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TNtJ1tlot, 1055u MEU MAXJAIM TATMM. 1a~-------- -- OWMMTVÇ" Z. O!IAITO ______-___________PAGE KZLV Worthwhile A ddress On Institute Pro grams Given ait B et han y- W.!. Prograr Short Course lengthy meetings." Mrs. Arm- Tbrougb "The Extension strong suggested the appoint- Services For The Homermaker"' ment ai a naniinating commit- arranged by the Women'a In. tee ta prepare a siate ai officers Stitute Bnanch and Home Econ- before annual meetings in order Omnics Service ai the Ontario ta avoid a lcngthy business ~partment ai Agriculture, a session and outlined the pro- Uort course ln "Program Plan- per pracedure la conducting et election af officers; aisa advis- rsmfg" was beld in Bethany onj ing ta turnaaven ta a commit-J Tuesday, witb morning and ai- tee, any business that xvould ternoon sessions. inv'oive lengtby discussion and Mrs. Elton Armstrong ai that couid better be handled by Ncwmarket was the gucst a committce.j speaker and gave constructive "Wamnen's Institute workers ideas for prograni planning ln should always keep in md ail socleties. their motta: "For Homne and "EverY gnoup should falîao' Country" and their pragrasa Parlilanentary procedure. Par- should be arnanged ta help lla4mentary law la the science womnen acquire saund and ap- relating ta the goverament ai proved practices for greater deliberate bodies. It embodies home eificicncy; ta discover, the rules ai procedure as thcy stimulate and train leaders; ta have been cstablishd by usage. develop a mare abundant lufe This Usage is faunded on com- in rural communities and a f mon sease and reasan. The foi- deeper appreciatian ai the9 lowlng arder la desirable: Tlhe.things nean %t h and. ta devclop presicent calls the meeting ta better, happier and more use- order, cantinuing with the op fui citizens. ening theme sang, motta and "In planniing progranis each raIl cali; reading and approval community bas a aced. len Of minutes; statemeat ai treas- that need and the material you1 urer: communications and bilas; have ta work with, thea, forn repart ai standing committees; your plan ai action. Make pro- f unfiished business; new bu,î- granis wortbwhile fan cvery ness; regular prognani; social waman. Institute wo m en, hour and The National An- through thein meetings andn thcrn. Meetings shauld begin on Extension Courses have srnie- t time. Encourage prompt dis- thiag in the wray ai a Univer-, patch ai business and avoid sity education, studying Agri- hi tc La A. PARKEFDR L cnUC culture, Canadian Industries, Home Economics, Health, Citi- zenship, Education, Historical Research, Current Events, Pub- lic Relations and Community Activities. "Too many programs appeari merely as a hodge-podge of things ta do and hear, wlthout any thread of cantinuity on which the assorted items are strung. A well planned pro- gram has a definite goal. It sets out ta lead the members alang a clear path ta a known destination. It la Wise ta plan a year's pragram in advance and have printed folders dis- tributed ta every member. The folder shouid, as far as possible, give the complete pictiâre, of a society's activities for the cani- ing year. It is mast important that the items listed should be interesting, instructive, varied, and with same appeal ta the imagination. Make mottas and rail calîs tie in with the pro- gram. Every pragram. should have something for every age group represented in the merm- bership. Every woman should be made ta feel she has a part in the meeting. "Neyer let your group de- generate into a social get-to- gether, or develop into a mon- ey. making social group. The lrimary aim of Women's Insti- tute work is Adult Education of members by study, demon-s stratian, panel discussions and by reading. There are many channels of learning and the field af study is unlimited.1 Mrs. Armstrong urged al women ta know More about municipal affairs; ta exercise their franchise; ta study the needs af the local schools andt how taxes are distributed; alson ao be ready ta serve an scl4,ol d aoards and municipal councils. Continuing, Mrs. Armstrong t said, "W o m e n' s Institutes should be bath practical and progressive. At the end af the year every Institute member st should feel she has learned li aomething she dîd not know, rg r know how ta do before. Her fE life should be enriched and her hi vision broadened. Shie shauld t] e a better wife, a better rnoth- Pl r, a better homemaker and a t] etter citizen because she has ti een an Institute member. n qoamemaking is just as much a Pl rofession as teaching or nurs- ul ng and thraugh Extension Scr- ices for the Homemaker, the Momen's Institute brancn C ielps ta make it a profession." hz In conclusion, Mrs. Arm- bi trang said "Through service Ni n aur homes and community wg ve achieve aur greatest happi- MI ýss. If we make aurselves ser- ni ceable, hurnbly and withaut of oast, it is like putting an ex. ra deposit in The Bankc uf fal 2aracter." ina Throughout the meeting the mi 'dies discusscd some ai their zal )al probiems with Mrs. Arrn- in ang giving many helpful cri ggestions. The speaker was 1 traduced and thanked by hoi [s. Thomas Jennings, *presi- rej ent af Bethany W.I. ast I ini si SI or lil vi bE 'ci be be H( inj Vil str' li deý - Bua -quz ml W o o Froni 1930 ta 1953 infant rkrnartality in Canada was re- PLUMBING eHEATING OIL BURNERS auced froni a rate af 94 deaths per 1,000 live births ta 35; in 1953 appraximateîy 24,200 chil- 47 KING ST. E. BOWMAINVILLE * MA 3-5651 dren lived ta their first birth- ____________________________________________ day who wauld have died at the rate prevailing in 1930. Buy Your Christmnas Iffatches NOWff! While selection is complote - before the Christmias crowds I -........- - (1.) The seli-ccatned persan is an unpleasant pensonality; lie is a slave ta biniseif, sa cars- not be a friend ta others. (2) The fault-finding persan harps so niuch an what is wrong with his acquaintances3 that they avaid hlm; he criti- cizes the tate af the uniVtrse without doing anything effec- tive ta 'better it. He niay nî)t Le dishonest or stupid an shal- iow-minded, but he certainiy is gaing the wrang way about bettering his public relations. (3.) The enviaus man la faolish, because no matter how great your succesa there will always be in histary or legend somneone more succesaful than yau. (4.) The man who dialikest and bates lias a gencral fe eajig of againstness, Nwhich la oM~n recipracated. (5.) The fearful nian niay he afraid ta do bis best for fear bis beat wili nat be good enough. Or he may avoid peo- pie ion fear they may distunh bis tranquiility. Napoleon uscd ta exhont his soldiers ta "Itake the firat step taward your en-p emies and put on a gaod caun- h tenance.p (6.) The dependent mana should leara not ta lean upan f others but ta accept protection e and help only ta the extent that thcy help him towand re- establishment ai bis seli-reli-p ance. l (7.) The thin-skinned nman, v, the man whose vanity is casisy fr t wounded, should remember that this la anc ai the greatest a, cassa1Ihhetobeadard-feeling in the world, the ci great diarupter af public reia- t: tions. There Is ane phase ai publice e relations in whsch we succeed- ro at home mucb better than wi abnoad and that la in aur judg- ment ai people. If we cou id ar learo ta judge oui- fellewv-na- a i tions geoerously, ta bear with be th-;irfrl-eA"a a4 b.ilA , un ajla L. lions To pic Public Rela At Blacksto The follo'wing fine address on Public Relations was deliv- ered by Mrs. Lamne Thompson,. President of Blackstock Wm en's Institute. We rccomnsend it as worthwhile reading and epess appreciatian bath ta Mýrs. Thampson for preparing it and aur Blackstoclc corres- pondent; Doris Marlow, for bringing It ta aur attention: Nune-Tentb, Dolng "Public- Relations are ne- ccssary ta. the cnjoymcnt Df lufe except for a few bermit- like folks. I like this definition ai it: Public Relations is abouit nine-tcnths daîng and one- tenth talking. And here is an- ather anc which should make us ail pander: Public Relations la the sum total ai the effect we have on other peaple. 'TIn The Home I wander if we veny aiten stop ta thlnk ai the eifect wei have on diffenent people, es- i pcCally the ones wîth whomn we came in constant contact, like aur famiiy. Do we realize 1 that they may feel hurt, or shoved aside, or unwantcd,1 when we are cross, or hurried,, or diatracted by sbme circum- i stance autaide the home? The t beat place ta practice aur pub- c lic relations la right in the 1 home and then watch eveny- r body's persanality blossom. inta 1 ]aniething beautiful. t Mend Our Mainens Which briags us araund ta the subject ai manners. Hu- S nan relations ai every kind, in- t lividuai, commuaity and inter- national, would be iniproved c if people wauld anly mend a hein manners. 0 A State of Dmd tc Chanming manmena are a state ai mmnd, nat a garment ta si 'c put on and off. Tbey nican SI egard for the other fellow's fi felings; they make you treat a] im with such cansideration SI tiat his memary ai you wiil be ce. leasant. For it is in littie di hiîngs that goad public rela- tr ions shows- itseîf.* C4urtesy a] îay be the smail change af le ublic relations, but it adds ip ta «a huge sum. ai Breaches ai Manners ta On the street and in public tii !ntacts everywhere most ai uis lave an excellent chance ta fa aild good public relations. inE cearly one hundred men and gE aomen wcre asked ta nanie the aost cammon breaches ai gaad ah nanners. Here la a aummary th ftheir answcrs., lit Pedestrians failing ta wait ah r the green ligbt; jay-wallc- s0 g; walking an sidewalks Wi are than two abreast, or zig- gging, or dawdling, or rush- pr ig, or daydreaming, or gath- ta ing in graups ta talk. la Matonists racing thc lights; OP oaking haras, splashing; dis- wi ýgarding pedestrians; stapping th( ride the intersection white kit ne; jackeying for an advan- mnz ge oller other drivers. Wl In stores: the disintercat af iuc les clcnks:, crowding by cuo-- ners; refusal ai clenka ta sec customer near closing timc.; nbling by custamers who i7't know what thcy want. On street cars: pushing; pal reading aut aven more seat anc an is aeceasary; lack ai cour'- HO] sy; blocking the stepa and the wh trance. No, n elevators: smoking; rciuF- awi gta move ta let people off, son On the telephane: inaudible nes cea; mumbling. talking with ena. e or cigarette in mauth; Vy ýuptness; lack ai informa- ?& n: delay in answering wb.in mci acali is p ut tbraugh. he ln offices: unnecessary noise; hon ,tating while smoking; bar- ai wing and not returning; nea iding up work until late in T Sday. -Moi In theatres: talking: crack- Oua rguni; catiag; wearing bic, day s; shuffiing feet; taking Uri Sun ah armn resta;. breakiag ino ousi ne-up. ciat: ,n restaurants- holding table preý ce }vhile others wait; smoit- adv: combing hair and apply- huai Ve extend aur sincere sym- *hy to the famiiy, brothers Id sisters af Mr. Vicer (Vice) Ldaway ai Brandon, Man., io passed away on Tuesday, )vember 22nd. Mr. A. Hold- ray, Mrs. Frank Anderson, iCriss, leit by train an Wed- sday, 23rd, ta attend the fun- 31 on Friday at Brandon. We are sorry ta report that .Lloyd Marvin is under lical treatment. At present is resting camfortably at me. We trust we may hear some impravement in the ir future. 'he dramatlc foursome of *rish presented their humor- skit at Weicomne an Tues- cvening, Nov. 22nd in the nday School Hall under the pices ai the Waman's Asso- ion by the invitation ai the sident, Mrs. E. Inch. The ice how ta subdue bossy 3bands was received hilar- 'ly. lhe regular church service ;held at 10 a.m. oin Sunday. ,e was a very gaod congre- tn . The Junior chair added ch ta the enjoyment of this ice. New hymn books, the of the W.A., were used for iirst time by the chair.' his was baptism. Sunday 1three infants were pre- td and baptized by the Rev. W. Harding: June M\arion,. ghter ai Mr. and Mrs. Lloyd 7vin; Catherine Aima, dau- ýr af Mr. and Mrs. Morley ness; James Ronald, son af and Mrs. Donald Lord. Mr. id Marvin unfartunately unable ta be present as iess through sickness. inday Schaol was held at a.m. There was a record 1er af 50 present. Church school ýttendance are real- nproving at Morrish. We ;the goad work will con- rs, E. Wilson wasMsu pper t vith Mrs. Wm. MoHoîI .ednesday 23rd. number of ladies froin ish attended the Bazaar at on Friday evening, Nov. This was held under the ices af the W.A. Congra- ans are due ta this enter- g graup who by many aio planning and workîng Mted sa large a number af 'tive articles for wearing, gifts, pleasure and good 9until finally when the dollar disappeared we re- 1and enjoyed the gond sm arranged and the dcc- is lunch served ta end a pleasant evening wvith Is of aur sister church. and Mrs. Calvin Harness ettled, in their new home ,farm. Mr. Truman Hen- nhas been buay wiring ,arming little cottage. Rena Bebee has return- nme aften treatment lIn To- We trust the treatment )e a success. Spublic achool chiidren usy getting readv for the iChristmas pragram ta Id in the church on Wed- muc serv gif t the ,TIm and sent( A. 1 daug Mar ghte: Harr Mr. Lloy was witni Su aumI and ly la trust tinue Mr gucat an V A Morrt Zion 25th. auspi tulati prisin hoaurs ptesei attrac for 1 eating last è laxed progri iciau.- very friend Mn. are sE on thi lersor bhis c] Mr. ed bar ronta. wili bi The are bu nnual :e hel 10w-feeling with them, we could eventually eliminate war. It is -prejudice and intolerance which makes public. relationsi 50difiicult, for whcn we are prejudlced and intolenant we arc lind ta the real truth. An honourable man will be generous in his judgments ai men and wornen. We are ail rcady ta say that if. people kncw the truth behind aour lives, thcy certainly would jueus more charitably, se let's look at the other aide. If we kncw what ,ia going on be- hind the scenes in others' lives, we, too, should be slower ta j4;dge harshly. A Sioux Indian once prayed: "Great Spirit, heip me neyer ta judgc another man until, I have waiked twa weeks in bis maccasins." The pity is that we require that aur fnienda should be fanmcd by a mare. perfect mo- ide than we are able or will- ing ta imitate. We try ta im- Pei, thernta live up ta an image wre have formed ai thern, and blame them if thcy fafi. When it cames ta judglng people, by succesa or faîlure wc are cmploying an uniair nethad. We are evaiuating themi according ta the conse- [nences af their actions, and how wouid we like that judg- ment applied ta aur beat cf- forts, sanie af which went as- ray because ai factors over which we had ne contrai? As ta the demand for con- istencý la aur public, this is the most faolish o ai al points ai judgmcnt. People just are not cnsistent. People are differentt s individuals and as membersî f graups and under varyîng ircumatances and at different mes.t We start, with the false as-- .amption that, "peaple are es- metially alike." Thea, when wc nd by experience that they ie unlike, we confuse the la- ies and denounce and perse- ute each other because we are fferent. We shouid, insteai, ry ta iind out ini what way we te different, then proceed ta arn why. Sonictimes, ai course, intoler- nce shows itself as inability cforgive and forget some par- iular wrapg. The grudge- iarer cherishes bis ull.will, ns the flame of memary, ýver permits himscîf ta for- 't. No ane suggcsts that we hould be warms, chenishing ie foot that steps an us, but tile fountains ai bitterneas iould not be allowcd ta pal- )n aur relations with those îth whom we must live. [t is nlot easy ta remove a rejudice quickly. A man has try with the idea that there fun in succeeding in being ien-minded, and that his like il be fuller and swecten. Al ie prejudices that beset man- nd arc ailergic ta truth; the ark of an educatcd man is his llingness ta expose pet pre- lices ta it. Anyhow, the ther 1 side of a subjeet alwiays has pointa of interest. No one has the night .ta ex- peCt ta enjoy gaod public re- lations unless he can listen ta bath sides ai an argument, tal. crate things which are dis-E tasteful ta him personally, and1 take the gentle, the favour-1 able and the indulgent aide of smast questions.î Public relations consistsaiofa great many little things, mast ai them arising aut ai thaught- fuineass For example, Timothy g Eaton saw an old lady having c diffi ulty in chimbing the step f: Intoc his firat Toronta store; E next day the step was replaced by a sloping walk. In short, a tl man thuat thinik more ai others r than ai hiniseif; in business. lie tl miust be guided-by the wishes b ai his customers, We need Patience. We must be Sincere. a We must climinate Sources - ai friction before friction oc- -à cura. We need a good Sense af Humour but we must always take care that a joke does not hurt sameone. We must remember that per- suasion warks better than compulsion. We must remnember, tao, that Sympathy is a great neutrali- zer ai bard thoughts. We must rememiier that Praise helps too. It la not enough ta refrain from makinc unkind camments, we must try tà iind samething pleasant ta say in their place. If a bnoad plan ai improving the public's relations with it- self were fallowed throughaut the world, what kind ai place wauld it be in which ta live? Why, we could obuiid the most graciaus age in history, an age in which we shauld ail like ta live. And we shauld in truth be living the Golden Rule: "As ye wauld that men should do ta you, ,do ye alsa ta the.n For Delivery cents per gai, cents per gai. PhoneOshaa RA -11m Icio 18 j behind the Figures No doubt about it, we Canadians have, on the whole, had a good year in 1955. And, although yau may not ......... think of it, the facts show that you personally played a useful raie in helping Canada reach its great height of prospcrity during the past year. For it is your money, together with the savings of millions of other Canadians across the country, that helps rurn the wheels of our industries and aur commerce. The B of M puts your savings ta work, in the fanm of loans and investmcnts, sa that Canadian enterprise can have the day-ta-day financing it necds ta build, ta employ, and ta produce. Only with such financial assistance are Canadians able ta enjoy the benefits of a high standard of living. Clearly, the facts behind the figures in the B of M'a 1955 annual report show that the dollars you save work hard and long ta secure not only your own future, but also the future of aur nation... proud of the part my customers have in this story of progress. M!IHANH 9 nimumu in ail walks of life. As af October 3 1, B of M lans ta. tailed $1,057,444,001 - the highest in the Bank%~ bis- tory. In untold ways, these dollars are cantributing dynamicaliy ta the maintenance and improvement of aur standard of living. THE MONEY WE INVEST: At the close of the year, the B of M had $975,361,319 invcsted in high-grade goveroiment bonds and other public securities which have a ready market. This money is helping ta finance gov- ernmcnt projects for the betterment of the country and the welfare of Cana- dians at large. Other securities held by the Bank - which include a diversified lilt of high-quality short-term indus- trial issues - brin5 total investments ta $1,214,559,875. *4 GEORGE MOODY, Manager Bowmanville Branch. Banik of Monueai BET ÀNbraedher 9Oth birthday o Mr. and Mrs. Larry Ingram., The Young Married Couples' Cleveland, Ohio, were week- Club of the United Church cnd guests with Mr. and Mrs. held a social evening in the James McKinnon. Sunday School raam an Friday Mr. and Mrs. Melville McGeo night, making plans for the and daughter Debra of Raglan. winter's activities. were Sunday guests with Mr. Mrs. Charles Cuýts and fam- and Mrs. Creighton Carr. ily of New Hamurg are visit- Miss Gayle Bristow, Oshawa, ing with her father, Mr. Ernest was home for the weekend Stacey. with her mather, Mrs. Hilliard Mr. Waltcr Neals la making Bristaw. good pragress 'follawing his ne- ~Cnratulations ta Mr. and cent iilness and arrived home Mrs. A. H. Monk wha celebrat- from Peterborough Hospital on ed their 54th wedding anniver- Friday.sary n Sunday, November rriday.27th. Mr. John Coburn, who for Mr. and Mrs., Kenneth Mon- he past four years bas been cnief, Fraserville, visited with manager ai the local branch of Mr. and Mrs. John White an the Toranto-Dominion Bank is Saturday. being transferred to Clarkes- Friends will be plcased to burg. know that Mrs. Lloyd Kennedy Congratulations ta Mrs. Rich- arrived home from Peterbor- ard Falla, who quictly cele- ough Hospital on Thursday. Vigor Oit Co. Ltd. FUEL QIL 'and STOVE QIL 3 STOVE QIL 2010o FUEL QIL 16 THE MONEY YOU DEPOSIT: At the end of the Bank's year, October 31, 1955, aver /twa million Canadians had on deposit at the B of M the sum of $2,591,326,31-the highest year.end total an record. Althaugh much af this money belongs ta institu- tions and business firms, mare than haîf of these deposits represent the personal savings of Canadians [n every walk of life . .. saviogs that are hringing bene- fits ta yau and ta Canada. 1 THE MONEY WE LEND: The money yau save at the B of M is heiping ta ensure aur cauntry's expansion and pragress - in the form of loans ta Canadian farmers, minets, fisherien, ail men, lumbermen and ranchers; ta industrial and business enterprises; ta Provincial and Munici- pal Governments; and ta saiaried people My bank has just completed its 138th year with resources amnounting to $2,796,174,064 -the highest figure in its history. The B of M's growth is part of the growth of this community [îkewîse. M w. qq". PUAWAIvaqw ýàýmý 9 Phone Oshawa RA 5-1109 ut the Facts MORRISH