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{ \ . -V • v ^ v <.¥*• •> /i'V '"tyX. ? 1- >•<".. 1® '-'^-i;.>&yly. . • -. -^ysV :/y ; wmA-t^hi- .-••s M'i.iflli* oontf "love at tint, sight?* with "earned" log* .grtegy. / jroa tie helpless ud i my to enmmaared of m .todjr irneslj OMritod. evm two hostile people . {all to, love by --*-- cikikitataiti 'wn&P 'Wn (omnia. lUs to » favorite fiettaa plot, too.) f; By • W. Cf<iii, ' Ph» D<f Bf. D. • v CASE *553: Jeny W.. Mrta aged 20, it infatuated, fee , "Or. Crane," he began, "I Ifca am crazy about a Northwest* i for em university coe4 named Loraa. *n®. "But she doesn't seem in- Bat terested in me at *11, although caa I fell in love with her at that Brat sight • ON SfAfcE J&ffHHfeftQltE ONLY - Fri^ Sat, S telZ W, ROyTE. fii McHenry 38&-3200 PMST BLUE RIBBON I A mellow ted fable nine 84 tt-oc. bottles # Glasgow Imported SCOTCH $139 fifth HALLERS 4 yean old Straight Whiskey $349 quart ca|es|r3fE9fe^cs9ciiu|e9«c4c9ffca|eafe9fe9|e3fe9|eaie3#»|e9|ea|c9«ca|e HAMM'S i DRAFT I BEER 1 © 1@=®». cans $|23 OLD THOMPSON Whiskey "So could I ever win her love? It so, how?" "Hot Dog** Btntegy Youngsters don't like hot dogs .when they first encoun* ier them. • , But because hot dogs are bften linked with .picnics and outdoor fun, the many ideas* urea associated with camping or picnics and out-door trial* ic, soon become associated with the hot 4ogs. (Ultimately, those hot dogs resurrect many diffuse but pleasurable moods. So the children now flrfnit the usual child will even disdain steak or chicken at fancy restaurants and demand hot dog. Yet the very same type of bieat and seasoning were present when tiie baby may have spit out its first taste of a Jot dog. So the chemical quality of the hot dog may remain identical; yet it twill soon change into the most desirable meat item mt the average child's menu. This same process occurs in build'ng; up a romance of the "earned" love variety. You can take two people who have only a neutral attitude toward each other and soon have them ardently in love, just by this same "hot dog" strategy. Actually, most marriages didn't start out with love at first sight. The couples probably met on a blind date or via our computer machine at the Scientific Marriage foundation. Then they attended a movie, which was pleasurable. So some of that pleasure figuratively splllec! over on the person you were dating. If you had a delicious dinner together, the delightful meal also left a vague "spillover" emotional effect If you attended the opera or a ball game or church or a picnic or a dance or just a stroll across the campus during a beautiful moonlit Bight, all of the resulting pleasures from various sensory realms, then became vaguely fastened to the person you dated. Soon, his voice on the phone or the sight of him coming down the street will set loose a flood of these diffuse but pleasurable emotions. For he (or she) thus becomes a symbol of many happy experiences that you have shared together. This is called the 'earned" love formula, by which you ftitSEbOM NEED CITED BY VICAR sPEADMomcnr Man must have freedom anil opportunity for choice if he is to love and be "respond-able", the Rev. James Jones, Jr., told the 175 persons attending the McHenry Hospital corporation annual meeting Saturday night Father Jones based his hardhitting, to-the-heart talk on a decade of service at Cook county prison, on his rehabilitation work with prisoners and his current duties as Urban vicar for the Episcopal Diocese of Chicago, where heworks in the Negro, ghetto. Father Jones noted that despite "programs started at Cook county prison such as groip therapy, better medical care and psychiatric help," seventytwo percent of the men still returned to jail after they got out. He started St. Leonard's house ^as a concept of freedom, a rehabilitation home for released prisoners, in 1954. He introduced choice into the lives of these men, recalling that in prison everyone did the thinking for the prisoners and that their will atrophied. "These men learned to love their brothers and found a sense of being human because they operated in a mode of freedom," build mutual love through many shared, happy experiences. In love at first sight you have subconsciously linkrtl such myriad pleasures with some striking feature of your mother or father or brother, sister or favorite cousin. Later, you may meet a stranger who has the same shaped nose or profile or gestures or voice, and suddenly you are overwhelmed by a rush of happy emotions that accumulated during the years of your childhood. The stranger thus bowls you over by "love at first sight" Yet even that is really an "earaed" type of love, but was earned legitimately by your father, mother or other generous relative. So send for my 200-point "Rating Scale .fod Seethearts," enclosing a long stamped, return envelope, plus 20 cents. • (Always write to Dr Crane in care of this newspaper, enclosing a long stamped, addressed envelope and 20 cents to cover typing and printing costs when you send for one of his booklets.) he explained. A 1964 study showed that 72 per cent of the men helped at St./Leonard's house did not retoirn to prison! • - \ ^ "The ghetto is little more than a prison because for the people who live there, their homes, jobs and education are fenced in," he asserted. ^ He drew a parallel between tiie lack of choice the prisoners and people who live in the ghettos experience. In his powerful, moving talk, Father Jones spoke from first hand experience and his obobservations carried the authenticity of having seen people with their will damaged, their spirit crushed, their futures ! blank. "We are doing work in the ghetto fop of you understand," he said; "We are attempting to build a power of choice since these people must have freedom and choice if their lot is to be improved. "We want to make it possible for these people to be able to tell their white landlords to 'fix it or we won't pay the rent.' "We intend to organize the people where they do have a choice, where they bump heads with the manipulators." - &. for-** ' :V •- FEBRUARY 16, 1967 - McHENRY PLAINDEALER - PAGE 11, SECTION 1 smur3s0lu uim HOME AND HEART Travel is today not the tiring experience of years past. You can jet across the country or leisurely relax on a train or bus that will speed you to your destination while providing most, if not all, of the comforts of home. Yet, one thing , holds true. Travel still tends to remind one that "there is no place like home." Home is, indeed, where the heart is. If the home is a happy place, the greatest sights, the magic scenery of far away places cannot drive away the thoughts of home. <•> Home is not t perfect place. Yet the little everyday things .that seem to annoy us are not the things we remember when we are away. And, if we do, we remember them more kindly than we endure them dn a dayto- day basis. <; If you're not traveling soon, why not do something about the little everyday things -- whatever you think is necessary to make home thoughts brighter next time vou are away. Shop In McHenry Drive a F»rd Country ftiecial at a White Sale price! COOKS OOBNER Getting tired of serving the same food --the food your family likes? well, perhaps they too would like a ehasge. How about a Chtese-H^ps recipe? 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