately French Embassy gather- ing, and in his' speech of thanks he mentioned the animated car- toons _had 'been invented by a Frenchman, Emile Cohl. What Disney didn't know was that -€ohl was still living--on a Dpit- tance of seven shillings a week relief! Strangely enough, the discov | ery of Emile Cohl's plight turned up another old- -timer, who was found lying ill and in need in a_ flat only a' street or two away. Francis Michaux 'invented -the bicycle - pedal. Ultimately the French Cyclists' Touring Club had to open a subscription fund on his behalf. Nikola Tesla, too, died in New York with barely enough in the bank to pay his | hotel bill. Every electric lamp marked "A.C." pays indirect tribute -- but no cash tribute!'--to Tesla. ~Back-in-the-'nineties<he sold his. new system -of alternating cur- rent. for a million dollars cash. But in the course of a long life he spent so much money on laboratory experiments on new | electrical inventions--and so oft- en dreamily failed to take out © patents--that the net profit was nil; © It is an amazing fact that Alex- ander Fleming and his eolleagues made no attempt to patent their discovery of penicillin. As scien- tists, -they intended -their medical discovery to be bequeathed to the world. On the other hand, when Dr, Selman Waksman, a --Russian- born American, discovered that other : | other wonder drug, streptomyein, 'he patented it and made over the proceeds to. the Rutgers Univer- sity Research Foundation. * 'Dishwasher's Share ¢ When last reported it had made nearly $3,000,000 on a 3 per cent royalty. In actual fact, it ls "understood that Dr." Waksman takes 10 per cent of this--a neat total of $300,000 -- and other shares and bonuses 'are distribut- ed among a score of others. Even the widow of the laboratory dish- washer gets a share! A recommendation that Britigh doctors, too, should patent thelr medical discoveries - has beem made to the British Medical As- sociation. If a basic discovery. fs not patented, developments of it may otherwise be patented else- where, As things are, for in- stance, the British are in the do plorable position of having to pay royalties to American firms pencillin manufactured in ain! ./ SPLITTING il And the . 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