eC = Er Ps ND ---- iN 74 TRE , ' " . i 3 i (AN "Dear Anne Hirst: When I married a year ago, 1 had an idea of what my husband was like; but, being in love, 1 took the optimistic view. Now I've found him out. "He has no principles, no in- tegrity, no values. He is complete- ¥ without morals. And he drinks. e squanders his money, is in debt, and hasn't bought me a single thing since we married. He is abusive, and suspicious. When I tell him I simply cannot live this way, he says I have the green light--but he won't give me Iron-On Designs in 3 colors FRESH SPRING TOUCH for your home! Just glide your iron once over lightly --presto! Preity ink, gay yellow, soft blue motifs Im your scarfs, pillowslips. guest towels! No embroidery! Wash- able! Such a thrifty, quick way to re-do your bedroom or guest- room! : Patlern 865; Twenty iron-on "motifs from 1x11; to 4x6 inchis Send TWENTY - FIVE CENTS fn coins (stamps cannot be ac- eepted) for this pattern to Box I, 123 Eighteenth St.,, New Toronto, Ont; Print -- plainly PATTERN NUMBER, your NAME and AD- DRESS. EXCITING VALUE! Ten, yes TEN popular, new designs to cro- chet, sew, embroider, knit. -- printed in the new 1953 Laura, Wheeler Needlecraft Book. Plus NEJURST) Ad hurt him. minis "How can I work and take care i ' i any money, even to leave him. "Recently, I got a job and pre- pared to leave him--only to find I am pregnant--and he claims the child is not his. "I have no friends here. My parents were against the mar- riage, but 1 wouldn't listen. I lie and write them how wonderfully we are getting along. I berrowed money from them (for my hus- band and am now paying it back myself, ? "1 want my baby so much, but I am so miserable with my hus- band.-I have tried to understand him and be patient; I've pleaded, even tried threats, but. nothing (not even the baby inspires him to assume responsibility. [ still love him, though, and 1 can't of my baby at the same time? 1 --just_don't Know what _to_ dol. L.'N." File this plan in the back of your mind, and use it if you must: You can keep on work-- ing for a number of months. When you must stop, ask for a leave of absence. your hus- band is still adamant about They will take you in, and share what they have with you; you will rat least have shelter and protection and temporary release from anxiety. Should your husband refuse to pay hospital bills, your father can handle him, legally if neces- sary; a man of your husband's nature will usually squirm be- fore the law, knowing he is licked before he starts. You want your baby. Keep that wonderful day before you when you will hold him in your arms, and you will know that all you have suffered has been worth while. Refuse to concern yourself about your economic, or emotional future; as. the time draws near, you will find it easier to relax and to hope, and that is your first need. -You still love your husband, with that unreasoning love that some whole-souled women can contain, Whether you will re- turn to him, lies in the lap of the gods. Let it stay there. Lb) »> * * 4 8&0 OP ae eee Te eras PEER SEE EE EE EE RE ae ee There scems no limit to what a good woman can bear. When you are troubled by fears of the fulure, remember that strength _ will come_to bear whatever it brings. . . . Tell your problems to Anne Hirst, and depend upon her understanding and wisdom. Address her at Box 1, 123 Eigh- teenth St... New Toronto, Ont. A Beverley Hills astrologer will many more patterns to send for | read your dog's or your horse's f birth sign and advise the proper --ideas for. gifts, bazaar money- makers, fashions! Send 25 cents for vour copy! name for: the animal, Charge ten dollavs Gets Measly De ; SR bled EE al=Shed "a tear for Morton Shubert, 23, of GRD 4 Co Beachwood, Ohio," who. came down with three-day measles e day before his wedding. He got married all tight, but idn't get to kiss the bride, the former Jo-Ann Friedman. Shu- bert, his bride, their parents and his brother, Norman, gathered in the Shubert home for the marriage ceremony. "It took just _ five minutes," Shubert said. "Il got up oul of bed, put on. my tuxedo, | went downstairs and got married. Then she and the others went to the reception and | hear they had a fine time. { went back upstairs, took off my tuxedo and went back 1o bed." ° Best he can do now is look at his bride's picture and talk to her on the telephona. i money, go home to your' phrents._ | OP WHO ie ee "new style of the season! - accepted) for this How Can I? ; By Anne Ashley Q. How can I reduce the spat. tering and smoking of fat when broiling steaks or chops? : A. After preheating the broiler, pours-n just: enough cold water to cover the bottom of the broiler" pan. The water does not inter fere with browning .or crisping the meat. It lessens. spattering, and 'also makes the cleaning of the.broiler much easier. Q. How can 1 store white gar- ments 'to keep them from turning yellow? Fara A. Use brown or blue paper for wrapping the white gar- ments. 'The chloride of lime in white paper will destroy the color of the garments, causing them to turn yellow. Q. How can I prevent dandrufi? _| . A. Some have claimed success by using a mixture of one part apple juice and three parts water. Apply this solution twice weekly. Q. How can I 'make a lotion to prevent sunburn? A. By mixing two ounces of water and 10 drops of glycerine; add a little perfume and dab this on the skin with a soft cloth; leave on five minutes, then wipe off very gently. Q. How can 1 keep f{reshly pared apples from turni £ brown? : Fi N A. Put the pared apples into a bowl of cold water immediate- ly, and they will not turn brown. They can be kept this way for some time, until ready for use, just by changing the water once Q. How can I easily clean silk' lamp shades? . ------A-Use-a-soft-bristled-brush-to-- remove the dust from the shades, as it is the dust that rots the silk and destroys the color. This should be done everyv:week. Q. How can I plevent body perspiration odor?~ A. Wash the body with a basin = of warm.water, to which add two tablespoons of compound spirits of ammonia. This leaves the skin sweet, clean and fresh. f . Q. How can I make a good hot- weather bath powder? A. By mixing equal parts of cornstarch and - talcum. ] Q. How can I safely clean oil paintings? ¢ A. Use warm soapsuds. Wash only a small section of the canvas at a time, and wipe it dry. When the entire surface 'is clean, go over it with a cloth dipped in linseed oil to prevent cracking. Q. How can 1 remove lint from freshly varnished. surfaces which have not fully hardened? A. Rub these spots with a cloth moistened with turpentine, and follow with furniture polish. Q. How can I soften butter? A. The best method tp soften butter that is too hard is to turn a heated bowl over it. This softens - the butter throughout, and it then is easily spread. Sundress 'n' Bolero "hh Exit, Laughing--Actress Shirley Booth uses a screwdriver to point to a door in New York's Empire Theatre which will soon tome down with the rest of the 60-year-old playhouse. Written on the door are the signatures of actors and actresses that took part in a farewell program, "Highlights of the Empire," Broadwoy's way "of bidding farewell to the famous old 'theatre. Modern Etiquette " By Roberta Lee . ------ P elevator with a girl, or getting out of an elevator, which ene. should precede? T A.-He should allow the girl-to- - enter first, and also to step out first, unless the elevafor 1s crowded and he is in front of the door. SET - yh Q. "Who should - be the first person to place his or her napkin on the table at the conclusion of a small dinner party? NG A. The hostess, and this is the 'accepted signal that the meal is . over. = : Q. Who pays for the bride's bouquet, and for those of her mald-of-honor and bridesmaids?. A. The bridegroom pays for the bride's bouquet, and her family stands the expense of the bouquets for her attendants. Q. If a young woman is tra- velling alone on a train and meets a man with whom she is well acquainted, would it be all right. to allow him to pay for her meal if he. wishes to do so? A. This would be quite all right. ; Q. When a girl has been :visit- ed frequently for almost a year by a young man from out of . town, and he invites her to spend a week-end in his home, is it all right for her to accept? A, Only if she receives an ex- press ivitation from. the young man's mother. Q. Should one place the serv- ing silver on a dish of food when asked to pass it at the table? A. Yes, always. Q. If a girl becomes engaged, ae Just seventy years ago--within the memory of many oldsters . still happily with us--the youn- ger members of the Royal Family suddenly, burst into a round- of ; Lia fi festive parties and theatre-going. The great John Brown was dead! . The British. asputin, the power behind the throne, had caught. a chill while investigating a mysterious stabbing affair ia Windsor Great Park, and within a few, days all was over, Her eyes red-rimmed, Queen Victoria prayed at his coffin. The wreaths of two empresses were placed on the bier. Every shop in Windsor was closed as the son of a poor Highland crofter returned tc the glens. But then affright ran through Court society when it was known that John Browu had. left behind - a thick wad of diaries . . . and - that the Queen herself was writ- ing the iin story of his life. Diaries Burned : Hurriediy Lhe Queen's secre- tary, Sir Henry Ponsonby, im- pounded the diaries and it is said they were later burned on the instructions of King Edward VII. Certainly it was on that monarchs orders that all the - busts and statuetltes of Brown scattered through the royal pa- laces were destroyed. 4665 sizes 12-20,30-2 byron PRINCESS STYLE! [t's ithe You'll pe thrilled--it's the most be- we $ . doming, the easiest to sew. This sundres$ with its own smart bo- lero is country-cool and city- alick, You'll wear it 'simply everywhere! ° Pattern 4666: Misses' Sizes 13. 14, 16, 18, 20; 30, 32, 34, 36, 38, 40, 42, Size 16 dress and bolero 4% yards 33-inch; % yard con- trast. SLE This pattern easy to use, sim- ple to sew, is tested for fit, Has complete illustrated instructions.' Send THIRTY - FIVE CENTS (368¢) in coins (stamps cannot be ttern. Print Pauly SIE, 'NAME, ADDRESS, Send ordar to Box-1, 123 Bigh- teenth St, Naw Toronto, Ont, Ex - Stable -Boy Was ~ Power Behind The Throne ' correct association, the ladies- in-waiting would have resigned. But the Queen wrote: "I feel in sore need of someone to cling to securely . . . someone to com- fort and pacify me . . . In her relationship = with Brown, this feeling was gradu- ally ~ unleashed, though it re- mained - unconscious on both sides. When news reached the Queen's ears that jokes were be- ing made about 'Mrs, Brown," she characteristically gave him greater authority. : Lesser .mortals gazed in aston- ishment. During a royal visit to the Duke of Richmond the Queen's luggage, including her 'nightclothes, went astray and the Queen refused to undress. "Well," cried Brown, when he was summoned, "ye'll snore just as good in yer shift. Pull off yer claes and get betwixt the sheets without yer togs]" : "3 The Queen obeyed. "What .are ye doing with- that black dress on again?" he de- manded on another - occasion, "It's green-moulded!" And when the Queen, on one of her sketch- ing excursions, had difficulty in choosing a table to sit among _ the heather, Brown lost his tem- o per, picked up one of the dis- 'carded tables and set it before . her. Atl royal Windsor, too, John Brown's bedroom in the Clarence Tower was kept as it always had been . ... until King Edward or- dered it to be refurnished and turned into a guest-room. Just what was behind the mystery. that surrounded the widowed Queen and her strange Highland retainer? A scurrilous pamphlet on the Queen, entitled "Mrs, John Brown," lent cre- dence to the baseless story that they were secretly married. "What else, peoplé argued, could explain the position of a manservant - so privileged that _]- he could give the Queen orders, a Court favourite who could treat statesmen and generals with insolence, As a gillie Brown had led the Queen's party to mountain-side . picnics, putting nips of whisky "in the royal tea and at one time "actually carrying the Queen ac- ross the rushing waters of a burn. ; By the Prince Consort's order Brown was soon appointed to attend the Queen's carriage at all 'times. And after the Prince - Consort's early, death' it was Brown who aroused and recalled her: to life. at iy "Brown," she said, laughing one day, "you are better than the doctors." ~~ "Away, Ye Daft Fools" = In the Highlands the carriage overturned in-'the snow, send- ing the Queen hurting through the air to land on her face, It was Brown who bathed her cuts with claret: and bandaged her mently cried: "Away wid ye, ye daft fools, Can ye no' leave. a poor widow alone?" . J oh Quesn Victoria was in r mid-forties, Brown was - thirty-seven, a superb specimen . mature Highland manhood. te historians point out that . t 1} ' another nounced. Seance Messages Another day, the Queen was about to step down 'from her carriage on to a step smeared with mud . . . and Brown instantly whipped off his sporran to give her clean footing. Faith- ful service. long association, me- mories/ and old sentiments long shared together . . . these marked the affectionate . association of employer and faithful retainer. ~_ Brown sometimes stood be- hind her chair, openly eaves- table up here!" he an- were being- discussed. Politicans- knew it would be futile to pro- "test. He read the newspapers over her shoulder, pointing out items he felt she should not miss. But; above all, spiritualistic seancés were being 'held in and it has been suggested that John Brown was the medium. ~The spirits to which Brown was addicted were perhaps of another kind, Yet there .is certain evid- "ence that the purported spirit voice of the Prince Consort spoke at one of these seances, and among other messages gave John . Brown a" special commendation. LOGY, LISTLESS, OUT OF LOVE WITH LIFE? Then waka up your liver bile . . . * with handkaerchiefs. Another ; time, 'when overeager. crowds founp Sut af bad racin hg ' : swarmed around the Queen's plea 8 the Jiver! coach, it was Brown who vehe- igest had thefts besn an inkling of in- "It's no' possible to make ye ' The Queen--did-not--write--her dropping while - affairs of state ° Buckingham Palace at this time and "she has To family, would it -- be all right for her fiance's .fam- ily to announce the engagement? 'A. No. The bride-elect always has this privilege, and if she has not-the means of giving-an an- . nouncement party, then she can always extend her "good news" through the local newspapers. Q. When giving an informa? . dinner, how should the hostess let her guests know the seating arrangement she wishes? A. The hostess should stand at - her place, and tell each guest just where he or she should be seated. : : Q. Is it necessary to inake the "thank yon" note a lengthy one? A, Not at-all. It may be brief, just soit is written: promptly and is sincere in lts tone. : Q. It is proper for. a: boy io "ask a girl for a date if he hap-- pens to know that she is serious- ly interested in another boy? "A. There certainly is nothing 1" improper 'in his trying. "Although: 1 am gone," said the voice in the hushed darkness, "John Brown las been given you. . .." So runs the altested story; and for further proof there is the strange inscription on Brown's tombstone, penned by fhe Poet" Laureate at the Queen's com- mand: Bi "That friend on whose fidelity you count, that friend given you by circumstances over which you have no control, was God's own gift." Q. When a man is ealeriag an- | > enough cooking directions" ~."price not clearly marked." Supermarket Spies Has anyone been trailing you around the supermarket or gro- very store lately? If so, It wouldn't. be surprising, because people whose business it is to note your preferences and make shopping easier for 'you, do that from time 'to time. ' . "One report on what a ypical food shopper looks for was givea 'in Chicago recently at the Na- tional Packaging Exposition. And the report came up with some , interesting facts. For example, this typical shop- 'per -- the lady who pushes Jua- ior around the local supermar- - ket in a tote cart -- likes her crackers and -cookies 'in inner- sealed packs. The reason 'given was that these packs keep the contents fresh and crisp. ; She also likes her fresh meats, fruits. and vegetakles neatly pre- packaged so she can pick thems up quickly and speed 'up her shopping, She likes to see the bread she buys. And, what's more, when the store manager isn't looking she even squeezes the loaf to sea it it's fresh! In general, the factors she looks for are visibility, such as provided by packages wrapped in "cellulose film, convenience, 'freshness, variety and economy. And here are some of the rea- sons why she turns down some items in favor of others: "Can't see 'what's in the package" -- "quantity is too large" -- "not "number of servings not men- tioned" --- 'no recipes" --- and: Today's shopper has a lot of home and social duties to fit in- to her busy day. Shopping im- pressions must. be made quickly. She js highly conscious of value and quality and freshness. "And pleasing her is the aim of food merchandisers. ) RA gE ek Tiny "Nike ¥ o 1 projected biography of -Brown; Lord Davidson, the Dean of Windsor, had the delicate task of dissuading her. No sooner was this matter disposed of than the Queen took as her personal attendant a secgpod 'John Brown, a man stran- namesake though smaYer in stature. John Brown was dead, but an- other John Brown, a mute re- plica, stood silently beside the Queen to the end of her days: At Last, A Home -- Song Yong Cho, 11-year-old Korean wor orphan who lost both legs from frostbite in 1950, is embraced by Mrs. Richard E. Gormanson - as he arrives ot Seattle, Wash. Song is en roule to Boys' Town. Mrs. Gormanson's husband, a with an orthopedic Korea, made sergeant laboratory Song's artificial legs. "in - Bitten By Half A 'end, it bit him, £3 Snake--Student nurse Peggy Hood consoles her brother, Ted, in hospital where he is being treated after being bitten by half a snake. Ted and his father had chopped an eight-foot copperhead in half. When Ted picked up the business,