This popular event is held to honor Scottish poet Robbie Burns and the Chisholm‘s Scottish heritage. There will be a variety of Scottishâ€"style entertainment including: The Oakville Scottish Country Dancers, and Pianist Brian Turnbull, with tenor Frank King. Enjoy a sampling of Scottish cuisine, and take a tour of the beautifully restored Chisholm Family Home... Erchless. Admission for this delightful event is $3 for adults and $1.50 for seniors, students, and children. For more information, please call the Oakville Museum at 845â€"3541. The necessity of being both menâ€" tally and physically prepared at all times likewise takes its toll. Buckingham warns against becoming paranoid, obsessive or morbid about it, but said the dayâ€"toâ€"day stress creâ€" ated must be recognized and dealt with. Civilian survivors of accidents or violent crime often need counâ€" selling to overcome their experience, says Buckingham, but what about the police? Put on your kilt and join the Oakville Museum for the fourth annual "Wee Celebration" on Sun. Jan. 23rd, from 1:30 p.m. â€" 4:00 p.m. "They can be just as devastating," said Buckingham, explaining that the investigator is also a participant. Buckingham â€" who spends much of his time speaking to students about impaired driving â€" also devotes his energies to expressing his point of view to brother officers, hopefully imparting the need for them to comâ€" municate. This applies not only to single, traumatic events, but also to the cumulative effects of exposure to everything from homicides to domesâ€" tic disputes. (Continued from page 3) undergoing reconstructive surgery and therapy before he was finally released to a standing ovation by his fellow officers. Eventually, however, his department let him go on permaâ€" nent disability and Buckingham â€" with nearly 20 years on the job â€" was left to resolve what to do with the rest of his life. ‘Wee Celebration‘ at Erchless Sunday Trooper says cops need counselling too Mark Slipp of BURNS FRY and MACKENZIE FINANCIAL Maximize your foreign content, diversify your portfolio to minimize volatility; International opportunities and mutual funds; Asian European and South American funds what opportunities do these economies hold? January 25th, 1994 730 p.m. Holiday Inn Oakville (Trafalgar Road Queen Elizabeth Way) Please call to confirm your attendance: MARK SLIPP 416â€"359â€"4633 BURNS FRY LIMITED INVESTMENT SEMINAR INTERNATIONAL INVESTNG presented by Humans by nature are not hardâ€" wired to handle this level of stress, said Buckingham, who believes the idea of teamwork during an incident must continue afterwards as well. "Talk. Being willing to listen," he Rather than deal with the deepâ€" seeded feelings an officer has after he kills a perpetrator, for example, Buckingham said police often conâ€" gratulate each other and go for a drink. Penetrating this macho facade is slowly being addressed, but in most cases there remains a long way to go. Looking back, said Buckingham, he wasn‘t mentally prepared to go back on the streets the next fateful night. The night before his own accident, Buckingham responded to a call in which a nurse on her way home from work was killed by two drunk drivers in separate cars. He figured he could shrug it off, but went home and couldn‘t sleep. His agitation was obvious to his wife, however, who in her journal wrote that her husband was "particularly upset" that day. "We‘re cops right? We can handle it. This shouldn‘t effect me, should it?" he said. "What you see is not what most people normally see. We‘re human beings. We‘re not meant to see that ... 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