£> $BsslS * u BOOKS-June Stuart, left, head librarian at the McHenry Public library, shows some of the books donated by the McHenry Business and Professional Women's club to Yvonne Ryden. representing the Foundation's committee of that club. The books pertain either to women's lives, women's activities, or about young women. B.P.W. foundation carries out an integrated program of research information in education to improve the quality of working life for women; National Business Women's week will be celebrated Oct. 19-25. ROBERT MUSIKflNTOW, Ph.D. psychologist for the Family Service and Community Mental Health Center for McHenry County (Editor's Note: This is another article in the Today's Psychology weekly series of especially written articles for McHenry county readers. The topic this week is "Self Love". In this week's article, I , would like to do something which may at first seem shocking to many of my readers. What I would like to do is to invite and encourage you to begin to have an in tense, passionate love affair. Not only am I going to recommend that you have an affair, but I am even going to be audacious enough to tell you with whom to have this affair. The person I am going to suggest is someone who is very close to you. They are in dire need of your love, devotion, support and encouragement. This person is yoursef. . Surprised? You shouln't be, for self love is the basis for all other forms of love and it is something we all need and deserve. Now when I am talking about loving yourself I am not implying mere self-acceptance, which is often just taking the at titude "well I guess I am okay." What I am suggesting is something more passionate, something with a bit more juice. A fun way to start your journey towards developing a more loving attitude towards yourself is to make the following experiment. Pretend for one day that you are your own lover. Wake UD in the morning and tell yourself how much you love and appreciate yourself. Make or take yourself out for a marvelous breakfast because you deserve the best. For the rest of the day treat yourself with nothing but care and affection, as if you were someone you loved and cared for very much. If you are like most people you will find this experiment a delight. Self love can get you higher than any drug or alcohol and it's a lot cheaper too. You may find that you will begin to consider the possibility of having a life long passionate love affair with the only person you can ever depend on totally - yourself! REPLACE YOUR RANGE HOOD WITH THE NEW GE MICROWAVE OVEN Cabinet Mounted with Built-in \fent & Cooktop Light IT WILL CHANGE THE WAY YOUR KITCHEN LOOKS ... AND ADD MORE COOKING CONVENIENCE QO cy O • Ob Trfim Jii © © til (3 feci' WA Li= The new Spacemaker oven adds micro wave cooking to your kitchen without using your valuable counterspace, by replacing your present hood. A two speed exhaust fan and fluorescent cook- top light are combined with the microwave oven to give you a com plete cooking center. The built in appearance will complement any kitchen decor. * ONLY s58995 YOU CAN COUNT ON GE FOR GREAT IDEAS IN COOKING CAREY APPLIANCE SALES & SERVICE 1241 N. Green St. 385-5500 ^AcHenry PAGE • - PLAINDEALER - WEDNESDAY. OCTOBER IS. 1IM V M Co „nd »ee . 6Pte ̂ \ tie* <• •tv The Schrader Sport dress is designed with a simplicity of style that you'll feel comfortable in now...and a year from now. Classic flattering lines that fit effortlessly. Beautiful poly/wool knit fabric that can be machine washed. 6-16 and 14-20 in red or navy. 60.00. Better Dresses, Elgin on 3, Crystal Lake & St. Charles fyom We welcome your Spiess Charge, Visa and MasterCard. Free Parking: St. Charles Mall, Crystal Point Mall, Upper Deck Elgin Pla/a.