x AN Hour tHinks she knows all thé. an- swers. She considers her par- ents "hopelessly old-fashioned. For some reason she brings her 'problem' to me; I raised a nice daughter, without having any trouble, "My niece doesn't know how to behave with a boy. When they get home from the movies, she stands outside the house in the dark-for long conversations. Her mother has warned her this is not proper and has asked her to bring him in. He seldom enters the house and I think it is her . fault, Her parents think she's too young for good-night kisses, and so do I... ALL-WISE YOUTH "She thinks it's sophisticated Iron-on Designs. dn Glorious Colors y v $5, by Lana Wheeldon IRON-ON WATER LILIES in tropic pink and forest green! No embroidery -- they look hand- painted on sheets, pillowcases, guest towels, dresser sets, lunch- . eon cloths! Picture all the pretty accessories, gay gifts you can create with a stroke of an iron! Jiffy! Iron on! Washable! Pat- tern 504: six iron-on lilies; two 4% x 13, four 3 x 4 inches. Send TWENTY-FIVE CENTS in coins (stamps cannot be ac- cepted) for this pattern to Box. 1, 123 Eighteenth St, New Tor- onto, Ont. Print plainly PAT- TERN NUMBER, your NAME "and ADDRESS. ; EXCITING VALUE! Ten, yes TEN popular, new designs to crochet, sew, embroider, knit-- printed right in the Laura Wheeler Needlecraft Book. Plus . many more patterns to send for --ideas for gifts, bazaar money- NE UpST | to talk about the boy to anybody who will listen. I remind her they're not interested, but she won't believe that, We live in a small place, where everybody knows each other's business. Her parents are only trying to bring her up properly, so that she will be well thought of. I remind her how much they love her. She says they don't understand her! They are, as a matter of fact, wise and kind, 2 Modern Etiquette Q. Mf a married Woman 1s writing a note of thanks for a husband, should she sign both her husband's name and her own? A. No. She would sign her name only, but in the nofe she may say, "George and I wish to express our appreciation, etc." Q. When a dinner guest has finished eating, should he or she help the hostess by stacking some of the empty dishes? A. ' Helpful or not, this is not considered good form, The dishes - should remain as they are until removed by the maid or hostess. Q. Whose duty is it to see that the bride and bridegroom's car is ready and waiting for them at the wedding reception? A. This is one of the duties of the best man. : Q. When is a guest privileged to leave a wedding reception? A. At any time he wishes, but not before speaking to the bride and -bridegroom. Q. When 'a woman is either standing or seated, talking with a man, and she drops her hand- kerchief, giove, or some such ar- ticle, and the man does not no- up? "And they are worried . . . Is there any further advice I could give her? : : WORRIED AUNT" You have covered the ground well. -One angle should be em- phasized, the importance of a girl's reputation, particularly in a small community where her every move is observed and discussed. When she gets to the point where she realizes protect her from adverse com- ment, she will see they are on her side; only then will she recognize their authority more willingly. If they plan get-to- gethers for her friends (both sexes) and make her home the gathering place for the group, that will further their desire to multiply -her good times and increase her. popularity. She needs frequent praise. She must feel her family is proud of her, .and compliments will do that. Just now she feels * * * * + * * * J * * 1 * * L * * * * * * * * * * * be wise to treat her according- :* ly--suggesting instead of de- * manding--to show how anxious * they are to depend on- her * judgment insofar as they find , "* they can. ** Let her chatter about her * boy friend; he is' her first, so * she thinks she must boast. She * must not feel she cannot talk * about him openly. If she over- * steps polite bounds, others will * put her in her placé and, for * some young girls, that is the * best way to learn restraint. * It is admirable that-she gives * you her confidence--especially * at her age. A relative is some- * times easier to talk to than * one's parents. Encourage her * friendliness, and continue to * let hér feel you stand by. * | SE It is hard to manage a young girl whose first boy friend has . gone to her head. To keep her confidence, yet steer a proper | social course, is a problem . . . Anne Hirst understands these problems, so send yours' to her. Address her at Box 1, 123 Eigh- teenth St, New Toronto, Ont. = ug ROBBER ROBBED Thieving can prove to be the start of a vicious circle, thinks Douglas Odell, of Carmel, who was caught, red-handed, commit- ting a burglary. The police corted to hi home --for some clothing. Great was Odell's annoyance when, on arriving home, he dis- covered that hi¢ home, too, had been burgled. Exclaimed the embittered : captive: "A fellow can't leave anything lying around + makers, fashions! Send 25 cents without having it stolen, It's a for your copy! shame!" " Styled for conversation -- So that blind-and-deaf individuals may. sommunicate more easily with persons who have all their facul Wes, Rev. Ernst Christian Sibbersson, of The Church of The Deaf, has designed the "communications" glove at right. By use of a braille-imprinted cardboard "hand," at" left, the user learns lon of letters on the glove, and is enabled to identify them pressure, when a sighted person touches various letters to form words and sentences, \ that her parents are trying to -- older than she is, so it would A. No. She - can call his at- tention. to it 'by saying, "I be- lieve 1 dropped my handker- chief." Q. When should the bride- groom give his gifts to his best 'man and ushers? A. Usually, these gifts. are " placed at the men's places at the bachelor dinner. Q." When passing a salt or pepper shaker at the table, should 'oné place it on the table or hand it directly to the person? A. 1t is usually less awkward to put it down on the table and let 'the other person pick _it up, than to try to hand it directly to him, se Q. Which is the correct form of introduction, "Mrs. White, this is 'my husband," or, "Mrs. White, this is Mr. Walker"? ' A The correct form is, "Mrs. White, this is my husband." ... 0. . What does the father ot the bride do after he gives his He dauvghter-away? A. He steps back and takes his place next-to-his wife, at the end of the first pew on the left of the church. Q. When. accompanying 'a woman to the dinner table, should the man sit down exactly at the same time she does? « 'A. No. He should draw out her chair first, and not sit down until immediately = after she is seated. : ~Q. Isnt it all right to mail out the wedding announcements a day or so before the wedding? "A. Never; they should be mailed out immediately after the ceremony. School dress! Cool dress! Both vergions are in this one pattern! Choose a crisp plaid or polka dots, 'and contrast with spanking white pique. Little middle, twirly a school belle's heart. Sew it now--use this pattern again and again! 1 Pattern 4765: Children's Sizes 2, 4, 6, 8, 107 Size 6 takes 1% yards 35-inch; 13% yards con- trast. 'ple to sew, is tested for fit. Has Send THIRTY-FIVE CENTS (36¢) in coins (stamps cannot be accepted) ofr this pattern. Print plainly SIZE, NAME, ADDRESS, STYLE NUMBER. Send order to Box. 1, 123 Eighteenth St, New Toronto Ont. ' ..gift received by her and and her skirt--this is designed to delight complete illustrated instructions, tice it, should she then pick MW | } I | i ks This pattern easy to use, sim- | cet or eR aN AStn ERT SAYA IE AVE + 've CHEE SAR IE of this rare breed in the U. S. ! RG IIE BE SREB Je HR VEIN Bele 3 ait, Rare Bird Call -- Pretty Annette McGinnis, 15, is mighty proud of these white jungle fowl and she should be. There are only three ARM Clarke . ZaiNGER Remember last week I7said I expected to be many miles from - home before 1 wrote again. And I certainly was. Between last week-end and this 1 travelled about a thousand miles. First stop was Deep River, which was the setting for our son's! wed- ding. It was just a small affair --not more than a dozen guests-- distance and accomodation lim- ited the number of invitations. It was too long a trip for Partner with his strapped up shoulder; Arthur couldn't get away sO Daughter came home and took charge so that I could represent the family. I won't make any attempt to describe the wedding--after all one "wedding is much like an- other, irrespective of size.- There is always the jittery bridegroom; the outwardly --self-- composed bride; wedding pictures, recep- tion, confetti, tossing the bride's bouquet, and the bright ideas of the young folk to impede and em- barrass the bridal couple on the first lap of their honeymoon. So I will spare you the details and tell you something of my trip. Bob, Betty and I left home at "5 a.m. Friday. It was dark, warm . and somewhat foggy. I was look- ing forward to the dawn to feast my eyes on new scenery. Actual- ly, until we got past Peterbor- ough I was a little disappointed. After that I had no complaints. Along No. 7 to Havelock, Madoc and Kaladar it was rugged and beautiful, jagged rock and ever- greens on either side of the road. At Kaladar we took No. 41.--through the loveliest scene- ry. But oh;-that road! Good sur- face but narrow, winding and continuous short, steep hills. It was _like riding a roller-coaster. For anyone inclined to be car- sick it wouldn't be so funny. But I loved it all, every inch of the way. We- passed dozens of sign- posts pointing to inland lakes where there were doubtless many summer cottages, but not one could we see from the road. 1 would loved to have followed some of those roads in through the bush. But when a man is on his way to his wedding he doesn't stop for sight-see-ers. Erom . Cloyne onwards we passed many _ sparkling lakes, in fact the far- + ther north we went the more - beautiful was the scenery -- through Eganville and on to Pembroke, where we stopped for dinner. [ was expecting to see a few bush fires but there wasn't so much as a puff of smoke. At Petawawa we did see blackened earth and naked trees from a fire which had long since been extinguished. Following the Ottawa River we arrived at Deep River about 2 o'clock, passing Chalk River, of atomic fame, on our. way. Deep River is a unique village, unlike any other place I have seen. It is a model village amid natural Austic surroundings, bor- dering the Ottawa River, and looking over towards the Lauren- tians. It is clean and tidy. Each house, or double house, stands in its own well-kept. grounds, and - for dwellings without a garage, there is a community garage on each street with six double doors. There is a shopping centre with- YOU CAN DEPEND When kidneys fail to - . priideiadol® DODDS KIDNEY WN <, PILLS u WN . i mlp---- ISSUER 40 -- 1058 iF 'day noon I boarded a bus for . the Exhibition: I stayed home for o | in walking distance with ten or twelve stores in a row, complete with a shaded sidewalk. Across the road there is a wonderful indoor recreation centre, also a modern hospital, spacious hotel, lovely. walks and :a beach, Sail boats on the Ottawa complete the picture, } . Lovely, isn't it? But don't think you can live there. Deep River is company town, You can live there only if you have a job at the Chalk River Atomic Plant. You can't even get a room over- night at the hotel. Our nephew happens to be a physicist at the Plant so he rates a house--and the wedding was from his home, the ceremony at the very modern chur¢h in the village, But, while only a chosen few; as it were, can live at Deep River, the place is well worth a visit. But be sure you don't drive more than ten miles an hour. There are no._.} sidewalks and since most of the homes are occupied by young . couplés the roads are literally swarming with dogs, children and an assortment of bikes, tricycles and kiddie-cars! 2 Well, so much for Deep River. Saturday I went: by. car to Otta- wa and then by bus to Kempt- ville to stay with friends until Tuesday. Sunday we drove 'to- wards Gananoque - within sight - of the Thousand Islands. Monday we visited lovely Ottawa, pass- ing through territory that was entirely new--to all of us. Tues home, coming through towns, cities and villages which had pre- viously only been names on a map to me. Many. times I thought, "Oh, if I could only have an hour or two to explore" partic- ularly when we passed "Abbey, Dawn." ! Arthur met me in Toronto, brought me home; and next morn- ing took Partner and Dee to a change! : And then what do you think happened? Next morning I had to go down town. Coming: home I looked towards OUR 'Mountain. There it was, in" alternate sun- light and shadow. Except that fs river was lacking, to me our ountain. was just' as lovely as the Laurentians, After travel- ling hundreds of miles I realized to my satisfaction that few dis-- tricts had little more to offer How Can I? Q. How can I sweep my cellar floor without raising a lot ol "dust? A. Try saving all your old coffee grounds and tea leaves. Soak these. ith -water, gprinkle them on the floaer, and then make a clean sweep. ' ? Q. How can 1 get rid ders in my ceHar? A, First, eliminate the webs. Use a good, strong insecticide spray. Spiders prefer to - build "their webs in damp places, and .f0, - cutting down on cellar dampness will discourage any spider invasion. ; Q. What is a good substitute for a bath mat in my tub? "A, A turkish towel on the bottom of the tub serves very . well, 5 3 Q. How can I remove fodin stains from my hands? _A. Rub the stained areas with a slice of lemon or a slice of raw potato. ~ Q. How can 1 remove stains from cloth rugs? A. Treat the spot first with, a cloth soaked in limewater. Then wash if necessary Q. What can I use for patch- ing plastered walls? .. A. Plaster of paris is very good, but unless you're very of spi- forestall this, mix about a table- spoon of ordinary flour with every cup of plaster of paris. Q. How can I prevent frost from collecting on my windows this winter? A. Rub alcohol or salt water on- the outside of the glass, and then ~polish with newspaper or a dry cloth, ; Q. How can I avdid having rust form on the metal trays of my refrigerator? : A. By keeping the trays coat- ed with: floor wax. : Q.. How can I remove spilled grease from one of the burners on my stove? ; : A. Just by detaching the burner and holding it over. the flame of another burner. Q. How can I keep my dish- cloths sweet-smelling and clean- -- looking? - A. By putting them in a wide- 'mouthed jar filled with half water and half laundry -bleach, whenever the cloths aren't in use. . a= 'Q. How can meled pot in which food has burned? - tatoes, ckins and all, into the pot, cover them with water, and let them simmer until only an inch of water is left." Refill and re- peat the process three times. Then let it stand overnight and scour with. scouring powder. \ M.P.'s Awakening A certain M.P.--who shall be he never minds people telling him so. 3 Somebody called on him one day and asked: "Is it true that of your own speeches in the House?" : "You should have heard the speech -- it was terrible!" On another occasion the M.P. declared: "I dreamt that I was making a speech in the House, than our own little county of 'Halton. ; - I woke up and -- I was!" quick, it may dry and harden before the job is finished. To. I clean an ema- A. Put three or four raw po- nameless--is a poor orator, but you yawned last evening at one. 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