Section Two The Canadian Statesman, Bowmanville, August 27th, 1975 3 "Communications Cited Key Marriage Pro b lem by Doug Taylor lans for its continuation thisstnig they are pE' A two-day per week pro- faîl on Thursday evenings, to decide for themsel gram of family counselling is beginning Oc tober 2 ancd they can afford to pa3 available withîn the Town of running for 10 weeks.* The fee per sessio] >Newcastle for residents of the The study group provides an when agreed upon,r îarea who are having difficul- opportunity for husbands and adjustable depending i ties la their marriages, home wives together to look at the numnber of sessions rE or individual lives. alternative methods of raising For example, if ac The Marriage and Family a family. ment were made for Counselling Service is provi- Mr. Morel assures that ail session for three sessii ded through the Regional counselling sessions are held it is later determini Health Department with the in a personal and confidential more sessions are nee( Newcastle office being located manner. charge could be adjust in the Health Unit Building at The service in Bowmaniville the circumrstances.. il Lambert Street, Bowman- has been available over the How many sessiol ville. past year on Thursdays and generally required .Robert Morel, counsellor at Friçinys. However, Mr. Morel Morel says that an av( the Bowmanville office, ex- expects the need for it will five to 10 sessions is plains that the majority of the soon bring about full time and if nothing is work of the service involves provision in this area. accornlished la that p marriage counselling. Concern*ing what theservice time itfma. indicate ai Mr. Morel advises that the does for people with mnarrige, more specialized help present trend appears to fainily or individual problemspyhars or othe follow that people àre becom- . Morel explained that Profeson= ing more aware of and willing there are no ready made The counselling does to recognize the benefits of solutions but that the object is any guarantee of fit seeking couniselling when they to help the parties reach their solution to the probleti run into difficulties. ov A solution through the faced as Mr. Morel Involved for four years, Mr., counsellors' guidance and ob- that goal depends Morel believes that the in- servations. He further assures dIr f the persons io creasing number of people that there, is no attempt sofutiohe wan t o seeking such help does not through the counselling ses- soùu ion oe an us indicate an attitude of defeat sions, to force a couple to stay fud"h ad but rather a siga of strength together, but, that if- such is How do the peopleq on their part. Instead of not possible, they try to help the- counselling, servfi allowing the stressing situa- them separate in a îess peorle stae tha a tions to continue and involve damaging way. peepl cohaseled proemst ey r emseeing How is the service funded? the service through al hel. The seyriewaseeformer- . Morel explains that it is former client. Othî ly provided la, Oshawa and joîntly funded by the ]Regional referred b y such per expanded when the region was Social Service Department 'uoctors w h o may- formed. and the Provincial Govern- problem is not meica Aside from his counselling ment. resuit of stress from fi duties, Mr. Morel explains Is there any charge to parties personal difficulties. that he, like his fellow usîng the'service. According ly, lawyers, minister! counsellors, is available to to Mr. Morel, the service is flot and schools also mak speak to various goups ini the denied to anyone. He said in als. community concerning mar- an interview Thursday that From the Bowman niage or family problems theme is a possible charge on a Oshawa offices, Mr which occur. sliding scale from $0 to $25 a estimates there, arez Last year, a parent goup session but that as the person age of 45 or 50 "intak( study program was held and being counselled is the best month of people the suçcess of it has created judge of their own financial counselling. _____________ He savs that those Two Elect ion Candidates Eat WeII on Newcastle Day ermitted ves what ly. )n, even remains upon the rquired. commnit- $25 per ons and ed that ded, the Led to fit ps are d? Mr. ;erage of 3normal sbeing period of need for pfrom a_ &r such sflot give nding a rns being explains on the involved. )k out a wally be come to ce? Mr. Ly of the are self earned of friend of eërs are ,rsons as feel the il but the family or Similar- rs, police ie refer-, iville and' r.Morel an aver- ,es" each seeking eseeking -Uny ilt------ counselling come from Al walks of life as the marriage and familv Droblems do not confine themfselves to either the rich or the poor., An estimated 60 per cent of the counselling problems han- dlled involve marriages while 30 per cent are family difficulties between parents and their children and 10 per cent are problems of individ- uals finding difficulties in managing their own lives. Questioned whether there is any one problem more often responsible for creating stress in a marriage, Mr. Morel said that any problem is generally found to have an underlying communication problem. Most marriage diffîculties however, f all under the cate- gories of financial, problems with in-laws, alcohol use, sex or greatly differing interests outside the home which cause* the couple to become Very often marriage prob- lems >arise from a basic insecurity of one or, both partners, a situation which generally is evident witb those who marry quite young and being immature and lacking in the experiences of relation- ships, get together for the wrong reasons. 0f ten the reason for marriage in such cases is one of simply filling each others needs (a parental partner). Mr. Morel reports tfhat ail il persons on staff in the Region are professionals in the field, holders of Masters degrees in social work including one with a Ph. D. and another with a Masters in Divinity. Offices are lo#ated in Oshawa, Ajax, Whitby, Beaverton and Bow- manville. 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TORONTO DOMINION the bank where people/make the difference Complete Plans for Hoistfein Club Show Fultz reports that "our mach- ines are now more than 50 per cent in place". The operations director believes the Canadian code to be the "best in the world". As ail areas of the country were allocated by code by November 1973 Mr. Fultz reminds that no address is officially complete without a code. He cites the "curse of the post office today is that everyone has an idea of how things should be run but no one knows how the ideas should' interlock." He suggests that with the code and mechaniza- tion the Canadian postal system would become effi- cient and sould'once aizain. Charlie MeIlveen (second from left), Progressive Conservative candidate for Durham East in the September 18 provincial election, gets a serving of roast beef from Liberal candidate Kirk Entwisle at the Newcastle Day in Orono festivities last week. Dr. Mcllveen was accompanied by Walter Beath. Chairman of the Durham Region (lef t) and Mrs. Mcllveen (third from lef t). Code and Machines To 0Imp rove Syst em In outlining the revamp ing a baeklog of some 30 million The pi program of the post office with pieces which the new system postal co, the new postal code and clerd up within weeks and one of1 sorting equipment to a gather- I'now the letters are moving manage ing of weekly newspaper thïrough Montreal as quickly which th, pulishers and editors at as anywhere else. in this 1968 had Saskatoon, Director General country. " Fultz s of Operations, Jerry Fultz Mr. Fultz cited the reason tion that advised, "We're not in this for the code being established needed balîgame for laughs." as being that "the Post Office but that Mandy Martin reports in is having trouble finding the indicati( last Thursday's edition of the calibre of people it used to. immedia Port Ho pe Evening Guide that The jobs are dirty -and, in office wî Mr. 'ultz stressed. the fact today's world, uninspiring. provide "We are not laying off any The-people are not prepared to the old people" but rather, ",We are accept the samne working systems. using the people that our hours. People don't want to The re machines make available in start at the bottom and work ants wa other departmnents. No one is up. Most people now want a Federal being laid off; you try that in' job that will fit in with their ruary111 jTour business and see how idea of the time of day they wheelsi ong you make money." should be working." time Mr. Mr. Fultz also reported that Mr. Fultz further explained __ no employees would take a that these w ho joine dthe Post ' reduction in pay and almost Office following the war in the none will have to be reiocated, 1940's, eager and, wilfling to the only exception being at the work, are retiring or disap- l huge offices in Toronto and pearing with the net result Montreal. that "the postal service is Mr. Fultz claimed that a more difficult place in which Oni Unions are using the new to work." postal code as a ploy in their Mr. Fultz suggested that contract negotiations and another contributing factor in power bids within the system. the Post Office revamping is "It's no secret we have the passing of an effective and labor problems," the spokes- viable rail transport system in man admitted. "In fact we Canada. IF A PC will' probably have a "Big" "This will neyer be equal- LEGISI labor problem in September." led," hie said. "It's gone, it's H1e expects however that when dead and it will neyer be ADVi the settiement is reached the azain." trouble will disappear with it and the- din about the new H Y O systemwill die down. A Dâà Millions have been spent on Mr. and Mrs. Harvey Si the purchase ofthe mechan- Yellowlees and Wayne, Solina, izedi.equîpment, some $150 Mr. and Mrs. Glen Ashton, 9 million in Toronto alone and Oshawa, were Sunday evening another $189 million la Mon- visitors at Mr. and Mrs Ross REGI treal. AShton's. This new equipment will Mr. and Mrs. John Jones enable mail to be read and and family, Bowmanville, vis- sorted at a rate of 23,000 pieces ited Mr. and Mrs. John Jones, per hour. Mr. Fultz explained Sr., and family, on Sunday. that the new system proved its Mrs. Walter Murray, Tor- capability at IMontreal in May onto, accompanied Mrs. Lola when that office was struck by JIames, Orangeville. and visi- ted MsD rnald Daey Tyrone, and Mrs. Lloyd Ashton, Haydon. Mrs. George Ferguson, Mr. Russell Rahm, Oshawa, Mrs. W. Martin, Hillsdale Manor, Oshawa, were a week ago Sunday vîsitors at Mr. and Mrs. J. Potts. Mrs. Bernard Houseman, Calgary, is spending a couple of weeks with hier mother Mrs. C. Garrard. Mrs. C. Garrard came home from Memorial Hospital on Friday, having had surgery. Mr. Bruce Garrard, Kes- wick, Mr. and Mrs. Alfred Garrard, Barry and Lori, were Sunday visitors with Mrs. C. Garrard and Mrs. Houseman. Barry Garrard spent the week-end with his grand- mother Mrs. C. Garrard. Mr. and Mrs. Arthur Trewin visited Mr. and Mrs. Ivan Thurston at Dunsford on 'the week-end. Mrs. Irene Tabb, and Mrs. Stan Cowling, Salem, attend'ed the 25th Wedding Anniversary of Mr. and Mrs. Elton Brock, Bowmanville. William Trewin, Bill Potts and Tom Jones, attended the Canadian National Exhibition on Sunday.' Miss Beth Ashton, spent the week-end with Mr. and Mrs. Michael Strenge, Mississauga and wrote her R.N. iExam in Toronto. Mr. and Mrs. J. Potts on their way home from Edmon- tonî, called on relatives in Manitoba and called on their son, Mr. and Mrs. Debert Pot ts, Cornwall. Mr. and Mrs. Fred Ashton, spent the week-end with relatives ln Toronto. Mr. and Mrs. Wilbur Black- burn, Dale and Neil visited Mrs. Vivian Dunn and familv. Bennettsville, North Carolina. Tlhe Hilîs tamily fieid their family gathering at Haydon Community Centre on Sunday. NONt prospects of the new ,de were deait with by 14 or 15 studies by ement consultants ;ie new government in ,d conducted. stated that the sugges- .t a postal code was was not a surprise . the surprise was the ion it was needed iately as "the post ,as no longer able to, Sa proper service by Id tried and true eport of the consult- 7as accepted by the 1Government on Feb- 19, 1970 setting the in motion at which [.Fultz recaîls "Can- ada was probably the last major post office in the world without a postal code," and "the last major industrial country in the world not using mechanical apparatus." Initiating the code system was carried out through a series of 14 meetings in six of the nation's largest cities with input coming from over 600 representatives of private business, industry and the press. The country was divided into 18 coded areas, most being provincial boundaries with the heavier populated prvnces subdivided, and a further breakdown derived 50 that a city block and street were detailed in the code. The overail area is the first letter of the code, the letter destination represented by the second figure and the post office where the letter will be finally handled occupies the second and sixth nosition. Country wide operation is to be completed by 1978 and Mr. This is the first year that there has been a night show for this event. Many other counties have hel d ni ght shows and they have proved to be most successful. The show will be held inside a large tent. Plenty of seating will be available for those attending. Howard Bradley, Bowman- ville President of the Durham Holstein Club announced this week that plans had been completed to hold the Holstein Show at Oronio Fair on Thursday, September 4th at 7 p.m. The main purpose of hodng the show in, the evening is to allow more people to attend, said the President. Advance Reistration Thurs., Aug. 28th 2 -5 p.m. for st. Joseph's School Bowmanàville Transportation Available from Bowmanville, Newcastle, Orono, Darlington and Clarke Townships. A Mlnistry -of Housing ® Ontario Housing Corporation Supply, Installation & Maintenance of 39 New Coin Operated Washers & 39 New Coin Operated Dryers for: Barrie 0. H. 3 Owen Sound 0. H. 4 Bowmanvil1le0. H. 1 1Sault Ste. Marie 0.H.4 Elmira O.H. 1 Sudbury 0. H. 9 Kingston 0. H. 2 St. Thomas 0. H. 2' Listowel O.H. 3 Tilsonburg O.H. 2 Meaford0. H. 2 Timmins O.H. 6 Orangevil le 0. H. 2 Wingham O.H. 1 Reference No. P. C .102-75 Tenders wiliËbe recei-ved for the above until 12:00 noon E.D.S.T. September 18, 1975, b y the Ontario Housing Cororation, 101 Bloor Street West, Toronto, Ontario MSS 1P8, c-othe Chief Purchasing Officer, 11th floor, from whom details and specifications may be obtainied or telephone 965-9749, quoting reference number as above. Proponents may bld on one prolect, a group of projects or ail projects. The Iowest or any tender not necessarily accepted. AN AGENCY 0F THE PROVINCE 0F ONTARIO PROCLAMATION ONTARIO LE ORM 405 0F WHICH ALI PERSONS ARE ASKED TO TAKE NOTICE AND TO GOVERN THEMSELVES ACCORDINGLY AND IN WMO' OBEDIENCE TO HER MAJESTY'SWRIT 0F ELECTION, DIRECTE[) TO ME FOR THE ELECTORAL DISTRICT 0F Itario DURHAM EASÀT 011 IS IJEMANDED AND GRANTEO FOR THE PURPOSE 0F ELECTING A PERSON TO REPRESENT THE VOTERS IN THE .ATIVE ASSEMBLY 0F ONTARIO, PUBLIC NOTICE IS HEREBY GIVEN 0F THE FOLLOWING: VA NCEÉ PO ILI1N G FOR PERSONS WHO EXPECT TO BE UNAB LE TO VOTE 1IN TH EIR OWN POLLI NG SU BDI VISION ON THE REGULAR POLLING DAY WILL BE HELO. AT LOCATIONS TO BE PUBLISHED LATER, ON F RI DAY, SATU RDAY.,and MON DAY ieptember l2th, 1975 September l3th, 1975 September lSth, 1975 ar. to 8 p . m S~'a y'ighe> 12 arnm. ta0 9 p.. ISaving ' e) 12 a.m. to 9 p.m.SavngTie> GULAR POLLINGTO BE T H U R S D A Y SEPTEMBER l8th, 1975 9 a.m. to 8 p.m. (Daylight Saving Tirne) fINATIDN 0F CANDIDATES: THURSDAY, SEPTEMBER 4th, 1975 LOCATION:, Returning Office, Main Street, Orono, until 3:00 p.m. (D.S.T.) VISI0N 0ÔF L IST 0 F VOTE RS:.THE ADDITION 0F QUALIFIED PERSONS MISSED AT ENUMERATION, TH-E ADDITION OF PROXY (NOTE FINAL DATE VOTERS AND THE CERTIFICATION 0F PROXY CERTIFICATES. Friday, Septem ber Sth, 1975 Saturday, Septem ber 6th, 1975 Sund ay, Septem ber 7th, 1975 Monday, Septem ber 8th, 1975 Tuesday,, Septem ber 9th, 1975 i1 a.m. ta i p.m. (Daylight Saving Time) 5 p.m. to 9 p.m. (Daylight Saving Time> il a.m. toi1 p.m. (Dayîight Saving Time) 5 p.m. to 9 p.m. (Daylight Saving Time) il a.m. to i p.m. (Dayîight Saiving Time) 5 p.m. to 9 p.m. (Dayîight Saving Time) il a.m. ta i p.m. (Daylight Saving« 5 p.m. ta 9 p.m. (Dayiight Saving' Time) Ti me) il a.m. to 1 p.m. (Dayîiglit Saving Time) 5 p m. to 9 p.m. (Dayîight Saving>Time) FINAL DATE lvWednesday, September lOth,, 19-75 il a.m. toi p.m. (DaYlight Saving Time) 5 p.m. to 9 p.m. (Daylight Saving Time) LOCATION: Returning Office Main Street, Orono. 'Il I B O I Wednesday, September lOth 9 p.m. (Dayight Saving Time) pasiîu~u.m:wmN u.I± . . . ............... OFFICIAI COUNT: THE ADDITION 0F THE VOTES CAST FOR EACH CANDIDATE TAKEN FROM THE STATEMENTOF THE POLIL AS PREPARED AT EACH POLLING PLACE, WILL TAKE PLACE AT Saturday, September 2Oth, 1975 - il a.m. (Dayîight Saving Time> Returning Office, Main Street, Orono GIVEN UNtJER MY HANO AT Town of Newcastle, GOD SAVE THE QUEEN Regional Municipality of Durham, Ontario. G. T. POLLITT SRETUANING OFFICER Oshawa Business College REGISTRATION STARTS August 25, 1975, TERM -STARTS September 8,.1975 CAL L 728-0052