ot tip C linic Melba has been made ecstatically happy by her daily newspaper! So scrapbook this case or mail it to all couples who want to adopt a baby (or have already done so). And be sure you memorize the diplomatic strategy below that shews how to inform a foster child of its adoption! By - George W. Crane, Ph. D., M.D. CASE K-507: Melba M., aged 27, is excited.- "Dr. Crane," she exulted, "I give our daily newspaper full credit for making my marriage completely happy! "For I had never been able to get pregnant in all the 5 years we have been married. "Then I read your column about Helen West, the Presbyterian clergyman's wife in St. Louis, who wrote that book, 'Adopted Four And' Had One More.* "So I got the book at once and it was so inspiring that I cried over almost every chapter. "Then I coaxed my husband to read it, for he hadn't reacted very well to my suggestion that we adopt a baby. "Well, he was sold on the idea after he had finished Mrs. West's wonderful little book, and we soon found a baby boy for adoption. "But when he gets a little older, how can we best inform him of the fact we are not his flesh-and-blood parents?" ADOPTION DIPLOMACY Tactfully remind him that you foster parents merely "adopted" each other via marriage, though you are not of any blood kinship. For a wedding is just a public example of adoption by an' adult couple, who then find themselves feeling much more closely knit than they ever were to their own blood brothers and sisters, with whom they grew up from childhood. Dads, remind your adopted child that you deliberately picked it because of voluntary love. You WANTED it, much as you wanted your wife! Melba and her husband can thus reassure the little boy that they are all on the same footing in their little family unit. For they are all held together by the strongest bond on this earth, namely, love for each other or voluntary affection. This idea will banish the usual subconscious belief of many adopted ydungsters who feel they are not entitled to be admitted to that "inner sanctum" of the actual blood relatives. Buoy up your foster child's morale further by telling him that many of the world's most, famous men and women have been adopted children. Jesus was thus an adopted child! For the Bible tells us that Joseph picked Mary and her unborn baby as his own family, though Joseph was not the real parent of Christ. So Joseph voluntarily adopted Jesus, and proved to be a superb parent, too, for he helped teach Jesus the Ten Com- From This Day Forward.... go in love...so lovely a color candid wedding album by Gaylord, the second best man at your wedding, who will capture the story of your wedding in professional co/or, to preserve every memorable moment...at reasonable prices ( CAMHD FtOM THl WEDDING AlttJM OF Ml 1 MRS LEE BEACH ) by GAYLORD -vm "Tkt Rtcomaumdtd PUtttnpkrr" 385-0170 3812 W. Elm St. McHenry,lll. 60050 mandments and other moral precepts. And he also gave Christ a sound apprenticeship in the carpentry trade! O Since carpenters develop powerful muscles, we thus know that yJesus must have had an athletic build, which probably helped attract other rugged hemen, including Peter. Alas, nowadays many people rely too heavily on that old maxim that "Blood is thicker than water." That's not true at all, for unless there is mutual respect and love, your flesh-and-blood offspring will sell you down the river. King David's own son Absalom thus tried to slay David to gain the throne! And the first pair of blood kin on this earth, namely, Cain and Abel, ended in fratricide! So send for my booklet "Facts About Pregnancy and Foster Children," enclosing a long stamped, return envelope, plus . 20 cents. Also, pass this column along to all parents of adopted kiddies! (Always write to Dr. Crane in care of this newspaper, enclosing a long stamped, addressed envelope and 20 cents to cover typing and printing costs when you send for one of his booklets.) Wed. May 21, 1969 - Plaindealer - Sec. 2, Pg. 5 ttrtttrtrrrrttrttffittrrriiiitfrttttttrttrrtr rrrr*rr-- -- AID TO CITIES Gov. Richard B. Ogilvie pledged financial aid to Illinois cities in a special message to the Legislature recently. He called for passage of home rule bills "designed to begin the freeing of our cities. "The state must insist that any increase in local government autonomy or revenue granted to the city of Chicago be coupled with the assurance that local services will be administered more efficiently and economically than ever before," said the governor. He demanded a modern civil service system that would eliminate patronage jobs in Chicago. The governor said specific revenue measures will be presented by his administration, but he said passage of the home rule bills "should be undertaken first." INEZ YOUNG FRANKLIN THIS WEEK'S SPECIALS ON SALE Thursday Friday Saturday May 22-23-24 For The Patio Or Lawn Ma j e s t y ALUMINUM FURNITURE T h e Ul t ima t e in Sewi n g ! SEWING STARTER SET ELECTRIC SCISSORS Weather resistant for the great outdoors. Matching pair cool green and white plastic webbing & strong 1 -in. tubular frames. Easy to carry & store! Fully equipped! Scissors, tape measure, thimble, pin cushion and more . . . eleven different helpers in all! Fast, safe, accurate . . . saves time and work. Cuts heavy wools, sheer silk, nylon! UL approved. JIHy 7 PICTURE HANGER Hook on cloth, 6 glue to wall Hoktel&lbfer tmrd 11 Deluxe FRAMED PICTURES 499 7-Ounce Size Ruth Barry Genera/ Electric POCKET RADIO FOAM CUPS 2/100 Picnic Table COVER CLAMPS petite Choice of pictures* to tall 20 x 40-in. frame size 58 4 Protects agai nst wind! Pkg. of 4. 95 Reg. 49c A must for mini skirts in micro mesh stretch nylon Insulation of white foam keeps drinks hot or cold longer. 50 cups in bag Gic }>ack includes radio, bat lery and earphone. Ideal for all ages. 4 inches high Reg. 79c Bag l'/z LBCIRCUS PEANUTS SALE PRICED Reg. 1.00 B A N DEODORANT Reg. 1.19 DRY BAN DEODORANT Reg. 79c HALO Reg. 79c Bag 2 LBS ORANGE SLICES HAIR SPRAYS SALE PRICED SALE PRICED SALE PRICED Contributions in memory of three long-time friends of Memorial , Hospital for McHenry County help make possible three cardio-care units now in the intensive care department. Bert Hanson, administrator, has small nameplates which have been affixed to the equip- Memorials Aid County Hospital Memorials established to honor three people closely associated with Memorial Hospital for McHenry County over a period of many years have been used to purchase equipment in the new intensive care unit. The bedside cardio-care units, part of the intensive care equipment placed in operation in March, have been purchased in memory of Dr. Glenn Wright, Dr. Thomas Forrest and Russell Reimer. Dr. Wright and Dr. Forrest were long-time staff doctors. Reimer was a board member and board secretary for many years. Small name plates have been affixed to the units by Bert Hanson, hospital administrator, acknowledging the memorial gifts honoring these men. Money in the funds were given in their memory by friends to honor them in a permanent way. Since the installation of the intensive care equipment in Room 314, its value has been dramatized in several instances. Seldom does a day go by without at least one patient in this department, and often all beds are full. When the new hospital building program is completed, the intensive care unit will be larger and will be shfted to the first floor. ment in recoginition of the honored persons. Honored are Dr. Glenn Wright, Dr. Thomas Forrest and Russell Reimer. With Hanson are Miss Judith Bartz, R.N., left, and Mrs. Dianne Green, R.N. DON PEASLEY PHOTO HOLIDAY HILLS NEWS 885-4672 MILK PRICES Representing a one-cent increase over March, a minimum order blend price of $4.96 per hundredweight will be paid dairy farmers for Grade A milk delivered during April to plants within Zone 1 of the Chicago regional market order, Pure Milk Association announced today. Zone 1 includes the Illinois and Wisconsin territory within 85 miles of Chicago city, hall , plus Milwaukee county, Wis., and Winnebago county, 111. The $4.96 applies to milk of 3.5 percent butterfat content and is a blend of the $5.53 per hundredweight order price for Class 1 (bottling) milk and $4.34 per hundredweight for Class II milk used for other than bottling purposes. GARY CONNELL WINS NEWSBOY SCHOLARSHIP Congratulations to Gary Connell on being awarded a newspaperboy's scholarship recently. Gary, the son of Marge and Jack Connell, is an eighth grader at St. Patrick's school and McHenry Junior high school. He belongs to St. Patrick's Civic club and is a reporter for the school paper. He is alsoa member of the local Boy Scouts and has played Little League baseball for five years. The scholarships are awarded in the states of Illinois and California and are awarded to youths in any grade of school who have been newspaperboys for a year prior to application. Five letters of recommendation must accompany the application. The funds can be used by the youths in any accredited college, university, business or trade school and will be held in trust for them until they enter an advanced school after their high school graduation. RUMMAGE SALE Successful!! was the word used to describe the recent rummage sale held by the Holiday Hills Property Owners association on Saturday, May 17. Orchids to Mary Mahon who did most of the work before and during the sale and to those who helped her out, Helen Boettcher, Doris Filip, Eunice Heise, Donna Kasprzyk and Dot Gabriel. BOY SCOUT CAMP OUT Last week's Boy Scout campout could just as well have been described as a 'damp-out', what with buckets of rain falling continuously. They stuck it out from Friday evening until Saturday night but finally gave in and headed for home cold, damp and disappointed. Spirits are not so damp, tho, that they won't try again. Campers at the Thunderbird game farm were Bob and Pat Wilson, Bill Wise, Roy Breede, Bob Sundby, Jim and JoeSzamlewski, Ken Boettcher, Gary Connell, Scott Brody, Steve and Jeff Kasprzyk, Alan White, Joe Foreman, Mitchell Quilico and Day Camp in Reg. 1.73 ASPIRIN Large 200 Tablet Bottle SALE ^-| -| ^ PRICED r Daily 9-6 Fri. 9-9 FRANKLIN McHenry, Illinois GREEN STREET MALL McHenry for Boys and Girls Parents We are having day camp again this summer for boys and girls to 12 years old. You can have peace of mind while you are working, not having to worry about your child roaming the streets or wondering about their whereabouts while you are away. We have a supervised daily program which Includes swimming baseball hiking, indoor games, wood working shop and arts and crafts. >• We can assure you your' child will have an Interesting and rewarding time. If you are interested in having your child join our group call immediately for the date you want your child to be enrolled. For further information - OPEN JUNE 16TH Call FANTASY FARM Phone 385-2499 $15.00 Per Week "<»•»* HMTTTUnm OOUNU. ' I I Alan Estes. Scoutmaster Joe Catanzaro had the following fathers along to help, Con Kasprzyk, Hal Breede, Jack White and Bill Boettcher. PINK RIBBONS AT THE KATHANS A lovely pink bundle is the newest addition to the Kathan household. Leone and Leon are the proud parents of baby, Michelle Leah, born on April 22 at McHenry hospital and weighing 7 lbs. 2 ozs. Lucky Michelle boasts three sisters and one brother, Kim, 10 years old, Mike 8, Laura, 7 and Lynn, 6. Mike, who has been confined to La Rabida hospital has been able to come home weekends so that he can share in the joy at home of the new baby. We hope Mike will get well real soon. m GREETINGS Birthday greetings go to Leone Kathan who celebrated on the sixteenth, to Joseph Mroz on the nineteenth, Mark Jende on the twentieth, Roy Lundelius on the twenty-first, Phyl Haper on the twenty-third and John Wegener on the twentyfifth. Get well wishes tc Carol Carlson and Bob Sundby. DEMONSTRATION TEAM FROM AREA TO STATE FAIR Jean Slater from the Busy Beavers 4-H club of Cary, and the team of Laurie Staveteig and Mary Boyer of the Lincoln Clover leaves in McHenry wi'-lrepresent McHenry county in the state demonstration contest at the State Fair. These two entries, along with the other demonstrations, recently entertained an audience at the annual McHenry County Demon strati cm contest. At the demonstration event, each participant learned that there is an art to presenting a good demonstration. This is very important because, in today's fast moving world, every person must learn to put words into "action". An effective demonstration is perhaps the best way of teaching someone how to do something. Poise, confidence and self-assurance will grow with each time the demonstration is given and with each new demonstration planned and presented. Those receiving "A" ratings were Stepehn Schultz, Algonquin; Mark Slater, Cary; Clyde Slater, Cary; Gary and Dale Steadman, Woodstock; John Molthen, Harvard; Roland Sarko, Marengo and Debra Wagner, Wauconda. Other participants were Larry Davis, Marengo; Carol Curran, McHenry; Edward Vogts, Woodstock; Jim "Gilman, Woodstock; Joleen Ziesk, Wauconda; Karen Wellner, Barrington; Pat Wellner, Barrington; Barbara Greenhill, Barrington; Kathie and Mary Kay Lindberg, Harvard; Debrah and Donald Lacy, Harvard. Shop In McHenry