Ne wlyweds' Entertaining or being entertainedas a house- guest offers friends, family and new aquain- tances an opportunity to share conversation and good times. However, in close quarters, personal habits or mannerisms can lead to unforeseen prob- lemns and sensitivities. These hints for just- marrieds should help you avoid the most common snafus in entertaining guests overnight. For many newlyweds, entertaining relatives, friends, or even an occa- sional business associate in your new household can be somewhat intimidating. 'Guide To Houseguests There is no secret formula to successful hosting; a skillful blending of organi- zation, thoughtfulness and enthusiasm is the key. 1. Specify the length of the visit to eliminate the embarrassment of guests overstaying their welcome or leaving before Sunday's gastronomic delight. 2. Acquaint guests with plans so they'll pack appropriately and bring racquets, skis or golf clubs. 3. Let guests know about plans for a party, a night at the theatre or dinner at a favorite restau- rant. 4. If guests are from out of town or unfamiliar with the area, f111 them in on the climate so0 they'll know whether a bathing suit or an additional sweater is in order. 5. Let guests know if you' ll be entertaining them alone or as part of a group. 6. Alert guests to the sleeping arrangements (guest room dr sofa bed). HeIp Houseguesis Feel At Home Minimize your guest's anxiety about "imposing" upon your household. Give the grand tour of the house (from the kitchen WEDNESDAY FEBRUARY 18, coffre cups to the extra bar of soap). This is the natural timne for a quick rundown of your daily routine. To prevent mis- understandings, be frank -but tactful-and tell your guests honestly what your "at home" idiosyn- crasies are (e.g., if you're a nut about a dlean kitchen, etc.). And, be sure to acquaint guests with your usual household schedule -are you a night owl or an early bird? What time do you eat breakfast? If guests prefer to get up much earlier or later you can: 1. Tell themn to help themselves and leave the basics (juice, Danish, coffee to warm up, bread for toast, jamn). 2. Prepare breakfast for thi-m 198 1, WHITBY FREE PRLSS BRIDA L SIJPPLEMENT, PAGE 7 THE BRIDES FIRST DINNER PARTY - Whether entertainlng the boss and his wife or your new in-laws, an elegant table setting can be created with Royal Doulton's 'Carlyle" pattern. This exqUislte English bone china pattern Is made with Royal Doulton's traditional attention to detail. Its deep green, Intricate border of pale blue ftlowers and gold trim makes any dinner party a huge success. t Thank You Etiquette It is the bride's duty ta acknowledge wedding gifts, but the bridegroomn should be mentioned when making your "thank yous." It's also good etiquette to refer to the gift, or in the case of a check, what you plan to purchase. with the money. Best Wishes! 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