EE "A Family Tradition for 128 Years" THE MEMBERS OF Scugog's Our Night Out (ONO) Club got together recently at their 45th anniversary celebration in Blackstock. As you can see, turn-out was so great, we had to take two pictures to fit them all in! ONO began as a club designed to give young mothers an opportunity to have a night out once a month with other women who lived in the Blackstock area. As time went on, the club catered to weddings, helped outfit the kitchen of the Blackstock community centre, began sponsorship of the Uxpool swim DAMIAN BESSIE/PORT PERRY STAR bus, and planted new trees along various roads and properties in the township. The club still donates prizes to Cartwright Central Public School's Grade 8 graduation, as well as the commencement exercises at Cartwright High School. Although club membership has decreased over the years, the same dedication to various community needs is still present among today's membership. s on grief recovery" in the Made to order deli style sandwiches, soups, salads, pasta, chili, coffee & desserts. Pat's Deli Port Perry Plaza After oss Learning how to cope with grief (0. My 17 year old son died of leukemia just seven months ago. Why doesn't anyone speak of him? Friends, people at church, even some relatives act as if he never existed. A. Your family and friends probably think they are doing you a favor. They don't want to upset you by bringing up such a painful subject as your terrible loss. Take responsibility for the silence of others by making your needs known. You could say, "I really need to talk about John sometimes. I hope you aren't uncomfortable with that." Or, "Is there a particular reason why you never seem to mention John anymore?" This brings out your desire to speak of him. As soon as you can talk about him comfortably, most others will follow your lead. *Questions from bereavement classes are answered here by the editor of AfterLoss, the monthly gricfrecovery help letter. For your free copy of Afterloss or one of our other helplul booklets dealing with grief recovery, just call or stop by. WAGG FUNERAL HOME LTD. ; MA Dermott Panabaken Chapel' MYLES G O'RIORDAN 216 Queen Streat Ownaer/Manager/Funaral Director Port Perry Res 985 0608 985-2171 Dependable Service to the Community Since 1846 -t 985-9155 Mon. to Sat. 8am to Spm Sun. 11am to 3pm You can fax your letters: 985-3708