: fort Trooful--- ANNE FIRST "Dear Anne Hirst: My mother says I'm going to pieces 'living like this, My husband and I are in our<teens. We have a young baby "and, since we married two | years ago, we've lived with his parents. I didn't mind at first, I thought we'd get out on our own; but though he and his fam- ily don't get along too well, he ddesn't want responsibility, "He is an only child, and has a high temper; he thinks he should have everything he wants, any way he can get it. We fight all the time -- about his fam- ily (they all drink constantly) and about money. He spends crazily! He gives me just enough for bills and food; when I need clothes he says go out and buy them, but he doesn't say with what, "He goes where he pleases with men friends (single ones, at that) and leaves me at home. He made me give up all my friends, and won't have anything to do with my family. I have to visit my mother when he isn't home; he thinks she should take care of our little girl -- and most ly she does. _"I think if we moved out, he PC = TV Slippers - Jiffy Just two main pattern parts to cut out, stitch up -- whip up -a pair of toe-toasters in an even- ing! Use quilted scraps--bind with colorful cotton, velvet, wool. £5 Pattern 666: pattern pieces for Sizes Small, Medium, Large, Ex- tra Large included. Send TWENTY-FIVE CENTS in coins -(stamps cannot be ac- cepted) for this pattern to Box 1, 123 Eighteenth St., New Tor- onto, Ont. Print plainly PAT- TERN NUMBER, your NAME and ADDRESS. EXCITING VALUE! Ten, yes TEN" popular, new designs to crochet, sew, embroider, 'knit-- printed right in the Laura . Wheeler Needlecraft Book, Plus many more patterns to send for --ideas for gifts, bazaar money- makers, fashions! Send 25 cents for your copy! | * lies "@"Téw months' {ime~I~learned-the-- would change. My mother doesn't agree; she says he will keep on hurting me because he thinks he can get away with it. we do love each other, Anne Hirst, and we love our child. What shall I do? I am -- VERY MUCH CONFUSED" * + I suggest you and the baby * go to your mother for a while. * I fear that nothing but your * absence can awaken your hus- * band to the truth -- that he * has a family now, and if he * wants to keep with them he * will have to be a man and not * a playboy. EN * Marriage does not mean * merely the possession of a * wife and a child. It means * taking on responsibilities that * change a young man's purpose * in life. He -is no longér a free * agent; he is the head of a fam- * ily who depend upon him not * only for security, but for love * and kindness: and undiluted * loyalty. The freedom and ad- * venture of his bachelor days * are past; for them he must: * substitute a husband's protec- * tive concern for his wife's wel- * fare and contentment, and a ¢ parent's: * structive pla = child's future, --% All this will be news to this' * husband of yours. He has some * hard and painful thinking to * do, which is not going to be * easy for one of his nature. * Whether he can do it at all * depends upon his admission * that his marriage is at stake. * Perhaps beneath his light- * hearted approach to life there the moral strength that <* he needs. 4 : * The time for argument has * passed. Action _is the only _* course that will impress him. * I think you should take it, * temporarily, and let 'him find * out what his marriage really * means to him. After all, he * does-love you. How much, he * will have his chance to prove. ing for his "Dear Anne Hirst: May { warn women who have their own in- comes against fortune-hunters? Last year I married a man I thought was wonderful -- and in was only. after my money. "I have at last got rid of him -- and saved part of my inherit- ance. . . . It is better to stay lonely than be betrayed as I was! : LEARNED LATE" Newspapers brim with tales of impecunious rascals who defraud trusting women. They find out what a woman is worth, and persuade her to let them invest her money. If she refuses, they will even marry her. It is not easy for a lonely wo- man to doubt an attentive and charming man; they are so grate- ful to have - someone looking after them. Too late 'they learn they have been robbed. How lucky you are to have saved part of your income, at least. . . . Thank you for your. warning. * * * Bachelor-into-husband is an abrupt and frightening change, But when a young man becomes a husband and a father, he must mature deliberately to deserve both titles. , , . For years, Anne Hirst has succeeded in helping young couples toward harmoni- ous living. Write her at Box 1, 123 Eigtheenth St, New Toronto, Ont, ¢ same in Berlin, Children and Christmas toys are' pretty. much [ ; Germany, as in Canada. And.the goodies are just as good, this German.youngster proves, Sweets under a toy tree in a depariment siore exhibit, ds she samples She says I should leave him. Buf - guidance and con- i ~-is-long.in_the body and not over- ly 'fat but that I imagine Will™ ~ 4728 _ (88¢) +in coins (stamps cannot be Send order to Box 1, 123 Sy ghyeentn + New Toronto, = SER CREAR 3 : = ~ Switch To Witch -- It takes an hour to transform blonde Claram must make the switch for every performance of the New York Es and Gretel." ae Turner ito a witch. Claramae City Opera production of "Hansel - Guandoline D Clay _Now, at long last, it. can be told! As of. October 26, 1953, Part- Daughter being the mother of a baby boy. His name is David John and we are all very happy%nd proud. The long time of waiting is over; anxiety almost dispelled; mother and son were discharged from the hospital yesterday -- so now a new era in family life be- gins for us all. i Previous to his birth there was the usual speculation as to 'the baby's sex--Deé and Arthur both wanted a son so much that every- one was certain it-would be a daughter. But Partner, if you . please, was hoping it would be a little girl! However, you knew how it is, boy or girl, it doesn't really mat- and baby are all right. David weighed 7 pounds at birth and son be remedied if he gets along as well as most other babies do these days. Of course, I had to pay a visit, to the hospital as soon as it was permitted and I was allowed to see our 'grandson through the WAIST U4"-30" Easy! Diagram proves how swiftly you can whip up this smart. , slim skirt. THRIFTY! One yard 54-inch fabric for Misses' Waist, Sizes 24, 25, 26, 28, 80! Have one in basic black or. brown wool to" team with sweaters and blouses! 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There was one little Chinese baby there as cute as a button; and another was alittle darkie. Among them all there was only one'that I would call pretty--and that wasn't our grandson! The hospital-was terribly busy and short of help, which meant that I had to wait 45 minutes past the regular visiting hours before I was allowed on the floor -- no one being permitted to visit even a.private'patient until all the bab- ies were back in the nursery. As I was leaving, four: nurses came down the corridor, obviously coming off duty and they looked absolutely dead-beat, Every time Tam in-hospital==big or small= -I wonder how nurses keep going day in and day out, always on their feet, always at the beck and call of their patients. It is Nurses, of course, consideration for their patients, but I often think that patients, once past the critical stage, could often show a little more consid- eration towards their nurses. How much a little thoughtfulness is appreciated only a nurse can tell you. : Well, to get int my two-hour * visit at the hospital I had to catch an 8 o'clock train in the morn- ing, returning 6.40 at night, so. I put in the rest of the day shop- ping, - telephoning,» riding on ,streetcars and roaming -.around "in the Reference Library, which I had never visited before. I came away. green with envy for the op- portunities my city friends have that are not available to me, Not but what we have an excellent library in our nearby town but naturally it can't compare with a big library. So often I am badly in need of information for a free- lance article but how to get it is my problem, even though I am fully rware that all the informa- tion I want is in Toronto, free of charge, if I just had more oppor- tunity to take advantage of fit. What irks me is the number of people who could visit such places 'as the Library, the Museum and the Archives, just don't bother i "to go at all, with colorful suspenders_is.the-- alike at birth. Having once' seen . certainly a very exacting service, | must show | 'men were discussing-cattle; crops -- | .of.it..Was-I-glad-wherrwe STUCK | ' Partner and I were near Hespel- - exchange a full-size wool blan- pad! Hills and hollows and hair- of those treacherous little hills, place." back to the fcld with its covers © IT MAY BE + all the fun and sparkle go out of life. That's However, not all the interest- ing places are in the city. Friday. er, visiting at a farm. While the and building improvements the farmer's wife and I went to Hes- peler and Preston to have a look- see at the woollen mills and blan- _ ket factory, I took five pounds of old woollens along with me, paid $4.40 in cash and received in ket. Maybe not in the same class as one particular make of satin- bound blanket, very popular as_ a wedding gift, but a very nice blanket just the same.:I also had the satisfaction of knowing mate- rial was being. utilized that would otherwise have gone into 'the rag bag. Last spring I had the mis- fortune to'get a lot of moths in" the house and they played havoc with things I had put on one side to make over. However, even moth-eaten goods are acceptable to the factory, just so long as they are clean and all-wool. Coming home Partner and I cut across country instead of sticking to the highway, What a pin"fums all the.way--15 miles 'the highway again. On that one 'point Partner and I never agree. He likes'the country roads; I pre- fer the highways, On a main road you at least know: what is ahead of you. On. a cross-road, there is so little traffic you are apt to get careless--turn your head to Took at something and that is the very minute a car comes out of a laneway or zooms over one _0dd Bookmarks What do you use for a book- mark? Probably a bus ticket or an old envelope but, unfortunate- ly, 'all readers "have not such simple. tastes. Every year_library officials find sufficient specimens left in books to form a museum of odd markers. : Anything from a pipe-cleaner to '4 razor blade "seems to be used by some people to mark' the place where they left off. At a library in Gateshead Jast year a small boy even returned a book with a slice of bread- and-jam between the leaves. In another case the librarian dis- covered.-a-kipper- "marking the Student often leave old axam- ination papers with!-sheafs of notes, and country lovers have a habit: of returning pressed leaves and flowers. The life expectation of thou- sands of books is cut down when they are used as table mats for coffee cups' and, during the win- ter months, librarians heave many a sigh when a book comes showing signs of having been toasted beside the fire. Pins 'and paper clips left in books tear the pages, and even a length of string can damage the binding, No wonder' that some libra- rians think that they serve a sec- tion of the public who are a cross between crooks and cranks, YOUR LIVER If life's not worth living Mt may be your liver! It's a fact! It takes up to two pints of liver bil a day ta keep your digestive tract in top shape! If your liver bila is not flowing freely your food may not digest . . your stomach , , . + gas bloats up ou feel constipated and eed mild gentle Carter's Little Is. Thése famous vegetable pills help stimulate the fon bisliver ile, Hoon your jon starts functioning properly and you + fod! that happy days are here again) Don't ever stay sunk. Aeays keep Carter's Little Liver Pills on hand. At yout drigrist. oh ISSUE 47 -- 1053 Great Business Humbly Started If young John Gotch had not been fired with something of the spirit of earlier Eizabethan ad- venturers, a great business would- not have been founded: Born at Kettering, "in 1820, Gotch had already emi- ated to America and was learn- g dentistry in New York when fabulous tales of gold to be found in far-off Australia lured him to further travel. = LB He embarked on a voyage that nearly: ended in disaster, For word leaked out that the rascally skipper had obtained secret in- structions to sink the ship to ob- tain insurance, so the crew promptly clapped him in irons and sailed the clipper to Brazil, An even more exciting advent- ure was in store for Gotch dur-, ing the next stage of his journey, when his ship was wrecked off Mauritius. He reached, shore safe- ly; but with only his_case of dental instruments and the night- shirt he was wearing. Fortunate: -ly, he was able to borrow some: clothes from a clergyman, pre- sumably the kindly cleric's. only set--for he was forced to stay in ,bed while young Gotch scoured the town for a new suit! Gotch eventually reached the --gold-erazed-eity of Melbourne-and--| joined the mass trek of diggers to the fields, but all he ever found was one tiny nugget. Down to his last nickel, and anxious for "news of home, he called at the newspaper ' stall of Afexander Gordon. ~~ Say The elderly Scot was at once struck with his young visitor's eager personality, and offered him a job selling newspapers to the _miners on the diggings. His drive and energy soon "earned him a partnership; 'thus, humbly, began the story--graphi- cally told in "Gordon & Gotch; London," a superbly illustrated centenary tribute -- of the firm which today exports over 70 per cent of Britain's newspapers and magazines. 'Although nowadays Messrs. 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