; . . . . . . . ' \ • " ' PAGE 2 • PLAINDEALER - WEDNESDAY. AUGUST 8. l»7t J <cA/{o6.tCy I MR. AND MRS. MICHAEL GRANATH. COUNTRY CLUB WEDDING - The patio of the MoHenry country club was the setting for the July 14 wedding of tjie former Diane Rinher to Michael Granath. The bride, the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Ross Rinher. Marengo, attended Marengo Community high school, the University of Illinois-Champaign and Eastern Illinois university. She worhs as a pharmacy technician. Mr. and Mrs. John Granath, 1313 Meadow lane, McHenry, are the parents of the groom, who graduated from McHenry high school, McHenry county college, and Eastern Illinois university, and Is employed as ! a construction laborer by Laheland Construction company. oaca Nancy Matthews Wed In Maryland To Daniel Breslin Miss Nancy Jean Matthews, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Robert A. Matthews, Bowie, Maryland, and formerly of McHenry, exchanged promises of marriage July 21 in Sacred Heart Catholic, church, Bowie, with Daniel Joseph Breslin, son of Mr. and Mrs. Joseph Breslin, also of Bowie. The bride is a graduate of Bowie Senior high school and received her Bachelor of Science degree from the University of Maryland in December of 1978. She is currently teaching Special Education at Glen Burnie high school. The groom is a graduate of Archbishop John Carroll high school, and received his Bachelor of Arts degree in psychology from the University of Maryland in December, 1977. Attending the wedding were grandparents Mr. and Mrs. Clarence Haerle, Crystal Lake, and Mr. and Mrs. Jerry Rogers of McHenry. The newlyweds spent a short honeymoon in Ocean City. Auditions For "Curious Savage" Held At City HaU McHenry County Performing arts association will hold auditions for its community theatre production of "The Curious Savage" on Aug. 13 and 14. Auditions will be held at city hall, 1111 N. Green street, at 8 p.m. "The Curious Savage" is a delightful comedy by John Patrick with 6 female roles and 5 male roles, age ranging from 18 and up. If a person is not interested in an acting part, but would still like to be involved, there are many other areas in which to participate: lights, props, tickets, building set, costumes, makeup, etc. Good participation will make this community production a success. A script is available for reading at the McHenry public library, but cannot be taken out of the library. If unable to at tend scheduled auditions, please call 344-2969 or 675-2066 to make other arrangements. Court Joyce Kilmer No. 573 will hold its second summer meeting on Aug. 16. This meeting replaces a winter month get-together. The social committee for this gathering is under the leadership of Marion Longfield. Her committee includes Bertha Huff, Anne Bouchek, Stella Graham, Viola Brda and Eleanor Miller. Plans for the coming year of many events include a card party on Oct. 4. With thoughts on things spiritual a Day of Recollection is planned for Oct. 30. Come to the meeting for details. • * * * The best way to avoid bills is to pay cash. MR. AND MRS. MICHAEL J. CAJTHAML WED AT ST. PATRICK'S - Deborah Pintoxxi, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Anthony Pintoxxi, 3717 W. High street, McHenry, became the bride of Michael J. Cajthaml, son of Mr. and Mrs. Albert Cajthaml, 1511 W. Sunnyside Beach drive, McHenry, June 2 in St. Patrick's church. Father Joseph Kulak officiated at the 3 p.m. ceremony, and special music was provided by Mrs. Jean Ludwig and Peter Bender. After a reception at the Holiday Inn of Mundelein, the couple honeymooned inTlorida. The bride is employed as a dental assistant in Crystal Lake, and the groom is self-employed as a sign painter. Both are graduates of McHenry Community high school. Catholic Daughters Plan Summer Meeting Aug. 16 About Your Wedding... In order to serve McHenry area brides, the Plaindealer sends wedding forms to all those whose engagements have been announced and carry a definite date. We ask that these com pleted forms be returned three days prior to the wed ding. Complete details will ap pear only during the week following the wedding except in the case of out-of-state weddings, where an ad ditional week is allowed. Photographs will be printed any time later, or will be in cluded with the wedding in formation if they accompany the story. If your engagement, an nouncement has not published, or if the date of the wedding was not known at that time, please call our of fice and request that a marriage form be sent. (.JMcHeniV '•Inn faiqily Hot̂ e Wednesday Evening 5pm - 8pm All Drinks 7* Price LIVE ENTERTAINMENT EVERYNIGHT from 8:30 p.m. LUNCH SPECIAL MONDAY-FRIDAY Draught Beer., . Mixed Drinks.... 11 AM TO 3 PM 40* 75* MONDAY NIGHT-Udfos Night All Drinks St* WEDNESDAY 5 PM - 9 PM BEER NIGHT (10 oz.) 30* GLASS Community- Calendar AUGUST 9 Ladies of the Lake of Mc- lom Lake regular meeting, 8 km.-surprise package auc tion. ; , •<,' AUGUST 12 Annual Community Picnic, sponsored by the Lakeland Park Women's club and Lakeland Park Property Owners associat ion-- ' Community House-from noon on. Postponed from last week because of rain. •. AUGUST 13 Al-Anon family group meeting--8:30 p.m.-First United Methodist church. Whispering Oaks Woman's Club-Board Meeting-9:30 a.m. AUGUST 13-14 McHenry County Performing Arts association-auditions for "The Curious Savage"-City Hall, McHenry~8 p.m. AUGUST 15 Family Service and Com munity Mental Health center- regular monthly board of director's meeting-7:30 p.m. Woodstock Area office, 224 W. Judd street, Woodstock-open to the public. AUGUST 16 McHenry Senior Citizens club trip-Lake Geneva boat ride and Playboy club lu£cheon-9 a.m.--bus leaving frdt t i McHenry Savings and Loan. AUGUST 19 St. Margaret chapter of NAIM annual picnic-1 p.m.- home of Mary Hartman- potiuck, bring table service- meeting will follow. AUGUST 20 Al-Anon family group meeting--8:30 p.m.-First United Methodist church. * ' ' ' ; • • ' \ AUGUST 21 Women of the Moose- business meeting-Moose Lodge-8 p.m. McHenry Pigtail League open meeting-8 p.m., city hall. AUGUST 22 St. John's BVM Sodality lunchon and tour of "House of Stained Glass". AUGUST 28 Fox Ridge Women's club couples' membership party- Carol Bland's house- prospect ive members welcome. St. Margaret chapter of NAIM-card party-Oak room- Montini Middle school-7:30 p.m. ' V ' . • ' 1 ̂ | > . -- r - Johnsburg rescue squad 27th annual dinner and dance- community club. AUGUST 27 Al-Anon family group meeting--8:30 p.m.-First United Methodist church. , i j. *-u; i ig at* w Officers of Community C mi certs association of Crystal Lake pictured discussing the current membership campaign are. Cram left, in front, Hasel Dunn, treasurer; Peg Denker, recording secretary; David Scherer, publicity; and In hack, Helen Bird, membership; Paul Berrlnger, president-elect; and Marilyn Scherer, president. McHenry Women's club board meeting-10 a.m.-Cky Hall. ^ The Community Concerts association of Crystal Lake is starting its 1979-80 membership campaign, being prepared by this year's officers. Mem bership in the association is limited and cost covers the forthcoming four concert series. This September, Community Concerts association will begin its fifth year of bringing quality artistic entertainment to Crystal Lake. The series will feature duo- pianists Rostal and Schaefer in October; tenor Phillip Creech in January, the Joffrey Ballet in February, and, as a special treat to item embers, the return to Crystiff^ake of the Texas Boys' Choir in March. Those wishing more in formation are asked to call Helen Bird at 459-3323. > AUGUST 30 Girl Scout Neighborhood, meeting-K of C hall»9:30 a.m. SEPTEMBER 26 N.C.S.F. luncheon ' and matinee at Shady Lane. There's An Answer (by Norman Vincent Peale and . Ruth Stafford Peale) Keep Trying or Turn Him LooseT Q. My husband and I are both alcoholics. I divorced him a year ago but let him back in lateral keep kicking him out and letting him come back. I joined AA and now have 15 days of sobriety. He has pulled at least 4 drunks during that time. I can't help him. It is hard enough to help myself. Things are looking up for me~a good job and a lot of new friends. Should I keep trying to help him or turn him loose? A. Save yourself first. Fifteen days of sobriety is a good start. Keep it going. The best way to help him is for you to be dry and happy. That may very well make him want what you have found. Then I believe he will turn to AA And the happy, dry life style. Perhaps you will find help in our booklet, The Power to Change Your Life, which is on its way to yop^Aipyone wishing a free copy may write to us at Box 500, Pawling, NT. 12564. What's Wrong With a Hug? Q. For 20 years I have watched my father-in-law brush off any physical show of affection from his two sons, outside of a handshake. There is no doubt that his sons are loved, and this love is returned. But he feels that a hug or any physical contact between men indicates homosexuality and that any such display is wrong in the eyes of the world and the eyes of God. How do you view the feelings of my father-in-law? A. Nothing is wrong with a he-man hug. I hug my son and my son- in-law that way. And once in a while some fellow who wants to show his liking for me gives me a big bear-hug. And for sure none of these guys are homosexuals. Your father-in-law is probably just one of those men who shy off- any show of affection, but that doesn't mean he doesn't love his sons. Why not just take him as he is? I had an uncle like that once...then one day, just before he died, he punched me in the chest, and we both had tears in our eyes. From left, in-coming Commander James Chester, Sr., and In-coming President, Dottle Messer, accepting gavel from out-going President, Grace Latimer and out-going Commander, Stanley Burlack. I American Legion Auxiliary News Who's to Blame? Q. Our daughter gave birth to a fine baby boy after she was married only 4 months. The marriage was a civil ceremony out of state. We asked that the baby's birth not be put in the paper as is the custom here. Most people are judgmental, and I was afraid of being hurt more by them. It has been hard for me not to blame myself. Do real-for-sure Christian parents ever have children go astray? How far should you go in confiding problems with nosy relatives and friends and a pastor who seems aloof from problems of young people? A. Do not castigate yourselves for your daughter's action. Be forgiving and loving to her and love her baby. Help the marriage in every way that you can. Treat the boy as considerately as possible. The secret of handling any situation is to bring the best out of it. Live your lives openly and don't be ashamed. Since you are good Christian people, others will respect and love you. If there is something you would like to ask Dr. and Mrs. Peale to discuss in this column, write to them in care of Box 500, Pawling, N.Y. 12564. For a recorded message of inspiration and prayer by Dr. Peale call Dial-A-Prayer (914) 855-5111 at any time of the day or night. Reduced toll rates take effect evenings and weekends. 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McHenry, Illinois 2 Slock* of McHninry Morknf Place Shopping Center The McHenry Plaindealer Newspaper Available At The Following Locations: •MAYS DRUG •BELL LIQUORS •LAKEVIEW •SUNNYSIDE FOOD •JOHNSBURG FOOD MART •McHENRY WALGREEN • ADAMS GROCERY • BOLGER'S DRUG STORE •LITTLE STORE •BEN FRANKLIN •OSCO DRUGS •JEWEL •HORNSBY'S •HERMES ft CO'. •LIQUOR MART •VILLAGE MART •J ftR STORE •FRED t IRENE'S TAP •McHENRY QUICK MART • SUNRISE GROCERY • STEINY TAP •McCULLOM LAKE GROC. •FOOD MART •NORTHWEST TRAIN •McHENRY HOSPITAL - McHenry Unit No. 491 By Pearl Cooper The joint installation of the American Legion Post No. 491, American Legion Auxiliary Unit No. 491, Veterans of World War I of the U.S.A., McHenry Barracks 1315 and the rifle squad of the McHenry Post No. 491, was held on Sunday, August 5, at the McHenry American Legion Post Home. About one hundred and fifty people were in attendance as James Chesler, Sr., was in stalled as Commander by John E. Cry an, Director of Illinois Rehabilitation and State Of ficer. Clair Carr, installing Chaplain is also a State Officer and by Sgt-.at-Arms, Roy Homo, a past Commander of the McHenry Post No. 491 and presently serving as 11th District Sgt.-at-Arms. Installing Officers for the McHenry Unit were Lauretta Homo, past president of the McHenry Unit, past president of McHenry County Council and Past 11th District president. Installing chaplain was Midge Scharf, past unit president and installing sgt.-at- arms was Betty Lou Smith, also a past president of the McHenry unit. Installed as president was Dottie Messer, Grace Latimar was installed as first vice-president, Marge Datz, as second vice-president, Ceil Violett as recording secretary, Pearl Cooper as corresponding secretary, Eleanore Reid as treasurer, Dorothy M. Miller as historian, Marge Hartung as sgt.-at- arms, and Laurel Latimer as asst. sgt.-at-arms. Paul H. Leubscher, past commander of World War I Barracks and Harold (Pat) Owen, past commander of McHenry Post no. 491, and past commander of World War I Barracks installed Guy White as the new commander of Barracks 1315. Richard Fenner was installed as the president of the McHenry rifle squad by James Chesler, Sr., past commander of McHenry Post no. 491, state service officer and national rehabilitation staff chairman; installing chaplain was Harold Vycital, past commander of McHenry Post no. 491,'past county commander and Chef DeGuere 40 et 8; and installing sgt.-at-arms was Roy Homo, past commander of McHenry Post no. 491 and presently serving as Uth District sgt.-at- arms. Special guests were Gerry Kuck, 5th District, V.F.W. president and her husband, Walter; Ila Hogan, 5th District, V.F.W. treasurer; John Costello and Mrs. Costello. Mr. Costello is the 2nd Division, American Legion, commander and Mr. and Mrs. Robert Schultz. Mr. Schultz is presently serving as 11th District commander and Mrs. Schultz (Mabel) is a past 2nd Division president. Also present as a guest was Allen Lynch, Congressional medal of honor recipient and Mrs. Lynch. A very delicious dinner was served by the Juniors of the McHenry Unit and dancing was enjoyed by all. Early fall dresses are very feminine. Some dresses fea ture smocking with ruffles at neck, sleeves and skirt hems. Embroidered collars and cuffs bring elegancy to simple dresses. Lace-edged eyelet will be seen on dresses and blouses. TOWN? •CUSTOM DRAPES LOW-LOW PRICES 300 STYLES ft PATTERNS You owe it to yourself to shop & compare! •CURTAINS t SNEERS 200 STYLES ft COLORS IN STOCK COMPLETE LINE OF BEN FRANKLIN STORE • 1250 N. Green St. MS- MM McHenry, III. Boots will continue to be popular this fall and winter. Lengths will vary from short to long. Western boots are also shown. reneWAL WEEkend A weekend of renewal for separated and divorced Catholics will be held from Friday, Sept. 21 through Sunday, Sept. 23, at the Bishop Lane Retreat House. For in formation call Father Balog at 385-0024, or M. McKenna at 385- 1527, after 5 p.m. PARISH DINNER St. Patrick's Catholic church, Hartland, is, having its 65th Annual Dinner Sunday, Aug. 19. Serving of the family-style roast beef dinner will be from 11:30 a.m. to 3 p.m. A festival in the afternoon includes booths , games, pr izes and refreshments. START LOSING WE1QHT TODAY The hardest part of losing weight is getting started New extra-strength SVKR OOMNiX will give your will power that extra push it needs to start losing weight today Begin with 4his amazing tiny tablet You'll eat less-turn food and excess fat .into burned-up energy instead of extra weight as you follow the Plan. 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