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ii anni tien i aA i eae i iE Shite. abhi, JSS ib iid ER Sibi ae it SS iii iii ait i ii aii ai 36 -- PORT PERRY STAR -- Tuesday, March 7, 1989 D.J. TAYLOR [ic INSURANCE BROKERS LTD. 1134% 169 North Street, Port Perry 985-8416 GUARANTEED INVESTMENT CERTIFICATES CONTACT: WENDY STEPHENSON (Rates Subject to Change without Notice) | SHEPHERD '@ POWELL __| Chartered Accountants -- practicing in -- SMALL BUSINESS, CORPORAT!ONS & FARMS INCOME TAX PREPARATION 250 Queen Street, Port Perry 985-9791 985-7031 PRECISION AUTO ELECTRIC SAMY, vo 985-8406 PORT PERRY, ONTARIO -- PARTS -- SALES -- SERVICE -- for all STARTERS -- ALTERNATORS Air Conditioning -- Tune-ups -- Batteries Owned & Operated by -- OPEN: Monday - Friday TIM BARTLEY nailed a i 8:00 AM to 6:00 PM RONALD D. BRIDGEWATER, Ba. Lis. LAW OFFICES 38 WATER STREET, PORT PERRY 985-8491 . -- providing 14 years experience in -- REAL ESTATE -- INCORPORATIONS FAMILY LAW -- WILLS -- ESTATES Reaching Out -- courtesy of -- WAGG-McDERMOTT- PANABAKER FUNERAL HOME, PORT PERRY HAROLD ion The Ten Stages of Grief When we are separated from those we care about and love, -- we grieve. Grief is a normal and a necessary stage between loss and recovery. From years of study and research, psychologists have determined there are ten stages of grief. If we make ouselves aware of these stages, we will be more able to cope with them when they occur, and understand what the bereaved can experience if we are on the outside. 1. SHOCK. Shock is a natural built-in defence mechanism that temporarily pal survivors and keeps us from fully comprehending the extent of our loss and hurt immediately. 2. EMOTIONAL RELEASE. The extent of our loss starts to be realized and we can take out our feelings at whoever happens to be around us at the time. 3. DEPRESSION. We realize we are suddenly left alone and a feeling of isola- tion takes over. 4. PHYSICAL SYMPTOMS. There are a great deal of people who have to be treated for physical ailments after a death. Sometimes, these symptoms are the same as the deceased experienced. 5. PANIC. We need friends and relatives to assure us that our panic is a normal response. We are not becoming irrational! 6. GUILT. We feel we could and should have done more than we did. If the guilt has a foundation, the person may need help from a self-help group or a professional counsellor. 7. HOSTILITY. Hostility can show us that perhaps the survivor is starting to come out of depression and is starting to express himself. Instead of self pity and blame, they may blame others: clergy, doctors, funeral directors, nurses. 8. UNABLE TO RETURN TO NORMAL ACTIVITIES. Our society is based on "couple entertaining" and it is difficult for the surviving spouse to fit into the same social circles. Friends are very important for support at this time. 9. EMOTIONAL BALANCE RETURNS. The person is beginning to overcome his grief. This may take a month and may take two years. It depends on the person and the circumstances involved. 10. ADJUSTMENT TO REALITY. We realize we will never be the same again, due to the great loss we have suffered. But we have experienced it and hopefully have become stronger again. Adjustment has occured. Not all survivors go through the above ten stages or in this specific order, but all will go through most of them. PLEASE DIRECT YOUR COMMENTS TO HAROLD WAGG, 985-2171 Many from Port Perry area The 32nd annual Sunderland Lions Club Music Festival has just completed its two weeks of competition. The festival commit- tee wishes to thank 'all' the students who performed and the teachers and schools involved. The following is a list of piano, vocal and instrumental 'winners' from the Port Perry area: PIANO Class 3 - Sean Sauter, Piano, Beg. 11 or 12 yrs. ; 84. Class 6a - Erin Malcolm, Gr. 1 Piano Solo; 85. Class 6b - Cate Lewis, Gr. 1 Piano Solo; 85. Class 7b - Lisa Eddy, Gr. 2 Piano Solo; 85. Class 8a - Colin Meijerink, Gr. 3 Piano Solo; 85. Class 8b - Shelley Croxall, Gr. 3 Piano Solo; 84. Class 9 - Courtney Radford, Gr. 4 Piano Solo; 84. Class 12 - Karen Mahony, Gr. 7 Piano Solo; 86. Class 17b - Daniel Mahlberg, Gr. 5 Sonatina; 86. Class 17c - Josh Bramham, Gr. 6 Sonatina; 84. Class 17e - Sarah Croxall, Gr. 8 Sonatina; 80. Class 21 - Rebecca and Scott Daniels, Piano Duet, 14 yrs. and under; 84. Class 24b - Steffan Brunette, Gr. 7 & 8 Cdn. Composer; 85. Class 26 - Chris Wokral, 'Pop' Piano Solo; 85. VOCAL Class 107 - Sarah Croxall, Vocal Solo over 12 yrs; 85. Class 108 - Barbara Brooks, P.P.H.S., Sec. School Girls Solo; 84. Class 119 - Katie Mairs, Train- ed Vocal Solo, 10 yrs. ; 84. Class 120 - Katie Talbot, Train- ed Vocal Solo, 13 yrs.; 85. Class 121 - Tracie Andrews, Trained Vocal Solo, 15 yrs.; 86. Class 124 - Jordan Sanders, 'Trained Vocal Solo, 10 yrs.; 84. Class 125 - Aaron Zabudsky - Trained Voice, 13 yrs.; 87. Class 129 - Katie Talbot and Alison White - Trained Vocal Duet, 15 yrs.; 83. Class 134 - Aaron Zabudsky - Open Trained Voice; 86. Class 135 - Sarah Croxall, Open Broadway Vocal Solo; 84. Class 146 - Ann Cookson & Bar- bara Brooks P.P.H.S., - High School Duet; 87. Class 151 - Port Perry United Church Int. Choir - Teenage Church Choir; 87. Class 157 - Prince Albert Public School, Gr. 3 Choir; 84. Class 159 - Prince Albert P.S., Gr. 1-4 Unison Choir; 85. Class 170 - Port Perry High School, Secondary School Choir; 87. PORT PERRY CLINIC 985-4422 now offering REFLEXOLOGY & PEDICURE ree RENEE BOS Certified Reflexologist, Kinesiologist & Pedicurist THURS. FRILO A Ee gs wo hla] Sunderland Co-operative Trophy - Sarah Croxall. INSTRUMENTAL Class 32 - Christie Corden, Cart., Gr. 8 Clarinet Solo; 85. Class 39 - Margaret Jeronimo, P.P.H.S., Saxophone Solo; 85. Class 40 - Jamie Wade, Cart., Gr. 7 Trumpet Solo; 88. Class 42 - Andrew Barron, P.P.H.S., Trumpet Solo; 88. Class 43 - Robin Cliff, Cart. Gr. 7 Fr. Horn Solo; 78. Class 45 - Niki Bardeleben, P.P.H.S., Fr. Horn Solo; 80. Class 46 - Alison White, R.H. Cornish, Gr. Trombone Solo; 87. Class 47 - Jason Cliff, Cart., Gr. 8 Trombone Solo; 87. Class 49 - Mike Wright, Cart., Gr. 7 Tuba Solo; 85. Class 50 - Andrew Frew, Cart., Gr. 8 Tuba Solo; 88. Class 51 - Matthew Shepherd, P.P.H.S., Tuba Solo; 84. Class 53 - Valerie Watts and Megan Chellew, P.P.H.S., Gr. 9 & 10 Woodwind Duet; 85. Music festival winners Class 54 - Lisa Duchemin & Jen- nifer Blanchard, P.P.H.S., Gr. 11-13 Woodwind Duet; 85. Class 55 - Daphne Radford & Craig Dale, R.H. Cornish, Gr. 6-8 Brass Duet; 84. + Class 56 - Ronald Rankin & Mat- thew Shepherd, P.P.H.S., Gr. 9& 10 Brass Duet; 80. Class 59 - Port Perry High School - Gr. 9 & 10 Woodwind Ensemble; 88. Class 63 - Port High Horn Club - Brass Ensemble, Gr. 11 - 13; 84. Class 81 - Cartwright Central P.S. - Brass Choir Gr. 6 to 8; 84. Class 82 - Port Perry H.S. - Per- cussion Ensemble; 85. Class 85 - Prince Albert P.S. - Rhythm Band, Gr. 1 and 2; 87. Class 65 - Cartwright Central P.S. - Grade 8 Band; 88. Class 68 - R.H. Cornish P.S. - Elementary School Stage Band; ® lass 66 - Port High Concert Band - Secondary School Band; 86. Alzheimer Society sets support group The Alzheimer Society of Durham Region is currently ac- cepting registrations for a new evening Family Support Group Program. The purpose of the program is to help families and other caregivers share with one another ideas and methods of coping with an Alzheimer Disease patient. The new program will begin within the next three weeks and will be conducted by Dr. Maureen Gorman. Each session will be about two hours in duration and will continue over a six to eight week period on a once a week basis. Participation is limited to ten people. The day of the week and location will be determined by the members of the group. Registration can be arranged by telephoning the Society's office at 576-2567. disciplining children, call "A HEALTHY MARRIAGE IS THE BASIS FOR A SECURE FAMILY" 4 Maureen Salkeld B.A., M.Ed. is a family therapist who specializes in improving marital relationships. For help with communication & sexual problems, resolving conflicts or PORT PERRY COUNSELLING for an appointment at the Medical Associates, 462 Paxton Street, Port Perry 985-0757 the EASTER SUNDAY, MARCH 26th If you are a merchant and have something to sell this Easter ... from bonnets, to bunnies, to brunch ... give us a call and we will help you sell it through the pages of the ... PORT PERRY STAR. Call 985-7383 now and ask Pat or Lisa about our Special Easter Pages for your Special Easter Merchandise. 235 Queen Street, ( Port Perry, Ontario S OO PHONE 985.7383 P.0. Box 90,