And Save *10.30 Over Newstand Price FILL OUT AND MAIL OR BRING TO: McHENRY PLAINDEALER 3812 W. Elm St.. McH«nry,lll. 60050, with check or money order for *10.50 fc subscription within McHenry County. NAME. ADDRESS CITY Divorcee with financial problems Q. I'm not depressed or lonely but I still have problems. Mostly financial. I'm 35 years old, divorced, have two children and plenty to keep me busy. My former husband pays little support and doesn't even meet that. I had a good job, but they wouldn't pay me equal to the men doing the same work. They all hounded me to make my ex-husband pay. Finally, demanding that I go to bed with him, and after months of my refusal , my boss fired me. Even my lawyer keeps saying, "Find a man to support you." 7 HOMEMADE SALADS TRIMMINGS TO CREATE YOUR OWN SALAD DAILY SPECIALS SANDWICH-SOUP h SALAD SPECIALS 11:30 to 2:30 MONDAY thru FRIDAY PAGE 10- PLAINDEALER - WEDNESDAY. Jt'XE 22. 197; Retreat House Lost To Flames During Storm I know God had a purpose for it all. This is just one event that made me know I don't have enough faith. I feel confused about how I believe, and I don't know where to turn to learn to have more faith. Can you please help me? A. It is natural to be disturbed and perhaps even bitter and questioning under the circumstances you describe. God never promised anybody freedom from sorrow or suf fering. Even Jesus suffered •accutely. But he does promise His love and His peace. The utlimate wisdom is to trust Him and let Him heal your broken hearts. We are sending you a copy of our booklet, Let Not Your Heart Be Troubled, which has helped others with questions such as yours. Anyone reading this column who wishes a free copy may write for one. Ad dress your request to Dr. and Mrs. Peale, Box 500, Pawling, NY 12564. Shaking hands in church and spreading germs Q. How do you feel about people shaking hands in church with everyone around them, causing confusion and germ- spreading? Wouldn't it be better for people to say simply, "God bless you?" A. Friendliness within a congregation is strengthened by physical contact. Shaking handSvwith other worshipers is a time^honored way of ex pressing fellowship, love warmth and caring. It helps to create a bond between those who come to church for wor ship, help and healing. There are germs everywhere. Why single out those in church? Enjoy this manifestation of God's love just as you benefit from the rest of the church service. NO installation charge NEW fully automatic softeners TWO year option to buy with FULL rental fee deducted ONE phone call can answer any questions per monl PHONE 312-259-3393 RENT-A-SOFT INC. Serving McHenry & Greater McHenry County RENTAL SALAD BAR FOR LUNCH! STARTING M0N. JUNE 13th LONGMAN STEAK HOUSE ; by Norman Vincent Peale ; and Ruth Stafford Peale ' Lost five-year-old child and lost ; faith i Q. Since we lost our five-year- old son my husband has been quite upset. He wanted to know how God could let such a dear child suffer through the agony ;of an open spine and finally death. I couldn't find any words of comfort for him even though But you just can't walk out and pick one up off the street. I don't want another bad marriage. It's hard for me to understand men's position on paying women. I have to pay the bills the same as a man, but how can I when I'm not allowed to earn it? A. If all the statements you recite are factural, although we are no lawyers, it would ap pear that you have a legal case against your employer. Under the law, as we un derstand it, the fact that you are a woman does not permit him to pay you on a scale less than that of a man doing the same work. Furthermore, it is not your employer's business to "hound" you to make your ex- husband pay the difference between what you. make and what he should pay you. Nor has he any right to demand that you act immorally. And we certainly would not take a lawyer's superficial advice to find a man to support you. Consult your state em ployment office on your legal employment righrs. (Perhaps you would like to find an answer for yourself to a problem that you can share with others in There's An Answer! If there is something you would like to ask Dr. and Mrs. Peale to discuss in this column, write to them in care of Box 500, Pawling, NY 12564. Yap Finances People on the Pacific Island of Yap fashion their money from large doughnut-shaped stones, some as much as ten feet in diameter. The money usually is exchanged only during important ceremonial events and is trans ported on poles thrust through the holes in the center of the currency. NOW!! YOU MAY ENJOY OUR FAMOUS KT. 120,2'/i Ml. East of McH«nry. Ill 385-9869 Despite valiant efforts by McHenry firemen of three companies, assisted by the Fox Lake department, a three-section building on the grounds of Villa Desiderata, 3615 Bay View lane, McHenry, was gutted by fire during last Friday evening's electrical storm. In these pictures they are shown utilizing various equipment in an attempt to save the structure, used as a retreat house by groups from Chicago and suburbs. Fire Chief Glenn Peterson estimates that replacement costs would run in excess of 950,000. SUBSCRIBE To The McHenry Plaindealer STAFF PHOTOS BY WAYNE GAYLORD f * ***» •' T