PAGE 2 - PLAINDEALEK - FRIDAY. JANUARY 30.1981 tLi Xi Kappa Iota chapter of Beta Sigma Phi sorority got off to a busy start of the new year. January hostesses were Virge Stasiak, whose Craft program revolved around knitting; and Dorothy Haddick. who demonstrated the art of making fabric flowers. Etta McCarthy co-hosted both meetings. The chapter enjoyed a party and cookie exchange at the home of Dee Boeka At that time, secret sisters were revealed and new ones drawn for the coming year. The group caravaned to the home of Aleta Gemmell for a Senior Walk-In Center Meals are served Monday through Friday at the McHenry Walk-In center beginning at 11:45 a.m. Reservations must be made by 1:30 p.m. the day before at 385-8260. The menu for the week of Feb. 2 through Feb. 6 is as follows: Feb. 2: Chicken Divan, T I M 4 M. Kto. 120 MtHrary., •». 47 A . (iwtry CM M. -- Hornsbys carries a complete line of ice fishing equipment- lures , floats, tip-ups and more- Just in time for the Crystal Lake Ice Fishing Derby on February 8th. OCLCL • • | Community \ Calendar ' n i i e i i i i e i e e u m MR. AND MRS. JOHN SEBESTA RESIDING IN PALATINE - Mr. and Mrs. John Keith Sebesta are making their home in Palatine, 111. following their wedding in St. Thomas the Apostle church, Crystal Lake, Oct. 25. The groom is the son of Pat Sebesta of Crystal Lake, secretary for Father Edmund Petit, pastor if St. Patrick's Catholic church, McHenry. and John L. Sebesta. Amsterdam, Holland. The bride, the former Leslie Dickenson Talbot, is the daughter of Lynn Talbot of Barrtagton and John Talbot of Palatine. The ceremony was performed by Father Petit, assisted by Father Ray Kearney, formerly of St. Patrick's, and Father Phil Kennedy, Tlie new Mrs. Sebesta is a graduate of Southern Methodist, Dallas, Tex. Her husband graduated from Marian Central high school and Loras college, Dubuque. The couple is employed by Zerox corporation. Sorority Enjoys Busy Start Of The New Year delightful get-together with members of Pi Alpha chapter. Mrs. Boeka also hosted an open house, sponsored by the Executive Coordinating committee of McHenry county of Beta Sigma Phi Sorority members and guests were from McHenry and Crystal Lake. The E.C.C. entertained a brunch at a local restaurant and approximately 30 members enjoyed a sociable morning. The next meeting is scheduled to be held Feb. 5, at the home of Karen Colomer. buttered noodles, jello with fruit, roll, carrot cake, milk. Feb. 3: Hamburger- vegetable soup, hard roll, peach half with cottage cheese, vanilla pudding, milk. Feb. 4: Ham and scalloped potatoes, buttered spinach, wheat bread, pineapple, milk. Feb. 5: Beef liver with onions, parsleyed potatoes, tomatoes au gratin, fruit salad, bread, brownie, milk. Feb. 6: Meat loaf, whipped potatoes with gravy, mixed vegetables, lettuce salad, wheat bread, baked custard, milk. Schedule Singing Duo To Perform At Next Meeting B.P.W. Hears Speaker JANUARY 31 St. John's Home and School assn.--Snowflake Ball-Johnsburg Community club--8:30 p.m. to 1 a.m. FEBRUARY 1 / . Roast Beef dinner, family style-Zion Lutheran church- -12 to 3 p.m. Junior High Youth Fellowship-T-shirt party- noon to 2 p.m.-f'irst United Methodist church. FEBRUARY 2 St. Patrick's Ladies Guild- meeting. 1 p.m.-church hall. McHenry Senior Citizens- Board meeting, 10 a.m.- McHenry Public library. U.M.W. Mission team (Executive committees- meeting, 9:30 a.m.-First United Methodist church parlor. Koinonia group-10 a.m. to noon-First United Methodist church parlor. Marcia Mary Ball Circle- meeting, noon-First United Methodist church parlor. FEBRUARY 3 Ruth Circle, noon-First United Methodist church- hostess, Vivian Bassett. FEBRUARY 4 Dobson films, 7 p.m- Faith Presbyterian church- public invited. McHenry Grandmothers club-luncheon, Mr. C's, 11:30 a.m.-meeting, 1 p.m- Shepherd of the Hills Lutheran church. FEBRUARY 7 McHenry hospital, annual dinner meeting-McHenry Country club-speaker, Fred Briggs, NBC correspondent- reservations, 385-2200, ext. 622 FEBRUARY 9 McHenry Senior Citizens- meeting, 7 p.m.--West campus. Whispering Oaks Woman's club-Board meeting, 9:30 a.m. FEBRUARY 10 , McHenry Chapter 547 O.E.S.--Stated meeting, 8 p.m.-Masonic temple. Newcomers club monthly meeting, 7:30 p.m.-St. Paul's Episcopal church, McHenry-visitors welcome. Whispering Oaks Garden club-Board meeting, 1 p.m. FEBRUARY 11 Dobson films, 7 p.m.- Faith Presbyterian church- public invited. "Around The World" Valentine Buffet-Salad Luncheon-Card party-St. Patrick's Ladies Guild- church hall, 11:30 a.m. to 1 p m. FEBRUARY 12 Priscilla Circle meeting- 9:30 to 11:30 a.m.-First United Methodist church parlor. Lakeland Park Women's club-potluck dinner, 6:30 p.m.-meeting,7:30 p.m- Lakeland Park Community house McHenry Woman's club meeting, 12 p.m.-Shepherd of the Hills Lutheran church. FEBRUARY 14 The Friendship club- potluck dinner and meeting, 5:30 p.m.-Fellowship haS, At the Jan. 26 meeting of the AfcHenry Senior Citizens club, Rose Lingle, Program chairperson, announced that the next meeting wfll feature a singing duo, performing with piano accompaniment, which has been highly recommended. There were 105 members present when Thomas Gatlin, vice president, called the meeting to order at the West campus cafeteria. He announced the annual picnic will be held July 15, at Area A in Petersen park. Tour chairperson, Clem Ulhbdenstock, is arranging a bus tour to see "Man of LaMancha" at the Lin colnshire theatre. Details will be announced at a later date. The tour to the Christmas Tree House was enjoyed by 41 members, preceded by a delicious luncheon. Leona Husch, Mem bership, reported 259 paid up members. Those who have overlooked paying dues are encouraged to do so promptly, as members who are delinquent for three months are dropped from the membership rolls. New members are Maxine Davis, Jean Berens, and Joseph and Ann Kupper. Pat Gatlin, acting Greeter, awarded prizes to Grace Reinhardt, Gordon Snyder and Edna Olson. Everyone welcomed the newsletter, written by Maurice Rogers, with the assistance of Pat Gatlin. Social chairperson, Anna Lura, expressed her ap preciation to those who brought cakes, and in troduced her helpers. They were all attired in clever aprons. The Driver Refresher course will be given March 5, 12 and 19, at the council chambers in the McHenry City hall James Jansen will conduct the classes. A social evening was spent playing cards and delicious refreshments were served by the Social committee. The next Board meeting will be Feb. z, 10 a.m., in the McHenry Public library. First United Methodist church. FEBRUARY 16 THEOS--dinnei[ at Busy Bee restaurant, 5:30 p.m.- meeting at First United Methodist church follows. FEBRUARY 17 Whispering Oaks Garden club-meeting, 1 p.m. FEBRUARY 18 Dobson films, 7 p.m.- Faith Presbyterian church- public invited. Newcomers club, monthly morning coffee, 9:30 a.m.- Shepherd of the Hills L u t h e r a n c h u r c h - - babysitting-visitors welcome. Whispering Oaks Woman's cfiib, l p.m.-The Strange Case of A.L.-by Dr. Wilt. FEBRUARY 19 United Methodist Women- general meeting, noon- Agape luncheon-Fellowship hall, First United Methodist church-MarciaMary Ball Circle hostess. FEBRUARY 21 Johns burg Rescue Squad party-Johnsburg Com m u n i t y c l u b -- b e n e f i t building fund. FEBRUARY 23 McHenry Senior Citizens- meeting, 7 p.m.-West campus .k f ^ ' McHehry Woman's elm- Board meeting, 10 a.m - McHenry Public library. FEBRUARY 24 McHenry Chapter 547 O.E.S.-Stated meeting, 8 p.m.-Masonic temple. Baby Sitting Safety Course-J C.. Bush school, JohnsburgP.T.O.-5th grade and up-consecutive Tuesday meetings. , FEBRUARY 25 Dobson films, 7 p.m.- Faith Presbyterian church- public invited. FEBRUARY 28 Newcomers club "Mardi Gras" party, 8 p.m.-- Barbara Hajek, reservations and information. MARCH 2 McHenry Senior Citizens- Board meeting, 10 a.m.- - McHenry Public library. MARCH 5 McHenry Senior Citizens club-Drivers Refresher course-first session, 9:30 a.m. to noon-council chambers, McHenry City hall. MARCH 9 McHenry Senior Citizens- meeting, 7 p.m.-first time in new location-East campus cafeteria. MARCH 10 Whispering Oaks Garden From The Desk Of Illinois State Council On Nutrition by Virginia Hill GOOD NUTRITION CRUCIAL FOR CANCER PATIENTS . It is important for everyone to eat well, but it's especially important for people with cancer. Doctors and researchers find that patients who eat well during treatment, especially those who eat diets high in protein and calories, are better able to stand the side effects of the treatment, be it chemotherapy, radiation therapy, or surgery. A balanced diet can help maintain strength, can prevent body tissue from breaking down, and can help rebuild the normal tissues that have been affected by treatment. Cancer patients with good eating habits also can have fewer infections. When cancer patients eat less, for whatever cause, they use up their own stored fat, protein, and other nutrients such as iron. Many cancer patients do not eat because they are depressed or treatment may reduce their appetites. Loss of appetite is a common complaint. Some say they eat less because they're not hungry, because food doesn't taste right or leaves a bitter taste in the mouth, or because they just get full too soon. Perhaps some of the following suggestions will help. If meat doesn't taste right, have chicken, turkey, fish, eggs, or dairy products. Use more powdered milk in cooking to get added protein. Some people best accept protein foods that are cold or at room temperature. Protein-containing foods that can be easily served in this manner are: cheese, luncheon meats, tuna, chicken, ham or egg salad, deviled eggs, ice cream, milk shakes, puddings, custards, gelatin, and nuts. If salt is not a diet restric tion, warm cured meats such as ham, bacon, sausage, corned beef, and luncheon meats may be used. Marinating meats in soy sauce, sweet fruit juices, or sweet wines and cooked with club-Board meeting, 1 p.m. MARCH 12 McHenry Senior Citizens club-Drivers Refresher course-second session, 10 a.m. to noon-council chambers, McHenry City hall. fruit over them may im prove their taste. Eat smaller meals more often. Keep nutritious snacks around. In a survey, 99 people that had cancer said they weren't interested in their old snacks any longer - potato chips, candy, fried foods, and alcoholic drinks. This is not all bad. Instead, snack on fresh fruits and vegetables, puddings, etc. Try eating a snack before bed time. Add foods with a variety of color to the meals- so the plate looks tempting. Cook and freeze meals on the good days to have something available for the days when just too tired to cook. Building up strength is important in any illness but is especially important for those with cancer. Main taining weight is one way to decide if adequate calories are being consumed. A balanced diet and an em phasis on protein is paramount. Women Of The Moose SOT THOSE AFTER HOLIDAY BLUES? •GET A WINTER PICK-ME-UP'I CHANCE THE OLD YOU WITH A NEW STYLE OR REVITALIZE THE OLD STYLE PERM WAVES *18" AND UP FEATHERCUTS AND STYLINGS •CALL N0W| 385-8567 3325 W. ELM-RT. 120 WOODSTOCK OPERA HOUSE Music for a Sunday Afternoon • February 8, 2:30 p.m. Regensteln Trio • March 15, 2:30 p.m. Mary Beth Pell, soprano • April 12, 2:30 p.m. Stephen Kates, cello Tickets: $7.00 reserved; $4.00 seniors; $3.00 students. $18.00 series; $9.00 senior series; $6.00 student series. Reservationa: (815)338-5300 This series is sponsored by the Woodstock Fine Arts Association and made possible in part by a Qrant from the Illinois Arts Council. • : A 1 k i i Twenty ladies were present at a recent meeting of the Women of the Moose and Doris Low, Child Care committee chapter chair man, gave a small talk to the members about their project. Anne Gibson was enrolled as a new member, sponsored by Pat Knapik. A new candidate was voted in to be enrolled at a later date. The ladies will be hosting a Sweetheart dance in February. The date (naturally) is Feb. 14, from 7 p.m. until??? Roast beef will be served and music for dancing will be provided by a group well-liked by club members. Help is needed for decorating. Tickets are available now. Hie special award was won by Katie Edstrom and the attendance award by Anne Starczyk. March 1 is Chapter Rally day in Harvard. All officers and chairmen are requested to attend. Everyone in terested is urged to let Pat Knapik know by Feb. 2 (firm). Those attending will meet at the lodge by 11:30 a.m. and the meeting will start at 1:30 p.m. Hie next chapter meeting will be held Feb. 2. Edna Fanning, Foundations chairman. Is shown as she Introduced Mark LaFevre, guest speaker at a recent meeting of the McHenry Business and Professional Women's club. The McHenry Business and Professional Women's club enjoyed a pleasant dinner at a local restaurant recently, and Edna Fanning, Foundations chairman, introduced the guest speaker, Mark LeFevre, who represented a brokerage firm in Wood stock. LeFevre spoke on "Women in Investments", mentioning that he feels the 1960's are exciting years. He discussed the value and opportunity of investments and an interesting group discussion followed. During the business meeting, it was announced that Lynn Donarski and Cathy Nolan will represent the club at the Legislative conference to be held in Springfield March 6 and 7. Also, the District VI Spring meeting will be a brunch at the Raindancer restaurant in Woodstock, March 15. It was agreed that the club will support Cathy Nolan and Lyn Donarski in their efforts on an advisory resolution c o n c e r n i n g c i t i z e n s ' initiative - the citizens' right to change a law. They are striving to establish a local referendum. , P r e s i d e n t A d e l i n e Pedersen appointed the N o m i n a t i n g c o m m i t t e e comprised of Virginia Orr, c h a i r m a n ; F l o r e n c e Piasecki and Mildred Arndt. Guests for the evening, and prospective members were Kathy Schaid, Ruth Leska, Mary Ferg en, Lori Huml, Esther Fuenning, Carol Sek, Rita Letersen, Joy Schmidt, Angie Poulos, Pat Jablonski, Rita Frisby and Bertha Stange. Sponsor Fund Raiser The Junior High Youth Fellowship of McHenry's First United Methodist church is sponsoring a fund raising T-shirt party Sun day, Feb. 1. The general public is in vited to attend the sale, which will begin at noon and continue until 2 p.m. The display of shirts and transfers will be in the Narthex of the church, located at 3717 W. Main street, McHenry. For additional in formation, call Mrs. Marlin ( C h e r y l ) . M u m m a , McHenry. There's An Answer (by Norman Vincent Peale and Ruth Stafford Peale) Parents scare him Q. I am a male teacher, teaching 4th grade. I have excellent - J *». i am free, lucid and even a bit witty with them. But as the years go by I am having more difficulty relating to their parents. I become hesitant, defeiKive, uncertain, somewhat paranoid and suffer a poor self-image When parent-teacher conferences come I have a terrible energy lag and seem overwhelmed by innumerable problems whicn are mostly anticipated but do not exist.Oftenf lose my voice during or right after the conferences. Would hypnotic therapy be wrong? A. Your letter certainly indicates that you are a sensitive and intelligent man. We pick up the impression that your attitude toward parents and your intense mental and physical reactions could possibly stem from some "unfinished business"of growing up. An incomplete emotional separation from one or both of your parents could produce an irrational fear of parental authority and a vague sense of guilt, neither of which are appropriate to your present situation. You might want to explore this jrofessional counseling, along with the advisability of therapy. hypnotic Can't evict her Q. A dear friend of many years is without funds and has been with me since I was widowed 10 years ago. She has developed arteriosclerosis of the brain, making memory impossible and personal responsibility a thing of the past. I can't evict her, and she cannot or will not accept the fact that she is not normal. I have tried to be patient, but I am 80 years old and have many physical problems. I want to share, but I must care for my future too. Any advice will be appreciated A., It is inadvisable for a person of your sat to be saddled with a friend in the condition you deecribr rhere often comes a time when we have to deal with the mentally incapacitated as we would a child, that is, we decide in a carira and loving manner what is best for them and ourselves and take responsible action. There must be some church-related or other facility where your friend will receive good care Ask your pastor for information and advice. Is it wrong to loveT Q I am a 26 year old lady with two children and have been divorced twice. Recently I met a 20 year old man who I've come to careen awful lot about. In fact he cares and says he loves me. Is it wrong for me to be in love with someone who is six years younger that I? This young man keeps telling me it's not wrong. A. No, that age difference should be no reasonable deterrent. But having been twice divorced, better give the matter of a third marriage careful and prayerful thought. If there is something you would like to ask Dr. and Mrs. Peale, writs to them at Box 500, Pawling, N.Y. 12564. The greatest producer of real work is necessity. StfEETHART DANCE mums my film, mi "POLKA JETS" REGULAR PRICED DRINKS STARTS AT t M Why Pay More? lllaid CABINETS 40% Off F A C T O R Y L I S T Keyline Kitchens (815) 385 1720