SEAT, REI No De x a A SEES -- v "Dear Anne Hirst: I'd like to question a reader asked lately: 'Why do men today prefer cheap girls?' (It's the second time I've seen such a query in your col- umn), His, "Men who seek out cheap girls are cheap themselves. They pick up the trait from companions they're thrown with," perhaps in the armed forces. They get bored with the life, and some think they can find release in a bottle of booze. It doesn't work out that way, ~ "Too many citizens think servy- ice men are mostly drunkards. Here's one that isn't. I've been in the service 10 years, and 1 haven't found the girl I want to marry yet, Maybe I want too much? "I want a girl who can: cook and keep house, who isn't bad to look at--and not a bar-fly, As for. liquor, 1 hardly touch the stuff. . , , I work in the medical department of the Air Force. SERGEANT" * Not only in the service, but * in all walks of life a man can * pick up traits from those with * whom he associates. The man * of character chooses as his * friends men of the same type; * the weakling with no moral or * intellectual resources follows * where other such men guide * him--and then blames them ¢ for his lapses. * The same rule applies when * men date girls. As you soundly ¢ put it, a cheap man likes cheap | aa Iron-on Designs In Colors Fourteen glorious full-color lilacs in heavenly lavender and green! No embroidery, just iron them on aprons, towels, blouses, pillowcases, sheets, curtains, tablecloths, napkins! So effec- tive, so easy--washable too! Wonderful for gifts! Send now! Pattern 717: Transfer of 14 color motifs from 2% x 9 inches to 1%. x 2 inches. Washable! Send TWENTY-FIVE CENTS in coins (stamps fannot be ac- cepted) for this pattern to Box 1, 123 Eighteenth St, New To- ronto, Ont, Print plainly PAT- TERN NUMBER, your NAME and ADDRESS. Don't miss our Laura Wheeler Needlecraft Catalog!. An excit- ing variety of crochet, embroid- ery, and iron-on color transfer patterns to send for, Plus four complete patterns printed in book. Send 25 cents for your copy today! Gifts and bazaar best sellers? girls. Others (like yourself) accept no such substitute and they refuse to allow the rou- tine of their duties to bore them. While they wait for the right girl they take advantage of the extra studies and de- cent entertainment the service offers, : Stick to your standards, sol- dier. And remember that when you do meet the girl you are secking, you will know how to appreciate her, and she will get a real man. TO YOUNG READERS: Please do not write for this * young man's name or address. * I cannot reveal either, nor can * I forward any letters. FRANTIC YOUNG MOTHER "Dear Anne Hirst: I had a baby, and its father deserted me, Later, I'married a man who * » ress sn srs ene ee'] promised he would be good to my child. . . , He has broken his word in every way there is. He mistreats the child so that the baby is afraid of him. Because of this we quarrel all the time. He has a bad temper, and has even struck me, He never takes me anywhere, either, "The baby was with me at my mother's until I got married. (My parents have been wonder- ful) ... I hoped so much for a good home for both of us, but after seven months of marriage I'm ready to give up. RITA" * Go back to your parents. Your father will find out whether you have grounds for divorce. There seems no future for you and the baby with this man--and of course your first responsibility is toward your little son. He must grow up in a secure home where love abounds. Your mother's home is the only present refuge that can provide that, 3 LJ ® * To Soldiers: If you are walit- ing for the right girl, associate with people who hold the same EDEL EOE ideals; you won't: have to walt $0 long, Anne Hirst served in the first World War and was. the confidante of many a lonely sol- dler overseas. Tell her your troubles, addressing her at Box 1, 123 Eighteenth St., New To- ronto, Ont. They Live To Dance "Living happily on Bali, a love- ly island-paradise in the Dutch East Indies, are some of fhe world's most beautiful women -- the golden-skinned Balinese | dancing girls who have large, dark expressive eyes and thick, black, glossy hair. They and their good-looking menfolk are natural dancers. The slender , graceful Balinese women: with their shapely hands and feet, dance as often as they can. But they also work hard. The Balinese are always cele- brating something, feasting and dancing for hours on end and loving every minute of it. One of their most wonderful dances illustrates the eternal triangle. It is the Demon 'Dance in which a lovely Queen is torn from the hero's admiring side and made captive by a demon, She is rescued through the valour of the man who, dressed to resemble a monkey, fights the demon and dances off triumph- antly with his lovely partner. A year or so ago a company of Balinese dancers and instru- mentalists visited the West, en- chanting audiences in Britain, the United States and elsewhere. The story of the tour, and its preparation -- an undertaking _ of many vicissitudes -- is graphically and beautifully il- lustrated in "Dancing Out of Bali," by Jonh Coast. Combine 1ths. soft butter or margarine, 3{ c. thick jam, 1 ths. lemon juice and, if desired, V4 c. broken nutnieats and divide between 6 greased individual baking dishes. Mix and sift twice, then sift into a bowl, 1 14 c.once-sifted pastry flour (or114c.once-si Magic Baking Powder, 14 fted all-purpose floiir), 3 tsps. tap. salt, 14 tsp. grated nut- meg and ¥{ c. fine granulated sugar. Cut in finely.5 tbs. with chilled shortening. Combine 1 well-beaten egg, 14 c. milk and 14 tsp. vanilla. Make a well in dry ingredients and add liquids; mix lightly, TW xthirda dll prepared ishes tter. Bake in a m oven, 375° about 20 minutes, Turn out 'and serve hot with sauce or cream, Yield =8 servings, = erately hot UPENDED---The sight of her first snow really threw Dianne Brewster after a heavy downfall hit London, England. She 's from Bulwayo, Southern Rhodesia, 20 degrees below. the equatar, where it's always warm. Buried Allve Peter is the cat of the baker- family Pieper, living in Husener Street, in this town in 'Western , Germany, When still a tiny kit. ten, Peter had been found near by, lonely and half starved, Ever since, he has been the family's beloved pet. Recently, however, Peter was missing. Then he was discover- ed lying in the road in a pool of blood, apparently having been run over by a motor-car. Pieper carried his pet to the garden and, carefully laying him underneath a tree, asked his brother Martin to bury the cat next morning, He himself did not feel up to undertaking this sad task. Next morning Peter, still ly- ing unchanged in the same posi- tion, was interred. Martin, not having found a more suitable "coffin," buried him in a card- board box, putting a bouquet of roses on top of the little grave. When the family assembled for luncheon nobody mentioned Peter. The dishes, however, were left untouched on the table, Sadly the six Piepers dis persed to attend to their tasks. A few hours later Martin, "highly excited, appeared. at his brother's bakery shop. "Peter is in the drawing-room," he yelled, "sitting in. his usual place on top of the radio, licking his fur!" Indeed it was so, Nobody knows how long he had. taken to escape from his "grave," but when he dic he settled down comfortably to attend to a plate- ful of milk. Sew-Easy Separates by tne Allows Busy mom, whip up these wardrobe wonders in a jiffy! MIX OR MATCH the boxy jack- et, blouse and suspender-skirtl Make them in colorful corduroy cotton, or wool; tafféta or vel- veteen for Sunday-best. All easy sewing! Pattern 4720: Children's Sizes 2, 4,6 8 10. Size 6 jacket and skirt 8 yards 35-inch nap; blouse 1% yards 36-inch fabric. This pattern easy to use, sim- ple to sew, is tested for fit. Has complete illustrated instructions. Send THIRTY-FIVE CENTS (38¢) in coins (stamps cannot be accepted) for this pattern. Print plainly SIZE, N AD- DRESS, STYLE NUMBER. . LL. Send order to Box 1, '123 Highteenth 8t New .Toroato, Z0iNGERFARM Garndolin While Montreal and Ottawa were digging themselves out of the snowdrifts over the week- end we were experiencing rain, fog. and slippery roads. But then: there is no accounting for the weather these days--all over the world it is as unpredictable as it can be So, in our own locality: I suppose we should at least be thankful when the weather is good and make the best of 'it when it is bad. Any- way, now that we are into the new year there isn't the. same urgency about the things we have to do and get . . . no Christ- mas shopping; no extra special food for the table; no presents to buy. 'And while we couldn't do without Christmas there is something equally nice in get- ting 'back to normal, everyday living conditions, especially when we have nice, warm thoughts in our hearts--about the unexpected kindnesses, and the lovely" cards and letters that came our way during the fes- tive season. At least that is how we: feel at Ginger Farm--and we would be most ungrateful if we felt any other way. And now there are. several months of winter weather ahead. This is the time that used to be spoken of as 'the long winter evenings' -- the 'shut-in time' when the women supposedly got all kinds of work done--sewing, knitting, quilts and hooked rugs. But now, for those who have the health, strength and opportunity of getting out, there isn't any shut- in time at all. Instead it is a period when conventions are popping up all over the place; farm organizations of every kind having their annual get-togeth- er, with delegates attending from every district in Ontario, many of them having reresenta- tives of both sexes. And what will they discuss? Farm problems, of course. Low prices, high production costs, shortage of farm labour, value of increased efficiency, farm management, weed eéradication, the new Dairy Products Act, need for increased world mark- ets, the comparative merits of the Federations of Agriculture and the Farmers Union. There will be discussions as to when, where and why women should take an active part in all these affairs; the value of Farm For- ums, and the need for increased membership; the menace of margarine, the co-operative movement, hospitalization and various other types of insurance, There will be hundreds of meet- ings all told, counting commit- tee meetings and general sess- ions. There will probably be a great number of delegates and' hundreds: of dollars spent on 'meals and accommodation. Some delegates will attend from a sense of duty, maybe at con- siderable inconvenience to them- selves; others = will be only mildly interested. Some will be fired with enthusiasm, lead dis: cussions and make practical, worthwhile suggestions. Others will contribute little to the dis- cussions--and bring away less-- but at least they will have a good time! And what will be the out- come of these conventions? Will the cause of Agriculture be in any way improved as a result of these meetihgs, discussion groups, resolutions and appeals - for improved government legis- lation in various departments? We hope so--but that remains to be seen, It will be hard to as- sess the value of the time and ISSUE 4 -- 1958 +» Meanwhile, as , With his daily chores; looking ~ "Henry - I wish to goodness ' you'd pay attention te what I'm " ages." A .free and evaporates. Once the "wood has had time to dry, iit money spent at these conven. tions unless, and until, we have concrete evidence by way of im- proved markets and a swing to- wards establishing parity prices. @ conventions are taking place the farmer back home will be getting on a after his cattle and taking pride in" their good appearance. His interest is in the welfare of his stock and using to the best ad- vantage the hay and feed stored" for winter feeding. Maybe he spends more time at the barn than he should as there he is conscious of a sense of content- ment in his - work. Then he! comes to the house for dinner, felling at peace with life, After dinner he looks over the papers. He ponders over the intricacies of the Dairy Products Act and realises once again that farming is now big business. It is no longer a way of life, He figures he should stop taking so much - personal interest in his stock, That Bessie heifer, for instance, that he and Mary have babied along since she was born. She should be sent out-- it isn't good business to keep her. There is no room for sentiment on the modern farm. And then he looks up from his paper. Now what's Mary so worked up a- bout, Mary soon lets him know. telling you, Dear knows I've enough to do without you: act- ing so off-hand, you know I'm going ta the convention tomor- row!" i : "And why do you have to go, my dear?" "Henry, don't 'be so exasper- ating! You know I'm a dele- gate and on that panel discus- sion tomorrow. -- "How Home Markets Might be Improved." You'll 'have to help me, Henry --1I still have so much to do. I wish I hadn't said I'd go. But we farm women have to take an interest in these things or we might as 'well be in the dark "Yes," muttered Henry, "but I. guess in the dark ages women didn't have high blood pres- sure." : "Henry . . for goodness sake!" Why Woods Warp 4 In a living tree, the live wood' contains a certain amount of moisture in its fibers. These fibers are like small tubes packed side by side, shrinking or swell ing according to' the amount of moisture present. When a tree ig felled and cut into timber a great deal of moisture is set will retain its shdpe as long as it remains so. Let dampness creep in, however, and the fibers will begin to swell, even in a board or plank that has been dry for many years. . _ Drying a plank properly in the first place is not easy, for one of the difficulties is to get both sides equally dry. If you dampen one side of a thin board and place it near the heat, you will . soon find your piece of wood beginning to curl. That is because the fibers: in one side are shrinking; and as that side contracts, it draws the other side around with it. 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Under the right-to- work laws, passed more recent- 1y no one can be denied employ- ment simply because of non- membership in a union. This, it seems to us, balances out the equation. It leaves up to the worker the question of whether he will join a union .or not. It doesn't please those em- ployers who would prefer not to have any unions and it does- n't please those unions that - would like to make every work- er join, -- Arizona (Phoenix) Republic, Saat ' six hundred feet tall have beea found 4n the ocean at the south- This' ern tip 01 South America. height is greater than that of the tallest trees in the world-- the giant uoia trees of Cal- ifornia and American ones. One giant euca- lyptus, measured after it had fallen, was 500 feet high. A glant sequoia tree 'called ' the Father of the Forest must have been 400 feet nigh at the time of its fall. By way of compar- ison, the height of the Statute of Liberty in the harbor of New -York may help us to realize what monsters the giant sea. weeds are, The top of the torch that Liberty bears aloft is just a little more than three hundred feet above the water line. DIDN'T UNDERSTAND ,. Hostess. -- "Mary, will you have a. second helping of ice cream?" : ot Mary -- "Well; Mother th me I must say 'No, thank you,' but I don't think she knew how small the helpings would be." . . yummy! Chelsea Bun Loaf ~ Atreat you can make easily with new Active DRY Yeast Now you have Fleischmann's * Active Dry Yeast, forget about the old time hazards of yeast baking! Always at hand -- always full-strength and fast rising! Keep a month's supply * in your cupboard! Make this delicious Chelsea Bun Loaf -- cut in slices for buttering, oe separate the buns. ~ ROUND TRIP, FOR AS LITTLE AS © $280 Ld Yeast. 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