Woh wildy Saal re ¥ 5 ad, 3 § ty -y $ 4 ss JAANE SN : 3, \ ; HOR LATIEG ICHT AC FA Ra al eat vit STEAR T §38, ADA aN sa pide x ~ ¥ (AN -- £ HIRST Your Family Couns "Dear Anne Hirst: This winter I plan to marry a young man I've been engaged to for nearly a year, but as the time approach: es I am realizing how different our concepts of married life are. Don't" misunderstand me -- 1 don't doubt his love, and we have wonderful times together. But marriage should mean more than that. "I've known that he likes to drink too much now and then. I've also seen how close he is to his men friends, even break- ing our dates to play cards with them. They are all single, and I'm wondering whether, as his wife, I'd spend mgre evenings waiting for him to ww me home. That isn't my {dea of being married. . "l want a home with him, not without him. 1 love children, and I want mine to have a father they grow up with, He and I have had few evenings to discuss things that matter -- planning our house, talking about his business affairs, and the intimate "give-and-take of two peopde who expect to spend the rest of time under one roof. Most evenings we've been at parties or shows, always on the go (his choice, not mine), and without that communion of spirit on which a sound marriage should be built. We don't even go to church together. . . . In other words, I see how little we 'New "Needle Art" by Counce Wheel "Paint" a colorful picture with needle and wool -- fascinating hobby! Simplest stitches form this lovely scene of woodland life. Pattern 737: Transfer of pic- ture 15x 19% inches; color chart and directions. Very easy to do, 'using wool or six-strand cotton. Send TWENTY-FIVE CENTS (stamps cannot be accepted; use postal note for safety) for this pattern to LAURA WHEELER, 123 Eighteenth St., New Toronto, Ont. Print plainly PATTERN NUMBER, your NAME and AD- DRESS. Our gift to you -- .derful patterns for yourself, your home - printed in our Laura Wheeler Needlecraft book for 1956! Dozens of' other new designs to order -- crochet, knit- ting, embroidery, iron-ons, no- velties. Send 25 cents for your copy of this book NOW -- with gift patterns printed in it! two won- .else have in common, and -1 am un- easy. . t "He declares if .I. don't marry him he doesn't want anybody . Is there anything I can do to arouse his love for a real home life? Do you think I can find it with him? ' FRIGHTENED" DANGER SIGNS * It is not necessary that a " man and his girl have every- thing in common, but to marry one whose pattern of living is so opposed to your own is to start a battle of tempera- ments that could well lead to disaster. Your picture of mar- riage is sharing a home with your husband, raising a fam- ily and making that home the centre of your life and theirs. There must be love, of course, but love alone cannot guar- antee a good life for either of you. If your fiance expects to continue finding his pleasure mingling with his men friends, you two would be in conflict from the start, What you want is content- ment within your own walls, a spiritual companionship, a sense of well-being based on just being together. fer so widely that you haven't anythinig in common but a physical love? * Gather up your courage and find out whether he intends to be a part-time husband whose hqme is a place to eat and sleep, or if he is willing to give up play- ing at life and follow the de- sign of mature couples who find their reward in a rich family relationship for them- selves and their children. If two people have not some mutual interests and do not en- joy spending their leisure to- gether, marriage soon becomes an impossible farce. It is for your fiance to decide which type of home you will have. SHE MISSES HIM "Dear Anne Hirst: I'm afraid I've lost my boy friend. Some- how he got the idea I wanted to go steady; he didn't, so we part- ed. I sec him often, though. He doesn't avoid me, but. miss him so! "I'd be thankful if you would tell me how I can find out if he still likes me, and how to get him back. I know he doesn't go out much with any other girl. "There are two other boys that want to date me. Shall 1 accept their offer? } LONESOME" * Girls your age have lots * more fun and are more popu- * lar if they don't give the im- * pression they want to mon- * opolize all a boy's time. Boys *-in their teens aren't ready to * settle down and they resent * possessiveness, so the girl who * seems too eager puts them on * the spot. Keep in mind: that * it is his place to suggest go- * ing steady, and you'll save * yourself -- and your beau -- * a lot of misunderstanding. - - * * Ld LJ . + * Ll - LE JE EE SEE NE JE ONE Se SEE EE TEE EE RE TE ER SN JS SP SU 4 6 8 + 4 8 FRB ee Eee CN This boy may grow interest- ed again when he sees you go- ing around with the other two. Be smart and do that. If he should call you, have a con- venient engagement that even- ing, and hereafter let him real- ize he is just one of several friends. Otherwise, I'm afraid you'll not have him take you out again. N Ll * . Marriage is not for adolescents whose happiness consists of good times. It is for grownups ready to settle down and share the richest experience life holds for any of us. Anne Hirst will give you her opinion on your prob- lem if you write her at Box 1, 123 Eighteenth St., New Toronto, Ont. 1) CRAZY GOLF-IT'S COOL, MAN--A white putting green calls for an orange golf ball. Barrow, Alaska, the "ball" is a real orange. At an Arctic jce pack north of Point Chief Warrant Officer William C. Crews lines up an iron shot, right, as caddy John W. Ledger looks away. The sailors are with the Navy icebreaker Atka, participating in the resupply of the Distant Early Waming radar network, which st etches across the top of North America, y SF A PAA pet Roy io Wie hoot ntl ERIN $A Pi a LR 71) "Can it be that you two dit- Found Big Emerald Inside A Fish When a haddock wés cut open in a fishing boat off Wick, Caith- ness, recently, a 1943 three-penny bit was found, - The finder said he would keep it as a mascot for the rest of his life. Many seamen believe that any- ° thing found in a fish is lucky. A bass caught off the Devon coast in 1939 certainly brought luck to a holiday-making angler. He and his wife decided 'to have it for. supper and while prepar- ing it he found a large emerald 'in its gullet, ' It proved to be part of the pro- ceeds of a robbery, How the emerald got into the fish's gullet was never discovered, but the finder pocketed the $250 reward which had been offered several years before for its recovery. When a Grimsby trawler reached port in 1923, a fisherman named Blyth proudly exhibited a sovereign which he had found inside a codfish caught 160 miles from Spurn Head. It bore the date 1915 and appeared to have been battered by the force of an explosion which apparently blew up an unknown ship dur- ing the first world war. It was believed that the sov- ereign was gulped by the cod as it went shimmering into the depths of the sea. 'Cod are very greedy and will swallow anything bright. In the Gulf of St. Lawrence a fisher- man found an emerald brooch in a large cod. A Kingston shop- keeper's assistant found a gold wedding ring in the mouth of a cod bought at the Billingsgate Market in London. Another gold ring was found inside a 7 Ib. cod landed at Whit- by. A jeweller who examined it* said it was of the design known as the lover's knot which was very popular forty years ago. In Boyne City, Mhicigan, Mrs. H. Robinson could hardly believe her eyes when she cut open a fish and found inside the ear- ring she had lost two years pre- viously at a fish hatchery. A small shark landed off the North American coast was found to contain a handbag in which were four English sovereigns, six shillings, four: United States dol- - lars and a love:letter, The writer of the love-letter was eventually traced. He . had - written it twenty years previously and had been married happily for fifteen years -- but not*to the woman to whom he had sent the love- letter! 22 NEW PRINTED PATTERN EASIER-FASTER MORE ACCURATE ~¥_~4810 if WAIST 4 2-30" PRINTED PATTERN Our new PRINTED PATTERN -- beginner-simple to use! Even a sewing novice can make this skirt in little time. Flattering sheath silhouette takes just ONE yard 54-inch' fabric! So thrifty -- make several for vour fall wardrobe! » 'Printed Pattern 4810: Misses' Walists 24, 25, 26, 28, 30 inches. All given sizes: 1 yard 54-inch. Directions printed on each tis- sue pattern part. Easy-to-use, accurate, assures perfect fit. Send THIRTY-FIVE CENTS (stamps cannot be accepted, use postal note for safety) for this pattern, Print plainly SIZE, NAME, ADDRESS, STYLE NUMBER. . Send order to ANNE ADAMS, 123 Eighteenth St, New Toronto, Ont, ISSUE 42 -- 1956 # and cared less. BAWLING AND BOREDOM AT BABY SHOWS -- Baby these tykes, .above. Left, one-year-old James Bonfilia starts to cry after winning the smile contest. Coming to the aid of the chagrined grin king are Jose Donna Dupont, 17 months. Right, this toddler saw little of a ba At least the adults were attentive. ad shows engender the oddest reactions from. h Whalen, 11 months, and y show in London, England, 0 I am very happy io say there. was quite a lot of threshing done in this district during the latter part of last week. It is not finished by a long way but gress. Here's hoping the' wea- ther stays fine so that all tar- their suring crop. It was also good weather for the wind-up of the C.N.E. From all accounts: it was a very good show but 1 cannot speak from cxperience as this was one time we did not go--thmre semed so many other things this year to take-up our " attention--business affairs, itors coming and going, peaches, VIS= though we are no longer en- "gaged 1 furming on a full time basis there is still plenty to do. Perhaps and 'do more nn other ways. And it may be we are learning more about our own locality. .As 0 that how will do any of us know the district in which" we live? 1 was wondering this the other: day when | was looking for peaches --and there wasn't a peach in town. Knowing this a friend said 10 me--"Why don't {ou get peaches from the S ... farm --they have lovely fruit!" That was news (o me although the S .. farm is only about six or seven miles from here and they have been growing orch- ard fruits for quite a number of years. So there you are, good fruit right in our own neighbourhood and 1 didn't know it. But I do know quite a lot of folk are still driving all the way to the Niagara fruit belt just to get a few bas- kets of peaches, That is only one example but enough to prove that it might be worth too, we cece _quiries and explore the pos- sibilities of our own district be- fore travelling farther afield, Of wourse it didn't take me long tn spread the good peach news «ound in our own im- mediate family. As a result Bob ard Jov came up and we. went at least there was a littl» pro- . mers can salvage what's left of pickles and fixing fences. Even | our while to make a few in- INGERFARM Gwendoline P.Clathke after more peaches. But it wasn't a straight trip there and back --not with Bob driving! We . climbed the "mountain" by one road and came down by an- other. If .it could be called a road. 'To be it was more like a rocky winding trail through ~ the bush. Of course the view was magnificent--the view al- ways is from practically = in- accessible places. At the foot of the hills we found many isol- ated ranch-type houses among the shelter of the trees. Very nice, especially in sum- mer--:{ that is what a person likes. 'But in winter . . . I took one look and had visions - of snow-filled roads with no ac- cess to civilization- except by car--and how would a car get through on roads? Supposing provisions ran low--or worse someone . was 'suddeniy taken ill? People seem to go to such extremes in choosing a place to live. Surely there is -a happy medium be- tween bving in a congested sub- division and away out in some neck of the woods? However, it | is a case of everyone to his taste, | suppose. Come to think of it 1 visited one family last week svho had found the happy mediurn It gvas a farm house, well hidden from the road and yet only the distance of the farm ane stood between the occupants and a very busy- two-lane highway, well serviced by buses running north and south, . It was a W.L_ meeting that took me to this very nice coun- try. home and it was one of the best meetings I. ever attended. .},---Good because the members were so alert to the important part of W.I. work and also to affairs pertaining to. country women as a whole, This was evident by the intelligent discussion of re- solutions sent in from the Dis- trict area pending their pre- sentaticn at the forthtoming Convention. The pros and cons - of every resolution were con- sidered in detail, and the: dis- cussion which arose 'was most enlightening, Another thing I liked . . . evidently a few min- utes at every meeting is given over to studying the Institute Handbook. That is a wonderful idea, Too many members have only a hazy idea of what lies between .the covers of that most . a. built seldom-travelled - x important little book--until they are {called on to take office. Then it is more than likely the incoming president or secretary gets in a panic and studies the book from beginning to end. " But however much she studies, she cannot, in one gulp, gain the same amount of knowledge from the book that she would have done had it been taken in small doses over a period of years, . Maybe . the W.L Hand- book should carry an additional slogan besides "For Home and Country", Perhaps is should carry the advise--"This book to be read, marked and inwardly digested--by easy stages." By the way, how are all the television fans liking the new Channel 6? We are absolutely disgusted, ; With, Channel 9 we got a marvellous reception. With Channel 6 it is painful to watch - most of the time, It is partic- ularly annoying because CBLT has always been our favourite station. Now the poor reception is driving us to Buffalo, } Make Her Laugh -- And Win $5,000 Had a good laugh lately? If 50, you ought to be feeling pretty, fit. - Laughter's not only a tine!" ener according to an expert who .has conductéd exhaustive re- search into the value of laughter. So serious is a Paris professor about this laughter business that he has been glving lessons on how to laugh. First he gets his "pupils" -- mainly tired business men and women -- to relax.' Then he plays a laughing record on a gramophone and soon every- body is laughing. If*people would only exchange more jokes and have more fun in all they do, misunderstandings would vanish from the world, thinks Mr. George Lewis, chief of The National Laughter Foun- dation. What is laughter? Take a deep breath and read this ancient technical description: "It's a spasmodic movement of various muscles of the body beginning with those which half close the eyes and those which draw back- wards and upwards the sides of the mouth and then open it to expose the teeth, next affecting those of respiration so as to pro- duce short, rapidly succeeding expirations accompanid by sound. . . ." So now you know! A small outcast trib of Ceylon, known as the Veddas, never laugh. When asked why, they reply: "What is there to laugh at?" A sum of $5,000 was once of- fered to anybody who could make a certain woman laugh. Hundreds of people tried : to vainly cracking jokes. She list- ened with a serious face to lead- ing New York comedians wise- cracking -- and never even smiled, Nobody won the prize. The. reason?. Because she was incap- able of laughter.; Her facia) muscles had been paralyzed ever since she was & girl. Q. 1 have a figured lamp wish te place in front of a pic- . ture window. Should it face to-. ward the living reom or the outside? A. The decoration should fac the living room. ' Dilferent | nwterenr ! Add sparkle to any meal or snack with delicious Bran Gems, generously spread with 'fresh butter! Easy to make? Always . .. when you use. dependable Fleischmann's Active Dry Yeast for your home baking! 1. Scald Va cup milk Stir in ' : V3 cup shortening "Va cup granulated sugar 1%/2 teaspoons salt 1V2 cups bran flakes Cool to lukewarm. Stir In sugar Sprinkle with contents of 2 envelopes ) " Flelschmann's Active Dry Yeas? a well, Stir In bran mixture gpd 1 well-beaten ogy 1a cups once-sified _ all-purpose flour 2. Meantime, measure into bow! 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