r u ;i-: 2 . i*i.%im»k \i*:»t -wkdmfmday. august ii. i* -« - d\Aos,t[u ̂ <§ocLaC j Newlyweds Take In Sights Of World's Fair On Wedding Trip When newly married Mr. and Mrs. Bradford Staats planned their honeymoon, they decided to take advantage of the opportunity to attend a World's Pair, and scheduled a trip to Knoxvflle, Tenn. where the 1962 spectacle is currently in progress. The bride is the former Linda S. Sal men of Mt. Prospect, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. William Sahnen of Wonder Lake. Mr. and Mrs. Richard Staats of Valparaiso, Ind. are the parents of the bridegroom. The couple was united in marriage Aug. 7, during a 3:30 p.m. ceremony officiated by the Reverend Glen Schaumberg, before an altar decorated with bouquets of orchid and green flowers, in St. Matthew's adding prayer and "Friends In Love' bride wore a full length, sheer gown over light satin, highlighted with chantilly lace and fashioned with a sweetheart neckline. Her fingertip veil was adorned with matching lace. Attending her sister aa matron of honor was Carol Ames of Rochelle, 111. Bridesmaids were Linda Donath of Highwood, 111.; Peg Kolosso of Chicago; and the groom's sister, Lindy Stacy of PinevTlle. Mo. Attendants were attired in full length, mint green dresses which were softly draped and complemented with lace jackets. Handling the duties of best man was Robert Kasper of Indianapolis, Ind. Groomsmen were Steve Pitcairn, Russell Shaw and the bride's brother, John Salmen. The flower girl was the bride's niece, Angelica Ames, age six. Her three-year-old nephew Jameson was the ring bearer. The mother of the bride chose a full length, creme color, A-line dress enhanced with a sheer, muted prim, coat A full length, plum color dress of crepe, styled with long sleeves was the choice of the groom's mother. Fallowing the ceremony, a reception was hekl at Heck's of Chicago, for 100 friends and relatives. The bride graduated from the Medical Institute of Minnesota, Minneapolis, Minn., and is a veterinary technician at Arlington Heights Animal hospital. The groom received a degree in Business Administration from the University of Arkansas and is employed as a manager for Osco Drug, Franklin Park, IU. They are making thfeir home in Schaumburg, 111. Wonder Lake Club Members Seriic Eni tor Citizen njoy Picnic Monday, Aug. 2, was a perfect day for the seventh annual picnic of the Wonder Lake Senior Citizens club, in Petersen Park, McHenry. Dick Wojciehowski, Picnic chairman, had everything well organized and the large turnout of members really enjoyed the day. Games and contests were going on all day, prizes were awarded to lucky winners and music for dancing was supplied by Ralph and Eddie. One exciting contest was to see what gent had the biggest bay window. John Bartoshuk won with OttoSrotin a close second Members brought their goodies in picnic baskets and the club furnished cake and coffee. All sang "Happy Birthday" to President Charlie Smith. The next meeting of the group will be Aug. 16, at Christ the King church hall. Blood pressures will be taken from 11 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. for all Wonder Lake senior citizens , one does not have to be a member of the club to have a blood pressure taken. It is nice and cool where the club meets, therefore, seniors shouldn't let hot weather keep them home. r MR. AND MRS. JOEL BLAKE HAWAIIAN HONEYMOON -- Upon returning from a two-week honeymoon In Hawaii, newly married Mr. and Mrs. Joel R. Blake will be residing in Tulsa, Okla. The bride is the former Darlene Diedrich, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Charles M. Diedrich, 3704 W. Timothy lane, McHenry. Mr. and Mrs. Joel H. Blake, H621 Chalet road, Bloomington, Minn., formerly of Crystal Lake, are the parents of the bridegroom. Father James Gaynor officiated at the 2:30 p.m. nuptials on July 17, in the Church of St. Mary of the Assumption. McHenry. Following the ceremony, a reception was held for 225 guests at the Johnsburg Community club. The new Mrs. Blake, a 1978 graduate of McHenry West campus, was employed as a secretary for Althoff Industries. Her husband graduated from Marian Central high school in 1078, will complete his degree in Petroleum Geology In December of 1982 and is a petroleum geologist for Viking Petroleum. -•m- X.--*->*• v vr •Hi• . • There's An Answer (by Normon Vincent Peole ond Ruth Stafford Peole) Ripped apart Q. I'm a 17-year-old girl and would like to receive a copy of "How to Have a Good Day Every Day". There isn't a great communication gap between me and my parents, but now it seems every little thing that Dad or Mom does gets on my nerves. I try to love them as much as I can, but my father swears a lot and it really bothers me. I hurt really deep down inside, and I'm scared I'll grow up doing the same thing. I've asked my father to stop, but he keeps on doing it. I know he does it just to bug me so I'll slam a door or something. I feel like I'm being emotionally ripped apart. Help! A. This situation seems to call for a father-daughter conversation, frank but loving. Say to your father that you want to talk to him about yourself, that you love him and want his advice. Then tell him exactly how you feel in a non-critical manner. Ask him to advise you about your own actions. Really have a frank heart-to-heart talk. Don't worry too much about your mother and father getting on your nerves for that is often part of the growing up process. I am glad to send you, as requested, a copy of our booklet, "How to Have a Good Day Every Day". Any other reader may have this free of charge by writing to Box 500, Pawling, N.Y. 12564. Falling apart Q. 1 loved my husband more than anyone else in the world, and I still do. But he paased away about three months ago. We were married 31 years, and I miss him so much. I keep myself busy, and when people are around I can keep t is Dl Women Of Faith Presbyterian Form Mary And Martha Circle m >roken. yself pretty well in control. But inside my heart 1 try so hard not to show my grief or to burden other people, but when I'm ne I fall apart emotionally ana at times I feel as though I am losing my mind. I cry out to my husband, ana I talk to God, but it seems to help very little. I' always been religious, but this is getting to be almost more than I can bear What can I do? A. Right now you are in shock resulting from a powerful emotional wound It is quite normal to have a poignant grief that causes you to "fall apart emotionally" as you describe your reaction. This is the wav normal grief operates, so do not be ashamed of it. There is a very great healing property in time, and with God's help you will develop greater control. Meanwhile, you might think of your huaband as enjoying heaven. Don't to him. He wanta you to be hapi ieve possit If there is something you would like to ask Dr. and Mrs. Peale, write to them at Box 500, Pawling, N.Y. 12564 v project your grief ne will be nearer to you than you now You will find that in time At theihird meeting of the women of Paith Presbyterian church, the name "Mary and Martha Circle", named after two women disciples of Jesus, was officially adopted. Co-sponsors of ihis group of mature ladies of Faith are Eva Dingle of Eastwood Manor and Dorothy Williamson of McHenry The meeting was held at the hone of Shirley Stan)fc,46 Whispering Oaks with Susan Roe of Pjstakee Highlands helping to provide and serve tasty refrflrttments - The purpose of the circle is to deepen members' understanding of • he message of Christ and how to bring thai message into the com munity The growth of Faith church Women Of The Moose The Aug 3 chapter meeting was called to order by senior regent Lil Baker with 20 women in attendance and the Attendance award was given to Florence Roth. Membership chairman Peggy Pearson introduced her committee members and gave a brief resume of their activities Notice was given to return all picnic tickets before the picnic on Aug. 14. Co-workers in need of new hand books can buy them at a cost of $l. New members will receive them at no cost Treasurer Mary Keerberg is making beautiful red velvet hearts for co-workers to display their pins on. Co-workers in need of either item can contact her Following the meeting, the Mem bership committee served a delicious chicken and rice casserole, touched off with salads The next chapter business meeting is slated for Aug 17. has made the need for a larger building crucial. One of the goals of i he Mary and Martha Circle is to give support to the Building fund. A holiday bazaar, which has been held annually at the Presbyterian church, will this year be under the auspices of the Mary and Martha Circle. The date when all the hand work will be ready for sale is Nov. 13. The group's first fund raising venture will determine who are the Marthas b and who are the Marys. f»» The Mary and Martha Circle meets once a month, with small grouffo gathering at various times for fellowship and work. HOLD CORNFEST The Island Lake Lions club will hold a corniest Sunday, Aug. 15, from noon to 6 p.m. in Porten's park. There will be free corn, refreshments and games, as well as musical en tertainment. licit t row 11* J i In the wake of revelations that Japanese businesses are stealing technological secrets from American firms, a man agement expert says Amer ican businessmen can learn a lot from the Japanese style of management. One aspect that contributes to increased productivity is the Japanese attention to the human as pects of life in the workplace. POT-LUCK PICNIC The Christian Mothers of St. Mary's church will hold their annual pot-luck picnic in the Pearl street park starting at noon Thursday, Aug. 12. All members are invited to attend and are asked to bring a dish to pass spuroeon Watch Fo r Ou r BACK-TO-SCHOOL SALE CIRCULAR I n Th i s Week s Aug . 11 C i t i zen Pape r ( I n Y o u r M a i l R o v S a v i n g s o f 20 O t o 48 O F o r M o n - B o y s - G i r l s - W o m e n M < H o u r y M a r k e t P l a c o H o u i \ l ) u i l y 9 9 S o t 9 6 S u n 1 0 b Fall FANTASY FARM CHILD CARE •EDUCATIONAL PRE SCHOOL PROGRAMS- SLOWEST RATES *H0T LUNCHES •STATE LICENSED •INDOOR & OUTDOOR •QUALIFIED TEACHERS PLAY AREAS ALSO AVAILABLE BEFORE AND AFTER & SCHOOL CARE FOR CHILDREN 111 Ages 14 Hours: 4:4S to 5:30 PM About Your Wedding Write-Up In order to t*rv« McHvnry or*o brid*t. th« Plaind*ol«r mailt wad ding form* to all whoca •ngog*m*n t* ha v« b*«n announced in th« paper and carry a definite dot*. We osk that these completed form* be returned three day* before the wedding. The story containing atl the infor mation given on the form will appear only during the week following the wedding except in the ca»e of out- of state wedding*, where an ad ditional week it allowed Formt received the tecond week at ter the wedding will be printed with the omittion of a detcription of the attire worn. Photogropht will be printed any time later or will bo included with the wedding information if they occom pony the ttory at the pretcribed deodline. If your engagement announcement hat rtot been publithed or if the date of the wedding wat not known at that time, pleate call our office and requett that a morrioge form be tent. Spoce problem* experienced by a non-daily newtpoper ond a detire to print up-to dote newt, make thit policy necettary. COMMUNITY CALENDAR Wed In Colorado AUGUST II Moose Family Rib Wnir-Lodge. AUGUST 12 McHenry County Genealogical society-monthly meeting, 7:30 p.m.- Grace Lutheran church-Washington street, Woodstock-"Court house Research* *. % Rules ot the Road Review course- for senior citizens-third and last class. 10 a.m. to noon-McHenry City hall - AUGUST 12-13 Lilymoor Assn. Rummage sale-9 a.m.-5 p.m.-Lily Lake road-814 W. Southside. AUGUST 14 Moose Annual Picnic-Petersen Park-12 to 7 p.m. McHenry Sportamans club- Weingart road-practice shoot-club opens 1 p.m.-public invited. AUGUST 15 McHenry Foresters-Pool party, 8 to 9:30 p.m.-Knox Park-information, call Debbie Oeffling, 385-5081 or Barb Plutshack, 385-8753. AUGUST 16 T.H.E.O.S.-annuaJ catered picnic- home of Mae Stineapring-3320 Bay View lane, McHenry-Dinner, 5:30 p.m.-reservations, Lyda Radisch, 385-2754. AUGUST 17 Women of the Moose-Chairmen meeting, 7 p.m.-Business meeting, 8 p.m.-Lodge. McCullom Lake Conservation club- meeting, 8 p.m.-Lakeland Park Community House-1717 N. Sunset. McHenry Toastmasters club-- Organization meeting, 7 p.m -- McHenry Public Library. AUGUST 19 Senior citizens-Application and photo identification cards-10 a.m. to 3 p.m.-McHenry City hall- information, call Jim Janeen, 385- 7475. AUGUST 20 St. Margaret Chapter of NAIM- regular meeting, 7:30 p.m.-St. Mary's school-Oak room. AUGUST 21 McHenry Sportsmans club- Weingart road-practice shoot-club opens 1 p.m.-public invited. i; , AUGUST 22 McHenry Sportsmans club- Weingart road-meat shoot-food available-club opens U a.m.-public i n v i t e d . ; ( i ; ' J . ' ' 1 r Second anitafcl Chicken Dinner- Pistakee Highlands Community center-Ringwood and Hilltop-1 to 8 p.m.-sponsor, Mt. Hope church. AUGUST 23 McHenry Senior Citizens' club-no regular meeting-school registration. AUGUST 26 McHenry Senior Citizens' Bus trip- Wagon Wheel, Rockton-luncheon- leave Market place, 10 a.m AUGUST 28 McHenry Sportsmans club- Weingart road-practice shoot-club opens 1 p.m.-public invited. Second annual dance-McHenry American Legion home, Ringwood road-9 p.m.-public invited-ticketa at door-sponsor, Polish Legion of American Veterans-Liberty Poat 188. AUGUST 29 American Legion Poet 481-August Fest-12 to 6 p.m.-beer, food, games and prizes-children's magician show- band music for all. McHenry Sportsmans club- Weingart road-registered shoot- trophies awarded-food available- club opens 9 a.m.-public invited. AUGUST 30 St. Patrick's Ladiea Guild-Board meeting, 1 p.m.-McHenry Public Library-any member may attend. AUGUST 31 Men and Women of the Moose-Joint meeting, 8 p.m.-Lodge. SEPTEMBER 4 Freund Family Reunion-1 to 7 p.m.- •Johnsburg Community club-call 385- 0258 for details. McHenry Sportsmans club- Weingart road-practice shoot-club opens 1 p.m.-public invited. SEPTEMBER 6 McHenry Sportsmans club- Weingart road-special shoot-club opens 9 a.m.-food available-public invited. SEPTEMBER 9 McHenry Senior Citisena Fall MR. AND MRS. DIEDRICH Daa and Sherrl Diedrich were married July 10.1982, hi St. Michael * church. Cases City, Cele., The bridegroom is the soa of former McHenry residents, the Bill Dfedrkh family, presently of 835 Phelps, Canaa City, Colo. Dinner-McHenry Country club- social hour, noon-dinner, 1 p.m. McHenry County Genealogical Society-monthly mee, 7:30 p.m- Grace Lutheran church-Washington street, Woodstock~"An Introduction to Genealogy" by Betty Massman. SEPTEMBER 13 Compassionate Friends-meeting, 7 p.m.-Family Service and Community Mental Health Center for McHenry County-4302 Crystal Lake road-Suite G, McHenry. SEPTEMBER 19 Polish Legion of American Veterans-Liberty Poet and Chapter 188-installation of officers-Polish Legion home-1304 N. Park street, McHenry-2 p.m. T.H.E.O.S. Sets Catered Picnic Monday, August 6 • i> '.U ft t'r. bos The annual T.H.E.O.S. 'Catered Picnic will be held Monday, Aug. 16, at the home of Mrs. Harry P. (Mae) Stineapring, 3329 N. Bay View lane, McHenry; dinner to be served at 5:30 p.m. Those going in the afternoon to have more time to visit with one another prior to the dinner, are to meet at the Firat United Methodist church parking lot at 3 p.m., to con solidate carpools. Reservations are to be made with Mrs. Wm. J. (Lyda) Radisch of McHenry. T.H.E.O.S. (To Help Each Other Smile) is a very warm, casual, friendly group for widows and widowers, meeting the third Monday of each month at 5:30 p.m. at some local restaurant for dinner together, and then going to the First United Methodist church for an evening of fun and fellowship. There are no age restrictions, the group is non-denominational, and there are no dues For further par ticulars, one may contact Mrs. Stineapring or Mrs. Radisch CLAYWORKERS' DISPLAY Members of the Clayworfcer's Guild, Inc. will show their pottery at Flowerwood in Crystal Late, Rt 14 and 178. Aug. 13 ana 14 from 9 to 5 both days. Demonstrations on the potters wheel can be seen throughout the show. Any one interested in membership can call Lena Wells at 815-338-0171. R^AFT ShQ YOUNG 81NGLE PARENTS Young Single Parents of America is now forming a new chapter in the McHenry area and is seeking young single parents who would like to meet on a weekly basis to have guest speakers, entertainment, time to socialise and dance. It also provides family and adult activitiea audi as family picnics, campouta, trtps, parties, and group discussions Y.S.P. ia a non profit, non sectarian organisation devoted to the welfare of single parents and their childrefc Thia new chapter meeta every Wedneeday evening at the Crystal Woods Country chib, Rustic Inn, Routes 47 and 173, Woodstock. Saturday, Aug. 14th 9:30 am - 4:30 pm .NAND-^RAFTEQ d ITEMS Store-Wide Sales... Refreshments Served While You Btwv,., •Handmade Clocks •Silk Flower j •Oil Paintings •Bread Centerpieces •Baby Items •Sculpture ( O l MR\ ARISK (RAMS r > ( M M ) \ \ I l m ( K u * « i j i i V t • V > ' |U ta -uenaii MwVWwK V , FURNITUKK • BiDDfrfO 'ft MICE MDDM6 '66 NATIONALLY AovnmssD MAND NAHMS IACM aoun IM AND 81 IN Mi (M8XT TO MB 8TA1ION) I 0UP0