Page *- PLAlINDEALfcK-HKK \LI>. U MIM-ISI) O . \I»KIL 24. 1983 Life today Exchange vows during candlelight ceremony JOHN MILINAC AND VICTORIA JANAS Engaged An announcement has been made of the engagement of Victoria A. Janas and John D. Milinac. The bride elect is the daughter of Mrs. Barbara Janas of McHenry and the late Donald P. Janas, Sr. The future bridegroom is the son of Mrs. Marilyn Milinac of McHenry and Mr. and Mrs. Franklin J. Milinac of Woodstock. The couple graduated from McHenry West Campus in 1978. An Aug. 3 wedding is planned. Read for Children who open books ailso open up the world >EAR ABBY: As an eighth-grade English and social studies tcher, I am trying to encourage my students to establish the of reading. dents tend to emulate and identify with famous people, so I asking various celebrities to help me with this project. As i know, Abby, better educated students grow up to be more formed and responsible citizens. fould you please write a paragraph or two, stressing the ice of reading? you for your time and help. RAY SMYTHE, PORTLAND, ORE. 3EAR MR. SMYTHE: With pleasure. If I could give young p( role one piece of advice, it would be, read, read, rea< leading will open new worlds, real and imagined id for pleasure, read for inspiration. 0 information, rea< cc ntain a wealth, of information and entertairiftient,) y< urs--as much as you want-free for the taking! Hie person who does not read has no advantage over the person who cannot read. And since last week was National Library Wwk, T want to encourage parents to read to their very young children. This lo ring act will create a bond of closeness between parent and cl fld as well as make the child aware of the buried treasures that ci n be found in books. jet me share with you the closing paragraph from one of my faivorite poems, "The Reading Mother" by Strickland Gillian: ("You may have tangible wealth untold '"Caskets of jewels and coffers of gold. !"Richer than I you can never be- |"I have a mother who read to me." •DEAR ABBY: "Waiter in Beverly Hills" was way off base when he said, "The cook is the highest paid employee in the restaurant--in fact, in the better restaurants the cook has more money than the people who eat there." Abby, some chefs may make that kind of money, but there's a big dinerence between a cook and a chef. A chef is a well-trained, specially schooled, high-salaried professional for whom cooking an art-not just a job. In case you don't know it, the most overworked and underpaid employee in a restaurant is the busboy. Everything you touch, The former Linda Lee Humphreys and Dean Joseph Gluth were united in Holy Matrimony during a 5:30 p.m. candlelight ceremony Friday, March 15. The Rev. Thomas Lowery presided over the nuptial ceremony in the First United Methodist Church of McHenry. Special music provided by soloist Julie Castle, and accompanied by pianist Lynn Sobczak, included "There is Love" and "Wedding Prayer." The bride is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Robert Hum phreys, 1506 N. Ramble Road, McHenry. Ms. Jeannine Vale of Orlando, Fla. is the mother of the bridegroom. The bride was gowned for the occasion in a floor length satin creation. The bodice, accented by embroidered appliques, featured an off-the-shoulder neckline and short, puffed sleeves. The skirt flowed into a chapel length train, bordered with embroidered lace; and her fingertip veil was finished with a rolled edge. Keeley of La Grange, 111. At tendants were the bride's sister, Carol Humphreys of McHenry, Cheryl Hansen of* McHenry and Mrs. Lori Rush of Wheeling, 111. Attendants were attired in floor length, pink taffeta gowns, styled with an off-the-shoulder neckline and an apron front. Handling the duties of best man was Guy Hincker of MacComb, 111. Groomsmen were John Rush of Des Plaines, 111., James Rush of Wheeling and Tom Cummings of Glen- view, ni. Following the ceremony, a dinner was held at Maxwell's Plum in Elk Grove, m, for 150 maid Attending of honor the bride as was Rebecca Upon their return from a honeymoon at the Hyatt Regency, Grand Cypress, Orlando, Fla., the newlyweds took up residence in Mount Prospect, 111. The new Mrs. Gluth studied fashion merchandising at Eastern Illinois University and is in retail management. Her husband studied law en forcement at Western Illinois University and is in security management. MR. AND MRS. DEAN GLUTH Items of interest Births s?e frflinnring a tray with about 100 pounds of dishes on it. If a busboy makes a minimum wage, he's lucky. Fortunately, the waiters and waitresses do share their tips with him, but it's not much. Don't get me wrong; everybody in the restaurant business really works hard and few get rich, but if there's an extra tip to be given, remind your readers to give it to the busboy. SAN ANTONIO COOK •DEAR COOK: Thanks for the reminder. And may I remind you that sometimes the "busboy" is a girl. CONFIDENTIAL TO CURIOUS IN ST. PAUL: When people sky, "It's not the money, it's the principal of the thing"- it's usually the money. POTATO PANCAKES Saturday, April 27, from 7 to 11 a.m. at the First Presbyterian Church, corner of Tryon and Calhoun streets, Woodstock, Turning Point will sponsor its Fourth Annual Potato Pancake Breakfast. Regular pancakes will be available for those who don't like potato pancakes. Donations of $3.50 per adult and $1.50 per child will be accepted at the door or may be purchased by phoning 338-8081. LUNCH & FASHIONS A "Swing Into Spring and Summer" fashion show and luncheon wil be held Friday, Apr 26, in the Pear Tree Cafe and ground floor lobby at Good Shepherd Hospital, Barrington. Lunch settings will be at 11 a.m. and 12:30 p.m., with a choice of three entrees. Reservations are a must and tickets are $4.95. For information call Nancy J^ngelo at 381-9290. NICHOLAS A baby girl was born March 5 to Geno and Linda Nicholas of Fox River Grove. Nina Lian arrived at Good Shepherd Hospital, Barrington weighing 7 lbs. 8 oz. Maternal grandparents are Mr. and Mrs. Donald Gierloff of McHenry. Mr. and Mrs. Geno Nicholas, Sr. of Cary are the paternal grandparents. GOYETTE Roy and Mary Goyette of McHenry became parents of their second child and first son March 13. John Paul was born in Good Shepherd Hospital, Barrington and weighed 7 Ids. 14 oz. He has a sister Rachel Marie. The maternal grand mother is Mrs. Shirley Dennis of McHenry and the paternal grandfather is Mr. Leroy Goyette of West Palm Beach, Fla. Mrs. Beatrice Kelly of Long Beach, Calif, is the children's great-grandmother. SWOBODA Jared Joseph is the name chosen by Jarold and Christine Swoboda, 4709 Promontory Ln., McHenry for their fifth child. The 8 lbs. 1 oz. baby boy was born March 21 in Memorial Hospital for McHenry County, Woodstock. He was welcomed home by Paul, 20; Jane, 11; Elisha, eight; and Joy, two. The paternal grandmother is Dorothy Swoboda of Menasha, Wis. Frances Shepton of Arlington Heights, 111. is the great-grandmother. Community calendar APRIL 24 McH. Grandmothers Club-Card Party 11:30 a.m.-St. Pat's Parish Hall-Prizes, Sandwiches, Dessert, Coffee-Donation $3-Call 0449. Mary Martha Circle-Mtg. 1 p.m.-At Faith Presbyterian Church- Lincoln & Chapel Hill Rds. APRIL 25 Certified Cities Steering Comm.-Mtg. 7:30 a.m.-No. 111. Med. Ctr. Bd. Rm. •1. -J L A\i J H .. DfiJ Wedding Policy The McHenry Plaindealer Herald will print weddings in their entirety up to one month after the ceremony. Howevei we know many couples do not receive their wedding photos within one month after the ceremony. The bride may bring in a completed wedding write-up, without the photo. It will be dated and held until a photo becomes available. In this way, the newlyweds do not have to depend on a photographer to determine the length of their wedding write up that is published in the newspaper. From one to two months after the occasion, all gown descriptions and receptions assistants' names will be omitted. After two months, weddings will be shortened to names, date, site attendants and officiating person at the ceremony, parents' names, couple's education and where they will reside. This information will be printed^withoutphoto. Once submitted within these deadlines, we take responsibility for publica tion. The most efficient means of handling the Information is to pick up a wed ding form at the McHenry Plaindealer Herald office. Flowers and gown descriptions can then be inserted as preparations are completed. Forms should be typed or printed legibly. Couples may also write their own accounts using the information we seek, subject to editing for style. The McHenry Plaindealer Herald will only accept responsibility for black and white photos. However we will accept color photos which are sharply focused and where the couples standout from the background. We encourage couples to pick up their photos as soon as they are published in the newspaper, or provide a stamped, self-addressed envelope for their return. Set annual spring luncheon featuring APRIL 25-26 Rummage Sale-Johnsburg Comm. Club-Sponsor Blessed Virgin Sodality~9 a.m.-5 p.m. APRIL 26 McH. Area Jaycees--Ann. Hse.-Info. 344-0195. Inst.-Awards Banquet-Andre's Stk. Mt. Hope United Methodist Women will hold their Annual Spring Luncheon Thursday, May 2, from noon to 1:30 p.m., at Mt. Hope United Methodist Church, 1015 W. Broadway, Pistakee Highlands. The theme this year is "Birds, Bees and Butterflies." A fashion show will follow the luncheon. clothes from a women's apparel shop in McHenry; and some of the ladies from the women's club will be models. Everyone is invited to come for a pleasant and relaxing afternoon. For reservations, call 497-3883. A donation will of $3.50 per person will be taken. \fFW auxiliary elects officers for 1985-86 APRIL 27 Free Health Fair-Zion Lutheran Church-1-5 p.m.-Plus Gift For All. McH. Sportsmen's Club-Weingart Rd.-Practice & League Shoots 1 p.m.--Public Welcome. APRIL 28 Polish Leg. Of Amer. Vets Post & Chap. 188-Mtg. 2 p.m.-Post Home-1304 Park St., McH. McH. March of Dimes Walk America-Reg. 8 a.m.-Walkers Start 9 a.m. From East Campus H.S.-Info. 385-6672. McH. Sportsmen's Club-Weingart Rd.--Meat Shoot & Games 10 a.m.-Public Welcome. APRIL 29 UMW Mission Team-Mtg. 9:30 a.m.-First United Methodist Church Parlor. Puppet Show & Kite Making-Children All Ages-Sponsor Friends of McH. Nunda Library--10:30 a.m.-At Library. FISH Volunteers-Mtg. 2 p.m.-McH. Pub. Library-Anyone In terested Invited. MAY 1 McH. Grandmothers Club-Shep. of Hills 11:30 a.m.-Bring Sandwich & White Elephant Item. Priscilla Circle-Mtg. 9 a.m.-First United Meth. Ch. Parlor. MAY 2 Mt. Hope United Meth. Women- Spring Lunch, Noon-Fashion Show Follows--At Church-1015 W. Broadway, Pist. Hi.- Reservations 497-3883. 8 p.m. _ Ch. Parlor-Guests Welcome. McH. Sportsmen's Club-Weingart Rd.-Mtg. Evening Circle 7:30 p.m.-First United Meth. 4t the April meeting, Gail Sz4miewsld was elected 1985-86 president of the Ladies Auxiliary to Veterans of Foreign Wars Post 4600. Serving with her will be Goldie Syiva, senior vice-president; Gertrude Gregory, junior vice- president ; Da Hogan, treasurer; Frances Nells, chaplain; Irene Ruhnke, conductress; Marlene Felske, guard; and Eva Snell, thijfee-year trustee. ^mericanshn chairman, Gert Gregory, stated she would be presenting "Flag Etiquette" booklets and an American flag this month. Ila Hogan, membership chairman, advised that the auxiliary has a membership of 172 for 1985. North Chicago Medical Center, state of Illinois chair man Ila Hogan announced the carnival at the hospital will be held June 18, and asked for volunteers for that day. She also announced the auxiliary had received $175 monetary credit in February for lap robes, utility bags and paper back books donated to the veterans hospital. The "Willing Workers" have donated over 400 items, including lap robes, utility bags, pillows, exercise balls, fabric picture books, booties and other handmade items. Dorothy Bergman, who represents the auxiliary at Royal Terrace nursing home, stated she has been visiting the veterans who reside at the home. Gert Gregory, poppy chair man, reported that Saturday, May 11 will be Poppy Day in McHenry and volunteers are needed for that day. The -next regular meeting of the auxiliary wUl be Wednesday, May 1, at 8 p.m., in the post home 4rea genealogists have luncheon meeting twenty-two r representing societies, met for nefday, April 10. genealogists, eight area >r li lunch Wed- luncheon was hosted by lenry Co. Genealogical lety, Phyllis Bauer, tident. Societies represented Chicago; Elgin; Kane Co.; I-ale Co.; McHenry Co.; North Suburban, Winnetka; Northwest Suftirban, Mt. Prospect; and Each group gave a brief presentation about its meeting time and place, passed out lists of officers and committee members, and discussed collections at their area library, projects they are working on, how to interest volunteers in the many ongoing projects, tips on publishing, reading cemeteries. transcribing census and church records, newsletters, pioneer certificates, and shared in formation on speakers for the meetings. A general discussion followed the presentations. The group was enthusiastic about meeting again and con tinuing this interchange of ideas with a luncheon each Fall and Spring. Also stressed was the June 28-29 Illinois State 17th Annual Spring Regional Con ference, hosted by the Chicago Genealogical Society, to be held at the Ramada Hotel O'Hare. For more information, call Brian Scott Donovan, 312-328- 2309. The McHenry County Genealogical Society is also offering a 'How to Start' course. Betty Massman of Cary will present the basic beginners course on how to fill out sheets, where to look for records, and organizing information. This will be held at the McHenry Public Library April 30, from 7 to 9 p.m. MAY 2-3 Rummage Sale--Johnsb. Comm. Club--Sponsor Blessed Virgin Sodality~9 a.m.-5 p.m. UMW Rummage Sale-First United Meth. Ch.~3717 W. Main St - Lower Level Fellowship Hall--8 a.m.-6 "p.m. MAY 4 UMW Rummage Sale-First United Meth. Ch.~3717 W. Main St - Lower Level Fellowship Hall-8 a.m.-Noon. McH. Sportsmen's Club-Weingart Rd.-Practice & League Shoots 1 p.m.-Public Welcome. Games Night 7 p.m.-Midnight-VFW Hall-Benefit Crime Stop pers. MAY 4-5 McH. Choral Club Spring Program--West Campus Auditorium 8:15 p.m. MAY 5 McH. Area Jaycees Community Run-McH. West Campus 8am- Info. Call 459-4447. MAY 7 Ruth Circle-First United Meth. Ch. McH -Mtg. Noon-Home of Mrs. Stinespring. Marcia Mary Ball Circle-First United Meth. Ch. Parlor-Noon- Esther Sims Hostess-Guests Welcome. MAY 8 Chamber of Comm. Luncheon~ll:30 a.m.-Chapel HM1 Country Club~"Medical Malpractice Crisis." MAY 9 Lakeland Pk. Women's Club-Mtg. 7:30 p.m.-Lk. Pk. Comm. Hse.-Hostesses Viola Kelly & Jan Walker-New Members Welcome.