Life today MICHAEL SCHULZ AND D. RENEE JENSEfc Wed in June Mr. and Mrs. Raymond C. Jensen, Sr. of McHenry announce the engagement of their daughter, D. Renee to Michael Scott Schulz, son of Mr. and Mrs. M. L. Schulz of Roselle, 111. The bride-elect received a nursing assistant certificate from McHenry County College and her fiance graduated from Western Illinois University in 1984. They will be married.June 9. Fraud victim finds out her pen pal already behind bars DEAR ABBY: I started to correspond with a gentleman whose name I found in a magazine. He had advertised for a mature woman to be a pen pal. I will not go into detail because I feel foolish and I don't want to identify myself, but after sending this man "gifts," which he asked for in a roundabout way, and several hundred dollars as 'loans," I learned that I was writing to a man inprison! My question to you, Dear Abbv, 4s this: Why does the law permit prisons to use names and addresses that intentionally conceal the fact that they are prisons? I think that when a prisoner wants to correspond with a stranger, he or she should not have the protection of a phony address. * What is your opinion? DEFRAUDED IN FLORIDA DEAR DEFRAUDED: Same as yours. I have been aware of this for some time, and have commented on it inthis space. But thus far I've been unable to learn the justification for this blatant coverup. Readers? --_--- --• DEAR ABBY: About a month ago, we lost our beloved pet. She had been a constant companion and friend 13 years. I can't believe how her death has affected me. Most people have a very hard time understanding that she was as much a part of my life and family as my husband and children, and I grieve for her as I would for any family member. I feel as though I may need some sort of counseling, but I don't know where to turn. Irm having a difficult time getting on with my life. I feel heartsick and depressed. Some mornings I don't even want to get out of bed. We have other pets, and though we love them very much, none can take her place. Can you help me, please? GRIEF STRICKEN DEAR GRIEF STRICKEN: The pain one feels from having lost a beloved pet should be handled in the same way one copes with a human loss - through counseling. Ask your veterinarian to put you in touch with a therapist who specializes in animal grief. There may even be a "pet-loss support group" where you can express your grief without embarrassment or fear of being put down for "carrying on" as though you had lost a child. Animal-loss, counseling is relatively new, so if it's not available in your area, regular counselors are also trained to help the grief stricken. Meanwhile, please accept my sympathy. * DEAR ABBY: So you don't think making little kids walk 14 miles a day is child abuse? Shame on you! If this had happened in my town and I knew about it, I would have called the child abuse hot line and reported those parents. Yes, I know, in the olden days people walked that far and didn't thinkat HENRY IN MALIBU Senior citizens' lunch menu Although the caterer for meals for the McHenry County Senior Citizens' Council Meet & Eat program requests that / participants sign up for meals one week in advance, they allow changes to be made in the meal count 24 hours prior to each serving day. In other words, people can call the center they attend and reserve a meal 24 hours ahead of the day they plan to attend. For example, those desiring to eat lunch on Friday may call Thursday morning and make reservations. Reservations for meals at the McHenry Meet & Eat Center for the week of June 10 through June 14 should be made by calling 385-8260 by Tuesday,, June 4. The menu for that week is as follows: June 10: Roast turkey breast, giblet gravy, whipped potatoes, squash, health salad with dressing, bread, margarine, mixed fruit, milk. June 11: Chicken rice soup, crackers, SwedisH meatballs with gravy, parslied potatoes, capri vegetables, biscuit, margarine, cake „ with stra 'bei ies, milk. JiiiiC i*: Western omelet with Spanish sauce, seasoned noodles, peas and carrots, LWV entertains convention The Woodstock - McHenry League of Women Voters recently put on a very successful humorous skit at the League of Women Voters of Illinois State Convention at Northern Illinois University, DeKalb. This spring, the local league was invited to perform their "Saturday Night Live" type review called, "Wonder Leaguer." The skit had been developed at the local level to encourage membership. It caught the attention of the State Board of Directors, and shortly after, the Woodstock-McHenry group took their act on the road. The cast which performed in front of the 350 members at th@ state convention featured McHenry residents such as Cindy Swartzloff as the narrator; Judy Szilak as Wonder \ Leaguer; Donna Schaefer as Princess Diana; Carol Sek leading an aerobics group; Barb Marrs and Julie Jessup as Rogette Ebert and Jeannie Siskel; Edna Fanning as Margaret Thatcher and the Statue of Liberty. Sherry Floro of Woodstock played Alexis Carrington Colby and Mary Ellen Shine of Johnsburg played Krystle Karrington. After entertaining the group on Friday evening, the official delegation of President Barb Marrs, Judi Szilak and Donna Schaefer fought for three days for adoption of a State study on community mental tieaitn systems. When the study item (fid not garner a three-fifths majority, the delegation reorganized and convinced the body to create a state level task force on Illinois Public Policy on Mental Illness. This proposal means that the League of Women Voters will begin gathering information to prepare itself for possible ad vocacy in the area of mental health. LORA BALDWIN AND MICHAEL SHARP Engaged Sponsor young adults club at Shepherd of the Hills Mr. and Mrs. Craig F. Baldwin of Mcllenry announce the engagement of their daughter Lora Ann to Michael J, Sharp, son of Mrs. Jerome Sharp of McHenry and the late Jerome Sharp. The couple graduated from Marian Central Catholic High School in 1980. She is a 1984 graduate of Bradley University and he, a 1984 graduate of Eastern Illinois University. A July 13 wedding date has been set. ' Sunday, May 26, was a day of fun and fellowship for about 20 young adults from Shepherd of the Hills Lutheran Church. To kick off a' summer filled with activities, the College and Career Club held a picnic at the home of Bob and Mary Lou Nichols. Boating, tubing, swimming and volleyball were some of the highlightys of the afternoon, along with a potluck supper. For many, it was also a chance to renew old friendships and make new ones. The College and Career Club is for anyone 17 to 22 years old, whether a student or out in the working world. Many activities are planned for the summer, including trips to the Milwaukee Zoo and Summerfest, an overnight in Wisconsin, tubing, and a road rally. For further information on any of the activities, call the church office at 385-4030. Mt^ms of interest' Elect new WOTM officers On May 21, elections were held for the 1985-86 officers of the Women of the Moose. The results revealed .Shirley Schinkoeth, senior regent; Betty Reimer, junior regent; Carol Sproull, chaplain; Elaine Brabeck, treasurer; Lori Hertel, recorder; and Marci Henshall, junior graduate regent. The annual birthday party for all paid up members is slated for June 11. The location this year will be the Longhorn in Lilymoor. Cocktails will be available at 6:30 p.m. and dinner will be served at 7:30. All reservations must be made by the June 4 meeting, or one may call Micky Krich at 385-5062 by June 4. At the June 4 meeting, senior regent Henshall will be giving out the honors for the year 1984- 85. Everyone is urged to attend to receive their charms. CAR WASH The Northern Youth Outdoors Club will be having a car wash Saturday June 1, at the McHenry Mcfbse Lodge 691, from 9 a.m. to 2 p.m. The proceeds from this fund raiser will help to provide the boys and girls of the club with memorable summer trips. The public is invited to support their efforts. ST. JOHN SALE St. John Lutheran Church in Island Lake is having a rum mage sale Saturday, June 1. The sale will start at 9 a.m. and continue until*3 p.m., with a special "fill-up-a-bag" sale starting at 1 p.m.. Proceeds from the sale will be used for repairing and replacing, if necessary, the doors on the breeze way. The church is located on Route 176, next door to the Islrfnd Lake Village Hall. CIRCLE EATS OUT The Marcia Mary Ball Circle of the United Methodist Women of the First United Methodist Church of McHenry will have its annual "Luncheon Out" Tuesday, June 4, at 1 p.m., at the Plum Garden Restaurant. Reservations are to be made withvLyda Radisch* Plans will be finalized for the annual circle picnic which will be held the 11th of July at the home of Helen Walters. The circle will then be in recess until Sept. 3. YARD SALE A Yard Sale will beheld at St. Paul's Episcopal Church, 3706 St. Paul's Ave., McHenry, Thursday and Friday, June 6 and 7 from 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. Contact Diana Brown, 385-4669 for more information. First Memorial Mass held Buy dinner-dance tickets Tickets for the annual Rich- mond-Burton Community High School ^lumni Association Dinner-Dance will be available after June 1 for all RBCHS alumni and guests who wish to attend the function slated for July 13. Anyone wishing tickets may obtain them from Cheryl Barber or purchase them over the counter at the Richmond Bank and Cole Pharmacy. Andre's Steak House will host the reunion with a cocktail hour beginning at 6:30, dinner at 7:30 and dancing to a DJ at 9:30. This year, the alumni will honor the class of 1985, the class of 1960 (for their twenty-fifth anniversary) and the class of 1935 (for their fiftieth an niversary). This year's officers, Cindy Gardner, president; George Richardson, vice-president; and Cheryl Barber, secretary- treasurer are attempting to get many of the teachers (past and present) to attend. Any alumni who would like to have a formal invitation sent to a specific teacher, should contact one'of the officers. The cost of the tickets is $12.50 per person and the deadline for obtaining them is July 6. Liberty Post 188 of the Polish Legion of American Veterans, McHenry, recently attended its first Memorial Mass in. honor of its deceased members. The mass was held at St. Marys .Church in McHenry and over 40 members of the post and ladies auxiliary attended. -. In conjunction with the Mass, the post held the McHenry ob servance of Polish Constitution Day. The day before, eight members of the post and auxiliary marched with the other members of the State Department in downtown Chicago for the big parade honoring the Free 1791 Polish Constitution. It was the first free and democratic constitution in Europe and was modeled after the 1776 U.S. Bill. Unfortunately for Poland, within six months of the signing, she was invaded by Russia and Germany and ceased to exist as a country for 200 years. During the occupation, the history, culture, tradition and language were passed on from generation to generation by parents with the fervor and belief that Poland would once again be free. This freedom returned with the end of W.W. I. Today, once again, Poland is occupied, but Poles and Polish-Americans around the world still cherish and pass on, that which they received from parents and grandparents. Community calendar pineapple juice, bread, margarine, tapioca pudding, milk. June 13: SPECIAL FATHER'S DAY MEAL June 14: Seafood croquettes, parslied potatoes, diced beets, cole slaw, dinner roll, margarine, banana, milk. Teachers to meet' Tuesday, June 4, will be the last meeting until September, of the Fox Hills Chapter of the Illinois Music Teachers' Association. A membership luncheon, to be held at the home of'Ann Galloway at 10:30 a.m., will feature a baroque sketch on the composer, Vivaldi, by Lisa Chodorowski, and a musicale by performing members. All music teachers in the area who are not already members of the Fox Hills chapter, are in vited to attend. Both members and prospective members are asked to call Ann Galloway, 459- 4877, by June 1, if planning to attend and-or perform. Members are reminded that dues are payable at this meeting. Names will not be included in the year book unless paid by June 30. MAY 31 Marian Central Cath. Hi. School Honors Day Celebration- Gymnasium, 8:30 a.m. JUNE 1 McH. Sportsmens Club-Practice & League Shoots-1 p.m.- Weingart Road-Public Welcome Car Wash-9 a.m.-2 p.m.-McH. Moose Ldg.-Youth Outdoors Club Sponsor. JUNE 1-2 Ann. McH. Area Jaycee Campout-Glacial Park JUNE 2 Commencement Exercises~Sr. Class, Marian Central Cath. Hi. School-Gymnasium, 3 p.m.-Bishop of Rockford, Celebrant Cub Scout Pack 162-Spaghetti Dinner-1-5 p.m.-Moose Ldg. Rt. 31-Public Invited. Opening Day Picnic-Noon-? ?-Spojnia Pk.rFlanders Rd. East of Ringwood Rd.-Music, Food, TGames. JUNE 4 Ruth Circle, First United Meth. Ch. of McH.-Last Mtg. Til Sept.- Picnic, Noon-Home of Marg LaCroix-Bring Dish To Pass. WOTM-Mtg. 9 p.m.-Charm Nite. JUNE 5 1 McH. Grandmothers Club-Shady Ln., Marengo-Lunch & Play- 11:45 a.m.-Meet At Roller Rink 10:30 a.m. JUNE 6 McH. Sportsmen's Club-Mtg. 8 p.m.-Weingart Rd. Marcia Maiy Ball Circle Luncheon-1 p.m.-Plum Garden. JUNE 7 NAIM St. Margaret Chap.-Mass 5 p.m.~St. Mary's-Then, Longhorn Fish Fry. JUNE 9 Healing Service- 2:30 p.m.-St. John the Baptist Ch. Johnsburg.-, Fr. Ron Roth, speaker. JUNE 10 1 Amer. Leg. Post 491-Rifle Sq.-Mtg. 8 p.m. ' I JUNE 11 WOTM-Ann. Birthday Party-Longhorn-Dinner 7:30 p.m. JUNE 12 Lunch & Card Party 11:30 a.m.-Johnsb. Comm. Club-Sponsor St. John's BVM Sodality. JUNE 13 McH. Co. 111. Genealogical Soc.-^Mo^Mtg. 7:30 p.m.-Central Hi. School Cafeteria-1Cr. L*.-' Hometown.' 'How To Prepare For Visit To Your Lakeland Pk. Women's Club-Officers Recognition Dinner 6:30 p.m.-Village Sq. Rest. JUNE 17 THEOS-Dinner 5 p.m.-Busy Bee Rest. JUNE 18 WOTM-Inst. Officers 8 p.m.-Members & Guests. JUNE 23 Chicken Dinner & Summer Social-St. Peter's Cath. Ch. Hall- Spring Grove-12-3 p.m. JUNE 24 Amer. Leg. Post 491-Rifle Sq.-Mtg. 8 p.m. Births "AENOLD George and Sandy Arnold of McHenry announce the birth of their fourth child on April 28. Brian David was born in Good Shepherd Hospital, Barrington and weighed 6 lbs. 14 oz. He has a brother Kenneth, age nine; and two sisters, Terri, 15 and Rebecca, 13. Maternal grand parents are Russell and Rosemary Weber of Darien, Wis. Kenneth and Edna Arnold of Darien are the paternal grandparents. Mrs. Viola Weber of Elkhorn, Wis. is the great- grandmother. SNUFFER Danielle Delores is the name TfwserTTy^DanTndCyntti^ Snuffer of Spring Grove for their first child. The 7 lbs. 8 oz. baby girl entered the world April 30 in Good Shepherd Hospital, Barrington. Maternal grand parents are James and Janice Zyer of Palatine, 111. Dean and Delores Tenzy of Milwaukee, Wis. are the paternal grand parents. OSIKOWICZ Darryl and Jan Osikowicz of Island Lake beame parents of their first child April 30 and named him Andrew Mitchell. The infant arrived at Good Shepherd Hospital, Barrington weighing 9 lbs. 8 oz. Maternal gr Jo andparent^areTfr^mTRfrs^ osepn Zucco of Barrington. Mr. and Mrs. Mitchell Osikowicz of Chicago are the paternal grandparents. ANDERSON Eric Ian is the name chosen by Frank and Marchelle Anderson, 3503 Beach Dr., McHenry, for their third child. The 6 lbs. 3 oz. baby boy arrived at Northern Illinois Medical . Center, McHenry May 2. He has a sister Erin, age, 16, and a three-year- old brother Justin. Maternal grandparents are Wayne and Yvonne Weiler and paternal randparents are Lester and )tti Sedlacek, all of McHenry. Nancey Kaehn, Catherine Livingston and William Black are the great-grandparents. AYALA Rudy and Judy Ayala, 403 N. Glenwood Dr., McHenry, became parents of their fifth child May 2 and named her Rebecca Antoinette. The six- pound infant was born in Nor thern Illinois Medical Center, McHenry. She has a brother, Rudy, Jr., age four; and three sisters, Estela, six, Amy, three and Jenny, 15 months. Material grandparents are Richard and Patricia Scott of Rock Falls, 111. Manuel and Gudelia Ayala of Mexico are the paternal grandparents.