LE THEN GLA AR TELE, GRA INS VERA L AL ET Wy : AN EN MY, " . . . 5 - rev (ad Aa 3A ig NE EST | "Déar Anne.Hirst: I am-a be- wildered and unhappy fiancee because for nearly a year I have kept' my man. waiting. I am afraid to jnarry him, My mothet is badly handicapped, besides being one spoiled woman, and she would have to live with us, for I cannot pay board for her elsewhere, "She has always objected to any man I knew bécause she hates the idea of my marrying. My fiance is patient and. wond- erfully kind, but she doesn't get along well with him and I know it is mainly her fault. Wouldn't it' be harder for him after we marry? I really am frightened at the prospect. "I must take that though, or end my engagement. We love each other deeply, but I can't ask him to wait any longer. (He is 31 and I'm 26.) He insists we shall all manage somehow, but have I.the right to expose him daily to my mo- . ~ther's irritating ways and her foolish whims? I value your opinion, so please give it. ' IN LOVE BUT AFRAID" * Your fiance is old enough to ® see your mother as she is yet * so eager to marry that he is * unafraid of the consequences. Crochet in Color! by Ceuns Wheld New beauty for your home! Crochet these modern leaf-de- sign doilies in two glowing col- ors! Easy to do -- look so love- ly! - Pattern 861: Crocheted. doilies in modern leaf-design. Larger size 162 inches, smaller 111. Use crochet and knitting cotton. Send TWENTY-FIVE CENTS in coins (stamps cannot be ac- cepted) for this pattern to Box 1, 123 Eighteenth St., New Tor- onto, Ont.. Print plainly PAT- TERN NUMBER, your NAME and ADDRESS. LOOK FOR smartest ideas in Needlecraft in our Laura Wheeler Catalog for 1955. Cro- chet, knitting, embroidery and . lovely. things to wear. Iron-ons, quilts, aprons, novelties -- easy, fun to_make! Send 25 cents for our "copy of. this book NOW| ou will want to order every new design in it. chance, - EAI IE SIE SEE SEER IE A A SP PAPA FAA hy * Why not go ahead? He would not offer her a home unless he believed you three could live agreeably together. 'I suggest 'that you tell your mother you have fixed #our wedding date. When she sees your marriage is inevitable, she will reconcile herself to it, Self-centered as she is, she should be grateful you have found someone to love you and take care of you. In tly circumstances, I think you have the right to ask Ner to be more: tolerant toward him. In planning your living ar- rangements, provide a pleasant room for her, furnishing it like a sitting-room with her books and radio. When you . are settled, encourage her friends to drop in often, and otherwise see that she finds other interests than -herself. After a while, you may find a private family living nearby who 'carn give her the little care she needs; many people are glad to .add to their: in- come this way. Neither of these suggestions is ideal, of course, yet how else can you marry at all? Your fignce wants a home of his own, and he does not -want to move into your mother's house. Go along with the idea things will work out well, If each of you will be a little more thoughtful and charit- able, you will probably find that the trouble you antici- pate will not develop. - Ll LJ MOTHER IS RIGHT "Dear Anne Hirst: I am 15, and am in love with a boy whom I've been going with for eight months. I have found out now' that he has a bad reputation and comes from a questionable fami- ly, so Mother wants me to break up with: him soon. "I met another boy some the ago, a nice one whose people are respected. He's in the Navy now and will return in Septem- - ber; Mother wants me to go out with him then and drop the one I care for. What should I do? } MISERABLE" * I go even further than your * mother. Break up with this * boy at once, making -any ex- * cuse you please. At 15, you * evidently do not realize how * vital ta your social life is your * good name; if you keep on * dating this' young man you * cannot help but share his * reputation, and that might * take a long, long time to live * down. After you send him * away, dafé any boy your * family approves. * "If you let your feeling for * your present beau overcome * your - judgment, how do you * know the Navy lad will want * to date you when he comes * home next month? A well- * born young man with the * right instincts selects nice girls * to take out, and if this one * learns of your association with * your friend he and his people * might pass you up entirely. * Be smart. * Ld EL Inviting an older relative to' 'share your home is mever a _ 'welcome idea, yet if it must be done there are emotional - adjustments which intelligent people make that can prevent anticipated discord. Ann Hirst has practical ideas which will be useful. Write her at Box 1, 123 Eighteenth St.,, New Toron- to, Ont. * then" attempt and take it for granted that | - or may not send a gift, as you Modern Etiquette By Roberta Lee Q. What should I do. at the dinner table if someone asks me J a question just as I am convey-~ ing a bite of food towards my mouth? i : A. Most certainly "don't pu the food into your mouth and to answér the question. It is much better to return the fork to your plate, answer the question, and then resume eating. Q. If the bride is being mar- ried in a traveling dress, what should the bridegroom wear? A. An ordinary business suit, or one that is appropriate for traveling, with perhaps a little white flower from the bride's corsage in his lapel. Q. Should a woman walk on a short distance, or should she wait with her escort while he pays the taxi fare? "A. She should wait with her escort. : Q.. At an engagement an- nouncement party, who gives the toast? - A. The father or a male rela- tive of the girl should rise to propose her health and that of her fiance. It would be nice for the father to say, "To the health and happiness of my daughter, Mary, and to my future son, Bob." : Q. When one is smoking at the table in -a restaurant, and FASHION STEPS OFF IN STYLE WITH D 7 + all ah ' DO-IT-YOURSELF FASHIO O - IT - YOURSELF KITS a NS -- Paris, long jealous of her secrets when it comes t6 high fashion, has at last succumbed to the do-it-yourself trend. Material for each ensemble, pictured above, comes precut, together with trimmings and patterns. Styles, from left: Woolen coat with deep shawl collar and "flapper . wrap" silhouette; horizontally striped wool coat - dress "with matching stole; half-belted tweed greatcoat with high-buttoned, pointed collar. there is no ashtray, is it all right to use a plate or saucer for the ashes? A... Only an ill-bred person would do this. It is much bet- ter to ask the waiter or waitress for an ashtray. Q. It is necessary for a' ber- eaved person to return all calls of condolence? : : A. Noj this is neither required - nor expected. Q. Is one obligated to send a wedding gift to a friend who is marrying for the second time, if one sent a gift for the. first _ marriage? : A. This is optional; you may wish, : 0. Is it prover to drink part of the coffee with the spoon, es- peciallv if it is very hot? ; A. No; the "spoons should be | used only for stirring, and then it:is placed in the saucer and re- mains there, LOTS OF PLUCK" -- Cathy Mc- Cartney, 4, plucks a tune on a huge banjo at a music industry trade show, where news of na- tional revival of interest in the banjo made sweet music to the instrument makers' ears. 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One day; say the "scientists, the sun will J: "regularly supply us with all the - > energy we need. Its rays could drive every ma- chine in the world, heat every building, light every house -- and still leave a surplus of en- ergy. Says one expert: "Your house will then be warm in winter, thanks 'to conservation of the sun's rays, and cool in summer --comfortable all the year round but without the dirt or cost of stoves, furnaces or expensive re- frigerating apparatus." Ensnaring- the sun's rays and' putting them to work, howéver, is a formidable task which may not be fully accomplished until long after the year 2,000. But already "solar houses" have been built in various parts of the world. At one Massachusetts, scientists = have "found a way to store energy "from the sun in an enormous at- tic tank which holds 1,200 gal- lons of water. : How is it done? The sun's rays are ingeniously trapped by a huge black metal sheet, or plate, installed on the roof and facing south at an angle of 57 degrees. This plate has a number of cop- per tubes attached to it through which the sun-warmed water flows tc the insulated tank. The * water 15 then circulated through a séries of other pipes incorporated in room ceilings throughout , the house which is thus comfortably warmed. If is claimed that the house can be kept at a temperature of G0 degrees Fahrenheit at all times. Blonde, attractive Dr. Maria Telkes, a Hungarian scientist, who also lives in Massachusetts, set out in 1949 ot prove that it is possible "to live in a house without coal, gas, electricity or any other source of heat but thei sun, She built a modern-style cot-" tage, but features that differed from the conventional home in- cluded a shed-like roof and a south wall Consisting mainly of small windows. vz She trapped the sun's rays by a_device built in just above the windows, carrying them' by a circulator to 'a series of "heat bins" in the cellar. These bins she filled with a cheap chemi- cal." The incoming heat melted the chemical. And as it solidified again the obliging chemical gave off heat which was distributed by fans and ducts. all over the house, - On the winter day. she moved in, Dr, Telkes recorded these temperatures: outdoors, "49 de- grees; indoors, '71 degrees. The: least pain in our little finger gives us "more concern and uneasiness, than the de- struction of millions of our fel- low-beings, --WILLIAM HAZLITT in Cambridge,' 7GiNGER FARM ~ There has to be a first time for everything and last week we had it. That is -to say for five days we had the privilege of taking care of our grandson without the help of his parents. Daughter was away to. camp with her troop of Girl Guides and Art was busy on the trans- portation end of the affair. So . . . we had Dave. He was asleep in his cot in our room when his parents left and we wondered - what the reaction would be the . next morning. We need not have worried. Dave accepted the sits - "hation 'and took everything in his stride. : ; It was very hot and humid . as if I need to tell you... so. we decided that for once in his life Dave could go without shoes and socks as his mother did when she,was young. The lawn was hard and dry and we wondered if his feet would be too tender to stand it. But they did. Part of the time Grandpa was walk..- Dave, nearby, amused himself by getting in and_out of a small wash=tub into which Partner had poured a pail of water. The supply didn't last {oo long as Dave got a couple of tobacco tins and busily baled it. out. It didn't matter. how wet he got as his clothing was re- ~ duced to a pair of training pants. Poor little chap -- he usually settles: down so well at night but for several nights there wasn't a breath of air and he was naturally restless. So on two occasidns I took him out of: his cot and-we sat on the front steps together to cool off. After that IT put him back in his cot .and he went right ff to sleep. Strange. how children will find their own favourite playthings. My little two-year-old niece in England' has lovely toys but her pet plaything was a small jar half filled with mixed buttons. She never tired of tipping them - out and picking them-up-again. Dave's mania was to see how many stones he could pick up off the driveway. Every time he came into the house one chubby little hand would be grasping a fair-size stone--and» woe be- tide us if we tried to take it away! A set of farm animals was another joy--two horses, two cows, a pig and a sheep. He sat in his high chair and played with them and at meal-time the animals had to be fed as well as Dave, We made it a rule that the animals mfst be put back in their box when he went to bed, with the exception' of .one. He was allowed to take either the pig or the sheep with him, firm- ly grasped in his wee hand. Of. course our' supremacy as caretakers ended when Mummy and Dad appeared on the scene. At. that age--not quite two-- grandparents just don't count if the parents are around. So for that reason we were glad to have Davey to ourselves and to know that we could manage him with- out any trouble should an emer- gency arise. Of course. when a child is in a strange place con- stant vigilance is necessary. So when I was busy: in ithe house grandpa took over. We couldn't just put Dave outside and leave him to amuse himself, There was always the chance he might wander off to the road or be busy picking up stones in the lane when a car drove-in. Now we have a new job on our hands . . . breaking in another building a stone garden ° Saas ty hm Ae ZARA EAT Grease cookie sheets. Preheat oven to 350° Thea iy he 4 Apter 7 VTE (moderate). : Mix and sift twice 214 c. once-sifted pastry flour (or 24 c. onge-sifted all-purpose flour), 2 tsps. Magic Bak- ., ing Powder and }4 tsp. salt. Cream ¥{ c. buttér or mar- " garine and gradually blend in 134 c. li htly-packed brown sugar; add 2"well-beaten eggs 1 - beating well after edch addition; mix in 3{ tsp. vanilla and '3{ ¢; chopped pecans. Add flour mix- a) ture to creamed mixture part at a time, B® combining thoroughly after each addition. Drop dough by spoonfuls, well apart; on prepared cookie sheets; flatten with the floured tines of a fork. Bake in pre-heated oven 10 to 12 minutes. Remove from pan immediately. Yield --6 dozen cookies. opin 4 Fi 'Dependable at a time, dog--actually an eight-months- old puppy--partly German Shep- Jherd breed. Robbie, our Welsh Corgi, is a nice little house dog but as a watch-dog he doesn't amount to. much and we have the idea that a good guard dog on a farm is a necessity these days. Rusty the Second is that all right but he needs quite a bit of training, So far he has only" to bark 'and people - keep their distance. We had a "Rusty" once before so this dog has to be Rusty the Second. Robbie, of course, is. frightfully jealous but bl the cats don't mind him at' all. . In fact Partner said he wit- nessed the funniest thing last night he has seen for a long time. Rusty and Robbie were having 'a wrestling match out- side, half playing, half fighting with a good deal of growling mixed in. Black Cat Joe was sit- ting on top of the woodpile look- ing on. All at once Joe raced 3] v 'over to the dogs, jumped in be- ° tween them and broke it up. The dogs «were so surprised they stopped immediately, Then Re- feree Joe calmly walked away - and went back to the woodpile! Well, I really think this is the happiest morning since my re-. turn from England -- and only "because it is pleasantly cool, In the Old Country I was never warm enough but I can certainly take the cool weather better than the heat, especially when it goes on- day "after day. It is exhaus- ting to say the least. Sometimes I think there should 'be a law against working in temperatures over 90 degrees. Who was it said -- "Only mad dogs and Englishmen lie out in the mid- day sun."--or words to that effect. Here's hoping we don't get another heat wave for a little while. Some jobs are quite impossible in hot weather. 4670 14V2---24% | WAG Want something new and pret- ty? Sew this in a jiffy! It's proportioned to fit-the shorter, fuller figure -- no alteration worries! Simple, slimming lines with a collar; pocket flaps that can match or contrast with the dress. Have it with or without sleeves! # - rege Pattern 4670: Half Sizes 14%, "SYSTEMATIC She was in bed and her hus- band was making her a cup of tea. "I can't find the tea," he called out. 5 i "I don't_know._what could be. easier to find," she.' answered. "It's right in front on the pan- try shelf--in a cocoa tin marked matches." : 16%, 181%, 2012, 221%, 24%, Size 16% takes 4% yards 35-inch. This pattern easy to use, sim- ple to sew, is tested for fit. Has complete illustrated instructions. Send THIRTY-FIVE CENTS (35¢) in coins (stamps cannot be "accepted) for this pattern. Print - plainly SIZE, NAME, ADDRESS and STYLE NUMBER. : Send order to Box 1, 123 Eigh- teenth St, New Toronto, Ont. HOT ROLLS couble-quick? with wonderful new fast-acting DRY. YEAST! 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