So aE CERN ST ap mth nt PR A Cl on bn Tete NR RR a Ve SRA TN x RY ALN ee Se oc. xe TERY: SATIRE TR EASE ' - RN a) he RE CER ~ : iad BREORT Gu BO IS SEMEN PTR ae mais S50 yards 39-inch; - Eighteenth St, ah ae bli 3s aa 2a ER SR ER a Unt lH RL BE RSM BA SUA LR aE SAR 3 anasdd SALAD TEA BAGS "Dear Anne Hirst: [ am think: ing of leaving my husband. 1 realize this is a big decision to make, and 1 don't know if it would be best for the children We have three, and have been married 11 years. hand "My husband is good in some ways; he doesn't drink or run % around; 'and he does buy plenty of food for us. But that is where it ends. He thinks because he makes a living for me, I should be his servant. I'm a good house- keeper, and he goes around to find a little dust to nag about! He never gives me any money unless 1 beg for it, and then 1 must tell" where every penny goes. "He never has s kind word for the children. He just screams at 'm, even when they haven't doht _anything wrong, They are beginning to fear and hate him. "1 have never worked, and | MOTHER- TO- BE! Look pret- ty! Be well-dressed! Here's the maternity ensemble you need for day - to - evening. Jacket es, slimming lines. SKIRT cut out to insure. .even-hemline, a good fit, comfort, too! Pattern 4880: Misses' Sizes 12, 14, 16, 18, 20. Size 16 takes Ap 38 yard contrast. This pattern easy to use, sim- ple to sew, is tested for fit. Has complete illustrated instructions. Send. THIRTY-FIVE CENTS (35¢) in coins (stamps cannot be accepted) for this pattern. Print -- plainly SIZE, NAME, ADDRESS, STYLE NUMBER. Send order to Box 1, 123 New Toronto, Ont. : FREER rR SEDER REE EE RT wer es with, he PEPER TE IE TE TIE TE TT SS SS SU SVE is S0 . smart with. fashion's best touch: State, haven't a partic ularly good edu- cation. Do you fhink 1 should try to get out on my own? "Or - live in this prison, the rest of my life? 1 am only nice - looking would hire me? ; SWORRIED WIFE" PRACTICAL 29, and said to be Surely someone BE + * whose advice vou trust? Is * your father ocr another male * relative nearby? If not, then * 1 urge you to be practical, To get and hold a position, a woman. must be more than nice-looking. She must be able to do the job, and earn her salary. It is hard for an un- trained person to be self-sup- porting 'even in these days of high employment; when she has three young children to care for, further complications exisl. Surely your -children need vou now more than they will later on? They need you to protect then from their father's injustices, and to other: wise counteract his bad influ- ence, 3 - husband, he docs not. appear to be a man who would keep on providing for his family if. you are no- longer living in his house: I "am afraid "he would be outraged at the idea. Though he is unpleasant to live does supply shelter and these vour chil- dren must have: to deprive them of such security is a grave step to take. If you have no one to turn to, why not- consult a family counselor who knows the local opportunities, and who can per- suade your husband to be a better man and father. Or perhaps the Domestic Relations Cowrt might be interested, if vou prefer to talk with them, Your minister, also, might help vour husband, or know part-time job- that you might take on,. later increasing the uours as you find you can. None of these ideas may ap- peal to you, but your presence in your husband's house seems to me essential for the chil- dren's sake. What cannot be "changed must be endured; make the best of things until a welcome way occurs. I am. so sorry! I things seem unbearable, hold on--iuntil' a better way opens up for you . . ..Meantime, Anne Hirst's sympathy and experience are: yours, Write her at Box 1, 123 Eighteenth St, New Toronto, Ont. Sometimes just telling one's story brings comfort START AT HOME In Texas, they tell a story of the days when the redoubtable Ma Ferguson first tossed her sombrero into the; political arena She came back from a succession of stump-speeches all over and reported happily "Looks like I'm going to sweep Texas." Pa Ferguson took the pipe out of his mouth, and. sug- gested -gloomily, "How about * starting swith this living room?" eaping Paul Bunyan--Unafraid of. the giant face peering in or window. is pretty Eleaner Hall. She knows its all in' fun, face belongs to a statue of Paul Bunyan, legendary woods- . man, which stands in the fun house of the Chicago Museum of Science and Industry. 1 Isn't there some older Triend From what you say of your - of a. - the - do, "Mr. Modern Etiquette Q. Isn't it improper lor two persons who are introduced at a. dinner to reach across the table "to shake hands? A. Although not exactly ward situation, gand it is much better to" refrain from "shaking hands and merely rod your head" in acknowledgment of a table introduction. If however, the other person does reach his' hand across the "table to vou, you must not show .any hesitation in accepting it. ~ Q. Is it 'permissible for a per- son to use business letterheads for social correspondence? A. No: business letterheads are for business only. _ -Q. Would it-be all right to mail out formal announcements of a bride's second mariage? ; A. Yes, tomary. Q. Would it be all right for a girl to send a young man a birth- day -card even though he has never sent her a card or given her a gift? : A. Yes; there is nothing at all wrong with this. This is" merely a thoughtful gesture, and the young man would be presump- tuous to think it anything else. Q. When giving an informal dinner, -isn't it all right for the hostess to say, "Just sit any- where you wish?" A. No; confusion, It is to much like playing the old game of "musical chair." The hostess should al- ways designate where each guest should sit. Q. What 'is the most popular boutonniere for ushers at a church wedding? --' A. The white carnation is prob- ably the most popular. Q. When a woman has been although it is not cus- . dining with a friend and her: hostess has no maid, is it all right for the woman to help her hostess clean off the table, stack the dishes, and the like? : A. She may offer to help, but she must never insist if the hos- tess declines her offer. Q. When a girl is being intro- duced to a man whom 'she be- - lieves she has met before, should - she mention this? A. If his memory does not seem so good as hers, it would be better not to make mention of the former - meeting, and merely acknowledge with, "How do vou Lee." Q. Isn't it the duty of the bride- graom- 10 buy his own wedding ring? A A, No. He should, of course, - "buy his .bride's ring, but she should buy the bridegroom's ring. Q. When setting the dinner table, should the cutting edges -of the knives be towards the plate or pointing away from the plate? A. Towards the plate. : : li ! = BE SEW -- EASY So glamorous! You've admired. the charny of cafe curtains in room settings, now make your own and save! Use remnants; make over old curtains. ¢ Beautify any window, any room! Pattern 567: -cutting guides, diagrams, color, fri im ideas. oR Send TWENTY-FIVE CENTS in coins (stamps cannot be ac- cepted) for this pattern fo Box 1, 123 Eighteenth. St. New Tor- onto, Ont. EXCITING VALUE! Ten, yes - TEN popular, new designs {0 cro- chet, sew, embroider, knit ~= rinted in the new 1953 Laura heeler Needlecraft Book. Plus many more patterns to send for ~ideas for gifts, bazaar money- makers, fashions! Send 28 cents for your copy! 4 og TEA 'itm proper, it does create an awk-' this can often lead to CT ruanaing, _ and stood anxiously by, Grenadier Review--Queen Elizabeth Il, looking very tiny, inspects her Grenadier Guards at Windsor Castle in England. After the review, the Queen presented the Royal Standard--or company colour--to the Sovereign's Company, First Grenadiers. JGiINGERFARM GamnAd DN Cianke The last tew days our tarm has looked like a real farm---or rath- .er the way we used to think a real farm should Jools twenty or thirty years ago. It was six red ens that made the difference . six quite ordinary New Hamp- shire hens. These -biddies were all that remained of a pen of fat henis we were selling for boiling fowl. We kept a few back for ourselves but somehow we didn't get them killed. Early last week, when the sun was warm--and bright, I took pity on our six hens and let them out of the pen. To "be perfectly honest 1 don't know whether I let the hens loose for their sakes or my own. But I-do know: I felt a thrill of satisfaction as I watched the hens scuttling nround Leidn singing Came delighted were they to be free. With all out- doors to scratch around in. Mit- chie-White thought it was lots of fun too and started chasing the hens. Honey wasn't quite sure whether that was allowed or not waiting instructions from me. Of course, having once tasted the joys of freedom, the hens were crowd- ing around the door next morn- ing waiting to come out, So-- out they came. Later that morn- ing I heard a bit of commotion and saw the hens running around with outspread wings, but, since Mitchie-White was quietly sleep- _ing 1 came to the conclusion. the hens were just enjoying them- selves, We had reason to think differently that night as-one hen was missing. Tonight, two, more were gone, Partner is quite sure we have a' fox to thank for our loss. 'There is a bush just two fields away so a. fox 'could quite easily follow the thicket fence -and slink over to the pen without our seeing him. Now my country idyll 'has lost much of its charm.' Apparently the old picturesque way, with . hens contentedly picking here and there, as. nature intended they should, is not to be. To survive the hens must be confined, since, life with freedom so often "bri ings' sudden death, But I wonder what constitutes a hen's philosophy of life. Would it-be for a short life and a.merry one, or for a carg- fully guarded well-fed existence? Whatever choice our hens might make we certainly don't intend® to provide food for probably a vixen with pups to feed. If three full-grown hens could be carried'off so easily I hate_to think what would happen to a' pen of half-grown chickens. The weather, thank goodness, "has quietened down considerably. Three days of high wind is not - exactly pleasant, especially when it: leaves the fields and fences lit- tered .with paper and other junk blown across from the highway. - You would wonder where it all comes from. But the litter that blows across our fields is as noth- ing. compared with what towns and cities have to.contend with. In. Toronto last Friday . I came from the Medical Arts on to Bloor and the street was alive A004) ting, . foxes--or a pretty rough day for ordinary getting off one" people and yet, street-car that I was on, there was an elderly lady, unattended, carrying a white cane, She was attempting to change cars at a busy" intersection. The conductor left his seat to help her off the car and was going to take her across the road when someone on the street came forward and offered to take chérge of her.. Truly, blind or otherwise handi- capped = persons, often put to shame those of us who are in full possession of our faculties. But 'it is heart-warming to see how quickly strangers come do the aid of those who need assistance. This morning we have one daf- fodil in bloom--a forerunner of many more to come. There are literally hundreds of buds in the garden so it looks like a good year for spring flowers. It is a wonderful time for country liv- ing. Sometimes I wonder why anyone lives anywhere other than the country. It isn't always cir- cumstances that keeps people in towns and cities. is lack of courage, fear of the, ~aknern, Folauwus: or'surfih Mor- : * onto's Moore Park district must | move. The man of the house, a re= | tired business man, would prefer the country; his wife and daught- er cannot visualize an existence away from the city, especially ~ as'Ann will be going to Univers- ity next fall. So they have bought a house away out on Wilson 'Avenue, It will take them just as long.te reach the city from there as it would from our place --had they done as we wanted them to do--built a nice little: 'house' on the corner 'of Ginger But 'there it is--no two people can see alike--so we can- Farm, not truly say what is best for, il anyone else to. go TALL TAL ES Herb Shriner, a television comic in the Will Rogers tradition, ob- serves, "A man will soon be able to get clear around the world in two hours: one hour for flying;- and 'the other to gét out to the . airport." We didn't need a plane in Kansas one day last summer," he .adds. "Wind blew so hard it got a hen turned clear around the wrong way. Before it coul get straightened out and heade into the wind again, it laid the - same egg six times!" . Sometimes it ° be gan Women have always played a decisive part in the chemical in- dustry although they may not realize it, according to leaders - in the industry. Women's demand for, white cotton and linen -fab- rics brought about the -birth of | the modern chemical industry early in the last century. That dates from the first manufacture of bleaching powder in Glasgow * |- and the first preduction of® oda 'tin Liverpool in 1823. Before 'these chemicals were produced, fabrics - had _to be bleached by scouring -with ashes "and exposure to sunlight for weeks at a time. Increased out- put of textiles made it imposs- ible to spread them all out in the fields for such time-consum- ing treatment but the social prestige of white garments and linens remained strong. Chemists * believe that if the upkeep of cottons and linens had been left to men, dark-colored sheets and shirts would have been the fashion. Therefore, they. point out, feminine prefer- ence brought about the manufac- ture of bleaching chemicals which comprised the nucleus of the heavy chemical economy of England for many years. Of course, dominate the 'those days. 'of vegetable and mineral com- textile field in pounds were used for dyeing 'but many were too expensive for general use. Chemists say the discovery of coal-tar dyestuffs in 1869 provided relief for the pent- up desire for more colorful tex- tiles, especially among .the wo- men, The organic chemicals- industry of today has been biult around the . dyestuffs industry. expansion into medi- cinal and plastic chemicals. Here again, the chemists point out, the growth and expansion was not . due solely to the ingenuity of chemists in making new com- pounds but to the desire . and the demand on the part of wo- . men for new variety in color. In the same way, they declare, the pressure of consumer .de- mand for new fabrics brought chemistry to the age of synthet- ics. finding its market limited be- cause of the .cost of its product, the chemical. research Swimmer--Fluffing out her hair . after a quick swim at Daytona Beach, pretty Barbara Denni- son dries off under:the bright sun. She smiled for the camera, even though the comb pulled a bit too hard. white did not pre- A limited number Profits - * from dyestuffs manufacture were - '| used for A silk-weaving company, which resulted in the. develop- ment of-rayon, Following cons praval of rayon, the che i indussy was stimulated to" things.' usted tog oer film is chemically an off-shoot of rayon. It was invented during an attempt: to make' waterproof tablecloths. . " Another example of the influ- "ence of "latent consumer demand on research and development is provided by the textile industry. Nylon was discovered by. acci- dent. Researchers were not look- ing for a new textile fibre, but merely studying the properties _ . of resin. The plastic they found with the fibre-forming qualities and exceptional strength spurred the expenditure of millions of - dollars on further research. The reason they were so excited about the strength of their dis- covery was the need for a strong fibre in the women's hosiery field. Just as the proceeds from dye- stuffs helped found the pharma- ceutical and organic chemicals industries, the advent of the automobile in this century pro- vided far-reaching stimulus to. the industry. The manufacture -of the average car involves, dir- ectly or indirectly, 256 chemi- cal materials, Chemicals made possible the welding process which resulted in mass-produc- tion of cars. The need for gas- oline brought about 'other by- products of crude oil which re- © sulted. in plastics, synthetic de- tergents, rubbing alcohol and paint solvents. Development of quick-drying "duco" enamels for cars led to- better paints for all - purposes. si) 1 CHE And the » RELIEF IS LASTING For fast relief from 'headache get INSTANTINE. For real relief get INSTANTINE. For prolonged relief get INSTANTINE! : Yes, more people every day are finding that INSTANTINE is one thing to ease pain fast. 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