Times & Guide (1909), 1 Sep 1955, p. 8

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‘ *"Dear Anne Hirst: I am a beâ€" ‘wildered and unhappy fiancee ‘Bbecause for nearly a year I have 1 my man waiting. I am $ to marry him. My mother 4s badly handicapped, besides ‘Bbeing one spoiled woman, and she would have to live with us, for I cannot pay board for her . ‘"She has always objected to any man I knew because she hates the idea of my marrying. My fiance is patient and wondâ€" erfully kind, but she doesn‘t get ‘mlong well with him and I know ‘it is mainly her fault. Wouldn‘t ‘it. be harder for him after we flmry? I really am frightened _at the prospect. * I suggest that you tell your â€"* mother you have fixed your ** wedding date. When she sees * your marriage is inevitable, * she will reconcile herself to it. ‘â€"* Selfâ€"centered as she, is, _ she â€""I must take that chance,/ though, or end my engagement.} We love each other deeply, but I can‘t ask him to wait any longer. (He is 31 and I‘m 26.) He insists we shall all manage somehow, but have I the right to expose him daily to my moâ€" ther‘s irritating ways and her foolish whims? I value your opinion, so please give it. IN LOVE BUT AFRAID" * _ Your fiance is old enough to â€"® see your mother as she is yet ® so eager to marry that he is ® unafraid of the consequences. * Why not go ahead? He would * not offer her a home unless ® he believed you three could * live agreeably. together. \ *I see, darling, that the big ones : got away again!" * should be grateful you have ® found someone to love you * and take care of you. In the ® circumstances, I think you ® have the right to ask her to * be more tolerant toward him. ®© No more spoiled cakes of Oldâ€"style yeast! This new Â¥Fleischmana‘s DRY Yeast keeps fresh in your pantry ! "m' And it‘s fastâ€"acting. One p Mrgead envelope equals one cake of tismes #roth yeast in any recipe. 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MOTHER IS RIGHT "Dear Anne Hirst: I am 15, and am in love with a boy whom I‘ve been going with for eight months. I have found out now that he has a bad reputation and comes from a questionable famiâ€" ly, so Mother wants me to break up with him soon. "I met another boy some time ago, a nice one whose people are respected. He‘s in the Navy now and will return in Septemâ€" ber; Mother wants me to go out with him then and drop the one I care for. What should I do? In planning your living arâ€" rangements, provide a pleasant room for her, furnishing it like a sittingâ€"room with her books and radio. When you are settled, encourage her friends to drop in often, and otherwise see that she finds other interests than herself. After a while, you may find a private family living nearby who can give her the little care she needs; many people are glad to add to their inâ€" come this way. Neither of these suggestions is ideal, of course, yet how else can you marry at all? Your fiance wants a home of his own, and he does not want to move into your mother‘s house. Go along with the idea and take it for granted that things will work out well. If each of you will be a little more thoughtful and charitâ€" able, you will probably find that the trouble you anticiâ€" pate will not develop. I go even further than your mother. Break up with this boy at once, making any exâ€" cuse you please. At 15, you evidently do not realize how vital to your social life is your good name; if you keep on dating this young man you cannot help but share nis reputation, and _ that might take a long, long time to live down. After you send him away, date any boy your family approves. If you let your feeling for your present beau overcome your judgment, how do you know the Navy lad will want to date you when he comes home next= month? A wellâ€" born young man with the right instinets selects nice girls to take out, and if this one learns of your association with your friend he and his people & * awoa O# C +A wha MISERABLE®* FASHION STEPS OFF IN STYLE WITH DQâ€"IT â€" YOURSELF. KITS DOâ€"ITâ€"YOURSELF FASHIONS â€" Paris, long jealous of her secrets when it comes to high fashion, has at last succumbed to the doâ€"itâ€"yourself trend. Material for each ensemble, pictured above, comes precut, together with trimmings and patterns. Styles, from left: Woolen coat with deep shaw! collar and "flapper wrap" silhovette; horizontally striped wool coat â€" dress with matching stole; halfâ€"belted tweed greatcoat with highâ€"buttoned, pointed collar. * might pass you up entirely * Be smart. Inviting an older relative to share your home is never a ‘welcome idea, yet if it must be don# there are emotional adjustments which intelligent people make that can prevent anticipated discord. Ann Hirst has practical ideas which will be useful. Write her at Box 1, 123 Eighteenth St, New Toronâ€" to, Ont. _: How to Pick A Name for Baby Strange as it may seem, there are more ways of finding a name for baby than by calling a fam: ily conference, thinking about characters in films and fiction, or by sticking a pin in a list. l In certain provinces if asked how many offspring he has. the lChinese father of a bov and a |girl replies, "I have only one child " For instance, what a Hindu inâ€" fant will eventually be called often depends upon the brightâ€" ness of a flame, The mother‘s choice of name for her offspring is usually apâ€" proved. But if her husband deâ€" sires something different, each suggestion is written on a sepâ€" arate slip of paper. On the twelfth day after the birth, two lamps are placed over On the twelfth day after the birth, two lamps are placed over the two names. Ands the flame which burns more brilliantly deâ€" notes which "label" the child shall bear. In Egypt, three pieces of paper resting under three wax candles ate used in a similar ceremony. But, in this case, one of the three names under consideration is alâ€" ways that of a god or martyr And the candle which lasts the longest bestows a name on the little one. Mohammedans have for cenâ€" turies employed an even more unusual system, which prevents any possibility of argument. The five most favoured name suggestions, inscribed on separâ€" ate squares of paper, are placed between the pages of the Koran, the sacred .book of the Mohamâ€" medans. Then after an interval a priest is invited to bless the book, exâ€" tract the final choice and reveal it to relatives assembled round the child. More curious still is a custom observed by the Ainos, inhabiâ€" tants of Northern Japan, who do not name a child until he or she is five years old. When at last the auspicious day has dawned and the father gravely announces his decision, he also explains that he needed time to ponder over the problem! In some Japanese regions a baby‘s name is changed four times. with irregular periods in tervening. This wily plan is adopted to confuse evil spirits who may be plotting to harm the youngster. In German rural districts, too. parents are perpetually on guard against adverse influences. and they. always pick a fresh nams for an infant who is stricken with serious illness It is generally believed that the new choice will bring better health to the unfortunate mite. European gipsies declare that a baby should never be named afâ€" ter a dead brother or sister. Acâ€" cording to ancient Romany lore. parents who are foolish enough to do so are inviting bad luck. The Chinese have the oddest notions of all when selecting a name for junior. This extraordinary viewpoint is explained by the fact that baby girls are regarded as infeâ€" rier to bovs Therefore. they are not _ considered â€" worthy. of . a nroper name. but are simplvcre ferred to One. Two. Three or Four. accordine to their order of arrival on earth She was in bed and band was making her tea. "I can‘t find the called out. "I don‘t know what could be easier to find," she answered "It‘s right in front on the panâ€" trvy shelfâ€"in a cocoa tin marked matches " SYSTEMATIC her husâ€" a cup of tea." he Q What should 1 do at the dinner table if someonc asks me a question just as I am conveyâ€" ing a bite of foo@ towards my mouth? Modern Etiquette A. Most certainly don‘t put the food into your mouth and then attempt to answer the question. It is much better to return the fork to your plate, answer the question, and then resume eating. Q. If the bride is being marâ€" ried in a traveling dress, what should the bridegroom wear? IMPRESSIONISTIC ART â€" Sculpture affects people in different ways, as witness young Ray Plummer. "Migrant," one of the art treasures exhibited at the Bement Centennial, in;;Vai‘rec’iv Ra; to make like a bird. The Theodore Roszack creation is valued at $7500. New beauty for your home! Crochet these modern leafâ€"deâ€" sign doiltes in two glowing colâ€" ors! Easy to do â€" look so loveâ€" ly! Pattern 861: Crocheted dgilies in modern leafâ€"design. Larger size 1652 inches, smaller Use crochet and knitting c Send TWENTYâ€"FIVE CENTS in coins (stamps cannot be acâ€" cepted) for this pattern to Box 1, 123 Eighteenth St., New Torâ€" onto, Ont. Print plainly PATâ€" TERN NUMBER, your NAME and ADDRESS. LOOK FOR smartest ideas in Needlecraft _ in _ our _ Laura Wheeler Catalog for 1955. Croâ€" chet, knitting, embroidery and lovely things to wear. Ironâ€"ons. quilts, aprons, novelties â€" easy. fun to make! Send 25 cents for your capy of this book NOW! You will want to order every new desizn in it. By Roberta Lee oz â€" appropria mvm&' with a little white tiower k::h:: bride‘s corsage in his lapel, If wait with her escort while he Nes pays the taxi fare? ‘| When the woman who had A. She should wait with ber|thrilled our grandparents with escort, the magic of her pen died, the Q. At an ‘engagement anâ€"|cry went up, "Who Was Marie nouncement party, who gives the|Corelli?" Everybody was eager A. The father or a male relaâ€"|the mystery built up around this tive of the girl lh?uld rise to|queen of bestâ€"sellers. propose her health and that of| But it was not easy to dis her fiance. It would be nice for|cover. One newspaper stated the father to say, "To the bealth|that Marie Corelli had been and happiness of my daughter,|found one wintry nlzhm blue Mary, and to my future son,|eyed baby with £10 ed to Bob." her shawl, on the doorstep of a Q. When one is smoking at/certain Doctor Charles Mackay, the table in a restaurant, and|who had adopted her. there is no ashtray, is it all right| Another announced the finding to use a plate or saucer for the |of a birth certificate proving ashes? withaint Aninbht that Mics Anvali there is no ashtray, is it all right| Another announced the finding to use a plate or saucer for the |of a birth certificate proving ashes? without doubt that Miss Corelli A. Only an illâ€"bred person|was the daughter of Thomas would do this. It is much betâ€"|\Cody, a Marylebone labourer,. ter to ask the waiter or waitress|And yet a third paper entered for an ashtray. the fray to publish an account Q. When entering a night/of a romantic meeting in a club with her escort, should a|strattordâ€"onâ€"Avon church beâ€" girl go first to the tahle with him|tween Doctor Mackay and Maria and then excuse herself while\Coralie Gonsalez, a beautiful she goes to the powder room? Italian countess. Hence the name A. No; she should go first to "Marie Corelli," they suggested. the powder room while her esâ€" Marie herself always declared cort waits for her somewhere|she had been adopted by Macâ€" near the entrance to the dining kay. But a lifelong friend inâ€" neot sisted that the doctor was the Q. Is one obligated to Send|novelist‘s legal parent. a wedding gift to a friend who is Research has proved this last marrying for the second time,|statement true, but although If one sent a gift for the first Marie was born on May 1st, marriage? XBKR Fihns hn nentansuw 42 LWaw A. No; she should go first to the powder room while her esâ€" cort waits for her somewhere near the entrance to the dining Q. When entering a night club with her escort, should a girl go first to the tahle with him and then excuse herself while she goes to the powder room? A. This is optional; you may or may not send a gift, as you wish. Q. Is it proper to drink part of the coffee with the spoon, esâ€" peciallv if it is very hot? â€"A. No; the spoon should be used only for stirring. and then it is placed in the saucer and reâ€" mains there. Q. When a woman, who is traveling alone, has been unable to secure a lower berth on a train, and some man offers to exchange with her, is it proper for her to accept? A. There is no reason why she should not accent. And. of course, such courtesy deserves sincere appreciation, Homemakers who have won the baitle of bathtub rings and streaky dishes know the value of detergents. But these man. made cleaning agents have other uses besides speetling up houseâ€" hold chores. In industry, detergents have a hand in the making of all sorts of things. They go into lubricatâ€" ing oils, printing inks and emâ€" balming fluids and serve just as ably as they do in the family (wash. Detergents Aren‘t So Very New Perhaps you‘re used to washâ€"! ing your hair with detergentâ€"| containing shampoos, but did you know that the dress you\ wear owes somcthing to deterâ€"| gonts besides its clean, fresh look? j It was, in fact, the textile inâ€" dustry that first developed deâ€" tergents many years ago. Up to that time soap had been used to wash raw fibres, but its chemical disadvantages prompted scienâ€" tists to look for a better cleaning agent. And after many years of research detergents were born. Despite the great discovery of the textile industry, it was a long time before "detergents" became a household word. The natural oils that produced them were much too costly for the average homemaker. During the 1930‘s the booming petroleum industry partly solved this probâ€" lem by providing ingredients for better and cheaper detergents However, it wasn‘t until World ar II that the housewife was ally affected by all this reâ€" h. Then, the critical short. age of soap, was the mother of invention. To stretch the supâ€" ply, science developed what it called extenders. These inâ€" creased the power of detergents and at the same time lowered the cost so that every housewife cou‘d afford them. Back in 1940 only a few thousand pounds of detergents were used in Canada, By 1946 they had taken on a variety of forms and 20 million pounds of flakes. pastes and liquids found their way into dishâ€"pans. wash ing machines and industry. Research has proved this last statement true, but although Marie was born on May 1st, 1855 (thus the centenary of her birth fell this year), Mackay couldn‘t marry her mother â€" an Englishwoman named Mills â€" until 18@1, after his first wife died. From a letter found after Marie Corelli‘s death it is clear she did not know the truth about her birth until 1889, when the decease of her father revealed the facts to her. But she managed to keep the secret for the rest of her life, putting busybodies off the scent not only by declaring she was an adopted child, but by deductâ€" ing ten years from her age to make the story more convincing. Her Books Sold By Tens Of Millions _ While, yet in her teens Marie started to write, but she could not find a publisher. One editor even declared that fictionâ€"writ. ing was obviously "not her forte." How furious he must have felt a few years later when the novels of Marie Corelli burst upon a startled world. Like a dazzling meteor this unknown writer sent her works soaring into the blaze of publicity and became the famous author whose sensational books were the talk of the world. Queens, princes, prime minis ters and bishops, alUl were treâ€" mendously impressed by the thirtyâ€"one novels she wrote. Their subjectâ€"matter ranged from disembodied souls to abâ€" sinthe addicts in the Parisian underworld, and her imagination was so powerful that everything she touched was charged with rich emotion. « Is it any wonder her world sales could be reckoned in tens of millions, and her earnings £10,000 for each book? But behind this ntonishlng" success story lay years of grindâ€"| ing slavery for the sake of two | worthlesg men. One was Marie‘s? philandering father, Doctor Macâ€" | kay; and the other his rascally son Eric. | As soon as these jackals realâ€" ized what a moneyâ€"spinner they had in the young Marie they allowed her to support them in idleness for the rest of their days Eric was a particularly nasty specimen; fat, flabby and lazy, he had been a sponger all his life. Blind to his vices, his stepâ€" sister financed his shady affairs. and permitted him to escort her to the various social functions she attended. On these occasions Eric disâ€" played such devotion towards her that tongues began to wag It was whispered they .were lovers and even secretly marâ€" ried. When, later, Eric showed his true colours by boasting that it was really he who had written all Marie‘s books, she did at last turn against him. Among Marie‘s many admirers were the Prince of Wales (after. wards Edward VID and Mr ASCANIA SCYTHIA QUEEN MARY IVERNIA MAURETANIA FRANCONIA QUEEN ELIZABETH SAXONIA PARTHIA CARONIA SAMARIA QUEEN MARY BRITANNIC ASCANIA CUNARD to EuroPrr See your local agentâ€" vEL rIrRST glaAss) \ No one can serve you better 1RA _ _ aafiars m9"® P oo ie TO BRITISH PORTS: First Class from $200 Tourist Class from $140 VESSEL @nly ® tew UE the extr® toxury Corner Boy & Wellington Streets, Toronte, Ont. â€" Tel. UMpire 2â€"1481 LATE SUMAMER SAILINGS From MONTREAL Sat. AUG. _ 20 Fri. AUG Fri. SEPT Wed. SEPT. 14 Gladstone. When the latter visâ€" ited her one day he brought Mrs. OMl(ml._ who : was obliged to sit outside the house in Earl‘s Court in an open carriage for over two hours while her hus band chatted and laughed within, Marie Corelli was presented to the Prince of Wales when she stayed in Gemmany. He gave a dinner party in her honour at which he commented upon the smallness of her hands "Out of small things what wonders arise!" he exclaimed admiringly. This was followed by a lunchâ€" eon in which Marie was introâ€" duced to "my son, George, who is well acquainted with your When, eventually, the deaths of the two Mackays relieved her of much responsibility Marie moved to Stratfordâ€"onâ€"Avon. Here she became so great a legâ€" end that, more people went to stare at her house( with its casâ€" cading windowâ€"boxes, than to Shakespeare‘s birthplace. Coloured postcards of her were on sale in all the shops, and one tourist was overheard to boast that she had seem "Shakespeare‘s daughter"! But Marie was no heroine to the townsfolk. She threw her weight about too much and was not above telling the shopkeepâ€" ers how to arramge their goods. She drove around in a tiny carâ€" riage drawn by Shetland ponies, with a footman perched up beâ€" hind, and even bought a gondola to glide upon the Avon with a gondolier specially im por ted from Venice. To hit the headlines was ever Marie‘s aim, and she went to great lengths to keep her name before the public, "Nothing sucâ€" ceeds like excess" was her motto and she kept inventing more fables to keep the interest frem flagging. She refused to be photoâ€" graphed, and all likenesses of her had to be faked. She announced that she belonged to a secret reâ€" ligious sect not allowed to worâ€" ship in church and that she could speak Hebrew fluently. There was no truth in either statement. But so well did her selfâ€"adverâ€" tising work that if she visited the Memorial Theatre the audiâ€" ence rose to its feet as though she were the Queen; and when the poetess, Ella Wheeler Wilcox, called upon her, she knelt to kiss Marie‘s hand while her male esâ€" cort stood behindl her with bowed head. Little wonder:the novelist was not amused when the following limerick was circulated: "There was a fair Siren of Strat. Whe narrated! the Sorrows of At her request Sir Thomas sent her quantities of sugar for jamâ€"making and the incident was reported to the police. The reâ€" sult appeared in prominent head. lines: MARIE CORELLI CONâ€" VICTED OF FOOD HOARDING When Marie Corelli was fiftyâ€" one she fell in Tove with a wellâ€" known artist who was already married. For her it was a deeply emotional affair, but to him no more than a passing flirtation She was blissfully happy until he dropped her like a hot coal. Then she poured out her soul into her private journal. ‘This was published, after her death, under the title: "Open Confesâ€" sion. To a Man from a Woman" tees as a mat." Perhaps one of Marie‘s most ardent fans was Sir Thomas Lipâ€" ton, and she often went yachting with him. (But during the first World War this friendship landâ€" ed her in a spot of bother. She was fined £50 with twenty guineas costs, During this affair she was startled one niht by shots in her garden. A young man was arrested, the smoking revolver still in his hand He had fired thrmg‘gh the window of Marie‘s musicâ€"room . . . "only to see Miss Corelli and bring her out to At Thriftâ€"Season Rates ROUND TRIP FOR AS LITTLE AS Sat., She‘d a gond. on the Av., She was everyone‘s fav., Though she used Shake‘s trusâ€" 26 No one can serve you better ..fum\&u;::: CUNARD LINE [ _ im‘ Wed. AUG. 24 Wed. AUG. 31 Wed. SEPT. 7 From GOUEBEC 12 8so From NEW YORK Wed. AUG. Wed Fri. Sat Wed AUG AUG SEPT SEPT SEPT HARD TOP â€" Yep, that‘s a tur« ban she‘s wearing â€" turban squash, that is. Mrs. Ralph Kramer, brought the seed from Vermont and raised the turban squashes in her garden. speak to me." He was found insane, and Marie sent his mother a generous cheque. In January, 1924, Marie Corâ€" elli had a heart attack and, for four months, sat propped in a chair. One day she asked for a window to be opened so that she might hear some children sing. ing, and as a result she conâ€" tracted congestion of the lungs. Ag actress Ellen Terry placed a wreath of lilies upon the grave of the woman whose books had. fascinated so many, she was heard to whisper, "God bless the darling." Want something new and pretâ€" ty? Sew this in a jiffy! It‘s proportioned to fit the shorter, fuller figure â€" no alteration worries! Simple, slimming lines with a collar, pocket flaps that can match or contrast with the dress. Have it with or without sleeves! This pattern easy to use, simâ€" ple to sew. is tested for fit. Has complete illustrated instructions. Send THIRTYâ€"FIVE CENTS (35¢) in coins (stamps cannot be accepted) for this pattern. Print plainly SIZE, NAME, ADDRESS and STYLE NUMBER. Pattern 4670: Half Sizes 14%. 16%, 18%4, 20%. 22%%, 24%. Size 16% takes 4% yards 35â€"inch. Send order to Box 1, 123 Eighâ€" teenth St.. New Toronto. Ont. Haltâ€"Sizers Look! 4 1| 24 30 31 TO FRENCH PORTS: First Closs from $207.50 Tourist Class from $145 ISSUE 35 â€" 1955 Liverpool s Havre, Southampton Cherbourg, Southampton Liverpool Cobh, Havre, Southampton Havre, Southampton Cherbourg, Southampton Greenock, Liverpool Liverpool Havre, Southampton Havre, Southampten Cherbourg, So\mw Cobh, Liverpool 144 â€" To 4670 24A

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