PAGE 8 - PLAINDEALER • FRIDAY, FEBRUARY 2. 1979 Contest For Soil-Water Conservation Director Three men are seeking two positions on the board of directors of the McHenry County Soil and Water Con servation district at the annual election Saturday, Feb. 10. Filing are three county land owners living within the district: James Book, Har vard; Clark H. Landers, Sr., Alden; and Dr. John R. Tarn bone. Woodstock. The polls will be open from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. at four locations: Central school, Harvard; Hebron township office, Hebron; City Council cham bers, Marengo; and McHenry county courthouse cafeteria, Woodstock. Eligible voters may vote by absentee ballot in the district's office at 1143 North Seminary street, Woodstock, on week days from 9 a.m. to noon and 1 p.m. to 4:40 p.m. before the election Feb. 10. Landers is anu incumbent director. Retiring is a 16-year veteran of conservation and environmental service as a board member, Kenneth Fiske. Book is a cattle feeder and land owner in Chemung township. Landers is a retired exeuctive who moved to McHenry county several years ago and had a cow-calf herd on his Alden township farm. Dr. Tambone, is a long time county resident, living in the county more than 30 years. He owns a farm in Hartland township. Eligible to vote are land owners or people who live on property within the district. The district comprises most, but not all, of McHenry county. Some municipalities, for example, are included within the district. For specific eligibility information, officials at the district office (338-0049) can provide accurate data. Perspective REPORT FROM WASHINGTON By RONALD REAGAN I haven't bet on a horse since I lost money on a nag so slow he finished in the race and eighth on instant reply This Week's NIGHTLY SPECIALS * MONDAY * STEAK NIGHT » 8 oi Rit Eye 399 J jl 14 oz. 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The director of the third annual Handel festival worried that the*,Super Bowl game would cut into his Sunday matinee of "Julius Caesar". He needn't have worried. He had a near sell out at the Kennedy Center despite the excitement provided on the tube by the Steelers and the Cowboys. M0N-FRI 5 to 7 P.M. At The LITTLE CHEF Restaurant 1332 Riverside Dr. I You will be given Senior Citizen's Privileges such V As FREE COFFEE . THE Furniture Hospital CRYSTAL LAKE UPHOLSTERY SHOP iter REPAIRING 4 REGIUING Larry & Jim Seymour 815/459-0653 SEC YOU LATER •tontine, | mm* four My. TOE*. W van «M MM. AIW«. ro. I MT I cmr* iMvyk tc It, ValMrtlMT I m w iWw" P.S. Cowl to try. M how Aa »u SHIRLEY PETTERSON id yon. Be my •ILL & una TIMOTHY HALL ft On, front tfw 'iiiciwun i I'M DEAR JOANNE H«»y Valentine's Dtv Don't tot m« wait too ton*. _ Lave, GOOTM KEN Meter Valentino • Ooyl CAT ON NY--I lovo you moro then •stofdry bvt tow than tomorrow. Totto RICK Valentino's Day from your 4 only. I lovo yw. 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Kathy CHRIS DE PASQUALE If my love it so strong that your i n 1aCJn arou** love in me. Am | an the, more worthy of bein9 •OVED FCY TOU? Steve Those Bert Lance bank loans to the Carter peanut warehouse and to the "First Brother" keep coming up in conversations. Is there a Peanutgate brewing? Who knows, but the issue has a nagging persistence about it. President Carter has* problems of another sort these days. He wants to prevent a case of Brown Rot from felling his 1980 candidacy for reelection, Many politics watchers in the East did not take California's Gov. Jerry Brown very seriously until his large reelection margin in, November and, more recently, his inaugural address this month in which he called for an amendment to the U.S. Con stitution requiring a balanced federal budget. The day afer he gave the speech on statewide television in California, a friend who had been in my ad ministration in Sacramento called to say, "I think you forgot to take one of your speeches out of the desk when you left the governor's office." With most of the country becoming more conservati ve. Brown is positioning himself to the right of Mr. Carter who, in turn, wants to put himself into the American mainstream. which means being to the right of Sen. Kennedy. Both Carter and Kennedy, not surprisingly, criticized the Brown proposal. Carter said at a news con ference it would be hard "to devise a constitutional amendment prohibiting deficit spending without adding provisos that would let us deal with unanticipated military or security needs and unan ticipated needs when we have a depression." So, what's he waiting for? That's simply a matter of careful crafting to allow for such con tingencies. At the same news conference, the president worried aloud about having a constitutional convention pass such an amendment. He said a convention would be "ex tremely dangerous" because it could take up just about any matter it wanted to. The first and only one we had didn't do so badly back in 1787, but granting the uncertainties of the format, there is nothing to stop the Congress from casting the necessary two-thirds vote to submit such an amendment to the state legislatures for ratification. If it proves popular it will no doubt be given the traditional seven year time limit for ratification. If its popularity wanes, as it did for the so-called Equal Rights amendment, there is always the possibility Congress will extend the time limit a few years, as it did for the ERA. Speaking of the latter, the dust is settling here now that Bella Abzug has packed her hats and headed home. She took several members of the President's Commission on the Status of Women with her and there was a brief, loud flurry of denunciation of Mr. Carter* by Gloria Steinem and the hierarchy of the National Organization of Women. Following that, a senior executive of a large publishing enterprise with whom I talk ed said, "I am convinced the super-feminists do not speak for any but a small percenage of women who work. For those who want a career, fine. There should be no false obstacles to their advancement, but most women who work today are doing so because their families just can't make ends meet. It's inflation that's forcing them to work and that's made in Washington. 1*11 bet if you took a pool you would find most working woman would rather be home with their families, helping their kids grow up tall and strong and making sure they had a good set of values. "He added a postscript: "You are hearing this from a man-who considers himself an unreconstructed, knee-jerk liberal and proud it!" BY JOSEPH COOLS staff psychologist . news from the Family Service and Mental Health Clinic of McHenry County. C° 6^° HAPPY HOUIT^ Weekday 4-6 Sr, 'c6. '0/ (formerly "The Cork") ^ Under New Management Restaurant & Cocktails CASUAL DINING NIGHTLY Friday Fish Fry 5-10 Saturday 5-10 Tuesday thru Thursday 5-9 The Uncle's Luncheon special 11-2 Tues. thru Friday 1 1 - 3 S a t u r d a y (Kitchen closed Sunday & Monday) NIGHTLY SPECIALS Tuesday-Barbecued Ribs ^ Thursday-Roast Beef Wednesday-Chicken Fry Friday-Fish Fty Saturday • Prime rib 7518 Hancock Dr., Wonder Lake Carry Out 653-9202 (Editor's note: This is another in a series of especially written articles for McHenry County readers. Joseph Cools is a psychologist on the Family Service and Community Mental Health Center staff. This ar ticle is "Coping - "Passive" Anger"), Many times when people get extremely angry, they feel the anger is unjustified, or that it is unacceptable, or that if ex pressed, will get out of hand. Most people who are unable or unwilling to express anger directly hold the anger inside, and eventually direct it to themselves. This anger then becomes depression. Soon the person loses the connection between the anger and their feeling of depression, and are unable to figure out why they are depressed. A substantial number of other people, to whom a direct expression of anger is equally unacceptable, use a "passive" or indirect outlet of anger. Even when someone ask this person if he or she is angry, the answer is "no, of course not, why do you think I'm angry?" After reacting this way for a period of months or years, the person may actually not "feel" anger, although their demeanor often appears angry. The actual expression of the angry feelings is so indirect, it is more accurately labled as subterfuge. As an example, a man may ask his wife if she would like to go out to dinner, and she refuses, even though she really enjoys going out to dinner. When asked about it later, she may say that she cannot understand why she said no, as she really wanted to go. She was expressing anger toward the husband in an in direct sort of way. Many people use sex as an indirect or passive expression of anger. By withholding sex by being too tired or busy or not in the mood, one canjexpress a great deal of anger without getting angry. An important distinction is that the person who does this out of anger, is not aware that he is angry. They are convinced that their reasons or excuses they give are valid, and that they are not trying to express anger. 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