"food, x < (ANNE HIRST) 'Dear Anne Hirst: What do you! do when your mother-in- law tries to Tun the whole fami- ly? She is sweet to us in many ways, but allows us no privacy. She loves her grandchildren, but she impqgses her own way despite their ordered routine. "She wakes my baby out of a sound sleep to rock him. She tells me what to feed him, though she knows 1 follow our doctor's prescribed diet; she even disagrees with me as to his clothing. "She complained to my hus- band that I was stingy with the baby, s6 I let her have him for rR day. She fed him indigestible and he was sick for four days. This didn't seem to_annoy my husband; he almost always sides with her, RUINS FAMILY LIFE : "No matter what we have: planned for a holiday together; she insists on- gathering the whole family at her home. And if my husband and I have planned a quiet . evening, she accuses me of trying to keep him from her! "Yet if I am ill she drives me Iron-on Designs JI. Glorious. 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"Is there anything I can do about all this? Thank you for any ideas. * It you are ever to escape from * your mother-in-law's domina- * tion, you will have to have * your husband's consistant co: * operation. = Her - deliberate * planning of your personal life * is trying enough, but when * she takes over the baby's * training, that is going too far. * A mother's first right is to * bring up her child in the way * she thinks best. Explain to ¢ your husband that you and he, * alone, are responsible for the * baby's welfare; you have en- * listed the best medical advice, * and it is your duty to follow Tell him that's how 'it * should be---and you will de- * pend on him to back you. up. * -- Remind him that a married * couple must have privacy. * They cannot enjoy a full life, ¢* and grow closer as the years " pass, 1f they must share all * their leisure with his people * or yours. 'You will join fami- * ly -reunions occasionally, but * observe some of them at home * with your husband and little. * son; this is your right and his, * Once he realizes how essential * * it is, he will find how much * happier~ he, and you, can be, ~* Your mother-in-law is the * true . matriarch: Loving and * kind, but domineering and * possessive, She considers her- © * self the rightful head of the ---*family, competent-to run- their -- * affairs. © She laughs at mo- . dern practices of diet and "Tom, ~ found a way of avoiding' confu- * children in such a high-handed * manner that it is almost -im- * possible for parents to inter- * fere. This she sees as her * bounden duty, born. of her * love for them all * Once you gain your hus * band's cooperation, talk things * over with his mother, calmly. * Emphasize your appreciation of * all her kindness, but -remind * her that you and your hus- * band must decide what is best * for the baby, and also for your- * selves. When she realizes you * stand firm, she will have to * retire from the field and leave * it to you and your husband, * where it belongs. Let us hope * this can be.accomplished with * only slight shnioyance. Good * luck! * Every wife owes her hus- * band's mother loyalty and res- ¢ pect; but when her children's * lives are interfered with, she * must take a stand. If this * problem is worrying you, tell * Anne Hirst about it. her at Box 1, 123 Eighteenth St. New Toronto, Ont.. _. PIE-EYED PIGEON Brewer's draymen unloading some barrels of beer from their van into the cellar of a Wareham pub had the misfortune to knock out a bung and quite a quantity of the beer flowed into the gut- ter before it could be up-ended. Later an inquisitive pigeon sam- pled the frothing overflow and apparently found it to its liking. It was seen staggering around in pigeon-toed circles and giving off feathered hiccoughs! : : Ready To Travel ~ilee Kyung S00, four-year-old Korean orphan found wandering the streets of Inchon, Korea, last year by Na Chief Petty Officer Vincent Paladino, is bound In red tape that keeps him in leave ? When, awaii. But the youngster is packed and ready to Hawgiion officials are satisfied that Paladino got legal custedy of 'the boy. Address For SIZE, NA 'NUMBER. Eighteenth St, '1 Ont Hippo Hoofmarks Hamper Golfers The real sports entfiusiast will never allow himself to be 'handi- capped by conditions or circum- stances. Your out-and-out de- votee won't worry - about: haz- ards -- the love of the game's the thing and rates second to lite itself. * In some instances there's little doubt that it even takes priority! No obstacle - is insurmountable, : Perhaps the .rules of the game are waived or /stretched a little in the process, but no matter. Take the . well-kept® golf course of the Jinja Golf Club, laid out on a high bluff com- | manding the source of the Nile and the Ripon Falls. During the night this particular course is frequently the highway of the unwieldy and heavyweight hip- po in his search for. pastures new, writes Mr. Gordon Cooper in_his entertaining. book, "Along the Great Rivers." Naturally, the cumbersome animal leaves be- hind pretty hefty footmarks -- bunkers in .themselves. But members of the committee did not give up in despair, They managed to get round this set- back." Without incurring any penalties a player is permitted to lift any ball resting in a hip- po's footmark and drop it be- "hind the obstacle. - The author's love of rivers led him to the Mississippi. and to a lesser-known spot called Gee's. Bend. Here, he found a simple but reli.ious community, Because of inbreeding the vil- lagers had few surnames -- per- haps four or five in all. Among themselves they used a few Christian names, Tom, Edward . and Andrew divided among the men, Bella, Sarah and Kate by the womenfolk. All very confusing 'perhaps when wanting one particular but the villagers had sion, They simply added. letters of the alphabet after their names. Thus, says Gordon Cooper, there would be in one family a Tom- C, Tom-K, Ed-F, and Ed-M. The village. leader had a slight vari- ation 'of 'the practice; His name was Androka, a derivative from Andrew- K. : SAVED -- BY SEAT OF HIS TROUSERS When his car, out of control, crashed 'into. a railway - bridge - in Bessemer, a young man was hurled from the driving seat and dangled precariously, from a projection--on--his--vehicle sixty feet above the railway line, Only... the seat of his trousers was be- tween him and possible death as trains sped to and fro beneath him. He was eventually rescued, frightened but unhurt. Easy! See Diagram! A 77 N - Q 7 12-205 30-42 A : "~ONE pattern part to skirt! ne - . 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"There aren't half enough men to go round," she pouted. Then 2n idea struck her, Be- fore her friends could stop her, she rushed to a telephone, rang "up the local fire brigade and in- vited everyone along. Politely but firmly, the fire- men refused 'to come. So ten minutes later the girl rang up the fire station again, this time * calling them out on a fire alarm. The sequel? The girl had to. pay a fine of $15 and was ordered to pay the cost of the turn-out! It's amazing what a woman | will do to get a man! One blonde; who loved a man who had been jailed: for four years: for stealing cheque forms ---belonging-to her; scraped- togeth- - er her hard-earned savings, took - them to a solicitor and. pleaded with him to get the man raleased --somehow. - +. "She put the solicitor in funds. ! so that this application could be made for the man's release," ex- plained his counsel He: added that the woman wanted to marry . the man who had wronged her. But the application failed. Even more determined to get . her man was an eighteen-year- old, sloe-eyed Italian girl, whose lover had walked out sn her, slamming the door. As he reached the street, he heard a.-shout and saw the shape- ly form of the girl he had just left falling from a second-floor window. He rushed forward and just managed to catch her in his arms before she hit the pavement. "They rolled over on the ground together. They were taken to. hospital with minor injuries and later that night kissed dnd made it up. "I've. won back my man, nurse," confided the girl to the matron before leaving ' hospital with him next day. She certainly fell for him! In a Yorkshire church just twenty -years ago the bell tolled once, The surprised vjcar went from his vicarage to investigate. . There he saw a woman, a stranger to him, kneeling at th altar. Spon after a man, ulso stranger to him, 'entered th church and ldoked round. H went to the kneeling: woma and said: "I am here, darling!" The pair conversed in whis- pers before the altar, happy in their reunion. 'And the vicar heard the" woman say, "I for- .give," as she, kissed him :over and over again. Later the couple told him that 'they had married in "the church many years be- + fore but there had been a mutual separation. But" the woman 'made the stipulation that if ever she felt disposed to forgive, she would make a sign on the anniversary of their wedding by tolling the bell once. Fpr several years she had goné on: their anniversary and tolled the bell, but her man had. not come till now. He had long before moved away from - the district, leaving no address, but some strange, impelling in- stinct had' made him jourhey many miles in case the bell toll- ed that night, : "5 The couple, still only middle- aged, left for a second honey- _ moon, When she saw her handsome young husband standing in the ° dock 'and facing imprisonment as a result of per prosecution, a. Lancashire wife who had found passionate letters from two other EET TEE Ts -------------- ISSUE. 48 .-- 1058 worfien at his lodgings altered her mind. "I want him, I must have him back." She pleaded with the magistrate not to send him to prison. man, commented: "If you can explain why a woman acts like that, you have explained one of -the greatest mysteries of 'the world." Turning to the husband he added: "Your wife is deeply infatuated with you." Even your shoddy treatment has not killed her love." "Wives have braved death and . starvation to be near their hus- bands. There was a woman in the first world war who dodged officials, stowed away in a troop- ship and got up to the. front- line trenches because she feared her husband would be killed. She turned up, disguised as a was putting over a barrage and a shell burst very near her. She ing shipped back to Britain. Bandits' - bullets were braved by a thirty-five-year-old plant-' er's wife, who went to live with him in a wired-off compound on a 3,000-acre estate: hemmed in by the jungle. Once she was driving with him on his rounds when bandits fired and shots went straight through the car without touching them. Sometimes she saw bandits roam- ing only three hundred yards from her front door as she did the cooking. . come a bride until she wag sixty- four. Why? Because although the sweetheart of her early wo- manhood wanted to marry her when she was in her twenties, she was determined to keep a promise to her dying mother -- that she would care for and stay with her ailing father. Through the long years she waited, corresponding with the man who - loved her, who had gone to seek His fortune in Cana- da. Then, after nearly forty years, her father died and: she married her seventy-two-year-old lover, They talk-at a Midlands rail- way station still about a girl who got in conversation with a young man on the crowded platform and then "lost" him when the train came in.- But' he had-told her his -sur- name; Smith, and that his par- --"--s lM ll th "And the magistrate, freeing the | man, on a day when the enemy _ _got to her. husband before. be- |. A Durham woman did not be- * aIving Father Time A Shock A few weeks ago, her Majesty's Telegraph Ship arch set-out from London, Floaded with 1,450" miles of submarine cable. This will be joined to the 800 miles : laid last summer, and will com- ° plete the renewal of the cable, maintained by Cable and Wire- less Ltd, between Porthcurno, near Land's End, and Newfound- "| land. * The old cable was laid in 1874 and went out of use in 1943, It is estimated that the renewal operation will: cost $6,000 and that it will enable cable ;/ . traffic on this route to be in- " creased by 70 per cent. : The 8050-ton "Monafch™ is ~the largest and most up-to-date "cable ship in the world. She can carry up to 2,600 rauticalimiles 'of -cable in. her four cylindrical tanks, which have a total cap-. acity of 125,000 cubic feet. Cable ships must remain at sea for long periods and hence carry enormous amounts of fuel, stores and water. Five thousand tons of cable, 2,000 tons of fuel, and 1,000 tons of water may easily be disposed of "on voy- age," so that special arrange- . ments are made to maintain the stability of the unloaded ships, Most cable ships are small, about 1,500 tons. They are readi- ly manoeuvrable in restricted waters -and can steam: as little as "one knot .when required.' Much of their, time is spent in repair. ing damaged cables. They are officially entitled H. M. Telegraphic Ships, and fly the Blue Ensign with their own "crest. This crest depicts Fatha Time sitting on" a coil of rope, . |» watching the first cable land on , the seashore, He holds a scythe in hig left hand, and in his right an hour-glass shattered by an electric spark. His face bears a look of aston- ishment, a symbol of his surprise' at Time being destroyed by thé ~ electric telegraph. The motto: "Ne Tentes aut Perfice," meahg roughly, "Attempt not or accom- plish thoroughly." The first commercially suc- cessful marine cable was laid in 1850-51 by 'the steam tug ""Go- lith," which was especially, ad- apted for the job. It was' 'Jaid ents" lived in a big city. "about five 'miles away. So determined was- the -girl- to-see him -again | 'that she started to ring up every Smith in the: telephone book. "Is there a young man: belong- ing to your family who-wears a | © dark-grey lounge suit and has blue eyes and was.travelling on business to-day?" she queried. She found her man -- over forty _'phone calls later! The couple were married last year. ~ Dover, Rates Bay, near and Sangatte on the European coast. Another was Jad between Kent and Belgium in 1853, by the collier "William Hutt." It.cov- ered seventy miles, an the cable, which Weighed 30 ~ needed three days to-be Jie eo ate ards," cable to TW a ca Ireland was laid, and in 1861 the first 'Atlantl cable was paid . out by: the 20,000 tons "Great amar. which had failed as a passenger liner! ° * Great difficulties were eicout. : "tered in the lay. 80, that In . the next few. Your e cable ship became a sinc "Far- ' aday" was' first real cable ship, and was built in 1874 fos Messrs, Siemens. Later' she became a coal hulk, # == 'at . Algiers until mL And the pti er RELIEF IS LASTING Here's headache' relief 'such as never thought possible. . ; Instan hol Instantine is a prescription-type gormule, that acts so Jaat, « horoug| our eV! -- almost instantly. this relief is prolouked +s + it lasts! Best of all 1nstantine {ablets give you ust the you need , . , act make you feel better. Get Yoatantine today! - QUICK RELIEF FOR- "© POUNDING HEADACHE © RHEUMATIC - --. 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