\{/ You probably are not. (Most people who think themselves mentiily ill, aren‘t, but m any people who insist that somebody else is mentally il!, are so themâ€" selves!) You are probably temâ€" porarily fatigued or confused or are unhappy about something, and will be able to handle it without help. If you are men« taily ill, don‘t be ashamed: it is no more of a disgrace to have fl Sally Scoft Says : My husband and I are conâ€" stantly bickering about a friend of mine who comes to visit us. &bhe is a fine woman, but she walks constantly. She has all the mews of the neighbors, good, bad «@nd indifferent, and who says this and who says that. My husâ€" band thinks 1 am foolish putâ€" ting up with her, but I like her. She has many good points, but she does talk. Dear Sally Seoit What should I do if 1 think I‘m mentally ill. I do not blame your husband for getting ‘het‘ up! 1 would, too, as a very talkative person gets to be very boring. Tell her to come to visit you through the day when your husband is not home, and if you can put up with her, let her talk her head off. Dear Sally Dear "Good Listener"; They have traffic courts in Hamilton, Bermuda, but there‘s not much similarity between what goes on there and what goes on in Toronto. "On the bench was Senior Magistrate A. W. Sedgwick who is still holding to his system of drawing a line at 30 mph. Anyone caught doing more than 30 mph comes off the road for three months and is fined £10. Heavier fines and longer suspensions were handed down in the case of drivers who aggravated their offence by having too recent previous convicâ€" tions or whose speeds approached too close to 40 mph. Also Mr. Sedgwick takes a serious view of drivers who do not have their fines in their pockets when they stand before him." My. my. The same old troubles that afflict most of the modern world afflict Bermuda, but in slow motion. The island seems to be a mad biend of American business, British tradition (all the stores close for lunch and on Sundays), sunshine, limbe dancers, cheap liquor and real English pubs. But I‘ll be able to give you a better idea of what makes Bermuda tick after I‘ve visited "the isles of rest" in March. Hasta la vista! Most of us think of places like Bermuda as somehow imimune | ummmmemm.mdu.mmma.; it ain‘t so, This, of course, is what makes them bearable; if life| in Bermuda and other coral isles was really as blissful as the: travel agents suggest, then the rest of the world would ei overrun them or exterminate them in an effort to acquire paraâ€" dise for themselves, Our No. 1 girl, 20â€"yearâ€"old, Jade, who has been working in Bermuda for four months now, sent me copiés of the Bermuda Midâ€"Ocean News (subtitled The Colonial Governâ€" ment Gazette) and The Bermuda Weekly, and it has cheered me as I‘ve struggled with the deep freeze to find that Bermuda is | racked with such problems as what to do with their dead dou., Dr. L. T. Hooker says, in the Bermfuda Kennel Club Newsletter, that Bermuda should have a dog cemetery: "if you live in a rented ‘ apartment or perhaps a small cottage with very little land, have | you ever wondered where you‘ll bury your pets when the time | comes?" That‘s a very sensible question, Doctor, but makes me% wonder what Bermudians have been doing with their defunct| doggies all these years. There‘s not much soil on top of the coral reefs. I There are innumerable notices of the innumerable meetings? which the British love so well; the Hamilton Parish and Tucker‘s| Town Branch of the Bermuda Weifare Society held its annuali meeting on January 21st and "refreshments will be served"; there was a meeting of the Fund Raising Committee of Howard Aca-* demy at the school on January l6th "all parents, guardians and | friends old and new please attend," which sounds as if they‘re| going to be asked for more money, and an intriguing notice | headed urgently "Summons Meeting of the Working Men‘s Aid| Helping Society and Ladies of Industry â€" All members please| attend." What is their definition of ladies of industry and is the emphasis on being ladylike or being industrious? Sandwched between advertisements for a cure for varicose veins and bird baths, there is the section devoted to readers‘ letters; one af them is from "Disgusted Housewife" who beefs about the way the Board of Trade treats its employees. The letter begins charmingly, "Please permit me to ask a question or two in your valuable paper and also to make public some of my maybe insignificant grievous feelings towards the disgraceful manner in which the Board of Trade handle some of their dutiful employees . . ." Due to the length of this letter there was only one other in this issue, which commented on the ‘recent police warning against horn honking in wedding processions. After pointing out that "hotn honking has been a Bermuda custom at weddings since cars were allowed on the island, and bellâ€"ringing of carriages before that." the writer says firmly, "Fie Fie‘" and signs himslef "Proâ€" wedding Celebrations." This no doubt was strong comment in Bermuda but sounds delightfully restrained in a society like ours where people get beaten up for parting their hair on the wrong side. The front page news is an intriguing mixture of international and local items, with home news winning. Tschombe and the Common Market get a mention each, along with "Due to the shipping strike there will be NO COMICS THIS WEEK," a notice about the English football program being wiped out by the weaâ€" ther and the football pools being cancelled, and an item about there being 265 Smiths in the newly issued Bermuda Telephone Directory. * It‘s obvious that everything flows at a slower pace on the island. including growing up. A bulletin from the House of Asâ€" sembly announces that "The Governor today signed the Universal Franchise Act of 1963. From now on, the voting age minimum for all citizens is 25 years and those who own at least 2000 square feet of property will have two votes . . ." Both papers carry advertisements informing their readers where they can get in touch with Alcoholics Anonymous and the Planned Parenthood Clinics, and there is an official reminder to owners of auxiliary bicycles and private ears that they‘re reâ€" quired to have their vehicles insured, examined and reâ€"licensed before April 30th. The exhortation ends with a typical British remark, "Arrange it now! Let the other fellow stand in line." Ask Daytime Visits From Talkie Friend If Hubby Gets Irked Good Listener Sally Scott Talkingpoint Worred. By JOAN SEAGER _ (Any problems, folks? T a k ¢ !them (to Sally ‘Scott, c/o this paper. and she will help you with advice.) | mental illness than to have a | physical ailment. I would advise you to tell your parents and let them adâ€" vise you, You certainly need their advice. 1 like a boy who will be 17 shortly. I am 13. He says age doesn‘t matter. if people 1i ke each other well enough. He askâ€" ed me to go steady and I don‘t know what to do. My parents think he is 14. If they knew his real age, they might break it up. Shall 1 tell them? Dear Sally Scoit You could go to the Mental Health Association office and ask for guidance, Best of luck to you. 14, 1963 â€" Sally Scott. Topsy in providing opportunities for representatives of our communâ€" lon from far and wide to come to know ohe another better. 10 know ohe Shother betier. â€"â€" 2796 LAKE SHORE BLYD. WEST (Vist Can the Toang Peopie ot| NEW TORONTO â€" 259â€"4221 |\ The Queen and Princess Joan, ‘along with Brenda Ingles a 31â€" pound loser, are ngw "KOPS In Waiting" (KOPS â€" Keep Off |Pounds for three months) and |will graduate at the forthcomâ€" ‘ina convention, April 5 and 6 in |Niagara Falls at the Sheraton lBrock Hotel. obtained from 100 calories the M n ioi in 5... WRitmegh. oomeerntig en e B N LBpHT TR TA Lat s 3030500 contents of one box are related _ W\ mt 1. .0. ic _ <;w==g§\p-\tg§‘.fl,-'n'm, i litki, uid below: | > Two ounces of boiled chicken, SHE‘S TME TOPS. Queen of the TOPS Club for this year 35 calories; 2 green onions, 4 Mrs. John Hazzard is crowned by last year‘s winner Mrs. calories; celery sticks stuffed\George Schick. Flanking Mrs. Hazzord are Mrs. John Vigâ€" with skim milk cheese, 15 calâ€"igiano, who come in second and Mrs. Mel Hodgins, who ories; halfâ€"cup of tossed salad, 23 placed third. Photo by Marray Belford calories; pudding, 20 ealories â€"â€"â€"â€"â€"â€"â€"â€"â€"_________________ _ _ _ L L2 2 1000 css and 3 "diet" vanilla waferg, 6 TOPS Canadian Count Down.is space in the third Rexdale calories. Club is to be crowned on Wedâ€"‘Club however for a fau ladine One hundred and twentyâ€"five Toronto Diocese Do? AYERS from churches in the! 1. We can â€" we ought to â€" Lakeshore and Etobicoke attendâ€"\pray for those making the preâ€" :3?1 ri':e t}iolxh‘l:kc:u;l:lp;{ob?t;p:rationlad here in all parts of ,_ MIOD!â€"/the world. coke last Wednesday night and, 2 We can contribute to the heartc'l’e M;;.' 1i'c'.n M%l:;ll:;ssp;zk Diocesan Fund out of which will on â€" th gress. LNE be met the expenses of the Dioâ€" Anglican Church of Canada WASs cesan Congress Committee. requestent:l ';o sponsor theke?ian- 3. We will be able to particiâ€" gress a oronto was asked to pate in the two preparatory stuâ€" :eldthg h;st dl‘oce;se. It “Alu bet dies which start in September, e°d In IOIOhLG 1f OM AUEUSEI1002, dealing with the topics of 13th to 23rd, 1963. This is probâ€" the program and with the variâ€" ‘ail:)l’;v [?:! os?jlgh t;m;lel:ti:glt"v’:‘:lfld"’ous t(}'ihurch ldProvinces throughâ€" t |out the world. ::k!i\eli(:l irhiCnanr:aatlgheUl;s‘;wia:EhD{. VHe]p will be required with s V Atth using. transportation, com» 1954. As there are 18 mdxvldua_ll‘m“mcaï¬on and other ‘adminisâ€" 23:08:nmuf)1:1esyg:l the eggli;gtrative functions during the acâ€" a munion, can see tual Congress. would take a period of time for| 5; 'I‘herge will be room at the all those who would be willinE|plenary sessions for about 1000 to host such a gathering. ‘people besides the official deleâ€" Why A Congress? lgates (afternoon discussion ane hindred sna Cighly years groups are for‘ deleggtes only ). ago there were no Anglican dioâ€" .\our parlsh' Yâ€â€œ receive an alâ€" ceses outside the British Isles -olm;nt o twke:‘s tor 'h; Opes: i |ing Setvice on August 13th and and so it was easy for people| fees s et i A |the Missionary Rally on August of the Christian faith to assmble| f5¢, ~UBSQNATY Hally on August . Why A Congress? One hundred and eighty years ago there were no Anglican dioâ€" ceses outside the British Isles and so it was easy for people of the Christian faith to assmble and discuss matters which were of importance to them. Since then dioceses have been estaâ€" blished in various parts of the world from the Arctic ot Austraâ€" lia and from the West Indies to Japan. There is no central legisâ€" lative body but they are all in communion with See of Canterâ€" bury as represented by Archbiâ€" shop of Canterbury feel the need of meeting periodically to take common counsel in the face of the rapidly changing problems which confront the Church in all parts of the world. Hence the Lambeth Conferences of Bishops and the Anglican Congresses of clergy and laity. Mrs. McKellar stated that there would be Biâ€" shops and a priest and & layâ€" man or laywomen from each of the 347 dioceses throughout the world and two people under 30 years of age from each of the thirtyâ€"three ecclesiastical provâ€" inces attending. entine setting in New ‘Torâ€" onto my for the crownâ€" The ingenuity of calorieâ€" counting may never be a bore with good cooks and good imaâ€" gination, claims Mrs. Schick. Mrs. Dorothy Warwick, prize 74â€"pound loser of Rexdale‘s AYPA News â€" Bev Baxter ) Tiny Swallows Chapter of %hflymu!‘l!n- ing of their 1962 Queen. Elizabeth Schick, TOPS Club 1961 Queen, crowned Joyce Hazâ€" zard the new Queen and preâ€" sented her with the Banner and a corsage of red roses. The preâ€" sident of the club, Mary Millan, presented her with the Dedicaâ€" tion Diploma â€" printed by the club‘s very own and talented artist, Marge Harris. Mary Sheppeard, the cl:llb’x official weight recorder and a 44â€"pound loser over 14 months, was honored at this affair and presented with a travelling case. Mrs. Sheppeard is leaving soon for a vacation in Scotland and on her return will take up resiâ€" dence in California. A shower of gifts followed, bestowed upon the Queen, a 41â€" pound loser, by members of the club. Runnersâ€"up in this contest and now Princesses for the year were: Joan Vigganio, a 40â€"pound loser, and Joyce Hodgins, a 33â€" pound loser. Interesting item of the eveâ€" ning was the wide variety of lunch boxes which were distriâ€" buted among the guests and conâ€" tained no more than 100 calories. To give the reader some idea of how much nourishment can be obtained from 100 calories the contents of one box are related below: TOPS (‘Fake Off Pounds Senâ€" ‘Anglican Congress‘ Is Topic As Speaker Addresses 125 )PS. Club Crowns New Queen Niagara Convention Slated of | | Congress Prayer Almighty God, our heavenly \Fathera we pray Thee to bless |the Anglican Congress when it assembles in 1963 for counsel | and mutual help in the work of ‘Thy Holy Church. Grant that in our â€" Anglican Communion |throughout the world, we may \be faithful to the trust which Gardens 2. We can contribute to the Diocesan Fund out of which will be met the expenses of the Dioâ€" cesan Congress Committee. 3. We will be able to particiâ€" pate in the two preparatory stuâ€" dies which start in September. 1962, dealing with the topics of the program and with the variâ€" ous Church Provinces throughâ€" out the world. I. We can â€" we ought to â€" pray for those making the preâ€" parations here in all parts of the world. TOPS Canadian Count Down is space in the third Rexdale Club is to be crowned on Wedâ€" Club, however, for a few ladies, nesday, Febtuary 13 in her own|also in the Cooksville, Erindale home on Jansusi Blyvd., Rexdale.\and Streetsville clubs. Round trip jet transportation from Toronto with seven days, six nights accommodation and all breaktasts and dinners included. Also sightâ€"seeâ€" ing and round trip transfers between the airâ€" port and. the hotel, > PRICED AT\ ... .. $242.1§ DOUBLE OCCUPANCY BASIS NAssaAV e SLEE] Relax and Enjoy a Funâ€"Filled Vacation At Famous Montagu Beach Hotel THE COST I1$s SURPRISINGLY Low FOLLOW THE SUN to August 13th and‘ Kenneth Clossold. 24 Guernsey Rally on August!Dr., has just received word that the Maple Leal*he successfully completed an Inâ€" |dustrial Accounting Course at s Prayer ]the University of Toronto, The d, our heaven]y(course_. which awards a degree y Thee to bless upon successful completion, lastâ€" ongress when it ed four years. Kenneth Clossold | Gets 1.A. Degree From U of T | Thou has committed to us and may Thy Holy Spirit enkindle our zeal and strengthen our serâ€" vice, until all tongues confess and bless Thee, and the sons of men love Thee and serve Thee in peace, through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen. The AYERS were pleased to see so many members of the clergy present for this meeting. Those in attendance were: Rev. R. G. Bray, Chaplain, Etobicoke Local Council, Rev. J. McCulâ€" lum, St. Wilfrid‘s Church, Rev. R. E. Armstrong, St. Elizabeth‘s Church, Rev. D. MacGuire, Christ the King, Rev, D. Kaye, St. Paul the Apostle. Mr, Clissold is married and has two children. He is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Vern Clissold, 11 Bradfield St., Etobicoke,. The presentaiion of the diploma will take place in May, & ESCAPE THE SNOW and SLEET |__On vacation in Rdmonton and |Vancouver are Mr. and Mrs. Rex Booker, who are following ‘the events of the Canadian Naâ€" tional Fgiure Skating Championâ€" ships and the North American Championships as interestâ€" ed spectators and friends of many of the skaters and their parents, professionals and 1judges. Mr. Booker is a C.F.S.A. Gold Dance Test Judge and Mrs. Booker ts secretary to the Cenâ€" tral Ontario Section Judge‘s Comumnittee. They were very proud to see their son, John, with his partner, Bunne Lilley, win the Canadian Junior Dance Championship title in Edmonâ€" Long famous for its tested qualities of erush | resistance, easy washability and minimum ironing, Arnel fabrics again lead the spring fashion story, with new weaves and textures interâ€" preting the easy shapes and the fluid natural body look for 1963. 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