There's An Answer 1 Eat Out And Stay On Diet No,,ce (l»y Norman ViiiciMii IValc and It tit li Sin f ford IValf) • - Nervous and Miserable . - Q. I am 31 years old with a loving (although not demonstrative), .hard-working husband and 2 beautiful children. We have a new home in the peaceful countryside with the horses and chickens. So what is my problem? Shouldn't Lbe happy? I am miserable. lWy nerves are shot. The doctor finds no cause for my headaches and stomach problems. I Ijate to rely on tranquilizers and pain killers,or I feel God does not want me to cope with life by taking all this dope. Is there help, and how do I establish a relationship with God not based on guilt? A. Your question itself contains the clue to your unhappiness. It's guilt. Are you squarely facing the reasons for your guilt? Are you carrying burdens for which you haven't yet sought and received God's forgiveness? Tell Him all about it. Let it all out. He's waiting. Ask to be relieved-and you will be. This method is so much easier and surer than any pill a doctor can prescribe-and it works. Perhaps you will find help in our booklet, The Power to Change Your Life, which is on its way to you. Anyone wishing a free copy may write to us at Box 600, Pawling, N. Y. 12964. Once>a-Month Father Q. My ex-boyfriend left for another woman after we lived together for 4ft years. We have a 3-year-old son^ He wants to visit, our son, but only comes once a month anc| tells us then how much he loves us and wants us and will come back some day. But our son is suffering from this. He truly loves his father and wants to see him all the time. It's really painful on us both. How can you. explain to a 3-year-old that his father will never be back to live with him again? A. The situation you describe cannot be happy for anyone involved. Separation, loneliness, hurt, uncertainty can only bring pain and unfulfilled living. Start now to provide an emotionally secure future for yourself and your son. While you failed to formalize this relationship before, now you have a chance to define the limits of your relationship with the boy's father. Set firm ground rules about visitation and future reconciliation. Make a good home for the youngster and show him you love him. Assure him that his father will visit regularly but that for the time being you will be a family of two, comfortable and secure in a life you've formed for yourselves. No More Family Affairs Q. For several years my husband and myself have been forgiving my brother's sometimes violent correction of our son, in our presence, at family gatherings. The child now 6, is somewhat hyperactive and reacts negatively to the hostile environment. After my brother managed to get my son hysterical and ruin the latest holiday for all of us, I just couldn't take any more. I intend to remove myself, my husband and children from this hostile atmosphere and not attend any more family affairs where my brother is present. Am I right or wrong? A. Family ties should be strengthened by holiday get- togethers, not severed by them. While you understand why your little boy acts as he does, it is evident that your brother does not. Take , your brother aside and clearly explain to him the problems your son faces and why. Help him understand that this child reacts different^ from most because erf his hyperactivity. Discuss the methods you and your husband use to deal with your son's behavior. Ask your brother to help you with the boy's development by reacting with understanding. Then, go to the next family affair knowing there's fun in store for all and a deeper caring than ever before. If there is something you would like to ask Dr. and Mrs. Peale, write to them at Box 500, Pawling, N.Y. 12564. Legal Notice Legal Notice An eye-appealing colorful i able greets* diners. -The brunch menu offers seven, tantalizing delights-turkey^ cheese sandwich wit asparagus spears, perhaps steak-stuffed mushrooms are preferrf But, if one of those main dishes is chosen, scrambled eggs with bacon slices and hot meatballs are by-passed. Oh, and the brunch table offers blueberry muffins! Few pass up the appetizers at the start of the walk through the, line-raw vegetable , relishes or sausage links. Desserts awall those ready for that extra taste, something to top the meal Such as ruby fruit compote or peachy strawberry dessert crepes! * The selection process and the careful decision making is another practical ap plication of choosing what's best for people who are diabetic and Mrs. Dee Budelier, Memorial hospital for McHenry county's dietitian, supervises the brunch. _"Today's menu is STATE OF ILLINOIS ) prepared to help you learn how to find foods you can eat when youfgo to a restaurant. If you go to a brunch, you'll learn how to select what's right and still stay on your diet," she told the dozen people in the hospital Con ference room. Recipes of foods being served were provided, and Mrs. Budelier talked about them while guests enjoyed the brunch. She also presented actual restaurant menus explained how diabetics racist be alert and provided the substitute ' values of specific foods. • Several took advantage of this third puncheon for diabetics who lake part in t he scheduled weekly classes to ask detailed questions. One of the best concerned "What do I eat late at night when I wake Up, feel hungry and have had. my day's limit?" Mrs. Budelier suggested diet jello or hot i bouillon. "Several stores have unsalted bouillon Cubes now," she offered. In answer to other questions, she said an average size banana has 80 calories, peanut butter is high in fat, and cheese spread contains more fat than regular cheese. "After the brunch we discussed the menu selec tion, food preparation and other aspects of continuing to live as a diabetic," she said later. "Our goal is to help people learn what to prepare for themselves and still have appetizing, nutritious' and balanced meals for the family." Mrs. Budelier says classes are open to all diabetic people, and newcomers are welcome. Clases are held at 1:30p.m. each Wednesday in the hospital conference room. Serving the luncheon takes place only twice a year. Instruction includes diets as related to medication, working with the exchange system in planning home menus, eating in restaurants and shopping for the family's meals. Persons desiring further information may reach Mrs. Budelier at the hospital, 338- 2500. COUNTY OF McHENRY )SS IN THE CIRCUIT COURT OF THE 19TH JUDICIAL CIRCUIT, McHENRY COUNTY, ILLINOIS McHENRY STATE BANK, ) an Illinois Banking ) Corporation, and ) THOMAS F.BOLGER, ) Trustee, ) ' . • ) Plaintiffs, ) ) ) ) ) ) vs. ELINOR D.WHITE, FRANK WHITE, JOHN J. BLEVINS, ) Trustee, ) INDIAN RIDGE ) IMPROVEMENT ) ASSOCIATION, INC., ) and UNKNOWN OWNERS, ) ) , Defendants. ) No. 80 CH 28 NOTICE The requisite affidavit for BIRTHS NOTICE , NOTICE IS HEREBY GIVEN you that the regular meetings of the Trustees of the McHENRY TOWNSHIP FIRE PROTECTION DISTRICT for the fiscal year commencing May l, 1980 and ending on April 30,1981, will be held on tne last Thursday in each month at 8:00 P.M. at the Fire Station located at 3610 West Elm Street, McHenry, Illinois. Said meetings are Qpen to the public. Hilary Rodenkirch, Secretary McHenry Township Fire Protection District (Pub. May 14,1980) NOTICE Public Notice is hereby given that on April 30, A.D. 1980, a certificate was filed in the Office of the County Clerk of McHenry County, Illinois, setting forth the names and post-office ad dresses of all of the persons owning, conducting and transacting the business known as DUTCHMILL GIFTS, located at 4816 West Shore Drive, McHenry, IL., 60050. Dated this 30th day of April, A.D. 1980. Rosemary Azzaro, County Clerk (Pub. May 7,14 & 21,1980) Jim and Sue Harrer, 5425 W. Shore drive, McHenry, announce the birth of their first child, a boy, born May 7. Nicholas James was born at McHenry hospital and weighed 8 lbs., 3 oz. Maternal grandparents are Mr. and Mrs. Merlin Kost of Arlington Heights and the paternal grand father is Mr. Matthew Harrer of Skokie. Calene Erin is the name chosen for the fourth daughter of Philip A. and Penelope (Lindh) Schimke, 1211 N. Riverside drive, . McHenry. The baby girl was born May 5, at Memorial hospital for McHenry county, weighed 9 lbs., 2M> oz. and was 21 in. long. Welcoming her home, were sisters Courtney, age Cara, 34 and 14-month- old Corrinne. Dorothy I, White of Grayslake, ^nd the late Robert J. Lindh are the maternal grandparents. Paternal grandparents are Mr. and Mrs. Allen J. Schimke of Wonder Lake. Great grandparents are Mr. and Mrs. John L. Georgen of Round Lake Beach. Among recent births recorded at Memorial hospital for McHenry county, Woodstock, are the following area births: May 8, a boy to Mr. and Mrs. Bern&rd Bailach, McHenry, and a girl to Mr. and Mrs. B e r n a r d M a t c h e n , McHenry; May 10, a boy to Mr. and Mrs. Charles Thornton, McHenry. HOSPITAL NOTES WOODSTOCK Admissions: Mrs. Barbara Bittermann, Joseph Draper, Mrs. Donna Gates, Mrs. Jane Boeldt, Mrs. Lois Olmem, Master Darrell Birkhoff and Mrs. Louise Draper, all of McHenry; Mrs. Jean Antonou, Joseph Sladek, Mrs. Donna Hawkins, Rocco Mazzarella and baby Brandy Johnson, all of Wonder Lake; Howard Boyd of Ringwood. HARVARD Admission: Eloise Arnolde of McHenry. Fourth Annual Show, May 19 The fourth annual quilt show, sponsored by the Quilting Queens, will be held Monday, May 19, from 10 a.m. until '8 p.m., at Fire Station No. 2 on Washington street in Ingelside. Ad mission is free and cake and coffee will be served at a nominal fee. There will be a table of craft items for sale and a special feature of the show will be a satin crazy quilt, which was made by the members of the group. *'**• Education is not to be confused with going to college-not these days. * * • * The danger in ignor ance is that so many have it without suspecting it. * • * * Our advice to you this week is to take care of your heart, and live a while longer. Timber Creek Farms and Nurseries 1260 CHARLESROAD 338-0200 WOODSTOCK, ILLINOIS 338-0209 , . ONE GOOD THING LEADS TO ANOTHER Buy A. FLATof FLOWERS. NOW. . . 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WHITE and FRANK WHITE to McHENRY STATE BANK, an Illinois Banking Cor poration, conveying the premises described as follows, to-wit: Lot 6 in Block l in Indian Ridge Unit No. 1, a Subdivision of part of Section 7, Township 45 North, Range 8 East of the Third Principal Meridian according to the Plat thereof recorded June 27, 1939, as Document No. 139953 in Book 8 of Plat, page 34, in McHenry County, Illinois. and for other relief; that summons was duly issued out of said court as provided by law and the stiikJs still pending. NOW, THEREFORE, unless you, FRANK WHITE. UNKNOWN OWNERS and NON-RECORD CLAIMANTS, the said Defendants file your answer to the complaint in said suit or otherwise make your appearance therein in the said Circuit Court of the Nineteenth Judicial Circuit, McHenry County, Illinois, held in the courthouse in the City of Woodstock, Illinois, on or before the 1st day of June, 1980., default may be entered against you at any time after the day and a decree entered in ac cordance with the prayer of said complaint. DATED: April 21, 1980. Vernon W. Kays, Jr., Clerk COWLIN, COWLIN & UNGVARSKY Attorneys for Plaintiffs -WEDNESDAY, MAY 14,19M 20 Grant Street Crystal Lake, IL., 60014 Telephone: 815-459-5300 (Pub. Apr. 30, May 7 & 14,1980) Legal Notice IN THE CIRCUIT COURT OF THE 19TH JUDICIAL CIRCUIT, McHENRY COUNTY, ILLINOIS PROBATE DIVISION ESTATE OF ESTHER D. McNEELY Deceased, File No. 80-P-188 CfcfflM NOTICE NojfiBe is given of the death of ESTHER D. McNEELY, of McHenry, Illinois. Letters of office wt 7. 1980, vto WILLIAM D.' 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