w PAGE X -PLAINDEALER - WEDNESDAY, SEPTEMBER IS. It7» \< Stmpm «£ OCLCL I Wed At St. Patrick s I t/ j Make Concert Series Plans •' : ' " ibers of the fifth annual Community Concerts association campaign kick-off committee are snown preparing for the annual membership renewal reception. Pictured above, from left to right, are committee members Louise Goodman, New York representatives; Marie Ann Vos, Crystal La|e; Eleanor Locker, McHenry; and Anne Galloway, Crystal Lake. The third wedding of the summer for Mr. and Mrs. Anthony Pintozzi, 3717 High street, McHenry, took place Sept. 8, in St. Patrick's church, when their daughter, Donna, exchanged solemn promises of marriage with Harold D. (Buzz) Frett, son of Mr. and Mrs. Harold Frett, 801 N. Allen avenue, McHenry. Wheat fastened with ivory bows decorated the pews, and the altar candelabras were enhanced with sprigs of wheat. Special songs chosen by the couple for the 3 p.m. ceremony were "Sunrise, Sunset", "Evergreen", "Morning Has Broken", "The Wedding Song" and "Ave Maria". Their musical, selections were enhanced by the ac companiment of Jeanne Ludwig on the organ, and the vocal talents of Mike Cajthaml, brother-in-law of the bride. Father Edmund Petit of ficiated at the wedding Mass, and Jon Meyer, brother-in-law of the bride served as com mentator and lector, while Wayne Dixon, a cousin of the bride, and Mike Sabatka, a friend, served the nuptial Mass. Offertory gifts were carried to the altar by Denise and Susan Dixon, cousins of the bride. The bride chose a gown of ivory silesta. Beaded Alencon lace created a cameo motif on the high neckline and shoulders. Gentle folds of the blouson gown accented the skirt and chapel train. A matching cap appliqued with pear] - beaded --lace and flowerettes caught her cascading silk illusion veiling. A bouquet of phaleanopsis orchids and foliage completed the picture. Debbie Cajthaml served as her sister's matron of honor. Bridesmaids were Mary Meyer, Maureen Pabst, An nette, Cathy andPatti Pintozzi, sisters of the bride; Muriel Frett, sister of the groom; and Mary Lou Thorsen and Mary Beth Harbecke, both friends of the bride. Attendants were gowned in French toast colored silesta gowns. Boat necklines tied in a Bow accented the long puffed sleeves. A self sash encircled each blouson bodice and softly "gathered skirt. Matching head bands^v trimmed with ai side flower adorned their heads. Each attendant carried a cascade of fuji mums and wheat with foliage. Ray Olszewski, a friend of the groom, was the best man. Groomsmen were Anthony Pintozzi, Jr., brother of the bride; Mike Cajthaml, John Huemann, Dennis Bir mingham, Phil and Michael Doherty, Mike Conway and Jim Cameron. The mother of the bride chose a beige blouson gown, and a jade green dress was the choice of the groom's mother. A reception for 250 guests was held at the Holiday Inn in Mundelein. The couple will live in Crystal Lake, after a wed ding trip to Florida. The bride is a secretary in Crystal Lake, and the groom is employed in sales in Deerfield. Community 5;C; '•:> Calendar PiAlpha Opens Season The Community Concerts association is now entering its fifth annual membership campaign. It begins officially Suapay, Sept. 16, 6:30 p.m. at Olde Towne hall, 54 Brink street, Crystal Lake, with a reegption-concert kick-off. Ai" the reception-concert, te^ih captains and volunteers will receive membership materials and hear a special concert by the Choralettes of DesPlaines. Concerts for this fifth an niversary year are duo-pianists Rostal and Schaefer, Sunday, Oct. 28; tenor Phillip Creech, Friday, Jan. 18; the Joffrey Ballet, Friday, Feb. 22, and the Texas Boys Choir, Friday, March 14.' All concerts will be held in the theater of Crystal Lake South high school, 1200 South McHenry avenue, Crystal Lake, and will begin at 8 p.m. Membership in the association is limited to the number of seats in the theater. A membership is for all four concerts. Single concert membership is not available. Those interested in joining the association are asked to call Mary Jane Ahem at 653-5315 for further information. Renaissance Meal Sept. 22 Sixteenth century England wiltaome alive again for those attending "A , Renaissance Dinner - From the Asinine to th$" Sublime" at Lakeside center in Crystal Lake Saturday, Sept. 22 English and Italian madrigals will be featured along with dance suites and rounds of the period dating from 1530 to 1630. Period costumes will be the order of the day for the performers and the audience is invited to wear the proper costume of "merry olde England", of they so desire. The evening will begin promptly at 7 p.m. with Wassail bowl, nut bread and cream cheese in the Lakeside center library. Jesters will entertain, English toasts will be given, and the first serious set of music presented. From there, the evening will shift to the main dining hall, where all participants will partake of a multi-course English dinner complete wiih baked apple, and the second set of music will be offered. Tickets are available at the Lakeside center office located at 401 Country club road in Crystal lake. Reservations may be placed by calling Lakeside center at 455-3363 weekdays. Following the usual summer recess, Pi Alpha chapter of Beta Sigma Phi sorority resumed the 1979-80 year with an opening day celebration at the home of Dorothy Haddick, McHenry. After discussing plans for the coming months, the group enjoyed an hors d'oeuvre and wine tasting party. Virge Stasiak conducted the "Carl Joseph Hoch commentary" on assorted German quality wines and the wine growing regions. The first regular business meeting was held at the McHenry public library. Transferee guests were Linda Jachino, Lena, 111.; Judith DeWulf, Elkhart, Ind.; and Etta McCarthy, Melrose Park, 111. Funds were dispersed to the Beta Sigma Phi International Endowment fund and to A.L.S. Foundation, Inc. This month, PiAlpha chapter will** confer the Exemplar degree to a number of present members who have qualified'for this next progression. To qualify, a member shall be in good standing for four years of Ritual of Jewels activities, and four years of required cultural programs. The next meeting will be Sept. 20, at the McHenry public library. LLL Begins : New Series NSA Group Star ts Season The Fox Valley chapter of the Registration can be made by National Secretaries calling the college. In- association '.International) will--,foin-.ai.io»r. oil ilic local ciiaptei hoid- its first meeting of the year»on Wednesday, Sept. 19 at 7 ~p.m. at Oak Industries, Crystal Lake. The program for i ha; ^evening will be a rap session to set up goals, programs and other projects fop" Hie year. All secretaries are mvited to attend. Thife officers for the upcoming yegir include two area women, Gert Kaefer. corresponding secretary and Joyce Wolters, treasurer, both of Wonder Lake and the National Secretaries association will be available at the seminai . -- - 4?The Advantages of Breastfeeding to Mother and Baby" will be the topic of discussion at 8 p.m., Wed nesday, Sept. 12, in Fox Lake, and 8 p.m., Thursday, Sept. 13, in McHenry. LaLeche League and the Nutrition committee of the American Academy of Pediatrics believe that breast milk is the superior infant food. Not only are the nutrients at the proper level and more easily digested, but breastfeeding immune system is maturing. LaLeche league provides information and en couragement for those in terested in breastfeeding. Numerous publications are available through a lending library or for purchase, and leaders are happy to help by telephone and at meetings. Monthly evening meetings feature one program of a series of four, and monthly morning meetings provide more in- formal discussion. Children <3& Metallics are being used in some of the new fabrics. JFor those secretaries who capnot make this meeting, the organization will be conducting itj»'first seminar-brunch in c£rpunction with McHenry "* ty college.- on Saturday, . 22, from 9 a.m. io 1:30 at the college. e subject will be "The ice of Tomorrow", nted by Drs. Jolien and Scriven from Northern nois university. Belted skirts and jean pants made of brushed denim will be super campus wear this fall. Blazers of the same material will be seen also. An attractive fall en semble that gives a soft and flattering look is a shawl col lared super-swede blazer worn over a soft suede short sleeve dress. * • « * Sin may be a pleasure, but not every pleasure is a sin. WHAT YOU SHOULD KNOW ABOUT PERMS ^ • in 0** M ' fc- ASK FRAN. SHE'S AN EXPERT. Fran can tell you what is the best perm for you from the newest developments in permanent waving. FRAN'S HIDDEN CURL St., Ofc. 8, 344-1019 About Your Wedding... In order to serve McHenry area brides, the Ploindeater sends wedding forms to all those whose engagements have been announced and carry a definite date. We ask that these com pleted forms be returned three days prior to the wed ding. Complete details will ap pear only during the week following the wedding except in the case of out-of-state weddings, where an ad ditional week is allowed. Photographs will be printed any time later, or will be in cluded with the wedding in formation if they accompany the story. If your engagement an nouncement has not published, or if the date of the wedding was not known at that time, please call our of fice and request that a marriage form be sent. better controls caloric intake than formula feeding, and provides the baby with certain elements of resistance while its are welcome at all meetings. For information call Mrs. Richard (Marcia) McGowan or Mrs. Dennis (Cathy) Storlie. * SEPTEMBER 12 LaLeche League iheeting~8 p.m.-Fox Lake-call 385-5237 or 7811. SEPTEMBER 13 Ladies of the Lake meeting~8 p.m.-McCullom Lake beach house-hobby show night. Lakeland Park Women's club meeting-7:30 p.m.-community house. • t McHenry Women's club Fall Luncheon, McHenry country club-noon-for reservations, call Mrs. Robert O'Brien, 1219 Blackhawk avenue. Woodstock-McHenry League of Women Voters unit meeting- "SingleMember Districts", 9:30 a.m.-St. Paul's Episcopal church. LaLeche League meeting- McHenry, 8 p.m.-call 385-5237 or 7811. SEPTEMBER 15 * Checkerboard Squares, beginning of Square Dancing season-Edgebrook school, 8 p.m.-new dancers welcome at no charge at beginning session. SEPTEMBER 16 Sweet Adeline pancake breakfast and bake sale-- McCullom Lake beach house-8 a.m. to 2 p.m. SEPTEMBER 17 T.H.E.O.S. meeting at 5;30 p.m. at Busy Bee restaurant for dinner-then First United Methodist church for program- hostesses: Dorothy Williamson and Lyda Radisch. Al-Anon family group meeting -- First United Methodist church-8:30 p.m. SEPTEMBER 18 Women of the Moose business meeting-8 p.m., Moose lodge. SEPTEMBER 19 Whispering Oaks Woman's club salad luncheon and meeting-1 p.m. Newcomers club "Tea, Talk, and Sew", morning coffee~9:30 a.m., Faith Presbyterian church. SEPTEMBER 20 United Methodist Women general meeting-7:30 p.m., First United Methodist church- hostesses, Evening circle Pi Alpha chapter, Beta Sigma Phi sorority meeting- McHenry public library-Aleta Gemmel and Kathy Etten, hostesses. SEPTEMBER 21 St. Margaret chapter of NAIM-meeting-Oak room- Montini Middle school--7:30 p.m. McHenry County Performing Arts association (MCCPA) presents "The Curious Savage", McHenry junior high, 8 p.m.-tickets at door-special rates for senior citizens Sept. .•21, •. - NAIM-cards-Oak room- Montini Middle school--7r30 p.m. McHenry County Performing Arts association (MCCPA) presents "The Curious Savage", McHenry junior high, 8 p.m.-tickets available at door. SEPTEMBER 30 NAIM Rockford diocesan Mass~4 p.m. at St. Joseph church, Richmond,- hosted by St; Margaret's chapter -tickets available from chapter presidents. OCTOBER 4 Veterans of World War I, McHenry Barracks meeting-2 p.m.-American Legion Post 491-2505 N. Ringwood road. Gathering For Wohlett Family A family get-together was held at the Clarence Wohlert home ip McCullom Lake Sunday, Sept. 9. Those attending were Mr. and Mrs. Jim Miller and children of Harvard, Mr. and Mrs. R. Wohlert and children, Mr. and Mrs. M. Wolf, Mr. and Mrs. C. Kloeckner and son, and Mr. and Mrs. J. Kloeckner and children. Also present were Mr. and Mrs. R. Kloeckner and daughter, Mr. and Mrs. Gil Kloeckner, Mr. and Mrs. G. Weber and children of Genoa City, Wise., Mr. and Mrs. Bill Raycraft and children, Mr. Art Martin, Mr. Jim Pierce and daughter of Woodstock and Mrs. Rosina Wohlert. Games were played and food galore was enjoyed by all. Frightening To those little kids, blithely trudging to school, these are normal times. What scares the rest of us is that maybe they are. -Journal, Washington, la. THEOS Enjoyed August Meeting • " 'v:" The August get-together of T.H.E.O.S. at the home of Bernice Ness was well at tended, and all enjoyed the tour of Leisure Village, and the catered dinner. Hostesses Mae Stinespring and Lyda Radisch put the "finishing touch" to the v event with the games with prizes, which required much - brain work, and was such fun. The next meeting . of the T.H.E.O.S. group will be at 5:30 p.m. Sept. 17 at the Busy Bee restaurant for dinner. Then the group will go to the First United Methodist church for an evening of fun and fellowship. Dorothy Wiliamson and Lyda . Radisch will be the hostesses. T.H.E.O.S. is a non- denominational group' of widows (widowers also welcome), with no age restrictions, meeting the third Monday of each month at 5:30 p.m. at some local restaurant for dinner, then going to the v First United Methodist church for a program, and an evening of fun and fellowship. For any further information contact Mae Stinespring or Lyda Radisch. Large Crowd At : Hiller Reunion More than 210 members of the family of John and Catherine Hiller gathered earlier this month for a family reunion in Petersen park, it was the first such gathering in thirteen years. A noon Mass offered by Father Everett Hille? of Aurora, grandson of John and Catherine, was followed by a picnic lunch, games and - reminiscing. Family members attended from Illinois and southern Wisconsin. Plans were made for another reunion in 1980 on the dame day at the same place. There's An Answer (by Norman Vincent Peale and Ruth Stafford Peale) Clipped Wings Meets The O'Hare chapter of United Airlines Clipped Wings will hold its first meeting of the 1979-80 year on Thursday, Sept. 13, at 7:30 p.m. The meeting will be held in the home of Carol Morgan, former national president, no. 3 Witt road, Barrington, 111. This will be O'Hare chapter's tenth an niversary year. Any former and present United Airlines flight at tendants and former Capitol Airlines stewardesses are welcome to attend. If in terested please contact President Karen McPhearson at (312) 894-8492 or Vice- president pat Wilke, (312 ) 658- 4700. Honor Two 4-H Leaders SEPTEMBER 22 McCullom Lake Beach Gals presents "Discalactica"--9 p.m., Beach House-call 344- 0966. McHenry County Performing Arts association (MCCPA) presents "The Curious Savage", McHenry junior high, 8 p.m.-tickets at door. SEPTEMBER 24 McHenry Women's club board meeting-city hall--10 a.m. Al-Anon family group m e e t i n g - F i r s t U n i t e d Methodist church~8:30 p.m. SEPTEMBER 25 OES Stated meeting-Acacia hall-slide presentation~8 p.m. Former members, advisors, leaders and friends are cor dially invited by the project l e a d e r s a n d m e m b e r s o f t h e Volo Busy Bee 4-H club to an open house for Mrs. Russell (Betty) Wertke and Mrs. Harry (Joan) Mauer. Sunday, Sept. 23, from 2 to 5 p.m. at the Volo grade school, Rte. 120, Volo. Mrs. Wertke and Mrs. Mauer, past leaders and Lake county workers have diligently served the Volo area young ladies for the past 20 years. SEPTEMBER 26 N.C.S.F. luncheon matinee at Shady Lane. and Gaining Weight The average man today is heavier than he was 20 years ago in this country, according to actuarial statistics. But the average woman is lighter. SEPTEMBER 28 McHenry County Performing Arts association (MCCPA) presents "The Curious Savage", McHenry junior high- -8 p.m.-tickets at door. SEPTEMBER 29 St. Margaret chapter of Can't Tell Them to Leave Q. My husband came into quite a sum of money and was able to buy a big house with a small apartment on one side for my parents. Now it seems my father has taken over my house as well as the store I own. I love my husband and he loves, me, but this situation is breaking up our marriage. Several years ago my husband was in an accident and as a result he is paralyzed on one side. He can't walk without a walker, and my father told him to leave his own house. My father weighs around 250 and my husband is no match for him. My mother has heart trouble, and I can't just tell them to leave. What can I do? A. Of course you can tell them to leave unless your father lays off and minds his own business. Lay it on the line with him, mean it, and make it stick. Tell him he either changes or must leave. And feel no guilt about so doing, for, from what you say, your father is most insensitive. But perhaps if you are sufficiently firm you can create a healthy and normalized relationship. Curious about Ex-wife --Q. I'm on my second marriage and love my husband very much:-- But I find myself feeling very much left out. Every time my husband gets with his children he tries to find out everything his ex-wife is doing and what she plans on doing. I'feel it's none of his business now that he's married again. I sometimes think he would be happier with her than me and would like to go back and live with her. Should I ask him or should I just keep still and let things go as they are? < A. You should have realized when you married your husband that he would see his children and would learn what was happening in the home where they live. This is all very natural and you should not get sensitive and imagine things. Just be normal, loving and happy with your husband. Bad Temper Must Stop Q. This thing has been creeping up on me but has now reached a point where I have to concentrate on eliminating it and rising above it. I am impatient, irritable, irrascible, sarcastic and I raise my voice. I need some quick thought that will stop me. This is it. I have to learn to be cool, calm and collected and roll with the punches. I have a wonderful wife, and this temperament of mine is hard on her. Please help me. A. You are one step on your way because you recognize your problem and the necessity for getting on top of it. One thing you can do is concentrate on your voice. Keep it down, always down. Doing so will tend to siphon off emotional heat and thereby reduce the irritation. Make "cool it" your motto. I once knew a man like you. He counted to ten to reduce his blow- offs but found that the first ten words of the Lord's Prayer worked better. "Our Father, who art in heaven, hallowed by Thy Name." 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