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$ Dear Sally: ‘ I have a problem, and for the life of me 1 can‘t think what to do about it. 1 go to university, and there is a certain girl who goes to the same classes as 1 do, and every time she waits for me, and the first thing I know when walking up the street, she has a hold of my hand, and she hangs on for dear life. 1 do not want the fellows to think I am going steady with this girl. She is not the type of girl I would go steady with; in fact, I do not like her. What to do, Sally? It should not be hard to solve that problem. Before you meet her, put your hand in your pocket, and keep it there for dear life. When she gets this treatment once or twice, I do not think she will bother you much ‘again. Here‘s hoping! Sally Scott. Dear Sally: I am very much in love with an older woman. 1 am 29 and should know how to control my years older. She is a wonderful woman and at first welcomed our friendship, but now she says that she is too old for me. How can I convince her that age does not 4 d-l: :' class studies. by Tuesday evening é 47 the Elebicoke Community Group will be on view <to the at the Eatonville Branch, ‘Township Public Liâ€" N Burnhamthorpe Road east of Hwy. 27) from April 18â€"23. For many years the Etobicoke Community Art Group has been m outstanding qualified inâ€" to broaden the level of achievement and appreciation of its members. The Tuesday.evening class have been studying with Ethel Raieus for the past two years, experimenting with a variety of media in oils, watercolours, inks and college, and exploring new styles in their approach to paintâ€" ing. The goal of the class has heen concerned with the search for new experiences in painting rather than the production of finished pictures. Ethel Raicus has lived in Toâ€" ronte for all but two years of her life, which were spent in Israel, working in "Kibbutz" and teaching Dear "Bothered and Bewildered": Dear "Baffled": But age does matter. It is only fair toâ€" point out that even the age factor, or any other factor, would not prevent a happy marâ€" qUOoTaATON FOR TODAY To embrace the whole creation with love sounds beautiful; but we must begin with the individual, with the nearest. â€"J. G. Herder Keep Hand in Pocket When Bothered By Handholder _ Sally Scott Says: DINING LOUNGE 2282 Lake Shore Bivd. W. Pickfair Tavern DISCOTHEQUE DANCING IN THE â€" TOWN CRIER _ ROOM NIGHTLY ORGAN MUSIC _ IN THE BURGUNDY ROOM Bothered and SIX POINT AUTO BODY . #,Fully Guaranteed Workmanship Â¥ Free Pickâ€"up and Delivery . K Time Payment Plan on Request K Fast, Efficient and Courteous Service K# Courtesy Car FOR SPRINGTIME COMPLETE PAINT JO8B . Experiences In _ Of Etobicoke 259â€"9442 233â€"0992 A 233â€"0992 At Islington Ave., South of Bloor Bewildered Etobicoke Art Group 45 SIX POINT ROAD "Baffled" riage if the lady loved you as you love her. 1 do not know, and probâ€" ably you do not know either! 1 thm!& it might settle your mind if you asked the lady to tell you honestly if the age difference is the sole reason for her refusal of your offer of marriage. If she says it is, you can overcome her scruples on this score. Central Technical SeNoO) M 1 F "HoF -uehi:loA.n.ansMio‘nud:d ...._You know those nauseating soap commercials vN.o: at the Ontario College of Art â€" show an attractive nude young woman rubbing soap on C en o in y hss w cumae, | arms and legs, while a hushed leering male voice eggs her on cial Art and Industrial Design. and she whimpers with what can only be described as sexual se I,'““s'“‘;t; ':,""P‘:;':f'““m enjoyment? Well, every time I see one of those commercials Water Colour (from whom she| (Which is not often, since I watch little TV), I feel sick to ;;aivzamfim;fi.:::dm:lt::- my stummick (that‘s a new part of the human anatomy Annual Exhibi *\ invented by halfâ€"baked, halfâ€"educated announcers and other Ontario Society of Artists. She K has taught at MacDonald College, | SIOPPY speakers). It‘s not that I‘m against baths or soap â€" Gt:l:h. and pt.d Queen‘s L‘n‘irv‘;‘uic;:’, I am a bath wallower by both heredity and training and spend and has received many awards @0 | many happy hours submerged like a hippo in hot water, with vork. 1 n o A ds incoiven‘s 1960 Conoaa Cogncn } only my little piggy eyes showing, thinking long soapy Grant in Painting. She has exhibâ€"| thoughts. But this slimy advertising demeans the honést ited widely in Profeescionsstferie; | and necessary function of keeping clean. There‘s no reason End her work is owned by numâ€"| Why washing shouldn‘t be pleasant as well as necessary, but erous public and private collections | to slyly equate any brand of soap with sexual enjoyment and '“';?:l‘o'.“‘:’?l'le(';“n‘::fi 430 Bunham. | Drestige is a load of thirdâ€"class camel‘s cud. And to imply ,h‘,‘,,,e Road, 231â€"9975. Viewing | that some soaps give you more sexual pleasure than others, hours are: Mon., Tues., Thurs., Fri., ‘either as direct sensual enjoyment or indirectly by making go’:e';"“v.:::‘d":;:' 10 amâ€"6P®â€"| you irresistible to whatever sex you think you‘re opposite, D09se? 7 TA CCCTC ) is more shovelsful from the same midden. But if the lady tells you that, apart from the age differential, she simply does not see you as a husband, I am afraid I must counâ€" sel you to accept her answer with as good grace as you can, and start looking for your ideal some where else. f Sally Seott. (Any problems, folks? Take them to Sally Scott, c/o this paper, and she will help you with advice.) Therefore, come what may, hold fast to love. Though men should rend your heart, let them not emâ€" bitter or harden it. in children‘s village "Hadassim". Miss Raicus is a graduate of.the Central Technical School in Comâ€" mercial Art, a scholarshipâ€"student JULY BRIDEâ€"Diane Parker, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Joseph Parker, 10 Kingslea Cres. will marry _ Stanley Bammel of Ohio. The wedâ€" ding will take place on July 16 at Queensway Baptist Church. Miss Parker teaches high school in Drummondville. Quebec and Mr. Bammel is studying at the graduate school of Oklahoma State University. They will live in Ohio. â€" qQUOoTATON FOR TODAY April 14, 1966 â€"F. W. Robertson y When my dewlaps rattle and I begin to splutter like this, | some of my best friends think I‘m mad; they take the attiâ€" & | tude that all commercials are necessary evils to be endured. & | But some are worse than others and if a child watches enough r of them, he might get brainwashed into thinking that our +/* society‘s values are based on material possessions, physical attraction and going one better than the Joheses. And brainâ€" * washed is not too strong a term to use for what happens in some households where a child can see TV at any time of the ) day hecause the set is automatically turned on at breakfast, ed you d" yr;,u | along with the toaster, and goes off with the late show. After how ‘ane,1 _ | several years of this, it has a number of effects, none of them Atle your min d’ very beneficial. I don‘t mind an advertiser making a reasonâ€" dy to tell you | able claim for his product and he‘s entitled to believe that his _‘ difference is | Product is better than his competitor‘s and to try to Eersuade her refusal of| his audience of this, but to suggest that Quackenbush‘s toilet ge. If she says | paper will improve my sex appeal, social rating or chances of ne her scruples | promotion is more than I can stummick. Any moment now | I expect to hear a catchy jingle â€" reverently sung, of course ells you that,| __ sponsored by our local friendly undertaker. But I suppose e differential|if ;t comes to successful but unpleasant commercials, the § T must coun. i various faiths of the world are the biggest offenders; each r answer with | One of them promises that only their brand will bring us to you can, and| Paradise, and using an inferior product will rot our socks and ur ideal some| Souls and lead to unending purgatory. It seems to me that it‘s time we removed the stigma from suicide. This attitude is a relic of an ancient religious taboo which doesn‘t bear a close look; the generally accepted idea is that only God should decide when a human life is to end and that it is wicked and presumptuous for man to decide for himself. Theologians are constantly telling us that God didn‘t remove evil and suffering from the world because He wanted man to use his freewill and intelligence and choose the good life for himself â€"but this free choice apparently doesn‘t extend to deciding about his own death. That‘s the grand thing about theology â€"if something is illogical and difficult to explain, theologians can always claim that it‘s God‘s will, which shuts up most people. (I mean, it‘s difficult to think of a snappy comeback to that.) _ . I can see how this prohibition arose in early times; life was the most precious and mysterious thing a man possessed and it was all too short anyway, and to deliberately end it was considered sinful. Obviously such a great gift must beâ€" long to the gods and was only lent to man, so that the gods alone could decide when to claim back their gift. The ancients were right in this respectâ€"life is a wonderful gift and should be treated with dignity and respect in any of its maniâ€" festations, high or low in the evolutionary scale. Murder of any kind is hideous to most of us, and self murder has a special horror to even contemplate. But I believe there are circumstances where suicide is the only sane and even honorâ€" able way out of an intolerable situation. Unfortunately, we‘re conditioned to believe that suicide is always a coward‘s escape, but suicide is undertaken for a variety of reasons, like any other human act, some of them cowardly, some noble and some silly and pathetic. What‘s even worse, suicide is illegal and the unsuccessful suicide attempt can lead to police laving a charge. And to add insult to injury, a successful suicide is always branded as "suicide while of unsound mind" or "suicide while the balance of his mind was disturbed", even if the particular circumstances of this death prove that it was the action of a normal mind in its normal condition. Is the man insane who prefers a selfâ€"administered. quick, painless death to months of agony and a slow death from cancer or something else vile and incurable? What is a bearâ€" able pressure or condition to most of us may be unbearable to a more sensitive person. Commander Oates walked out into the storm to die deliberately to save his comrades. He failed gloriously. But was he mad? Ernest Hemingway shot himself because he found he couldn‘t write any more â€" this is a terror that stalks most writers â€" but he was famous and rich and could have rested on his literary achievements. It wasn‘t enough for him â€" but was he mad to choose this way ? If a suicide attempt is made which deliberately or through indifference endangers innocent people, then I agree that this should be discouraged by law. But most suicides endanger no one else â€" the poor soul goes on his long voyage into the dark alone, and in secrecy. Let us have compassion then ; it is the least we can do for our fellow travellers who may not have had our luck. "For man, the vast marvel is to be alive. Whatever the unborn and the dead may know. they cannot know the beauty, the marvel of being alive in the flesh. The dead may look after the afterwards. But the ma:gnificgnt’here and now of life in the flesh is ours only for s time .. ." GRAND TOURS TRAVEL SERVICE FREE: HOSTS: Columbus Building l}.ll\ 410 Reyal York Rd., Toronts "GO BERMUDIAN" 8:00 P.M. â€" APRIL 20th For turther information call: Grand Tours Travel Service Mr. $. Salvetti, General Manager Mr. P. 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Maid of honor for the bride was Miss Jane Heaphy and Mrs. Wilâ€" The annual Mother and Daughter Banquet at Kingsway Baptist Church was a gala event of Friday, April 1. The Sunday School hall was beautifully decorated, using the "Spring Flower" theme, by Mrs. Lloyd Richards and her comâ€" mittee. Mrs. D. K. McLean the Mothers Study Group President welcomed head table guests which included her daughter Janet, &en Vickers, Sunday School superiritendent, his wife and daughter Cafol; Mrs. C. Mothers & Daughters Entertained At Kingsway Baptist Banquet _ A. Pemberton and her grand daughter Ellen Pemberton; Dr. Commercial Credit Plan Ltd. $150. FOR SPRING CLOTHING? $500. FOR A BOAT OR MOTOR? 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Attending the groom as best man was Paul Archbold and the ushers were Bill Porritt, Keith Porritt and Paul Porritt, brothers of the bride. Following the church ceremony a reception was held at Anthony‘s banquet hall. Receiving guests for the bride, her mother wore a sheath gown in navy blue laceywith blue accessories and a blue tinted orchid. To receive for the groom, his mother chose a sheath dress and coat ensemble in soft pink lace. Her accessories were pink and her corsage a pink tinted orchid. The "Magic‘" of John Giordmaine thrilled the children and mothers alike. and Mrs. Edgar Bailey, Kingsâ€" way‘s Minister and his wife; and Vice President Mrs. R. L. Haskell and her daughter Susan. _ _ _ Dr. Bailey accompanied by Mrs. Reg. Mason at the piano sang two children‘s numbers which delighted everyone. Mrs. Bruce Ewart and the Social Committee of the church served a delicious turkey dinner. The chilâ€" dren each received a small gift and a balloon as they left. 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