"A Family Tradition for 127 Years" Plan ahead to ensure your dream wedding It's all about saving money - even the wealthy are careful not to splurge outrageously in these trying times. Of course, there are certain occasions in which money, and a lot of it, is necessary in order to make a lasting, memorable, and forever treasured impres- sion. Birthdays, holidays, promo- tions - all are very special and important, but also occur more than once in a lifetime. The singular glorious ceremo- ny that is celebrated and treas- ured forever, is your wedding. And, although the wedding day is a precious one and perfection 1s the ultimate goal, spending thousands of dollars and run- ning yourself ragged is not the answer, it will only result in post marital blues. Saving - Not Skimping It is nice to have a wedding with traditional touches, but this does not mean stretching your budget out of bounds just because you have a precon- ceived idea of how a wedding "should be." Don't be afraid to go against the laws of etiquette and invent your own ideas for your wedding in order to reduce the impact on your already slim wallet, your valuable time and, most importantly, your sanity. Gifts for your bridal party are just as important as the wedding gift for your future spouse. It is customary for the gift exchange between the bridal couple and bridal party to be made at the wedding rehearsal dinner. However, the bride may also give her attendants' gifts to them at the bridesmaids luncheon, the trousseau tea or at home before leaving for the wedding ceremony. Likewise, the groom may gift his best man and ushers at the bachelor dinner. Traditionally, the bride gives her attendants a gift that will co-ordinate with their gowns, but can also be worn after the wedding. If the gifts are to be engraved or monogrammed, the bride and groom should take the precaution of purchasing them well in advance so that they will be ready prior to the wedding. For the bride Pearl necklace Diamond earrings, pin or pendant Diamond watch Gold bracelet, earrings, pin or pendant Bracelet watch For the groom Pen and pencil set Watch Ring the Wedding Party For the honor attendant Pearl necklace or bracelet Picture frame Novelty watch Jewellery box For the bridesmaids Figurine Bangle bracelet Gold or silver charm Pearl bracelet or stud errings Fashion jewellery For the flower girl Locket Birthstone ring Bracelet Gold or silver barrette For the best man Gold or silver money clip Desk accessories Key ring For the ushers Steins Gold or silver key rings Pen and pencil set Wallet I.D. bracelet Other gifts The bridal couple may wish to thank someone who has been especially helpful or thoughtful in the busy days before the wedding. Local stores should be able to suggest the perfect expression of thanks in a gift item. If you gather all of your fami- ly and friends (and somehow get them to cooperate) you may be able to come up with some mon- ey-saving ideas for your wed- ding. For example, outside wed- dings or receptions are absolutely beautiful, and if someone close to you has a large backyard or piece of land, it can be decorated lavishly enough to be compared to a garden, park or private grounds. How about an evening wed- ding? By holding your ceremony at dusk, a romantic, elegant and memorable atmosphere is created. An evening wedding also ena- bles you to stretch your money a bit further, as some couples have a small after-party with hors d'oeuvres for the guests, and a dinner gathering for the wedding party and family later in the evening. A wedding gown 'does not have to only be worn once. There are beautiful gowns that have been designed in ways that allow for pieces of the fabric to be cut and/or added on so that the dress can be convert- ed into a semi-formal or party dress. Pre-wedding beauty and relaxation tips The last few busy and exciting days before your wedding can often be stressful. Try these helpful suggestions for keeping cool, calm and collected during this happy, yet tension filled time. Facial skin can show immediate signs of nervousness and anxiety, so be sure to care for it properly. Wash your face twice daily with a mild cleanser and follow with a moisturizer. A professional or home facial is always a good way to fully clean pores and revitalize skin. ANTAL SA SEED gE WELRY <{f» Dana Forder €4§F Goldamithing™ ~---- Custom Designer of Fine Jewellery Take a calming bath each evening and let yourself soak for 15 to 20 minutes. Your favourite scented bubble bath can also help soothe and relax you. Slough rough spots, like elbows and heels, with a body scrub and loofah sponge. After - bathing, apply body lotion all over for a smooth feel. Last but not least, remember to eat right, exercise and get a few extra hours of sleep each night. 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