Plim FM ïÉ iC,)4ESDAY, l& : ~ aÃ" !Nv0UrÉN orEN VOGUJE EN VOGU EN VOGU 'orma-i 'sstili in fashion One cf the most interesting trends of the niid to lato eighties was the renewed interest in marriage,' and weddings in particular. As the free-form, do-you-own-thing weddings of the seventies, with their barefooti brides anid spontaneous vows, feU out of faveur, the pendulum sngthe other way. Tewedding style cf the extravagant eigh ies 'was characterized. by for'mality, ernateness and tremendous expense. In these more practical and firugal days cf the early nineties, however, the emphasis on tradition remaini, but todays weddings are a bit less grand. A couple today is more likely te have a weddinig that, in scale and coet, is in lime with their own lifestyle and budget, rather than hosting a fantasy extravaganza with a cast cf thousands that incurs tremendous. debt for themselves or their parents. But even if today's average couples choose to spend their money on -a down payment on a house or apartment rather than on a huge wedding, they still choose te commemorate 'their vews with a traditional ceremony and a reception. The mgjoity (93 per cent, according te Bride's magazine) cf couples .stil have a formai cereony. Moet cf these ceremonies take place in a church or synagogue in the afterneon or evening. This emphasis on tradition and formality means that, as her mother 'and grandmother did ,when- planning their own weddings, the bride (and, these days, usImly the groom, tSo) upenids agrat d cf time eti ngbocks and agomng over such- matters as whether it is really necessary te, have engraved invitations. But with the dramatic lifestyle changes that have occurred in the. past couple .c f decades, today's bride faces etiquette puzzles that berpreecesor never,..had têt wryabout. It's-ikely tlhà t'the brdor-grom .orbot-hs parents -or- even grandparents who havé divorced and' remarried, with stepparents and step- éhildren added te tthe complicatedl fainiy picture. Aise, with o0 many second and third marriages taking place, many couples bning children of their own te the new marrige. When such factors are involved, the bride and groom muet be fleible in making their plans and arranging their, seating charta. And, in fact, today's weddings are cbaracterized by their blending of traditional elements with the personal touches that accomodatethe lifestyes, needs and drearas cf each unique couple. WBO9M0 DIENE AND BOB -are the proud new owners of Flowers & Gifts "We're QnIy a Phone CaIIAway" BRIDES' BRIDES BRIDES Compare us to the rest... You will find us the best. 655-3963 PHONE FOR A FREE CONSULTATION 51 A Baldwin -St. Brooklin RENTALS *Wedding Invitations * Wedding Bulletins e*Wedding Bibles * Wedding Crosses *Unique Selection of Gifts *Cards & Wrapping Paper w * Gift Certifleates Available '& Cferus'Cupbarc( 82 Centre St. N., Oshawa 432-2882 PARKING AVAILABLE W ]UNES Â$uctkg pie Your Weddîng Cake SPECIA LIST lA * Custom Made Wedding Cakes *Fruit Cak e Cut & Wrapped *Custom Cake Tops sCustom Cakes for Showers r and Birthdays eBaking and Decorating Supplies e o Candy Making Supplies *We Cater Fabulous Custom Dessert Trays .300 TAUNTON RD. El, (Ritson Centre) 579z2411' Photo by Earle Keatley Fa6uus Wedif4J Creations in "wS Q9SiÇomL Custom made designs suited specifically for your astes and desires Hand Beaded Bridai Gowris Bridai Accegsories Custom Tailoring Vo ail Gowns Mother of Brides and Groom Fashions Customn Made Bridesmaids Dresses Affordable Prices Dianne's Bridai Couture IPlease stop by and visit us at the METRO BRIDAL WOMEN'S SHOW on,,Feb. l5th, l6th, & l7th. 413 Dundas St. E., Whitby e 430-8985 SEE OUR EXCLUSIVE DESIGNS IN tTODAY"S BRIDE" MAGAZINE <A,."