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#4 A hd oo ea ao som HE Ny JR i A TE Padi ot Sd 7, Ed i a a rs mn a, Re I os iy jaf Fa Wr wpe ge "Dear Anne Hirst: 1 have been married for 11 years, and now 1 am the most unhappy woman I know. My husband is a grand person and is good to me, but our married life has, been a series of ups and downs. I detérmined to 'see it through, and 1 have-up till now. " "My trouble is' another man, of course, He is married and has two children, yet be says he never loved anyone as he loyes me. 1 have tried to stop seeing him, but he makes me, I've been' horrid to him, I've told him I was through, but he will not let me go. =, "I am almost dying with shame to deceive my husband as I am doing: I never thought I could sink so low! "The man is crazy about his children; (I have none) and he tells his wife he still cares for her. But she thinks I'm trying to get him. Can you tell me what to do? } Ashamed." A Shocking Story * How can you, a woman of * 35, be so adolescent? You are * trying to excuse your infatua- ® tion as a nalve young girl would deny she deceived her parents when they have found her out. : How can you claim that the man MAKES you see him? No one can gee you against your will, You can refuse to meet ® 600 00s him, stay away from places he ¢® frequents; you can lock your ® door against him, and tell him ® if he approaches you again he SEW-EASY to make a little girl's story-book dreams come true! 'Just make this old-fashion- ed wardrobe for her favorite dollt Besides the prettiest party dress in the world, there a cummer- bund, petticoat -- and PANTA- LOONS! Bonnet, bag, mitts, tool Use your ascrapbasket rem- nants! Pattérn 4346 in doll sizes 14, 16, 18, 20, or 22 inches. State - size, This pattern easy to use, sim- ple to sew, is tested for fit. Has complete illustrated instructions. Send THIRTY - FIVE: CENTS (85¢) in coins (stamps cannot be accepted) for this pattern. Print accepted) for this pattern. Print lainly SIZE, NAME, ADDRESS, J BTYLE NUMBER, Send order to Box 1, 123 Eighteenth St, New Toronto, Ont. ASSEN LE SE TE JRE EE TE IE i TE ERE EEE RE EE EE IE EE TE EL RE NE IE BE NE AE OE EE ec 000000 will be arrested. Though, you know his influence is evil, have enjoyed ylelding to 4t. less you take strong AA you are headed for a scandal that will drag your good hus- band with you. Already the man's wife is talk- ing--and why not? How long do you' think it will be before 'the' truth is publicly known? As for: you, you know of the .man's other affairs, and where those" women "landed. Do you want to join them in the dis- card? I am sorry for you. You have had the courage to stick to an unsatisfactory marriage for years, but now you have sunk deep in the depths of self-de- ception. No wonder you have no peace! Why can't you see the facts as they are? 1 urge you to rise above this temptation. Regain your self- respect--and you can, if you are really sincere in your desire to escape from the hold this man has upon you... Go back to your church; talk with your minister, Pray for the strength it will comezi LISS 2 s . HASTY YOUTH "Dear Anne Hirst: My fiance and I had a quarrel over noth- ing a week ago; he said unkind things, and I broke the engage- ment, I heard he went out and got drunk, "I have been sick over the whole business. I realized I was as much to blams as he; I am overly sensitive, apology it he hadn't taken too many drinks after he left. He never did drink that I know of, and this I cannot forgive. 'He called' me two days after, and apologized for being rude, but I would not listen. Don't you think I was right? Drinking is something I cannot-overlook. - MISERABLE" ¢ You do not say how old you are; but you must be very young to refuse this man your forgiveness. You were equally to blame in the argument, you admit. It is his getting intoxi- cated that you will not over- look. ® Under such stress, one drink too many: seems, I am sorry to say, a popular way to: induce forgetfulness and bring momentary comfort, to an emotionally upset young man, You-should have over- looked the incident and ac- 9 06000 is not a drinking man. . ¢ Better sit down and write him an apology for ending the engagement, and gay that you understand his reaction to the shock. When he reappears, you two can talk 'things over -and straighten out the whole matter, * . * We are never tomapied beyond ee e600 our strength to resist--IF we | honestly want to resist. ..Self- respect; courage, combine to build an armor against evil . . . Anne Hirst un- derstands the weaknesses of hu- mans, and will rally to your aid. Write her at Box 1, 123 Eigh- tennth St. New Toronto, Ont. "Joe's getting a commission when he enters: the Army. No fiat . salary for him" Heat: shortening (it should be atleast two inches deep) you need, and have faith that and lost my: head. I would have written an' taking cepted his-plea,--Afterall,--he and prayer to 370%in' a deep-frying pan. (If a fat thermometer is not available; test fat temperature with a cube of bread --the bread should brown in 60 seconds), Cut 1 pound fillets of '-any suitable fish into serving sized pieces and sprinkle lightly with galt. Mix and sift into a bowl 1.c, once-sifted pastry flour or 7% cup once-sifted all-purpose flour), 1}4 opt, Magic Baking Powder and 14 tsp. salt; stir in 14 o. very cold water and beat until batter * is very smooth, Dip fish pieces in batter and then fry in heated shortening, turning once, until golden, Drain thoroughly on absorbent sprinkle lightly with salt and keep al vd all fish has been cooked. Yield-- 4 vorvings. A Second Chance After reading Mt Marion Craw- ford's delightfully intimate book, "Princess Margaret" it is not dif- ficult to understand the reason for the Princess's popularity, Her - zest for living 'and her under- standing, warm-hearted nature --not to mention her witty quips and -impish sense of fur -endear her to al' who meet her. Marion Crawford relates an arausing incident that happened during the Royal visit to 'South Africa. Princess Margaret ac- cepted an invitation to Zululand to watch the Zulus dance. Thége descendants of renowned war=- riors put on a magnificent diss: play. As. the dance reached a feverish pitch of excitement the Zulu maidens went quite ma and chipped in at the wrong moment. How amused must those near to the Princess have been when she remarked, "Rather good boozie-woogie! Another side of her nature is revealed by her thoughtfulness, During her Italian holiday a number of cameramen were in- vited to the gardens of:the Bri- tish Embassy to take a photo- graph of her. "Let me pick you 'a rose" . said Lady: Mallet, wife of the In doin amor _ ado to her Royal guest. | : lost his pictures. Princess * Margaret was. quick to spot this, -and after receiving the rose, beckoned the ' photo- graphe "I saw what happened," she said, 'witt a smile. "But I do not want you to get into trouble with your office for losing your photo- aph. " With that she placed the rose. . in her dress and posed specially for the photographer. For his act of gallantry the man. obtained one of the loveliest pictures of th- Princess during the whole of her visit to Italy, Modern. Etiquette Q. What is th the proper se- - quence of pages in a social letter? A. It is correct to write on ~ the first page, .then the third -- or on the first, "second, third and . fourth. The latter order is probs ably the the better in the case of very long letters, as it avoids confusion, Never write sideways or crosswise, as it leads to dif) culty in reading. Q. Should a woman remove her wraps when in a theatre? A. This is entirely optional. She should, however, remove her hat, especially if it is a style that will obstruct the vision of those geated behind 'her. Q. Is it all right for 2 young couple to omit the engagement ring until later during their mar- riage when they can better af- ford it? : A. Yes. In fact, this is: quite .often d Q. When two men and two wom#¥a are together, what is the orfler in which they should en- ter a restaurant? A. The women both enter first, and are followed by the men, and in this order they fol- low the head waiter to their table. The women also precede when departing from the res- taurant. Q. Is it my privilege, as the bride, to select any music I wish to be played at our wedding? A. Yes, but you should consult: your minister, too. It may be that you wish. to include some secular music, which may be for- bidden in your particular church. Q. Is there any rule as to who should make the introductions at" an informal home gathering -- the host or the hostess? A. No, Either may do this. Q. Is it really considered cor- rect to accept a second helping . of food when your hostess offers it to, you; or is this 'a sign -of- greediness? A. One may certainly take a second helping if one wishes. it is a compliment to the hostess' cookery to do so. However, if you don't care for a second help- ing, you may 'say, "No, thank Q. Is a godmother or god: father supposed to remember the ' ohild's birthday with L] present | each year? A. You are expected to give 'the child a christening present. Any other gifts beyond this de- pends upon how much you think . of the child. Q. Is it proper to use a rub- ber-stamp return address on one's envelopes? A. Inbusiness correspond: ence, this is all right, . Q. By whom should the first 'gesture of friendship be ma by the family of the man or 'the jie} when they have become engaged? A. 'By the family of the man. she caught her hand. * the: thorns. 'At this, one of the cameramen gallantly left his colleagues to help--and thus Date dress by Horwitz and Duberman in Chantilly type lace of Acetate and 'silk. Acetate satin cummerbund tops the very. full : skirt, To you who: read this. column |. Christmas i8 now just a memory. It is with us too--but a more recent one, I promised to: tell you how we fared at Ginger Farm, but first I would like to thank my column triends™Who sent' cards, letters and kindly greetings at the holi- . day' season. It was nice of you to think of us and we do" ap- preciate your-interest and good wishes. It is:things like that, the. little unexpected touch, that gives to Christmas: that warm Christ- massy feeling that is just a little different from any other time of the year. So again I say "thank L- you" for helping to make our --Christmas-- a-happy-oceasion.------ And now back to the big day ~itself. The turkey was sizzling in the oven; the plum pudding bubbling:on the stove; ti.e Christ- mas tree bright. with trimmings and gaily wrapped gifts as I be- gan setting the table for nine, confident that everything was proceeding without a hitch. For this I was extremely thankful as, for several days previous to Christmas an uncomfortable feel- ing had possessed me=-a feeling that things would not be quite as we had: planned.. The thought - bothered me as I couldn't shake, it off. Then as.I set the table laughed at my own fears . . . what was I afraid of--Bob and Joy had been up the night before; Dee had phoned that everything was - all right there -- and the- weather was good, so what had I to-worry about? Then the: tele- phone rang. It was Daughter. My "sister and Klemi would not be coming with them as sister Kath- leen had taken a' chill waiting too long for a'street-car the night before. Not only that but Arthur was having car trouble so they .might be a little late in, getting here. But -I am glad to say, even though the motor boiled, they ar- rived safe and sound. And how they arrived! Bob and Johnny went out' to'help them unload. . There was David: and his baby carriage; shawls, blankets; pres- ents, 'baby. equipment and two : 'halt: -grown kittens in a crate! Families whe own a pet dog often have to take it 'a ong but how many bring a cat, to say nothing of kittens, Too often the poor cat ig left to fend for itself. Finally we all sat down to din- * ner--mdther and) father, son-and . his 'wife, daughter. and' her -hus- band--and- our - grandson, . Also Johnny. Ye, our family. started as'one couple--Partner and my-. self: With the passing of time . Dee and Bob were born, and thus -our children made us' a family Those | same + children grew up and married andiin- creased our family six: Then caine : and iow. we are seven. 'same thing is happening '|. of * four. Davi And the all over Canada, as each family tree, in most cases, grows and grows. Sometimes part of the 5 L root dies, hy younger er 1ooly sub. : vive, givin strength. to the ore nici branches. These are 'reflective thoughts --. thoughts, I must con ess; that were fot much in. evl- i 5 J 1 ounces of: --_-- "dence dyring the family .celebra- * tions = which, I suppose, were much the same as in other famil- ~ies, However, in our case, a few unscheduled : events took . place, the chief of which happened about 8 am. the day after Christmas. Partner and I have .a bedroom downstairs, Dee and Art and the . baby were immediately above us and 'we were all still sleeping. Suddenly 'there was 'a terrifig crash. I waited breathlessly, Had David's carriage-bed fallen off its improvised stand? Was he hurt? I listened for cries, I heard sounds all right, but it wasn't the baby crying, it was D wand Art laughing! "Good Lor . gaid Partner, "that darn bed must - have collapsed." That is just ex- actly what had happened. The bed, a lovely antique, of -the spool variety--a family heir- loom, given to us by a descendant of a pioneer family. This bed had wooden slats, on.top of which, --to give it modern comfort,--we--}- had placed a steel spring and. a coil-spring mattress. Thus it had given us good service for a num- ber of years, But alas, the bed had evidently reached the limit © of endurance, All the nails on one side of the slats gave way. The slats dropped to the floor -- as did the spring, the mattress, and its occupants. As 1 said to Daughter afterwards, it was & mercy it happened after the 'baby was born and not before. The second minor. accident was this morning, At night we always leave a T-watt bulb burning and it gives enough light for.anyone to find their 'way around the house in safety. But light bulbs don't last forever either. This morning it. was burnt out and Partner walked straight into. the sharp edge of an open door. He' now has a bruise and glight cut over. oné eye; giving him the ap- pearance of having celebrated not wisely but too well. Now everything is quiet. Dee and family went home yesterday: In addition to all the bulky stuff they brought with them they 'had equally bulky' presents to take back . . . table, boftle sterilizer, blanket, and 12 a dozen jars of ~ fruit. The kittens were crated / and almost escaped before they How To Save "Money and Get Fast Cough Relief Here's 'an old; tested, home mix ** ture. your ér, knew , . . still a most dependable remedy for dis- - tressing coughs. Fast and effective, children like its pleasant taste. Make a 3 yp by stirring two one cup of water mil disso ved . . « no cooking need- ed (or you can use 8 [aaple syrup, or ed (or instead _ TRATE into "1, ounce' the syrup you've goed bas or four. the you cold octivs HE "the. whole Taggily, Ag PINEX. is EASY To ie Coomst ACTS ECT Modern A modern Robinson Crusoe, who seeks a Stone Age cure from the world's worries, is 33-year-old D civil 'engineer, '"Tavi" Kauffmann. Hard working and ' intelligent, he bids to renounce civilization and spend the rest of his life cut off from all human contact oh a lonely Pacific islet. 1. There, 13,000 miles from Cop- , enhagen's twinkling lights and. cigar-smoking girls, he intends to stone cult circles to worship the -|sun, or indulge in sacrificial rites, : but cling to his own peculiar in- terpretation of Christianity. His name "Tavi" is the Poly- nesian_ substitute for his baptis- mal name; his adoption of it sym- bolizes his renunciation of his European upbringing. It means blood brother of Maui--the leg- endary fisher up of islands from the Pacific's coral-haunted deeps. The young Dane's conversion-to _ Stone Age "simplicities" repre- sents no sudden fanaticism. For eight years, since graduating in engineering science at Copenhag- en University in 1945, he has been working steadily towards his goal. First, he saved up sufficient to emigrate to the U.S.A. In' San Francisco, he savoured modern civilization's "delights" --its speed craziness, cinematic artificiali- ties and press-button comforts-- but found all such diversions devilish, - "The atomic age is bankrupt," 'he announced, "I tremble for its future, Civilized society will he man's ruin, unless he escapes is too late, his true-destined affin- ity with Nature, her works and God-inspired "sublimitiés." ; get sail, with an American friend, 'to discover: a perfect island re- - treat. The two sailed first via the Marquesas to Tahiti; then to the "and is. They lived on coco- nuts, its'and vegetables. The prospect of voluntary ex- ile proved too daunting for Kauff- m~=n's friend. He quit. Undeter- red, the Dane decided to pursue his experiment .lone-handed. Wisely, he set about adapting himself to Pacific Island life be- fore stepping back 2,000 years. SE est request -- "Phone us when you reach home = we would like to know if you arrive safely." The call © came through about three hours later. ar "Robinson Cru: r Our Civilization Is Is "live after the style of his Stone : Age ancestors. He will not set up from it and rediscovers, before it He bought a 26-foot sloop and Cook Islands, the Tongan Group 1-shore--is due to erupt afresh, He reached the 'car, Looking at" the loaded vehicle I made one earn- soe' Cla 'Doomed At "At Suva, the Fijian capital, he heard that Queen Salote"s Gov- . ernment at Tonga needed a con- 'sulting engineer. He took: the job - for ten months; then turned in his - sloop--Queen Salote's own house- hold use it today as their royal barge--and asked that, as reward Lah for his services, he should be allowed to live rent-free and un- ' war '| molested on one of Tonga's unoc- - cupied 150 islets, © The very place for him was found at Hunga, an uninhabited' volcanic islet, about a mile long and a third of a mile wide, some forty miiles from Nukualofa, the Tongan capital. @ aia ; No Tongan ever - visits it, -be~ lieving it haunted by dead and uncharitable spirits--an island of. sulky skulls. And there, as an enthusiastic recluse, this Danish engineer Crusoe went a few weeks ago into lifelong exile, He prepared his new homeland a little in advance, however, per- suading a Tongan agriculturist to. help him plant breadfruit trees on the islet,' 3 'Palm trees grow plentifully, . But because they are commercial- ly valuable and might attract future prospectors, Kauffmann intends to cut them down and leave sufficient only to keep him _ in cocoanuts. His Eden-lacks any fresh water springs, so he must slake his thirst either on cocoanut milk or by collecting rainwater as it trickles through cavern roofs. In these caves, too, he can shelter when hurricanes lash and roar against his. rétreat. Doesn't Want a Wife He has taken thirty books with him, They include the Bible and Spengler's "Decline of the West." Asked if he wanted 'a wife, the young bearded: Dane, a' towering T 'specimen of blue-eyed Nordic : manhood; shook: his head vigor- ously, exclaiming: "Like any seeker after pure truth, I seek first inward peace, not the dis- tractions or allurements which .the battle of the sexes gives to | "modern society." 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