[AN aS : a PES Er al ly -- A ei a Si > ---- a TT ws a RR as "ne Sef = -- -- 2", = Your Family Counselor "Dear Anne Hirst: My hus- band and I have had a nearly- perfect marriage for five years, and our only disagreements are caused by his insisting on work- ing on. commission instead of a regular salary. Some weeks he dosen't bring home anything, other times over $150; but his yearly average is less than half that. I have done some figuring, but he always insists that a salaried man never gets any- where. "I think it is because when he came home from the war he made a great deal of money fast. It is true that he gambled it all away, but he still believes he can repeat that luck. I have tried to get him to work for a salary for just one year so we can pay our debts, He won't. "For two years now I have held a job, which I took so we could have a little place of our own. I don't mind working, and being alone with" him is worth it, although I would far rather stay home and raise a family. He is a good man and smart with a fine personality, and I know he loves me more than anything in the world. He is 31 now, and comes from a poor family. Can you help me peér- suade him that my way is more secure for the future? PLAYING * of poor * usually grow up with a con- * genital respect for the dollar * and wary of gambling with * any part of it. Your husband's * one fling in that dangerous * field spoiled him, so now he * is continually hopeful. Too, * the uncertainty of his present * income tempts his instinct to * risk. Women usually hold the * opposite conviction: there is * nothing so comforting as the * weekly pay envelope, espec- * ially to one, like you, who * considers owing money a dis- * graceful habit. * You and your husband have * such a fine life together that LJ » * * * * * * * * * -> * * * * * * SAFE" Children parents it is a -pity-that-even one anx- iety should dull its perfection. If you could look forward to the day you will be free of debt, able to budget your in- come and save regularly, you would be completely happy. You could relax into the domestic routine you enjoy, and look forward to raising a family. Perhaps, your husband has realized how important this idea is to you. If he did. I think he would try out your plan for the year you suggest. Why don't you explain it again? Since he likes to gam- ble, the odds involved should 4666 SIZES 12V2--24%a byt Directions PRINTED on each pattern part! Designed to fit the shorter, fuller figure perfectly! It's a cinch to sew this versatile fashion as a scooped-neck dress, jumper and blouse! Printed Pattern 46066: Half Bizes 12%, 1415, 161%, 181%, 20%, 22%, 24%. Size 16% dress takes © 8% yards 39-inch; blouse, 2% yards. Printed directions on each pat- tern part. Easier, faster, accurate, Send FORTY CENTS (stamps gannot be accepted, use postal note for safety) for this pattern, Please print plainly S 1 Z E, . NAME, ADDRESS, STYLE NUM. BER. "Send order to ANNE ADAMS, x 1, 123 Eighteenth St, New nto, Ont. om ISSUE 36 -- 1957 VN ne am} * appeal to him. I hope they will, * EL) * RACIAL DIFFERENCE "Dear Anne Hirst: I am 18, and I have fallen in love with a man of another race and back- ground. He 1sn't good-looking and he hasn't any money, but when we are together we are perfectly happy. "My family is objecting vio-" lently, If I should marry him, I 'would have»to give them up, and perhaps all my friends, "Don't you think we could make a go of it? WILHELMINA", It is not likely, One can ac- quire the social amenities, but one cannot change one's blood, ~ Suppose you marry this man and have his children? Don't you realize that they too, could be social outcasts? Our civilization in this country doesn't seem fo have arrived yet at the point where it readily accepts children of mixed races. As for you, you would have to live as the man's own accept them as * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * people live; * your own (and with complete * loyalty) and cut. yourself off * from all those you love now. * I do not doubt-you-love him, * but marriage is not just a mat- * ter between two people; it is * a family affair, and it con- * cerns the community too. You * know this, I expect, but you * have tried not to think about * jt. . * I hope you. will break off » immediately. * this friendship * * It is regretable that so few men have high regard for their wives' business acumen. If this problem is one of yours, tell Anne Hirst about it. Her under- standing, and her long exper- ience, may be helpful. Write her at: Box 1, 123 Eighteenth St. New Toronto, Ont. Ocean Travel Heavy Next Year Reservations now being placed with Cunard offices across Can- ada for berths to Europe next year indicate that passenger traffic on the: historic St. Law- rence river route will be ex- tremely brisk during the 1958 summer season, the Cunard Line said today. .From April 168 to Nov. 28 next season four 22,000-ton Cunard vessels -- the Saxonia, Iver- nia, Carinthia and the new Syl- vania -- will make 43 eastbound sailings out of Montreal. The Carinthia and the Syl- vania will run between Mon- treal and Liverpool via Gree- nock, Scotland, while the Saxo- nia and Ivernia will sail re- gularly to Southampton via Le Havre. On her April 24 sailing from Montreal the Ivernia will sail to London (Tilbury) via Le Havre and the Saxonia will have the same ports of call"when she leaves Montreal May 8. - On several westbound sailings next season Cunard steamers will call at Cobh, Ireland, to embark passengers for Canada. Calls at Quebec on eastbound sailings of the Ivernia and Sax- onia, introduced this year for the convenience of passengers wish- ing to visit the historic city be- fore embarking for Europe, have proved popular with travellers and the practice will be continu- ed during the 1958 summer seca- son with the same steamers scheduled to stop at Wolfe's Cove. . . dea IN SUNNY ITALY--The famous shape of one of the most breathtaking sights of Rome is the background for languid Cuban actress Chelo, who's known to her appreciative fans as the "Cuban H-Bomb". Vaca- tioning. in the Italian capital, she's soaking up the sunshine in the famed Colosseum, Ladies!--Here's A Cheap Hair-do To get a hairdo in San Anto- nio at Tonio's salon, which has no running water and no electric power, is to discover how in- genious man can be without modern conveniences of every- day life. Only since visitors have brought modern dress styles'and short hair to Ibiza has a hair- dresser become necessary. There is, of course, the '"barberia" for the men. The country girls still wear their jet black hair parted in the middle and in long pigtails with bright bows on the ends. These bows of flame pink, Medi- terranean blue, bright green, or lemon are commonly said to de- note whether a girl is married or "going steady" or still hope- ful, but local people assured me this was not so, - Now that the younger girls of San Antonio have begun to give up their traditional long black dresses, shawls, and aprons, they have also cut their hair short and need to have it dressed. So a sign hangs out under the balcony in the narrow, cobbled street, It says: "Tonio -- coiffure de dames -- ladys (sic) hair." 1 read it, pulled aside the bead curtain, and climbed the steep, narrow stairway. Tonio's salon than a corridor, about enough for three customers to, sit comfortably in chairs before the mirror. I checked my watch with Tonio's, a necessary precaution on an island where all watches tell a different story and there are no. public clocks. I would return for a shampoo and set in half an hour by Tonio's watch, in an hour by mine. was no more As I climbed the stairs a sec- - ond time, I suddenly wondered where the basins were and de- cided there must be another room for shampooing. But I was mistaken. Maria, Tonio's small daughter, invited me to sit in a chair writes Melita Knowles -in The Christian Science Monitor. She went to a door leading to a staircase onto the roof and fetched a shaped basin apd ewers containing shampoo and water. I put my head back into - this basin and Maria washed the hair, while the "water ran through a pipe from the basin' into a bucket. The shampoo fin- ished, she removed the basin and _ went outside to dispose of the water and polish the ewers ready for the next customers. : Tonio then took over. One customer was still under the drier and I saw. another was waiting with her hair pinned up. A few minutes later Tonio took the drier and passed it onto the next customer. : There was only one drier. Wires from it were connected to - two large batteries on the floor. Extra supplies of fuel oil were poured in for each customer. A bag of white calico was attached to the hood of the drier and this was tied around the forehead, so the heat wouldn't escape. The drier was remarkably ef- ficient" and in 20 minutes each customer cmerged, with red cheeks and puffing with the heat. I had learned the words "mas corta" (shorter) from my Span- ish dictionary so pointed to my thick locks and murmured these words. I opened and closed my fingers to indicate scissors. Tonio took an old-fashioned strop razor and proceeded to shape the hair into the latest Italian style. With deft fingers he pinned the strands into little whirls, and eventually T took my turn under the drier. Out on the balcony, Maria re- moved the sun blind as the eve- ning breeze freshened. Tonio took out the curling pins and dropped them into -a little bas- ket. He combed out the curls. The result was one of the best hairdo's I have ecver had---and all for forty pesetas--Iless than a dollar. NUCLEAR PROPULSION IS HERE A, The exciting age of nuclear propulsion is here--a new Eliza- bethan Age for world commerce By 1961 fast ships will he hauling cargo and passengers twice and three {times around the world on tiny chunks of nuclear material. Within a few fuels could be diesel oil. A "hot" atomic reactor is fly- ing over North America today, actually testing airborne nuclear years nuclear cheaper than potential. Designers have nuclear-pow- ered railway locomotive on drawing boards now, engines which could mean truly non- stop transcontinental trains. Canada, indirectly and direct- ly, can play a major role in this venturesome new age. "How do you like being mar- ried to a boxer?" "Not so good. Every morning I have to count 10 before I can get him up." wide" trouble and distress in i WASHINGTON COULDN'T WAIT--But if the leader of lutionary War forces had, he's have found crossing the Dela- ware a lot easier, Gay Yeager of Newton, Pa., stands in the spot where Washington started the famed winter crossing. Severe drought has brought the river down to where one can wade across it. It normally is 13-15 feet deep. er and smoother finish for baby clothes. Unless great care fis taken run and fell seams done by machine can be hard and cumbersome, Following the prize awards and brief addresses by F.W.L President Mrs. James Haggerty and Home Economics Director, Miss Helen McKercher, W.IL, members were the guests of the Salada-Sheriff-Horsey company for afternoon tea. It was a good cup of tea . .. I wonder why! We thought the tea was the fin- al touch to a very pleasant af- " ternoon, But no, as we came away each guest was presented with a carton about 12 inches square, I had no idea what was in it until I got home. Then I found I had been carrying around a regular surprise pack- et -- cake mix, pie-crust mix, jelly and pudding powders, pie filling, apple jelly, marmalade, orange juice, flavouring -- and of course a packet of tea bags. Can you imagine such generos- ity? $150 in prize money, tea served to approximately a hun- iy dred guests, plus this lovely a ) surprise packet for each one to Revo- take away. It certainly looks as if the company goes all out in its efforts to encourage mem- bers fo the W.I. the afternoon was renewing ac- quanitances with W.I. members H 4 S53 ONICLES INGERFARM Gwendoline P. Clarke from other parts of the prov- ince, some of whom had come quite a distance. It was easy to pick out the WA. girls at the 'bus terminal -- so many wo- men clutching in their arms a mystery _carton 12 inches square! carried. Well, I see our next-door neighbours are home. Now I'll be out of my goldfish-baby-sit- ting job. The three little fish survived my anxious care and are still .contentedly swimming around In their little glass bowl. Thank goodness for that. "My husband is a friction Bast week was a week of sur- prices. It began when we were shopping' in the vicinity of Ginger Farm. In one of the - stores we met a man -- a wid- ower -- whom we had known for years and years. He came over to us and said "I have I waited ~ some news for you." anxiously. He continued . .. "I know you have always been very good friends of Mrs. . . , 50 I thought you might like to know we are getting married next Saturday!" Like to know -- Wwe were over-joyed. Two friends of long standing, both past middle-age, both had had a considerable amount of their separate lives. Now they were to be married. They will enjoy . each other's' companionship for, we hope, a good many years as both are comparatively well and active. Companionship . . . end- ing the loneliness of two sepa- rate lives. Could anything be better? Second marriages late in life are not always desirable, par- ticularly if the parties are not well acquainted: Sometimes it happens that a man -- or the woman -- marries for ulterior motives -- for a home, or a "housekeeper or for a comfort- able income. Tragic family fric- tion is sometimes the inevitable result. But where a widow and a widower, have known cach other for years; realize and un- derstand each other's loneliness, . then marriage seems a most de- sirable solution -- and one that should be welcomed by their grown children. The next surprise was not so pleasant. A phone call from an old neighbour . .. would I come down to see his sister -- she was not at all well. Here was a brother and sister, over seventy, sharing a home but neither real- ly able to look after the other. I found an unhappy situation -- and so little I could actually do in a day's visit. Nor did I feel any better when the poor little soul said to her doctor -- "If this woman (meaning me) -would stay for a month I would soon be on my feet" I came home that night wishing I could be in three places at once as Dee and her family could also do with a little assistance right now. However David will prob- ably be coming for another visit soon and next month we shall have Eddie to take care of. Friday was a different ex- SALLY'S SALLIES -- "Something must be ailing Mother, She sends her best to you," 'decision. However they did and fol To damie pd psc : writer." perience altogether. That morn- "Surely yo mean fiction ing I took the bus into Toronto, writer?" ; had lunch with Dee and the boys, and then off to the Annual Salada Tea given in connection: with a competition sponsored by that company and open to W.L Branches across Ontario. This year the competiion took. the form of a layette. There were 102. entries. The best had been chosen for display in the Salada Club rooms, Such wonderful work! Dainty little dresses, smocked nighties, knitted sets and neatly hemmed diapers -- all so good I couldn't imagine' how the judges ever reached a "No. All his books are about married life." of clean sandy beaches. the first prize -- $100 -- was awarded to Fonthill W.I. Second prize -- $50 -- to Belwoods W.I, There were also ten branches who received honor- able "mention. The prize-win- ning entries were all-white. It wd was impossible to see the work very closely as each one was wrapped in cellophane. How- ever,-I rather think the Fonthill entry was hand-sewn. That 're- vived a few personal memories. When I was getting ready for |. my first baby's -arrival every- thing I made was hand-sewn. No. machine made garments were going on my baby! I still think hand-sewn makes a neat- all DOUBLE TROUBLE--Actress Another pleasant feature of - Heavy, but cheerfully New Brunswick has 600 miles Knit a shrug to toss over every- thing--to keep you pretty, cozyl It's done in a fast and easy pat- tern stitch -- so becoming with all slim or flared summer fash- ions! ! Pattern 503 has easy-to-follow knitting directions. Misses' Sizes 32-34; 36-38 included in pattern, Send THIRTY-FIVE CENTS (stamps cannot be accepted, use postal note for safety) for this pattern to Laura Wheeler, Box 1, 123 18th Street, New Toron Ont. Print plainly PATTE NUMBER, your NAME and AD- DRESS. Two FREE Patterns as a gift to our readers--printed right in our NEW Laura Wheeler Needle- craft Book for 1957} Dozens of other new designs you'll want te order -- easy, fascinating hand- work for yourself, yaur home. Be sure to send 20 cents for your copy of this. book n ow --don't miss it! eee ea = a Gail Russell, left, was found uncon- scious beside a highball glass on the bathroom floor of her home In Hollywood. She was taken to a hospital and later was booked on a felony warrant charging failure to appear for arraignment on drunk driving charges. At right, Perc West- more, 54, of movie make-up fame, attempted to commit suicide by taking an overdose of sleeping pills in Hollywood. He was rushed to a hospital and is now reported "out of danger". = TOMATO SAUCE oil a tabtorpoont WAIOLL cin : iad BENSON'S or CANA 1 teaspoon salt 1 teaspoon west 2 cups tomato {ulce 14Bay leaf Corn Starch ~ ped parsley and onions Tn td small saucepan A 5 i. ADD tomato juice slowly) mix well AT bay leof and pomie i SRK or medium heal Alm stantly. Son 1 minute) serve hot. TY EDIUM WHITE SAUCE LA Salad Oll 3 ian ANON or CANADA Corn Starch 2 table 2 "1 teaspoon salt y V4 teaspoon peppe 2 cops ml ture thickens and bolls) Uh lad QUIS, ot nd pero wEAY BENSON'S or C ell. 3 1 th. ) ! Bled slowlys mix vatil He nisture thickens and bolls COOK over medium heat, until stir consdantly. Son 2 minotes) sie comtanty: eggs to 2 wps Egg Sovcet A Medium o vee. | "Try these favourite recipes" THE CANADA STARCH COMPANY P.O. Box 129, Montreal, P,Q. For free folder of other deliclous recipes, write tos . Jane Ashley, . Home Service Department, LIMITED :