PAGE 22 -~PL.AINDEAL.ER - WEDNESDAY. JUNE 1. 1977 There's an Answer! by Norman Vincent Peale and Ruth Stafford Peale New Direction Q For some time now 1 have had something pulling at me- telling me I must start going slowly in another direction. I have been a good mother of lour very special sons and have devoted the past twenty years to mv home and bovs I've had some ot my poetry published and have won awards for my art work I love to study and read: 1 feel I will always be the "student" type I'm interested in medical and philosophical things I've prayed, for God to tell me if 1 should concentrate fully on my art and writing or go back to school to study nursing or just to study. I feel I'm too scattered in my actions and want to dedicate myself to one area. I truly feel God has something great planned for me. if I could just decide what it is. Would you advise me1 A Perhaps instead of praying to the Lord and in effect telling Him to guide you to be an artist or a writer or a student, it might make more sense just to ask Him what His will is for you. It could be He simply wants you to go on being a wonderful person and a good mother and wife However, there is no reason why you cannot be the foregoing and at the same time be a student. A mother-wife- student career is not im possible It can be a worthwhile life style and,can slowly draw you in a special direction. In this vou mav find that " something gre^t'* which God has planned for you. We have a booklet. "This Thing Called Guidance," which has helped others with questions such as yours, and a copy of it is on its way to you. Anyone reading this column who wishes a free copy may write for one. Address your request to Dr and Mrs. Peale. Box 500, Pawling. N Y. 12564. Divorced Male Q I'm 35. male, divorced four years. I don't have any extra money to date, don't know anvone I would like to date. I'm stuck on this question. I don't want to remarry, but I desire sex. But to have sex outside of marriage is sin What is a person to do0 Go though the rest of his life without any sexual conduct? A. The sex urge is formal and was built into you by your Creator The Christian moral code is based on the fact that it has been proven better that a man should have one wife and adhere Jo her only in sex relationships If you desire to live without sin. which in our opinion is the right and proper way of con duct, then you should recon sider your disinclination to marry. Find yourself a good wife and live a normal married life. The mere fact that your first marriage may have been an unhappy one does not mean that your next marriage may not be entirely different. Can't Love Husband Q. My husband who is in his 50's had an affair with a 19- year-old girl. Believe me, it hurts me so much even to think about it. I just can't seenruto forget it. I have forgiven him, but the hurt is still there. I won't ever trust my husband again or believe in him. He has ruined our marriage. Whenever he touches me I just feel my blood run cold. A year has passed and not once has he told me he is happy with staying with me and not once has he made love to me. Gee, how it hurts me to see that he takes me for granted. Please, a little word of advice. A. Better change your at titude or you may drive him into another affair. Perhaps your unconscipus rigidity did Air Mattress 127 • 27 air mattress for beach. sun-1 or camping. Sal* "I" Tennis S«t 143 By Empir*. With Magic Sof* T Boll. Great for in doors or out! HORNSBYS ^ family centers -- PRICES EFFECTIVE WED.. JUNE 1 THRU FRI.. JUNE 3 A 4400 W RTI. 120 McNENRY RTI. 47 4 CNTRY CLB RD WOOOSTOCK Blc® Lighter OKI! DAILY 0-0 SUNDAY 10-4 Prices effective while quantities last. Wa reserve the right to limit quantities. 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