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PAGE 2 - PLAINDEALER - WEDNESDAY, OCTOBER 26. lf77 •• wm - & i MR. AND MRS. HERB L. TWIST, JR. HEIRLOOM JEWELRY-Andrea Alysia York wore a family lieirloom blue sapphire ring surrounded with diamonds and diamond earrings when she became the bride of Herb Lawrence Twist, Jr., July 15. Both had been given to her by her maternal grandmother who had accepted them, from her maternal great grandfather 55 years ago. Vows were repeated before the Rev. York of Calvary Community church. Lake Geneva, during a 3 o'clock ceremony. The bride is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Edwin B. York of 2906 Bull Valley road, McHenry, and the groom's i»rents are Mr. and Mrs. Herb R. Twist, Sr., of Delavan, Wis. The bride is a 1968 graduate of McHenry Comunity high school and Illinois State university in 1972 with a BA in business education. She is a teacher at Elkhorn high school, Wis. The groom graduated from Lake Geneva high school in 1969 and the University of Wisconsin at Whitewater in 1973. He is a self-employed John Deere .machinery dealer. Senior Walk-In Center Location: Moose Lodge, Rt. •120 '• Time: Monday, 11 a.m. to 4 3>.m., Tuesday through Friday, »10 a.m. to 4 p.m. October 27 '* Meet and eat, 11:45 a.m. to ^12:30 p.m. McHenry Rescue squad with Xhief Carmon Hodges * October 28 * Meet and eat, 11:45 a.m. to •12:30 p.m. * Cards and games * October 31 Meet and eat, 11:45 a.m. to tl2:30 p.m. * Halloween and birthday yarty, 1 p.m., "Tricks and ^Treats" t November I t Meet and eat. 11:45 to 12:30 Craft day, freswg apple dolls November 2 Meet and |pt, 1J;45 to 12:30 Painters with Fred Turek, 1 p.m. Games and cards for non- painters Be careful when selecting toys for children -- some can be blinding instruments in the hands of the young. For in­ formation on children's eye safety, write Prevent Blind­ ness, 79 Madison avenue, New York, N Y. 10016 RUTH CIRCLE The Ruth Circle of the First United Methodist church of McHenry will meet at the church Tuesday, Nov. 1 at 12 noon. Mrs. William Jordan and Mrs. Henry Tony an will act as hosstesses. spurgeons BEAUTY SALON OPEN MON. THRU SAT. GIFT CERTIFICATES 5 SPECIALISTS TO SERVE YOU 4400 W. RTE. 120 McHENRY PHONE 385-4520 poooopucppoeoo--o-- Community • Calendar [0000000000000000000* OCTOBER 26 Church Women United Medical Van-St. Patrick's Montini School, 3500 Washington Avenue-5 to 8 p.m. Halloween Card Party & Luncheon-St. Peter's. Hall, Spring Grove--ll:30 a.m. Dinner And Program-- McHenry VFW~Guest: Irene Hughes, Psychic~6:30 p.m.- Tickets at VFW--Sponsors: Holiday Hills Women's Gub. Cub Scout Pack 162-Monthly Pack Meeting-American Legion Post Home-7:15 p.m. -•> V • _ p OCTOBER 27 McHenry Senior Citizens Club-Drivers Refresher Course-Final Session-10 a.m. to 12 Noon-McHenry City Hall. Valley View Girl Scouts Neighborhood Meeting-St. Patrick's Church Hall-9:15 a.m. McHenry Garden Club- Meeting-Arts & Crafts-Home of Aldona Cepulis-10 a.m. Card Party-Christ the King Church Hall--7:30 p.m.-* Wonder Lake Fire Department Ladies Auxiliary, Sponsors. OCTOBER 29 St. Margaret Chapter o NAIM-Cards-St. Mary's Oak Room-7:30 p.m. SMILES-Halloween Party- First Baptist Church-6 p.m. Free Children's Cartoon Movies-McHenry Public Library-2 p.m. OCTOBER 30 Pancake Breakfast & Bake Sale-Johnsburg Community Club-Benefit, St. John's Restoration Fund-Sponsors, St. Agatha Court 777, National Catholic Order of Foresters. Lakeland Park Women's Clhb-Halloween Party for Children--2 to 4 p.m.- C o m m u n i t y H o u s e - Reservations necessary at 385- 6448 or 385-3777. OCTOBER 31 McHenry Area Jaycees- Spook House-East Campus. McHenry Woman's Club- Board Meeting-10 a.m.-City Hall. NOVEMBER 1 U.M.W. Mission Team (Executive Committee) Meeting--8:45 a.m.-First United Methodist Church. _ Koinonia Group-10 a.m.- First United Methodist Church. Marcia Mary Ball Circle Meeting-12:30 p.m.-First United Methodist Church- Hostess: Esther Sims, Florence Colby. Free Blood Pressure Screening-First United Methodist Church-1 p.m. NOVEMBER 2 Edgebrook PTO Board Meeting-School Teachers Lounge-7:30 p.m. McHenry Grandmothers Club--ll:30 a.m.-Lunch at Indian Manor-Installation at Hall, 1 p.m. NOVEMBER 3 Pi Alpha Chapter of Beta Sigma Phi-Regular Meeting- Hostess, Mrs. Stacia Russell. NOVEMBER 4, 5, & 6 Northland Area Art League, Winter Dimensions, Ill-Nature Center, Veteran's Acres, Crystal Lake-Friday, Patron's Night,- 7:30 to 10 p.m.- Saturday, 12 Noon to 8 p.m.- Sunday, 11* a.m. to 6 p.m.~ Public Invited. NOVEMBER 5 Children's Free Cartoon Movies-McHenry Public Library-2 p.m." Ringwood United Methodist Church-Annual Roast Beef Dinner & Bazaar-Bazaar, 3 p.m.-Family Style Dinner, 5, 6, & 7 p.m.-Tickets are Available from Church Members. There will also be a white elephant sale, a bake sale, and a plant sale along with the Country store which will feature homemade candies and preserves. Coffee will served to browsers. HALLOWEEN PARTY October 29 has been chosen by the SMILES as the date for the Halloween party. Costumes can be worn for the 6 o'clock gathering at the McHenry First Baptist church. Guests are asked to bring a dirfh to pass for the potluck dinner. SMILES is a nondenominational adult singles group sponsored by the church. Information is available at 385-nnfti No Charge To Our Savers... Money Orders McHenry Savings jLL, and loan association MCHENRY 1209 N. Gr**n St. McHenry 385-3000 10520 Moln St. Richmond 678-2061 fcUe*njjdopk There's An Answer (by Norman Vincent Peaje and Ruth Stafford Peale) • But Trouble Valley View PTO Auction-1 to 4 p.m.-Valley View School. St. Margaret Chapter of Naim-Fish Dinner-Elk Gub, Woodstock--5:30 p.m. . •' ?'•*. # ^ NOVEMBER 6 NAIM Diocesan Meeting- Home of Catherine Seek, 3219 Highcrest Road, Rockford- PoUuck-Bring Table Service-2 p.m. NOVEMBER 7 McHenry Senior Citizens Club-Executive Committee Meeting--3:30 p.m.-Landmark School. • NOVEMBER 8 McHenry Area Jaycees-- General Membership Meeting- McHenry Moose Lodge-8 p.m. Town And Country Newcomers-Monthly Meeting- -Silent Auction-St. Paul's Episcopal Church~7:30 p.m.* NOVEMBER 9 Church Women United Medical Van-St. Patrick's Montini School-5 to 8 p.m. Public Book Review- Business k Professional Women's Club--Herbert Duenow, Reviewer-Faith Presbyterian Church--8 p.m. McHenry Senior Citizens Club-Bus Trip to Chicago Loop-Leaving McHenry State Bank at 8:45 a.m. Annual Fall Bazaar-l to 7 p.m.-Zion Lutheran Church. NOVEMBER 10 McHenry Senior Citizens Club-Bus-Luncheon Trip to House on the Rocks-Leaving McHenry Savings & Loan 10:45 a.m. Lakeland Park Women's Club Meeting-7:30 p.m.- Lakeland Park Community House-Hostesses, Anne Moore and Sharon Gacek. NOVEMBER 12 Friendship Club-Potluck Dinner & Meeting-6 p.m.-First United Methodist Church. Free Children's Cartoon Movies-McHenry Public Library-2 p.m. NOVEMBER 13 i ,« Bus Trip to Bapaum & Bailey Circus, Amphitheater-- Matinee-Ringside Seats-Bus Leaves McHenry State Bank 12 Noon-Public Welcome-Phone 385-8633--Auxiliary to McHenry Hospital, Sponsors. NOVEMBER 14 McHenry Senior Citizens Club Meeting~7:30 p.m.-East Campus Cafeteria-Program: McHenry Choral Club. Zion Ladies Aid Announce Fall Bazaar The annual fall bazaar sponsored by the Zion Ladies aid will be held Wednesday, Nov. 9, from 1 p.m. to 7 p.m. at the Zion Lutheran church located at 4206 W. Waukegan road in McHenry. Once again the bazaar will have many beautiful handmade items for sale with two full- sized quilts being sold in a silent auction. is it that so much trouble seems to be heaped on particular people? My mother had a hard life and is now (tying of cancer. My own life has been filled with nothing but trouble. I and members of my family have had several major and minor surgeries. I had a cerebral hemmoriiage at 41 and eventually made a full recovery. Our younger son is a mild schizophrenic and unable to hold a job for long and lives with us j>ait of the time. Now I have to watch my mother dying of cancer. I've always been a strong person, but I can't take much more. I am drinking more and more and think 1 may be becoming an alcoholic. Even a strong person can be crushed by life evetually. It certainly doesn't seem fair. Can you give me an answer? A. A psychiatrist once said: "The chief duty of a human being is to endure life." Which of course is pretty bleak. But the Bible says: "This is the victory that overcomes the world, even our faith." Which is pretty inspiring. You have had plenty of trouble, but it is interesting how some people rise above trouble and live victoriously. Others contantly think trouble. And to a certain extent they create trouble. At least they live in a trouble climate. One thing you can do is to work on developing a positive, hopeful attitude. To the extent that you do this, trouble will tend to diminish. We have a booklet, "You Can Overcome Any Problem," which has helped others with questions such as yours, and a copy of it is on its way to you. Any reader max also have a free copy by writing us at Box 500, Pawling, NY 12964. Daughter Is In A Cult ' \ Q. My daughter is in a cult. She is so programmed to the leader's way of thinking that her father and I find our faith tested daily. We are now in the position of heathen whom she is trying to convert. I am so concerned about the isidious influence on her and on thousands of other vulnerable young people as well. What is your opinion of the various cults that are attracting so many of our young people? A. It is true that some young people are so amateurish and 8ophomoric about their religion as actually to believe that they have all the answers. Don't let your daughter give you a sense of guilt simply because she has been brainwashed. Keep on loving her. Don't argue with her. Pray for her until at length' she grows up and hopefully wises up. Husband Abuses Children Q. My husband abuses our children. He has these spells where he cannot control his anger. And we "watch out" because he'll always lash out and somebody always gets hurt There is so much hatred in our family. Some of our children hate their father with such a passion that I am afraid that tragedy will come. My husband's parents abused him and damaged him emotionally by their severe and harsh methods of disciplining. However, he refuses to accept that this is true, so I think I have no alternative but to leave him. However, I really do love him, and it breaks my heart to even think of leaving him. Why is it that a person won't acknowledge that he even has a problem? I've searched and searched for an answer and have not found it A. Any father who is so lacking in emotional control obviously needs help. Whether you as a wife can help him is a question. But you can try. For one thing, don't react with fear when he's angry. Rather than "watching out," meet him eye to eye and stand firm. When he comes to the point where he knows and will admit that he hasaproblem, then and only then can he really be helped. Meanwhile, just love him as best you can and believe that he will come to his senses. Pray for him as a mixed-up and unhappy person. Patient love, combined with quiet strength, has a strange power. If there is something you would like to ask Dr. and Mrs. Peale to discuss in this column, write to them in care of Box 500, Pawling. NY 12564. "Operation Identification99 Is Inaugurated P< 51Q be MRS. ALBERT STILLING The. fall meeting of the Fourth District of the Illinois Federation of Women's clubs was held Oct. 17 at Garden Prairie, 111., with the Garden Prairie Women's club acting as hostesses. District President Mrs. Albert Stilling commented on the turnout of sixty-three members representing twenty- one area county clubs. She opened discussion pertaining to the primary project of the clubs, the anti-burglary program, Operation I.D. The Fourth District is working on a 75 percent coverage for McHenry, Boone, and Win-' nebago counties. A "theft prevention kit" is being made available through the club which provides the recipient with material to mark and register all possessions which may be of value to burglars. Using a specially designed stencil and engraving tool provided in the kit, per­ sonal television sets,; CB radios, watches arid other valuables can now be easily marked with a unique code number. The kit also includes a warning shield for doors and windows which acts as, a warning to potential thieves. Registration of the code number along with the name and address of the owner is sent on a registration form to the Identifax Computer center where it is available to police departments throughout the United States. The depart­ ments have access to a toll free telephone number, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, and can learn in seconds the name and address of the owner of the stolen property. At a minimal cost, each kjt will serve to register an entire family. It is hoped that this will result in a uniform nation-wide program. The Illinois Federation of Women's clubs urges the cooperation of other organizations or interested citizens. Information on the program or kits is available by contacting Mrs. Albert Stilling of McHenry or community women's clubs in McHenry, Wonder Lake or Pistakee Highlands. Traffic Safety Legalization of motorized pedacycles (mopeds) in Illinois broadens the need for highway traffic safety education, Secretary of State Alan J. Dixon said recently. "The moped has an excellent safety record in Europe, where they have been popular for 30 years. But Illinois, with its fast traffic and high-powered cars and trucks is different from Europe," Dixon said. "All of us should realize that a new element has been introduced into our traffic patterns and we must use defensive driver techniques to cope with it," Dixon said. MONDAY NITE SPECIAL! SENIOR CITIZEN BUFFET ALL YOU CAN EAT! >3 50 REG. 4.25 LUNCHEON SPECIAL-11 to 2 2:1 COCKTAILS! INDMN MANOR RESTAURANT & LOUNGE RTE. 31 SO. OF McHENRY 385-8600 MR. AND MRS. DONALD WISER FLORIDA HONEYMOON-A home in McHenry awaited newlyweds Mr. and Mrs. Donald Wiser following a Florida honeymoon trip. Fran Malpede of McHenry and Donald Wiser repeated nuptial vows before the Rev. William Schwartz of St. Mary's Catholic church Saturday, Aug. 27. The bride Is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. William Malpede of Phoenix, Ariz, and the groom's parents are Mr. and Mrs. James Wiser of Volo. •M-. •* >x' "*#"i FdN Debts Pjj ; ->?* ifonr? » fn 7oIo3 fi»ma * * ^ ***** s aft, ill ^ 4* ^ < JR. ,, - * ' * * v MRS. JEFFREY A. DANIELS LATE SUMMER VOWS--Mary Alice Meath and Jeffrey Alec Daniels were united in marriage Aug. 20 at the Old Cathedral in St. Louis. The bride is the daughter of Mrs. William A. Meath of McHenry and the groom's parents are Mr. and Mrs. James A. Daniels, Jr., of St. Louis. The bride is a graduate of Fontbonne college and is currantly a teacher at St. Joseph's Institute for the Deaf in St. Louis. The groom graduated from the University of Missouri, St. Louis, and is vice-president of City Refrigeration Company, Inc., St. Louis. The couple are making their home in St. Louis. BARBARA FREUND ENGAGED--Mrs. Gerald J. Freund of McHenry announces the engagement of her daughter, Barbara, to Gerald Becker, Jr., son of Mr. and Mrs. Gerald Becker of McHenry. The bride-elect is a 1977 graduate of McHenry high school and is employed in McHenry. Her fiance graduated from McHenry Community high school in 1976, and is a member of the U.S. Air Force, stationed at Lackland Air Force base, Texas. No definite wedding plans have been made. CARLOS DEL BUSTO, M. D. (practice limited to dermatology only), announces the relocation of his offices to THE FITZGERALD REALTY BUILDING 4723 W. Route 120, McHenry 344-1720