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Hie tar adm lm K RENE 4 AY RT SASSILE a ------ (ANNE Family HIRST Gounselor "Dear Anne Hirst: I am 60 vears old, and a recent pathetic letter you printed touches me. I did the same thing that woman Aid, married just to say I had a husband. 1 loved another man, as she does, and someone stole him from me, but to this day when I see him my heart beats faster-. . . I was lucky. My hus- band turned out to be a fine man, and for years I prayed to God to make me Jove him as he de- Serves. "Heshas been a good husband and father. Never goes anywhere without me, works every day, doesn't drink, turns in his pay and never asks where the money went. During the depression he was out of work five years; 1 did housecleaning to make a few dollars® and 1 have raised six wonderful children | A few times TI was tempted to leave, but I stayed for the children's sake, because they and their fa- ther loved cach other so. "Now we have a country home. and we've helped all the c¢hil- dren to own theirs. I've been repard a dozen times by them all, and thanks to God, I've got everything 1 ever wished for. "My last wish was for my hus- band to consent to take my mo- ther (age "83) into our home when my father passed away two months ago. She is with us now, and my husband even built in a private bathroom for her I Tove him more than T thought 1 ever could. 1 can forget the other mian; we will meet in the next world if it is to be. - "I"m still thinking of that other reader's temptation. I hate to see the mother of three children let them lose their father. Ruin a good man's life? Oh no! If she leaves him, it is she who will pay for it. T wish I' could write her, but she didn't sign her name. Maybe you can make a short letter to her out of this Eveirv word is true. EXPERIENCE" How T wish 1 could print every word of vour letter! Looking back over your tem- tented woman. today because in the hours of temptation vou put, your personal desires be- hind you and thought first of your T.et us hope that the wife vou warn will profit by vour strength and stay where she belongs. You and I know of no sub- stitutes for goodness. To ac- cept the duly that brings heartaches with it, to remem- ber the vow "till dedth do us part," vou drew upon that well of courage that lies within us all. You deliberately chose the rough road which the Golden Rule demands. Now you have vour reward. . ». » 1 * LJ . Ll] * * . - . . » . Ll] * ». » * . * » * Because of his inherent good- Decorative Basket Elegant centrepiece to ill with fruit-lowers, "Swan" basket js timple crochet; pineapples alter- nating with shell stitch give the lovely feather-effect. Pattern 624: Crochet directions ~for 11-inch basket, in heavy 4- © ply Jiffy cotton, Starch stiffly. Send TWENTY-FIVE CENTS (stamps cannot be accepted; use postal note for safety) for this pattern to LAURA WHEELER, 123 Eighteenth St., New Toron- to, Ont. Print plainly PATTERN NUMBER, vour NAME and AD- DRESS. Our gift to you -- two won- derful patterns for yourself, your home ~- printed in our Laura Wheeler Needlecraft Book . Plus dozens of other new de- #lgns to order -- crochet, knit- embroidery, iron-ons, no- veltles. Send 25 cents for your copy of this book NOW -- with glft patterns printed in it! : pestuous life, vou are a con- | vi | q husband and the children. ® ness, today you love your hus- band with all your heart, Your children have brought you honor and joy, your mother shares your contentment. Your little world -is well arranged, and it is you who can take the credit for it. If you had lis- tened to your heart, two homes would have been destroyed and more than one person have paid for your action, Once more I am reminded of the potver that lies in the hands of a woman. You have used yours for the good of others. I salute vou. . . . MARRY HIM AGAIN? 2 "Dear Anne Hirst: 1 expect this problem is new to you ... Two vears ago | divorced my hus- band and he married again. Now he is getting a divorce from his second wife, and he wants me to remarry him. "I still love the man, and Um afraid 1 always will in spite of the trouble we went | through. But would those same bid argu- ments repeat themselves? "What would vou advise me to LAE EE EE SE JE EE EE TEE NEE SS NY do" i MoE You do not say why vou di- " vorced vour husband. If vou have reason to think he would be more-matyre than he was, it now, vou have sound reason to consider the idea. See him for a while after his divorce is final, and learn what kind of man he is today. After a separation, two people are apt to dorget the bitterness that parted them and recall only" the happy times they had together. It seems to me, though, that a reasonable per- iod of rediscovering each other is inorder. He may "have understood how much he really cared for vou only after hge married again, and asks another chance because he believes now he can make you really content. Since vou still love him. von are more than willing to for- get the past and make a new start--but this time go slow, and be very sure before vou corcent to marry him. o " LEE EE TE TE TE ETE ET SS SS SY 3» * 2 2 2 2 0% 3 + 3 ® Help other readers by writing Anne Hirst how you conquered situations that seemed hopeless.. Your experience will inspire hope and courage in others facing the same, problem. Address. Anne Hirst, Box 1, 123 Eighteenth St. New Toronto, Ont. Modern Etiquette . . . Q. How long should a wedding ring be worn after the husband has passed away? A. A widow continues to wear the wedding ring during lifetime, v=" < she becomes en- gaged" to «va second lime. Following t.: announcement of her engagement, she ceases to wear her first wedding ring. Q. When writing a letter or note tg a brother and sister, may one address (l.2 envelope, "Miss Mary Morgan and Brother?" A. Never. The envelope should be addressed either to the sister or the brother, but never to both. Q. When a young girl is intro- ducing her sister to a person, should she call her sister "Miss Harris?" A. No. She should merely say, "Mrs. Carter, this is mv sister, Jovee" : Q. Is it proper for a married woman to use her maiden name as a middle name after she is married? A. Yes, this iz the established custom. In other words, after Jovee Margaret Reynolds mar- ries William Henry Lyons, she then becomes Jovee Revnolds Lyons Q. When a man and "girl are dining in public and another couple stops at their table for a few words, should the man and girl rise? A. The man rise remains seated. : QO. Is it prover to tin the pian- Ist in a hoted cocktail lounge if <. but the girl you have requested a certain song? A. Tt is part of the pianist's job to play request numbers, and ordinarily no tip is expected. However, if one person asks for a number of selections, then he shonld give some kind of tip. QO. If "one is but slightly ac- quainted with a bride and bride- groom, and an invitation to the wedding is received. is it neces- sary to send a gift? A. No: under these circum- stances, it is entirely optional, Q. Is it necessary for the hos- tess at a cocktail party to walt until all guests have arrived be- fore beginning to seive? A. Not at all. Q. How should one take an olive stone from the mouth? A. With the thumb and fore- finger, an1 then lay it on the plate, the cadet eden wd her | | and vou might make a go of - They What Men Do To Prove Their Love "Ah!" sighed the beautiful young blonde to her girl friend as they left a cinema after see- ing a romantic film, "what a pity men aren't-as tough as that in real life!" How wrong she was! She had obviously never heard of 'the ardent young Italian who, tak- ing a stroll through a street in " Rome, saw a dark-eyed beauty of cighteen . whom he at once decided was the girl of his dreams. Some men would have thought it rather a snag that the girl was already in the com- pany of an admirer, an air force cadet, but not our Italian. He was far too infatuated to worry about a detail like that! He had made up hi mind that she would be his wife! He followed them until they parted tenderly at the door of the girl's home. Next evening he hired a car and, going to the girl's home, he pulled up and waited. At seven the girl appeared. So" did her sweetheart, who was just about to greet her on-the corner with a kiss when the -Italian put in an appearance. He drove alongside them, jumped out of the car, knocked out and bundled the into the car. Then he drove off at breakneck speed. "I am taking vou to a hut in the woods where you will be well cared: for" he told the girl. "You won't be able to leave un- til vou have promised to marry me." . The girl began to struggle and scream, The car swerved mmto a ditch, but the Italian drove along H, forcing the car back on to the road and con- tinuing the nightmare journev. reached the hut as dusk fell after the girl had been quictened by a blow on the head. He had just carried her into the hut when some police, ac- companied bv the air force cadet, rushed in. The cave-man suifor wus arrested. That Halian is now in pris- on, but other wooers who have resorted to similar caveman methods of "getting their wo- - man' "have been more success- ful. In Nevada, a rich youne busi- nessman fell violently in love _ with a shapely voung biunette who called at his some documents plover. "You are truly lovely dp want you to be my bride." fe told the surprised girl. At first she thought he was joking. But when he locked the office door and told her he would not let her out until she asreed to marry him, it was obvious that he was in deadly earnest. with em- office from her "I am a man with an iron will," he told her, "and 1 always have my way. Until vou came in here a little while ago, I "thought 1 hated all "women. Will vou marry me?" At that moment the 'phone "bell rang and the girl snatching the receiver, Help!" Realizing she had won the first round. the businessman re- shouted: "Help! ' leased her. The girl rushed home. Being an orphan and alone she had no relatives to . consult, She hated the thought of the publicity that would follow any exposure of her violent wooer, so she decided to leave the town quietly and take another job fifteen miles away, She left two days later. not knowing that her extraordinary stiitor would still pursue her, During the next six weeks she encountered him six times in public and each time he pro- posed to her. Each time 'she turned him down. The girl moved to a smaller hotel. He followed. taking the room next door. She hung up on him when he rang and began to propose. Two nights later, as the girl slept, a fire broke out in the hotel. While the fiames roared nearer and firemen battled with them her persistent © lover climbed along a drainpipe and smashed in her window. Enter- ing the room, he lifted her from the bed and, after fran- tically knotting the bedclothes together, successfully lowered the half-fuinting girl to safety. He followed five minutes later, scorching his hair and clothes but escaping serious injury, "Now will you marry me?" he whispered, as he took her in a faxie to another hotel. "Did you--did vou set the hotel on fire?" she asked ap- her up palled, but at the same time realizing that, whatever his answer, she "must marry him now, : "Ot course not, my dear," he replied, his eyes shining, They are now happily mar- ried with a family of three. The pretty wife is quite convinced now that her husband did not burp: down the hotel, ances it ANYONE FOR AUTOGRAPHS?-New York stockbroker John I. Taeni gets assistance from his wife as they handle some of the 400 volumes which contain the fruits of his hobby--30,000 Mr. Taen' owns a collection of signatures ranging autographs. from Marie Antoinette to President Eisenhower. such prominent specimens as Adolph Hitler, Maria Theresa. Mus- Taeni calls the hobby "my happy | solini and Rudolph Hess. sickness. | am a prisoner of it." there is little Daughter with her shoes and dress all mussed up, Well, last Friday [ took Rob- bie out visiting to a sub-divi- sion house in a nearby town. The streets were not marked and I wasn't sure where I was. I park- ed the car and got out to inquire. Unfortunately two things hap- pened, I was parked near a deep and dirty mud-puddle and I. didn't close 'the car door prop- erly. Robbie jumped out of the car, slap-bang into the middle of the mud-puddle. Of course I couldn't take him into anyone's house after that--and what the inside of my car was like I will leave you to imagine. Robbie didn't like it any better than I did as he is a dainty little dog and hates to get his feet wet. He was also very hurt because he wasn't allowed to visit in the house. So you see what I mean-- dogs can get into mischief just as easily as children. When they should be on their best beha- viour they never are. Marriage Oddities Thyee young ex-servicemea wanted to marry a pretty Amer ican girl who liked them equally well. They were all keen riflemen, 30 she undertook to marry the winner of a shooting contest im which each man must fice only one shot, Lin : Two scored a bull's-eye. Tha third was so nervous that ha missed the target altogether. without. hesitation: YS "All right. T'll marry you' And she did! Two young couples living ia France arranged a quiet-doubla wedding in a village church. While driving to the ceremony the two. brides-to-be were in- eration being necessary in each case. But they insisted on being married first and he joint cere- mony took place while they lay v on the operating tables. At a marriage in Manchester, the bride exchanged her Chris- tian name for the surname of her groom, and her own surname for his Christian name. In other words, Miss Rose Charles be. came Mrs. Charles Rose. A Rumanian peasant was "maeried" in 1939 to the letter box in which his dead fiancée NEW PRINTED PATTERN EASIER-FASTER MORE ACCURATE Included ars JT a al RO Our geraniums are still bloom- ing, thank goodness. We had a touch of frost last week; not enough lo do any real harm but enough to get everyone worrled about their gardens --just in case. Now the danger seems to be past and we can prepare ourselves to enjoy Indian summer, the maple trees already having taken on a reddish hue. By present appear- looks as if we should have a beautiful, colourful fall. There is plenty of sap in the trees so the leaves should stay on the frees longer than they did last year. We had a desidedly dry fall then, if you remember. The leaves dropped quickly and there was little of the lovely col- ouring we associate with the fall season. This year the story shouid be different. Another thing we are noticing . squirrels! More squirrels than we have seen for many vears. Black, grey and red squir- rels. A few days ago a big grey squirrel fel! out of the Virginia creeper on {0 our bedroom win- dow. For a minute we wondered what on carth. was coming as the furry creature slithered down- wards. We are wondering what can be the meaning of this sud- den increase in the number of squirrels. Where did they come from and where will they win- ter? We know it is supposed to be the sign of a hard winter ahead when squirrels lay up a big store of nuts, But an increase in the squirrels themselves . . . that has us puzzled Still another surprise . . . I was poking around in the 'garden and what should I see but four nice buds on the Easter lily that Joy and Bob gave me last April and which T set outside after it had finished blooming. We seem to have the .most erratic plants around here. A cactus . that blooms at Christmas and again at Easter and now it appears we shall have Faster lillies for Thanksgiving. Partner is still busy on his "redding up" campaign. And in that connection he told me last Tuesday that he had broken up something over which I was lia- ble to "raise Cain." ; "And what was that?" I in- quired, "The old answered. He was wrong. 1 didn't mind barrel churn," he in the least. I had no sentimen- tal attachment for that derelict piece of equipment, I was never the world's best butter-maker, Probably I never had the right touch' or something. I remember I used to churn and churn for ever so long---sitting, standing, reading or just merely thinking, as I worked the handle back and forth, Sometimes 1 would hope- fully raise the lid expecting to see the cream just about read to gather. Usually it wasn't. Many times I thought the cream was bewitched--it wonld get so far and no further, So, it was always with a sigh of relief that I finally heard that welcome plop<plop that told me thera was butter at last, And then cama the ONICLES INGERFARM Gwendoline P. Clothe ISSUE 45 -- 1958 had posted her last letter to him six weeks earlier. A year later a builder erecting a house applied to the post office for permission to remove it ag it was "in the way." The postmas- ter refused, saying: "The hox is sacred." The only girl who ever heard her marriage banns announced on the radio was Patricia Bilton, of Hendon. This took place dur- ing a broadcast from.a British warship in which her future husband was one of the ship's company. CLLEEEN Gi, pitt ih designer was married carrying a bouquet of ripe tomates. It was explained that it was the only bouquet she could think of which blended perfectly wilh dress. - job of washing and working the' butter. And last but not least, taking it down town and selling the golden prints at twenty-five | "cenls a pound. Or was it fifteen? = Anyway, since I used to regard ~ butter-making as more or less af a necessary evil, Partner didn't get any black looks from me when he demolished the old bar- rel churn. : Every year it takes loss time to fly across the ocean and long- er to drive to the office. ' ' , 1 beid 4885 ONE YARD 35° Mrs. N. C., may [I take this S--10--12 opportunity of thanking you for M141 trying to help us with our TV problem---that is, in. regard to Channel 6. It was so nice of you to write and to say so many nice things about this column. Now I am happy to report that we are finally able fo get Channel 86. without any trouble at all. 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Send order to ANNE ADAMS, 123 Eighteenth St, New Toron- to, Ont, UP IN THE WORLD--Keeping in fit trim, Petra Schurman, 23, leaps over a park bench In London, England. The ener getic beauty, represeniing Germany, has been named Miss World of 1956. ds spark satellite. wide ferment by "de: claring independence" of Moscow domination. Depose top Stalinists. Defy Khrushchey's per- J sonal plea. 45) HUINCARY North Seo dus and Sto rty d Erno Geroa visit Tito, report E "full agreement." Students § d riot, demand return of j d "Titoist" ex-Premier Nagy. E § State-controlled radio lauds § ; ij) "revolution" os lesson or firmly in saddle. But top Moscow stooges long under attack by party members for 2 y Jollcwiod S1otn ia r 2 2 7 Stalinist: so far, but f& : HE ; 7% trend to "independ. B ent socialism" hos Belgrade talking over | situation with Tito. Tito, first satellite ruler to break with Stalin, congratu. lates "independent" Poles, Encourages other satellites to defy Moscow. POLAND SETS RED SATELLITES A-BOILING--Newsmap above shows some of reperc sions throughout the Communist world en Poland's A di liance hy he Kromita end Installation of nationalistic Communist leaders, Shock waves set off by Poles' revole parently reached even to China, where Mao Tze-Tung, Red Chiness boss, reported te Wave sont a marrage of congratulations to anti-Stalinist Poles, A RR SE Turning to him, the girl sald jured'in a collision, a slight op- The bride of a British dress. because or so we think--CBLT The ideal coverup for kitchen finally made adjustments so that chores. ; viewers can now bring in Toron- Printed Pattern 4885: Misses' "to quité clearly. Small (10-12; Medium (14-16). / a. ----