PAGE 2 • PLAINDEALER - FRIDAY, DECEMBER 12. lMt tLi r y j m ri"i ill n > i t i Local Nonagenarians Celebrate Birthdays CINDY KNAACK AND DAVID BOELTER ANNOUNCE ENGAGEMENT - Mr. and Mrs. Boyd- L. Knaaek, Sr., of McHenry, announce the engagement of their daughter Cindy 8. to David H. Boelter. The future bridegroom is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Harold Boelter, Sr., of McHenry. A June, 1*81 wedding is planned. Checkerboard Squares Featured At Dance The Country Christmas dance sponsored by the McHenry Area Chamber of Commerce Saturday night, Dec. 13, at the American Legion hail will have some added spice. The Checkerboard Squares will show the crowd how it should be done through the talents of George and Eileen Lane, Don and Barbara Zamastil, Andy and Wanda Bos, Ron and Jean Zelinsky and Chuck and Jean Kocher. Regular dancing begins at 8 p.m., with square dancing at intermissions. Chuck Wacaser will lead the fun and after a "tip'!, by the Checkerboard Squares at 9 p.m., everyone is on his own. Chili and hot spiced spiked cider will add to the e v e n i n g ' s p l e a s u r e . Everyone is welcome to join this holiday happening. Dear Colleen My father has a very bad drinking and gambling problem. In the past few years he has lost everything -- his job, his reputation, the respect of his family and his wife. My mother finally barred him from her home. My husband and I took him in for a few weeks until he could get his feet on the ground and find a place of his own. It's 6 months later now. My husband has helped him find a job, but he spends all he earns on alcohol and will not save any for a place of his own. He has disrupted our family, leaves a disgusting mess in my house, and I can't take anymore! I love my father and if he were too old to work I would let him stay. But he is not. How can I tell him he has worn out Ktisg: There is only one thing that OFF SKI VESTS till Dec. 24th Christmas Hours MON-FRI 9:00-8:00 SATURDAY 9:00-5:30 SUNDAY 11:00-3:00 BOYS INFANT THRU SIZE 12 r.IBLS I NFANTTHRUSIZEM Ruth of Carolina DESIGNER LINE OF DRESSES 20% OFF TILL Dec. 24th TUt °Uf COnV#n'#f" Plon Closer THE TODDLER SHOP fLM STREET M c H e n r r * 3 8 5 - 0 7 4 6 Community Calendar juutf >M» tttiitii will help your father -- Alco holics Anonymous. You may have a lot of convincing to do, and it will take considerable courage on your part to dis cuss the subject with your father. When a man has reached the bottom in his life because of a bottle and a bottle and another, he needs professional help. Make him sit down and dis cuss the problems ..with him staying. Tell him he is taking advantage of you. Talk to him about all he has lost. Tell him about AA and make a deal with him -- attending two months of AA meetings for two months of rent at your home or some where else at your expense (if you feel you are able to handle that imposition for that length of time). Offer to go with him to the first couple of meetings. If he refuses, then feel good about yourself that you have tried to help your father, and show him the door. DECEMBER 13 Friendship club potluck dinner and meeting--5:30 p.m.-Fellowship halt-First United Methodist church- program, Daisy and Harold Wildhagen. Ladies auxiliary-VFW 4600-Christmas party, 6:30 p.ft).--Post home. McHenry Sweet Adelines- Pancake breakfast with S a n t a - - F i r s t U n i t e d Methodist church, McHenry- -9 a.m. to 1 p.m. Newcomers club-"Dinner For 8"-Christmas Open House, 8 p.m.-contact J. Leonard for details. DECEMBER 14 Separated and Divorced Catholics-Children's C h r i s t m a s p a r t y - - S t . P a t r i c k ' s h a l l - 2 t o 4 p . m - volunteers contact Tom Breen, 385-9077. DECEMBER 15 T.H.E.O.S.-First United M e t h o d i s t c h u r c h , Fellowship hall-catered dinner and Christmas party, 5:30 p.m.-make reser vations with Lyda Radisch, 385-2754. DECEMBER 16 McHenry Lodge 158 AF&AM-Stated meeting, 8 p.m. McHenry Women of the Moose, 1348-Christmas party-potluck, 7 p.m. Whispering Oaks Garden club--luncheon, noon- members only. ' N e w c o m e r s c l u b - - "Christmas Cookie and Ornament Exchange"-7:30 p m -home of N. John, McHenry. DECEMBER 17 Whispering Oaks Woman's club-Christmas party, 1 p.m.-MadrigalSingers of West campus. DECEMBER 18 Separated and Divorced Catholics-General meeting, 7:30 p.m.-Montini Middle school. United Methodist Women- General meeting-Christmas program-potluck luncheon, noon. McHenry Woman's Club- Christmas party, 12 p.m -St. Patrick's church hall- "Amahl and the Night Visitors". DECEMBER 19 St. Margaret Chapter of NAIM-potluck, 6 p.m.- Montini Middle school-Mary room -bring table service. N e w c o m e r s c l u b - - "Dessert With Santa"-6:30 p.m.-St. Paul's Episcopal church-reservations necessary with Mrs. K. Newman, McHenry. DECEMBER 20 Checkerboard Squares- Christmas dance-7:45 to 10:30 p.m.-Crestoel Care center. DECEMBER 22 McHenry Woman's club- Board meeting, 11:30 a.m.- Mrs. Math (Rose) Schaefer received many cards and gifts last Satur day, Dec. 6, on the occasion of her 94th birthday. She also welcomed visitors. Mrs. Schaefer is a lifelong resident of the Johnsburg and McHenry area. The nonagenarian is in good health and active. Besides caring for her home, she occupies her spare time in Winter by making quilts. Summers find her in her large garden or doing lawn work. Mrs. Walter Brooks, 3519 W a s h i n g t o n , M c H e n r y quietly observed her 9lst birthday Thursday, Dec. 4. with her immediate family. Being a diabetic, and ever- conscious of her diet, she said they just had "coffee, cake and lots of love". Mrs. Brooks has been a resident of McHenry 52 years, having come from Chicago, and lived in the same house the past 36 years. She has one son and five grand-daughters. This parishioner of St. Patrick's Catholic church, spends most of her leisure time reading and crocheting. VFW Ladies Give To Veterans Hospital The December meeting of the Ladies auxiliary to Veterans of Foreign Wars Post 4600 was presided over by President Eva Snell, with twenty members present. Hospital chairman, Ila Hogan, reported that she had delivered 80 toothpaste and 80 aftershave lotion gifts to the Veterans Administration hospital of North Chicago. In addition, clothing and crossword puzzles were also delivered, giving the auxiliary No. 682 monetary credit for hospital work. She announced the Christmas parties at the hospital will be Dec. 16 and 17, with two parties each day. A cash donation of $50 to help defray expenses for the Veterans Administration hospital patients' Christmas party was approved. President Snell announced Ila Hogan, hospital chair man, as the recipient of a certificate of training for Veterans Administration volunteer service orientation program, where she learned the procedure of care of the P. W:P. Slates Meeting Parents Without Partners Chapter No. 189, in Crystal Lake, will have its next L o n g h o r n r e s t a u r a n t , Lilymoor. JANUARY 8 Separated and Divorced Catholics-general meeting, 7:30 p.m.-adults-Montini Middle school. JANUARY 11 McHenry Separated and Divorced Catholics-Family outdoor winter sports-1:30 p.m.-Lakewood Forest Preserve Winter Sports area-bring own equipment JANUARY 13 Newcomers club monthly meeting, 8 p.m.-M & M B o d y S h o p p e , M c H e n r y - wear casual clothes. JANUARY 18 Separated and Divorced Catholics-Brunch, noon- Chapel Hill Country club, M c H e n r y - - c a l l T e r r y Boersma, 312-526-5092 by Jan. 13. JANUARY 22 Separated and Divorced Catholics-general meeting, 7:30 p.m.-Montini Middle school, McHenry-adults. Office Spaces Available -Build To Suit- We're already home to many professionals. They have discovered the benefits of locating in the a l r e a d y v i t a l a n d i m p o r t a n t a r e a o f t h e W h i s p e r i n g Point Center Location. Units Priced From $48,600 Building Rentals From $4.50 per sq. ft. •Exterior Maintenance •Parking •Tax Advantages the look of the future of business, today! PHONE815/385-5577( we'd like to tell you more N e w c o m e r s m e e t i n g Thursday, Dec. 18. All prospective members are invited to learn more about P.W.P and meet some of its board members. Dessert and coffee will be served. The meeting will be in Island Lake and will begin at 8 p.m For more in formation, please call 312- 526-5345 To be eligible for mem bership in P.W.P. one must be a parent and be single by reason of death, divorce, separation or never married. Custody of the children is not necessary. Eastern Star Begins Year McHenry Chapter No. 547, O r d e r o f E a s t e r n S t a r , r e c e n t l y h e l d t h e f i r s t meeting of the new year. Worth Matron Fawn Vail read the calendar for the coming year and the chapter had instruction. There will be a holiday party at the next meeting, featuring games and a gift exchange. A collection resulted in $21.50 to benefit FISH and some canned goods were donated. • • * • A racket is the other man's formula for making a living without too much work. • * • * - Animals do not learn from the experience of other animals and the say ing applies to men. Mission Team Meeting Features Busy Agenda hospital patients. Mary Amore, National Home chairman, en couraged members to contribute to the National Home Christmas seal program. She stated that the seals provide 30 percent of the home operating ex penses. Final plans for the auxiliary Christmas party were made. The auxiliary will provide ham, potatoes and rolls. Each auxiliary member is asked to bring a dish to pass and she may bring her spouse or a guest. Music and games will follow the potluck dinner, which will be served at 7:30 p.m. at the post home Saturday, Dec 13. The silent auction was held following the meeting, with proceeds from it going to the Veterans of Foreign Wars Political Action committee. The next regular meeting will be held Thursday, Jan. 8 which is the second Thur sday in the month. The date is changed due to the holiday on the first Thursday. Everyooe is invited to share with FISH in the preparation of Christmas baskets for the needy of the community. Remembered are families with children, senior citizens and those who live alone. Possibly one family would like to take care of a family by themselves It would bring home to all of them the true meaning of Christmas. Those interested may call FISH at 385-0258. Items needed are non- perishable food, canned fruits, meats, vegetables, cereals, soap toiletries, paper goods, etc. Gifts for younger boys and girls would include toys and ar ticles of clothing they can use. Ideas for teenagers are caps, scarves, gloves, mittens, tube socjts. Special thoughtful gifts ifor senior citizens such as^ toiletries, stationery an<t|caras would be appreciated. All food jtems, etc., for the great day may be left at St. Patrick's church ball lan ding, 3500 IV. Washington, west side oj the entrance to the church,&11 day Saturday, Dec. 20 and on Sunday, Dec. 21, until the end f the 12:15 p.m. Mass. There is also a need for able-bodied gentlemen at the When the U.M.W. Mission Team (Executive com mittee) of the United Methodist Women of the First United Methodist church of McHenry met for its December meeting, they had a very busy agenda. The Nominating com mittee slate was presented at the November general meeting and was unanimously approved. The officers elect will be in stalled at either the D e c e m b e r o r J a n u a r y general mneeting. It was agreed by everyone present to send the unsold items from the bazaar to Marcy-Newberry center in Chicago for their upcoming sale. The treasurer will have the 1961 budget ready to present at the next meeting. The McHenry Women's club invited the U.M.W. to its Christmas program at St. Patrick's church hall Thursday, Dec. 18, which is the same date as the December general meeting. The program will feature "Amahl and the Night Visitors", performed by Marlene Baron. It was decided to have the potluck luncheon with the Ruth Circle as hostesses and then conduct the business meeting as quickly as possible in order to get over to the program in plenty of time. Circle chairmen were advised to inform their circle members. The invitation from the McHenry Women's club was very much appreciated. The next U.M.W. Mission Team meeting will be Monday, Jan. 8,9:30 a.m., in the church parlor. All old and newly electred officers and chairpersons should be sure to attend. hall Dec. 21 to help bring boxes in and ready baskets for deliverty during the early afternoon. Anyone available to assist is urged to call FISH. If preferred, or more convenient, a check, money order or certificate from a supermarket may be mailed to FISH, Box 282, McHenry, 111. 60050. Perishable items are purchased for the baskets from these con tributions. Grandma says, "Many hands make light work, many people helping make light hearts, and the spirit of Christmas". Seafood Aids Healthy Diet In an effort to educate consumers as to the value of seafood as part of a healthful diet, the National Fisheries, Education and Research Foundation, Inc. has fur nished the following in formation. King Crab: With 5 pairs of knobby legs that often measure 3 feet or more from point to point, this denizen of the cold, deep waters off Alaska will never win a beauty contest. But a taste contest? Yes, indeed. The meat inside those knobby legs has a distinc tively sweet flavor that has made King crab one of the most popular shellfish. Red flecks on the snow-white meat gives it eye-appeal as well. King crab is cooked before it is marketed so additional cooking should be quick and gentle - just enough to bring out the good flavor. King crab meat goes a long way in popular, tasty casseroles and party snacks for the holidays. Shrimp: This is one of America's most popular seafoods. There are two prinicipal varieties caught by U.S. fishermen - tiny North Pacific shrimp from the coasts of California, O r e g o n , W a s h i n g t o n a n d Alaska; and southern shrimp from the Gulf coast and south Atlantic states. All varieties have a s i m i l a r s w e e t f l a v o r . M a r k e t f o r m s a r e r a w shrimp with head off and s h e l l o n ; p e e l e d a n d deveined shrimp, fresh or frozen; and peeled cooked shrimp, fresh or frozen. Breaded whole shrimp and breaded shrimp pieces are popular items for the freezer case. This favoritil shellfish is an excellent source of easily digested protein and is low in r- fat. For family meals, a pound of medium or small peeled shrimp will serve four or more in a casserole or salad. That's a great value in good nutrition and good eating. Shrimp is a favorite on holiday buffet tables. Herring: The first dish on a smorgasbord is the herring - herring in sour cream, herring in wine, tasty little herring wrapped around pickles, smoked or pickled herring. Herring is one of the most plentiful fish and one of the most popular because it figures in the cuisine of so many ethnic groups. Herring is caught in both the Atlantic and Pacific. Sizes range from about 18 inches down to 2 or 3 inches. Cured, skinless herring fillets are packed in a wide variety of forms for con sumer consumption. Some larger sizes of fresh-water herring from the Great Lakes are available dressed or filleted to be sold as pan fish. Some are also offered smoked. Squid: The Italians call it calamari; the Greeks, calamaraki. By any name, this leggy shellfish is cat ching on with gourmet cooks. Low price makes it one of the great buys in seafood for retail seafood departments. Squid has pure white flesh, a texture somewhat like scallops, and a delicate flavor, similar to poultry. Squid has a high nutritional value and is an excellent source of phosphorus and protein. It should be recommended for salds, baking and French frying. Italian or Greek squid recipes will appeal to the gourmet cooks. Alaska Pollock: Alaska pollock is a member of the cod family caught in the Pacific from northern California to north-western Alaska. Frozen fillets are the most common market form. It is also used in fish sticks and portions. Pollock has a mild flavor and very firm textured white flesh that has a rich nutritional vlaue and is low in calories - wily 74 calories per 34 ounce serving with a high protein content. Pollock fillets can be prepared by broiling, baking, poaching, pan frying, deep frying or steaming. It's an excellent fish to recommend for chowders or seafood salads. Smoked Salmon: The holidays are the time to introduce smoked salmon to folks who may never have tried lox on a bagel with cream cheese. Smoked salmon adds both color and exciting flavor to a variety of favorite holiday dishes - omelets, crepes or scrambled eggs. Pink strips curled around capers are just one of the many delicious and easy ways to use this fish for hors d'oeuvr^s. There are several types - Nova is mild-flavored and less salty; regular type has a more salty flavor. Chunks of smoked salmon, called kippered or barbecued salmon, are available in some parts of the country. Smoked salmon should be refrigerated and used within a day or two of purchase. SENIOR CITIZEN'S CORNER, HELPFUL IDEAS FOR SUCCESSFUL RETIREMENT One great fear shared by the majority of senior citizens is that of growing old alone. Growing old without someone to talk to, and to share with, is more than discomfort; it is plain misery, particularly for tlrose individuals "^ho have known the love and companion ship of a long and happy mar riage Only time can ease the pain that comes with the loss of a lifelong helpmate and compan ion. For months, even years, one may live with the growing fear that tomorrow will bring nothing but loneliness. This fear, if one surrenders to it, serves only to promote increased loneliness. Time alone does not heal, especially time spent in reverie or solitude. Healing comes with discovery or the adoption of The Boutique in a House" T^ryffyng ̂ JVico Women s Apparel Shop -Christmas Special of the Week Holiday Dresses 20% Off Free Gift Wrapping (Up the street from Little John s across from McHenry Rec) 3107 W.Lake McHenry 344-1050 Open Daily-Fri-til 9 PM Sun 10 to 4 'Jr '.Fine Labels for Junior A Missy interests and objectives. Heal ing will not be found in a hermi tage, but instead out in the world, where life goes on, each and every day. In these times, there is no reason for the senior citizen to live in solitude. There are hob bies to pursue, people and edu cational institutions willing to provide instruction and guid ance. There are local agencies -- charitable and civic -- in need of voluhteers to help ac complish worthwhile programs. Shops and business firms often need of part-time workers and frequently first preference is given to the mature, retired in dividual on Social Security who can earn no more than a speci fied amount and desires to work on a limited basis. If work is not feasible for one reason or another, one can still escape boredom. It is as simple as walking out the front door, visiting friends and neighbors, making new friends, and doing whatever is necessary to get into the mainstream of daily life. Franklin D. Roosevelt, in one o£Jii6 fieeside chats, fanmded a nation alarmed at the prospect of global warMhat "we nothing to fear, O^Je Where the fear of growing old alone is concerned, there is nothing to fear but blind accep tance that such is the ultimate destiny. SENIOR CITIZENS PERMANENT WAVE SPECIAL Appointment only Phone > 815-385-0224 MARIE'S M-ART BEAUTY SALON 120t N. 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