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BIRTHS Mr. and Mrs. Mark Glenn Nelson, 50-7 Oakhill, Fox Lake, 111. announce the birth of their first child on March 14. Nicole Gene Nelson entered the world at Lake Forest hospital, Lake Forest, 111. Maternal grandparents are James and Sandy Cole * of McHenry. Glenn and Lois Nelson of Dundee, 111. are the paternal grandparents. "Ssssssssssssssssssss • J HOSPITAL I J NOTES (fesssssssssssssssssss WOODSTOCK Admissions: Mrs. Melissa Gray and Mrs. Dorothy Draper, both of McHenry. HARVARD Admission: Duane Brossman, Jr. of McHenry. HONOR CRASH VICTIMS McHenry American Legion Post No. 491 is flying the American flag at half mast in honor of the servicemen who died in the tragic air disaster over Greenwood March 19. In doing so, a spokesman of Post 491 said the post holds the highest regard for all servicemen and expressed condolences to the families. IN HERBERT FAVORITE-Ready for their roles in Victor Herbert's "The Red Mill" are three members of the McHenry Choral club. Card Jean Smith, left, Lee Cooney and Lorean Redwanz will join others in presenting such favorites as "The Streets of New York", "Because You're You" and "Every Day Is Ladies Day With Me". The program will be presented Saturday and Sunday evenings, April 3 and 4, at 8:15 p.m. in West campus auditorium. STAFF PHOTO-WAYNE GAYLORD A Growing Child The ability to wait a while to have a need or a wish satisfied, to be good humored about delays, is one of the most attractive and endearing traits in an adult or a child. Growing Child, the monthly child development newsletter, points out that this quality of personality doesn't just suddenly happen when an individual reaches adulthood. It develops slowly from beginning in early infancy. And, strange as it may seem, it develops in young children whose needs are satisfied. That is, the baby who is not frustrated learns to endure frustration. A study sponsored originally by the National Institute of Mental Health indicated that tb"re is a close relationship between the degree of pleasure a baby experiences during his feedings and the gradual development of his ability to wait. Feeding is important because hunger is the strongest physical drive of a baby. The study found that, as a baby learns to look forward to pleasurable relief from the tension caused by hunger, he gradually begins to put up with necessary periods of waiting-provided, of course, that in the beginning the delay is brief and bearable. At the end of their first year, children who had had their physical and emotional needs adequately met showed increasing ability to pay attention to tasks and to handle test objects well. Introduced to activities such as fitting pegs in holes or dropping blocks into a container these children showed interest in the tasks and pleasure when they succeeded. Further, they were not too frustrated by failure. In contrast, those children whose feeding experiences had been less pleasurable showed less interest, less patience and less con­ centration. Many showed anxiety about what was expected of them. The study is careful to point out that it is the repeated good or unhappy experiences that matter-not the occasional interference of teething, fatigue, illness or family stress. As a child moves out of infancy and into early childhood, his ability to tolerate frustrations will continue to develop as his changing needs continue to be met. Wise parents learn to recognize early signs of frustration in their child, and to relieve the child's tension before increasing frustration leads to loss of control, Postage stamps which have stuck together will come apart more easily after fif­ teen minutes in the freezer. DARLENE STABLA COOLS, ACSW CSW COUNSELING AND PSYCHOTHERAPY Individual, Couple, Family And Group Therapy (815)728-1039 DAYS, EVENINGS AND SATURDAY HOURS BY APPT PAGE 3 • PLAINDEALER - WEDNESDAY, MARCH 31,1982 disorganized behavior or temper tantrums. This avoidance of frustration does not imply over-permissiveness. Rather, it results in setting realistic limits on behavior, and maintaining them consistently. A child can feel secure when he knows what to expect of his parents and what they expect of him. F u r t h e r , a v o i d i n g f r u s t r a t i o n i n c l u d e s recognizing the effects of over-fatigue or over­ stimulation and protecting the child from these stresses when possible; providing pleasurably distracting substitutes for undesirable activies; and allowing the child freedom to grow into independence. The emotional security provided by continued meeting of his physical and emotional needs frees the c h i l d f r o m a n x i e t y a n d uncertainty. Thus freed, he can concentrate on a task, wait his turn when necessary to meet the demands of cooperative play, and accept with reasonably good humor the inevitable disap pointments of life. The gradual maturing of these elements of the ability to wait prepares the child to meet successfully the social, behavioral and learning requirements of the schoolroom. The Growing Child newsletter follows a child's development month-by- month. For more in­ formation on the social and physical development of children from birth to six years old, write Growing Child, P.O. Box 620N, Lafayette, IN 47902 Include child's birthdate when writing. There is a nominal charge (fir a year's sub scriptior "He is well worth h i s s a l t " o r i g i n a t e d i n a n ­ c i e n t G r e e c e , w h e r e s a l t w a s t r a d e d f o r s l a v e s CHILD CARE WITH A DIFFERENCE! CHRISTIAN EMPHASIS AND CARE Sliding-scale rates to $37.50 per week Age 22 months thru 11 years, Including Summer DROP-OFF CARE AVAILABLE Gymnasium for Activities Regular Field Trips 2 meals and a snack daily HOURS 6:30 AM TO 5:30 PM F#r Applications Or Further Information Call 385-0083 FOX VALLEY DAY CARE CENTER First Baptist Charch S--th Reals 31, McHaary, III. lakeland Park & Lakeland Shores Carol Cominsky 385-7246 Refunders Meet April 5 The Lakeland Park Refunders will have its next meeting Monday, April 5. We will meet again in my home, 4709 W. Prairie, at 7:30 p.m. For those who met with us last month, I suggest you contact members you would like to remind to bring their proofs and forms. You don't have to be a resident of Lakeland Park to belong to this club so if you are in­ terested in attending you are urged to join us next week. CLUB MEETS The Lakeland Park P r o p e r t y O w n e r s association will have its monthly meeting Thursday, April 1, beginning at 8 p.m., in the community house. Their newly elected board members will be installed at this meeting. It was good that members came out for the annual general meeting on March 18, to make a quorum for the election to take place. LITTLE LEAGUE Registration for the Lakeland Park Boys and Girls Little League will take place Saturday, April 3, from 1 to 4 p.m. and Sunday, April 4, from 11 a.m. to 2 p.m., at the community house. There will be a nominal fee charged per child, with a reduced rate for families with more than one child registered. All boys and girls of our area, ages seven to 14, are welcome to come and sign up. TWO YEARS OLD Ken and Sue Prazak's daughter Nicole was two years old March 18. They had a party for her on Sunday, March 14, in their home. The guest list read; grandma, andt, -grandpa Prazak; grandma Bit- terman; uncle Tom Bit- terman, with his children Allen and Brad; uncle Don Prazak, with his girlfriend Mary; uncle Ken Vanek, and his daughter Jolene; god­ parents, Georgia and Bob Boyle, with their kids Michael, Kelly and Sherry. Tracy and Heather helped their little sister open all her gifts and then blow out the candles on her cake. It was quite a big day for such a pretty little girl. DOGS RUNNING One sure sign of Spring is all the dogs running at large in our neighborhood. Once again I remind dog owners that their pets are to be leashed or fenced in when outside. There is a black lab that has been making her appearance every morning when the childen are waiting at the bus stops. This dog has been running up to the kids and knocking them down in the mud. If this dog is yours, please keep her home where she belongs. HAPPY BIRTHDAY We end the month of March with Ronald Kamp, Judy Slonina, David Brunow, Andrew Rogers and Joe Leopold celebrating on the 31st. Melanie Harazin has her special day on April Fools day. David Wayne Kreutzer will be two on April 2 and he shares his day with Debbie Koczor and Charlene Mueller. Best wishes are sent to Scott Lasko and Kristina Freund on the 3rd. April 4 is the day Lee Dolan, Lisa Mayer, Karen Jan Rucks says: 1 LOST40 LBS. ^ nr . . . In a couple o f months . 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