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I am 27 years bld, the only shifted every two or three girl in the family, and as I ll'll]ondc at least in normal d «unmarried I live at home. My conditions, otherwise a hal place of employment is quite|ing stare begins to develop. My situations such as yours. Each) ease has its own problems. I in this matter. 20 ______ dnterests, your parents will apâ€" _ Many young people face famâ€" preciate you all the more. that we cannot turn life backâ€" YO94 Cam find anyone congenial ward. Now that your mother has ©9uUgh to invite home with you married again, it is impossible 10" Junch. Your parents might to return to family life with ©0I0Y a guest once in a while, your father as it was before the . ! WOW!d also suggest that you divorce. If the court decided that J9in some of the clubs and assoâ€" you should live with your mo. %2tions in your community. To ther, you must accept that and TC2ch friends you must go where make the life as pleasant for th*Y are. the family as you can. We canâ€" Do not delay. Get out of your mot advise you on the matter of house and into the lives of the secing your own father as we people around you. You wilf do not know the court‘s decision find that as you enlarge your you should ther, you m make the | the family ; mnot advise 3 seeing your many sides to it, and doubtless your parents protected you from much grief and worry that preâ€" eeded a decision for divorce. father. You must try to realize that a situation like this is alâ€" ways complicated. There are It is quite natural that you should love your own father best, and that you are therefore not lbli to accept your stepâ€" My mother and father were divorced last year because my father was an alcoholic. My moâ€" ther has married again. Unâ€" known to my mother I have seen my own father two or three times lately. He says he does mnot drink any more. own father best and cept my stepâ€"father eould live with my . Dear Sally Scott Cochagee‘s case will follow the usual routine; he‘ll be senâ€" tenced to jail for a number of years (a maximum of, say 14 years), but with time off for good conduct, he‘ll actually serve about ten | years. So in 1974 or earlier we can expect Cochagee out again, | older, more vicious, more confirmed in his evil ways, more danâ€"‘ gerous. In the case of a sex criminal who has assaulted once, there should be only one penaltyâ€"imprisonment until death. It ; wouldn‘t cure him and it would be e!fiensive, but what is your 2â€"yearâ€"old‘s unviolated body worth? | Wore a dress of deep turquoise What makes the whole affair more sickening is that when this |chiffon in a draped sheath effect. eriminal is brought to trial, it will inevitably be reveeled that he|Her matching hat was of the has a history of sexual deviationâ€"and someone knew about it. |same material and she wore a But no one did anything. This is because as our society is set up, corsage of pink sweetheart roses there‘s not much anyone can do. For example, this is the sort of and white carnations. life pattern often followed by sex criminals; there are indications| _ Mrs. John Yuhas of New Jerâ€" as he grows to adolescence that his sex interest is not normal, but S°Y TeCeived for her nephew, the his parents are too poor‘or too stupid to do anything about it. .He'_ll gr%!;r:.bn de and groom travelled grow out of it, they figure, and anyway there‘s no psychiatric to Niagara Falls, Washington treatment easily available in small towns. In his teens he is caught |and New York. Before she left more than once molesting small children, but since the vimim's(”,e bride donned a turquoise parents usually dislike the publicity associated with a sex case.|blue suit with champagne acâ€" they don‘t press charges unless it‘s a serious assault, so he only gets |â€"â€"â€"â€"â€"â€"â€"â€"â€"â€"â€"â€"â€"â€"â€"â€"â€" warnings from the police. And finally, he drifts away from his| home town and everyone sighs with relief. But now a de-pravedJ Members Of TO S beast is loose in the world and there is absolutely no way of tracâ€"| p ing him or protecting the public from him because there is no| * = register of local perverts kept by small town police. The pervert ‘ Durlng Welght Wl usually makes his way to a city which offers more opportunities | to feed his vile appetite and less chance of being caught. If we} ‘Members of local chapters are, only had some countryâ€"wide system for registering these people, among the 1,000 Ontario and we would stand a better chance of protecting our children. At\Quebec women, dedicated to! some time early in his career, every sex pervert comes to public}sensible reducing and weight| notice and it is then that he should be tagged, forced to take treatâ€" COntrol who will gather at the ment, forbidden to leave one area without notification of where he E‘ghth Annual TOPS Provincial is going and registration when he gets to his new home. I agree ‘fEt(eicognmon Days at the King j 5 2 k |Edward Sheraton Hotel, Toronâ€"| that it would be more satisfactory to cure him, but as things "**ito. on May 22 and 23 | now, we have neither the facilities nor the techniques for a cure;| â€" : > $ inus \ Honored guests this year will we don‘t even have enough trained psychiatrists to handle the men be Mrs. Esther Manz, founder in jail who should be treated. ‘of Tops‘Cluh Inc., and Mr. Dalei Cochagee‘s case will follow the usual routine; he‘ll be senâ€" Weigert, Business Manager of tenced to jail for a number of years (a maximum of, say 14 years), Tops Club Inc. | se e ge s P o o oi e n Lhlens: & Two is a trusting age, a loving age, an age when any kindlyâ€" seeming adult is accepted trustingly. How could any human being abuse that small hand, that clearâ€"eyed look, that happy babble? Surgery has repaired herâ€"body, but what about the damage to her mind and emotions? Words are the tools of my trade, but I find it hard to convey the revulsion and redâ€"hot hatred that I felt when I heard this over the car radio on my way home. This is a crime for which the death penalty (which won‘t be exacted anyway) would be too good. Look at your own small girl and imagine her at the mercy of a monâ€" ster like this. I do not want justice for the loathsome creature who did this â€" I want revenge. And if you like to think I‘m a bloodâ€" thirsty old bag, go ahead. Don‘t tell me he was sick and didn‘t know what he was doing; of course he is sickâ€"what normal man could get satisfaction from forcing himself on a baby" But of course he knew what he was doing. He knew enough to arrange to be left in charge of the child and then to run off when he had brutally, horribly torn and mutilated her tiny body. Don‘t tell me he was the product of a broken home or had an underprivileged childhoodâ€"there is no excuse in heaven or hell for what he did. "The age of innocence" is a cliche for which I have little use and it no longer applies indiscriminately to children as it may have done once, but it can be used honestly of a 2â€"yearâ€"old. I someâ€" times have my doubts about the innocence of some 12 and 14â€" yearâ€"olds who cry "rape" but there can be no doubts about the innocence of a child who has only just learned to walk and talk. ; ":‘“m weekends which should scare us out. wits, but which are becoming so commonplace that we merely feel numb. These were a few of the highlights: in Indignapolis a 12â€"yearâ€"old boy shot his 15â€"yearâ€"old brother because he refused to share an ice cream with him. Some Yemeni tribesâ€" men cut off the heads of two British Tommies and paraded them around Taiz on poles. In Toronto, a 13â€"yearâ€"old girl died in a fire .:h-l'; a car caught fire and the driver had a heart attack died on the spot; various young men attempted to criminally assault various young girls and a 12â€"yearâ€"old boy was indecently assaulted. But none of this horror compared with what happened on Friday night in Toronto, when James Howard Cochagee, aged 22, sexually attacked a 2â€"yearâ€"old baby girl It Is Impossible To Turn Clock Back Look To The Future Sally Scott Says : advise you to talk the| (Any problems, folks? T ak e over with an older perâ€" them to Sally Scott, c/o this paâ€" ho is a M‘MM_A? per, and she will help you with with my own father Ed. McM. I like my cannot ac~ I with I Talkingpoint =â€" Thursday, May14, 1964 â€" the fact SHIFTY EYEs Keep your eyes moving while car is moving, urges the Ontario Safety League. Eyes should be shifted every two or three secâ€" onds at least in normal driving conditions, otherwise a halfâ€"seeâ€" The question of where you will take lunch seems a good place to start. I would suggest that you try the cafeteria lunches for a time, and see if you cam find anyone congenial enough to invite home with you for lunch. Your parents might enjoy a guest once in a while, I would also suggest that you You have somehow drifted in the position where the home is practically monopolizing all your time. This is not a good thing, and I think the sooner you break out of this confining atmosphere the better. near my home, and my mother insists that I come home for lunch, instead of eating in the cafeteria with other staff memâ€" bers. As a result of this, I am losing contact with others as I am actually spending more time at home than any ‘other place. Could you suggest how I could get out more with other people without hurting my parents? Dear Irene M By JOAN SEAGER Sally Scott. Irene M >== Members Of Tops Chapter Meet == During Weight Watchers Week ~** Springtime Wedding Ceremony In Wesley United Church Some square dancers are idiots{ Dragging their ‘ruffled‘ caller ["ac?dtsby the sam(ei »'°ke? ’Ifl?me into the backyard, where lawn j1mivte are Sqtiate ahcers! mhbg torchlights, brought back from |is even a square dancer‘s badge H f 5 54; ¢@ HMawaii by Bill and Barb Coopâ€" to be earned by being an ‘idiot. & o s io wi er, provided the necessary light, This term is given to such danâ€"| s b j insel [cers who have the unmitiga'.ed’”’.e wouldâ€"be idiots insisted that \gall to disturb their caller afieerm call a couple of squares. ‘he has retired for the night and| Then scooting back into the |despite his pleas for mercy, house before the neighbors comâ€" }force him to call a ‘square‘ for plained, they surprised Bill with |them in his night attire. a birthday cake in honor of his Several meémbers of the Swingin‘ Squares now qualify for this special badge. One eveâ€" ning last week they invaded the privacy of the Cooper home in Applewod Acres, routed their poor defenceless caller out of his bed and supplied him with an appropriate ‘night shirt‘ (a white shirt trimmed with black emâ€" broidery â€" and ~bedecked â€" with colored net frill§ around the botâ€" tom,plus shorts with matching frills). How To Be A Square Idiot In One Easy Idiotic Lesson A reception at the Mayfair Inn, Queensway, followed the church ceremony. To receive guests the mother of the bride wore a dress of deep turquoise chiffon in a draped sheath effect. Her matching hat was of the same material and she wore a corsage of pink sweetheart roses and white carnations. The bride and groom travelled to Niagara Falls, Washington and New York. Before she left the bride donned a turquoise blue suit with champagne acâ€" Mrs. Elizabeth Gorrie attend> ed her cousin as matron of hon~ or and another cousin, Miss Coleen Hicks, acted as bridesâ€" maid. The attendants looked charming in streetâ€"length sheath dresses of shrimp chiffon with apron effect overskirts They wore matching headbands with small veils and corsages of shrimp tinted carnations. Best man for the groom was his cousin Stephen Csumerk and the ushers were George Gorrie and Fred Hickman. gracefully from a pearl coronet and she carried a bouquet of pink roses, white carnations and stephanotis. The bride was given in marâ€" riage by Mr, Jack Allen She wore a white corded taffeta gown, with lace panels on its long sheath skirt, featuring a Rev. F. J, Telford. Mrs R. H. Ripley was soloist and the wedâ€" ding music was provided by the church organist . Chrysanthemums and gladioâ€" lus in soft spring shades decoratâ€" ed the sanctuary for the afterâ€" noon ceremony performed by _A charming springtime wedâ€" ‘fiu was held in Wesley United Church, Mimicd, on May 2, when Elizabeth Ann Townsend marâ€" ried Tibor (Ted) Szagvery of Peterborough. The bride is the daughter of Mrs. G. Townsend, Wesley St., and the groom is the son of Mr. and Mrs. T. Szagâ€" very of Budapest, Hungary. Her bouffant veil fell |_ TOPS stands for ‘Take Off|this organiz ‘Pounds Sensibly. Its members calling Mrs control obesity sensibly and ‘HT, 9â€"4009 |safely by following the treatâ€" | ment prescribed by their physiâ€" |cian and by drawing inspiration "rgad l land motivation #@om planned| _ @7" _‘ T he participating ‘idiots‘ inâ€" cluded HKelen and â€" Richard Adams, and Hilda and Jack Stewart of Alderwood, Reta and Wilf Durance of Toronto and from Port Credit, Florence and Russ Foster, and Mollie and Bob Elliot. Then scooting back into the house before the neighbors comâ€" plained, they surprised Bill with a birthday cake in honor of his ‘39th‘ birthday. On the top in the chocolate icing was inscribâ€" ed ‘To Our Swingin‘ Square.! And so the late evening ended with sandwiches, cake and cofâ€" fee. The motto for PRD 1964 is ‘Let‘s Strive More in ‘64. The convention will have an interâ€" national theme, with costumes representing the countries of the world at the Fun and Fellowâ€" ship on Friday, May 22. Her corsage was white carnaâ€" tions and red roses. The happy couple will reside in Peterborâ€" ough. Guests attended the wedding from Peterborough, Cleveland, London and New York. Mr. and Mrs. Tibor (Ted) Szagvery are seen signing the regisâ€" ter following their wedding in Wesley United Church on May 2. The bride is the doughter of Mrs. G. Townsend, Wesley Street and the groom is the son of Mr, and Mrs. T. Szagvery, Budapest, Hungary. cessories A total of 18,000 pounds was lost in Canada last year through |the efforts of TOPS Club Incorâ€" [porated! More information about |this organization may be had by calling Mrs. Gladys Kennedy at Over the years Ontario Federâ€" ation Executives and Memberâ€" ship have been wholly or partly responsible for many changes in legislation that have and do proâ€" tect the fish and wildlife in Ontario. & Federation works very closely with both Governments, Provâ€" incial and Dominion, as well as internationally with the neighâ€" bouring States. There is repreâ€" sentation by Federation on many Government bodies, and several bodies having an interâ€"Provinâ€" cial and international base. Urged Many Changes In 36 Year History The Ontario Federation of Anâ€" glers & Hunters celeorates its 36th birthday in 1964 and is lookâ€" ing forward to again representâ€" ing the sportsmen of Ontario in an effort to keep hunting and fishing in this Province for the use of its people and their neighbours. The total number of TOPS| Chapters affiliated with TOPS) Club Inc., is 90. 27 of these chap-l ters are in Metro Toronto and‘ the number is increasing steadi-j ly. Those who suffer from obeâ€" sity form at least one fourth of our total population. TOPS can help them to become happier, healthier and intensely eager to help others as they find and hold their victory. group therapy directed by the club. CASCADE â€"â€" â€" â€" $3.21 GAS â€" â€" .. â€"â€" s6.90 FROM YOUR ISLINGTON PLUMBING Co. CHECK YOUR CASCADE SAViNGS ETOBICOKE HYDRO AUTHORIZED‘ WATER HEATER INSTALLER BE. ‘1â€"6380 Photo by Hallmark Studio 100 GALLONS aA DaY | _ William Owens, President of {Lhe Ontario Federation of Anglers and Hunters says, "A vital part of our educational program is Jthe use of an annual workshop to ‘keep clubs and members informâ€" ed on the latest developments by |the Fish and Game Committee. These Workshops should also be (encouraged at Zone level." [ â€"The theme of Federation is |Conservation by Education and| |fostering this theme is the effort to educate the public in the necâ€" essity of conserving for the fuâ€" ture. Conserving means the wise | use of and applies to more than| the use of renewable natural| resources, ‘ While the Ontario Federation of Anglers and Hunters does not represent all the sportsmen of the Province.‘they do represent the vast majority of the conscienâ€" tious hunters and anglers who are looking forward to pereptuâ€" ating our fish and wildlife reâ€" sources for future generations. vast mjority of the conscientious hunters and anglers who are looking forward 1@# perpetuating our fish and wildlife resources for future generations. The brief urged the governâ€" ment to take action on the reâ€" port of the Joint Committee of the Senate and the House of Commons on Indian Affairs, which was completed© in 1961. The Minister was reminded of Ithese comments in the Report: ‘"The winds of change have been blowing through the ranks of Indian people, . . . The time is \now fast approaching when the ilndian people can assume the reâ€" ‘sponsibility and accept the beneâ€" [fits of full particiation as Canaâ€" Idian citizens." Workshop Necessary For Education The brief also indicated speâ€" cific ways in which Home and School (Parentâ€"Teacher) groups are anxious to cooperate with the Indian Affairs Branch, to raise educational levels and opâ€" ETOBICOKE HYDRO The delegation voiced support for the suggestion that jurisdicâ€" tion over welfare, health and education should be transferred from Ottawa to the Provinces. | ‘The inequality of opportunity | \m Canada‘s Indian citizens, which stems mainly from ineâ€" ‘qullity of educational opportuâ€" !nity for Indian children, has ‘been highlighted in a brief to ‘t.hn federal government from \l‘he Canadian Home and School and Parentâ€"Teacher Federation. _ Continuing its new policy to| give maximum emphasis to resoâ€" lutions calling for government action, Home and School sent a delegation to Ottawa to make a personal presentation to the Honourable René Trem blay,| Minister of Citizenship and Im. | migration. The delegation was! headed by the Rev. Ahab Spence, a full blooded Cree Indian, who is Chairman of the organizaâ€" tion‘s Indian â€" Eskimo Education | Committee. h ldhdr&ynut::.-h en he Fellowship Hall with the Presiâ€" dent, Mrs. M. Rumball presiding. Mrs.. H. Griggs gave the Stewâ€" ardship message and a good teâ€" port from the Finance Commitâ€" tee. Mr. M. Cooke reported for the Supply and Social Assistance Committee and drew attention to the large display of goods tor the bale being sent to one of the United Church Indian Missions H & S Brief To Government Urges Indians To Teach Centres Assist Indians Adjust To Urban Life Speaker Tells UCW Spring Luncheon Meeting APPROXIMATELY PER MONTH GUARANTEED PER MONTH BUY or RENT HOT WATER SERVICE Sandro Suzonne Sewell, daugh»‘c?;{/i;: Loorarénf ter of Mr. Albert Sewell, Westâ€" gc!re and clothir head Road, Alderwood, will marry Lieutenant Robert C.. CHILDREN‘S A Beggs, son of Mr. and Mrs,“ fel Robert Beggs of Campbell Rivâ€"| METROPOLITA er, B.C. The wedding will take place in the Church of the Central Branch Atonement, Alder«kpod on Satâ€"| Eost Branch urday, June 27 o%‘p.m. | North Branch The Rev. Ahab Spence since September, 1963 has been Princiâ€" pal, Pelican Indiam Residential School, Sioux Lookout, Ontario, Previously he was an Archdea con ministering in the area of North Battleford, Saskatchewan. Accompanying him on the deleâ€" gation to the Minister of Citizenâ€" ship and Immigration were: Mrs. John Cropper, St. Catharines, Ontario, Central Viceâ€"President of the Federation, and John E. Ricketts, Toronto, Publicity Diâ€" rector (voluntary) for the Fedâ€" eration. â€" "Canada‘s Indian population is about 250,000" says the Rev. Ahab Spence. "This figure is ‘exploding‘ progressively, and is expected to reach one million by the end of the century. This means there is a serious social and economic crisis ahead for Indians, If there is any one single solution to this looming crisis it is â€" education. Home and School has a great opportunity to help here; perhaps the most immediâ€" ate task is to persuade Indian parents to accept education for their children more readily." portunities. The organization, which represents 300,000 parents, is considering whether special emphasis could be given to proâ€" grams to encourage and assist more Indians to become teach~ ers. Of some 1,500 teachers of Indians in Canada, not more than 200 are Indians. ’hlla.mn'unpofld that quilts have been made \fimth‘nfiyar.Ammmuc sale is being held on Saturday, May 23 at the church and the convener, Mrs. F. Horniblow is asking for good, used, summer clothing as well as household articles. articles. |\ She told the audience she A report was received on the wished the history books and spring luncheon held on April/relevision shows would get away 29 with Mrs, Ethel Brant Monâ€" from depicting the Indians as a mt‘ marauding, scalping people and * show something of the good 0 Gove"‘ment {things of Indian life. Mrs. Monâ€" ture also told of the Indian Cenâ€" tres opened in many of the ‘s To Teach larger cities like Toronto, Reâ€" gina, Calgary, Edmonton, ete,, at Island Lake, Manitoba early|ture, a Mohawk Indian, descendâ€" BRENTWOOD NORTH SAFELY, QUICKLY, PERMANENTLY, g GONE . . . . FOREVER! ;% Removed by Modern Electrolysis UNWANTED HAIR AILEE N DICKINS PATERSON & WARD PLUMBING Ltd. AUTHORIZED INSTALLERS FOR CASCADE "40" WATER HEATERS o0 _ PHONE 239â€"0642 : LOVE BABIES? CHILDREN‘S AID SOCIETY OF | METROPOLITAN TORONTO Do you love tiny babies? Do you miss having one to cuddle now that your own children are ‘running around? Perhoaps you jcould care for one of our inâ€" |fants for a few months at a itime. If you are interested and live within working distance of Metropolitan Toronto, please ‘call us for information. We provide board rate, medical care and clothing. \ The May meeting closed with | vespers led by Mrs. K. Shellingâ€" {ton, and the evening concluded ‘with the annual party and everyone enjoyed the fun and games and the â€" refreshments served by Mrs. R. Ellerker and ‘her committee. MEDICAL CENTRE â€" Suite "F" ROYAL YORK PLAZA Mrs. H. J. Leach, District Viceâ€" President of West Presbyterial, gave the devotional at the lunâ€" cheon. Mrs. Russell Bell, accomâ€" panied by Mrs. Stan Evans, was the soloist Mrs. C. J. Lynch, Toronto West Presbyterial U.C.W. President, brought greetâ€" ings from West Presbyterial and Rev. F. James Telford welcomed the guests. The luncheon tables and the room were decorated with spring flowers and canâ€" dles and a very delicious lunch was served. as welfare and recreational cenâ€" tres to assist Indians in making the difficult adjustment from the rural to the urban way of life. 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