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If Don E. Hamachek, Professor, Department of Counseling, Personnel Services, and Educational Psychology, Michigan State Universi ty, East Lansing, has prepared the following art icle he t i t les, "Helping your Child Grow Up" In most societ ies, the family provides the emotional framework within which a child 's personali ty is rooted and nourished. I t is within the context of some kind of family unit that a child feels ei ther loved or unloved, wanted or unwanted, capable or in­ capable, worthy or unworthy. It is probably safe to say that rfo parents who consciously choose to have children, deliberately set out to make their children more unhappy than happy, more fearful than confident , more closed-minded than open-minded, or more neurotic than adjusted. Most parents, in a word, want to help their children to grow up to be as physically hale and as emotionally hearty as possible. Although al l human relat ionships are unique, the one exist ing between parent and child is an enormously meaningful one. A growing child is influenced and even­ tually shaped through a slow but cumulative process of witnessing and part icipating in the day-to-day interactions of the important people in his l ife. The intimacy and intensity of contact and the everyday in­ teraction and interchange exist in an emotionally charged atmosphere. Whether a child gets no at tention at al l or too much, whether he is punished too often or too l i t t le , he is forming at t i tudes about him­ self Children are l ike sponges. They tend to soak up al l that surrounds them. Later , through their experience, in­ tel lect ,Mind reason, they will think through their conscious knowledge, discarding some and retaining some As growing boys and girls , however, they will absorb their environment, which, among other things, includes the at t i tude of playmates, the wisdom of teachers, the gentleness and discipline of parents. All that goes into making up the emotional substance of a child is taught: the abil i ty and inclination to love or hate, to be trustful or suspicious, to be close or distant , to feel proud or ashamed, to share or hoard, to feel confident or inadequate, to be ambit ious or lazy, and on and on Although many children turn out al l r ight and make a posit ive go of i t in their adult l ives, others remain emotionally f ixated at .some younger age, feeling both unable and unwill ing to accept the full responsibil i t ies for mature adult l iving The question is , "How can we help a child grow up and mature emotionally?" More specifically, "How can we help a child to develop a healthy capacity to both give love and mark your ballot No. 82 for REPUBLICAN candidate for McHENRY COUNTY TREASURER Audrey R. WALGENBACH Nov. 5th General Election Pol. Adv. Pd. For by Audrey K. Walgenbach 14417 Washington Woodstock, 111. receive i t . to be open to new experiences and people, to take some risks now and then, and to feel generally happy about himself and his lot in l i fe?" in subsequent art icles, we will share with you some ideas, approaches, and techniques for achieving these goals. Poisonous? Thought to be poisonous, to­ matoes were not eaten in the United States until about 1825, although they had been an Ital­ ian staple food since the 1500's PAGE 21 - PLAINDEALER-FR1DAY, NOVEMBER 1, 1974 from HISTORY'S SCRAPBOOK DATES AND EVENTS FROM YESTEWYCAWS October 25, 1954 -- First live telecast of a Presidential Cabinet session. October 26, 1951 -- Rocky Marciano knocks out Jn Louis to become champion. 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