8 The Canadian Statesman, Bowmnanville, November 28, 1979- Section Two Celebrate 6Oth Wedding Anniversary Should, Neyer Do 'for a Child What He Can D.o for Hfimself Mrs. Ruth Parr, Ajax Public Health Nurse, was the guest speaker at the Navember meeting of the North Shore Branch of Early Childhood, Educators, held recently at Chirist Church, Oshawa. There were 39 present for the delicious turkey supper and 23 parents and teachers joined the group for the 8 a dlock business essian. Vice Pres. Karen Tardiff, Newcastle, conducted the business portion and roll cal when Bowmanville Nursery Sehoal had the highest count of teachers and parents present. Mrs. Shirley Jelliman, Ajax, introduced the guest speaker, Mrs. Parr. "Neyer do for a child what he can do for himself ". stated Mrs. Parr, in Mr. and Mrs. N. Tkatch celebrated their 6th Wedding Anniversary at an afternoon Open House at the Port Darlington Marina Hotel on Nov. 3rd, 1979. Later, they entertained their family at a buffet at their home at 155 Church Street. They are now holldaying at Boneta Springs, Florida. Plannewlrs.Prediet Silower Growth For Bowmanviilleqf ber address, on Parent Effectiveness. She autlined the course she is currently giving in Ajax and quoted from the books of Rudoîf Dreikurs and RLichard Gardon, bath leadîng authorities on child management. "Parents, today, are very cancerned," she said, "lbecause we are the first generatian who really dan't know what ta do with aur children. Parents in previaus times simply expected their children ta do as they were told; ta nat ask questions; and ta nat make many decisions. It was sa simple then, but samehow, we do- nat want ta raise aur children as we were raised and we have devised a more democratic, systemn of home life. We want to treat children as we would be treated but ksometimes, we resort ta old ways and forget to encourage and praise aur children for the gaod they do -and we end up bein-g real critics. We must leara to ignore bad behavior and encourage only acceptable habits with lots of positive comment. That's how ta deal effectively withi the Attention-seeking C4ild," She commented an better ways of coping with "Power Hlungry Children" wha have learned ta manipulate people ta their likîng." Children must learn, early, ta be responsible for their awn actions. Neither Dreikurs nar Gardon agree with the reward and punish- ment system. Instead they suggest the system of conse- quences - Éither natural or lagical as. being much more effective in the long run. But parents must be patient and firm. Wait and let the natural consequences occur and make the logical cansequences fit the misbehavior. Then carry it through. Mrs. Parr urges, parents to really talk ta their children and alsa listen carefully ta them. We must hear feelings and we must learn ta express aur feelings of fear and worry instead, of just fighting over situations which a ccur. A lively discussion period fol- lowed. Mrs. Sheila Viniika, Ajax, expressed the aDpreciation of the group ta Mrs. Parr and praised the members for their participation in the fine dis- cussion. Mrs. Beth Meszaros, Hansel and Gretal Nursery, Oshawa then conducted the lucky draw for the handmade afghan. The winner was BEEF OUTLOOK Slaughter cattle prices should remain fairly steady during the remainder of 1979. Agriculture Canada ecanamists predict Ai and A2 steer prices in Toronto will be about $75 ta $80 per hundred- weight during the last quarter. Much larger park supplies are the key factor behind the steady beef prices. Also, economic slowdowns in' Trudie Robson, Oshawa. The next E.C.E. meeting is in the form, of a Music Workshop With the noted writer and teacher, Lucille Pannabaker, on January 26th in St. Paul's United Church, Ajax from 9:30to 11:30a.m. Canada and the United States are expected ta moderate the demand for beef. Feed prices are. expected ta be below the spring levels this faîl. This, combined with fewer feeder calves andi steady slaughter beef prices, will likely keep feeder prices high. Good 500 ta 600-pound steer calves at i western markets should average about $120 per hundredweigbit. GIFI SAVINGS j LOVELLI Bowmanville appears ta be facing a decade of slow grawth, according, ta data presented ta the Town of Newcastle's planning and development committee last week. The committee was told Thursday that only about 2,000 additional residents can be expected ta join the_ cam- mnuity by the year 1991. Russe]) (;william, a repre- sentative of a firm which is preparing an urban develop- ment plan for Bowmanville, told the planning commoittee thýat growth is between 1.4 an-d 2.8 per cent per year us expected during the next few years. Mr. Gwilliam explained that the area which has been set aside for future development in Bowmanville is large enaugh ta alow the tawn ta graw ta a population of 42,500. lie said the town could possibly accommodate a population of 50,000 within the boundaries set aside in the Durham Regian official plan. But Mr. Gwilliam, >a di- rector with the IBI Group, m~ade it clear that the expan- sion of Bowmanville ta a. population of 50,000 is in the very distant future. in his remarks ta the planning committee, he said that he Aoulbted very many people in the romi would live ta see that day. The Bowmanville urban plan which is being prepared by the IBI Graup, was presented ta the planning and developmfent committee in draft form last week. After considering the document for about an hour, councillars voted ta refer it ta municipal staff for further comments and reports. But in general, the plan appears ta envisian few dras.- tic changes in Bawmanville for the next decade. The document is intended ta guide planning in the tawn up the year 1991. Mr. Gwilliam said in his explanation of the plan that areas slated, for development arc located in the narth, narth east,, and south west portions of Bowmanville. While new, neighborhoods would have small central shopping areas, the Bowman- ville urban plan makes it clear that the central area of the town, alang Highway Two wauld remain as the commer- cial heart of the cammunity. The plan recommends, several phases for Bawman- ville's development. The first phase wauld be the Saper Creek neighborhood which is located west of Mearns Ave. an theeastern edge af tawn. Next in line for development would be lands along the northern and eastern edge of thé town's develapment area. The third phase would be develapment in the southwest corner of Bawmanville. For the immédiate future, existing roads in the tawn are sufficient, Mr. Gwilliam said. H1e told the planning and develapment committee that he sees no need ta introduce a one-way street systemn in the tawn. He alsa indicated that existing arterial streets are adequate for the time being and could serve a population of 35,000. There is no intention, in the Bawmanville plan, of by- passing the centre core of town. Mr. Gwilliam did note, however, that if the tawn is flot completely self-supporting in terms of jobs available in local industries, there may be a need for a major east-west arterial raad across the narth end of town ta accommodate additional traffic. The IBI Graup's urban plan for Bowmanville, forsees three neighbarhaod areas in the town. These would include most of the existing built-up area in ane neighbarhood; the' new northern developmfents; and de velopment in the south west end of tawn. The IBI plan recammends cammunity facilities in new developments. These might include a park alangside an elementary school. Newcastle Mayor Garnet Rickard raised the question of providing transportation be- tween Waverley subdivisions and the rest of the tawn. H1e suggested that impraved transportation aver the Bow- manville creek valley is necessary in future plans for the town. Mr. Gwilliam replied that pedestrian linkages between the centre of the tawn and the west were feasible. Hawever, he said a cannecting raad would be difficult due ta problems of land acquisition and engineering. Councillor Ivan Hobbs sug- gested that project ta link the western subdivisions with the centre of town by road access centre af tawn by a raad across Bawmanville Creek might cost several million dollars. One tonne af recycled waste paper can save up ta 17 trees. Canadians used hundreds of thousands of high grade office paper each year, and most of il cauld be recycled. 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The purpose of the proposed amendment is f0 permit the re- claiming and/or recycling of material within areas designated industrial in the Durham Regional Officiai Plan and therefore to replace the first sen- tence of Section 8.4.2.1 whîch reads as follows: "Lands designated on Map 'A' as Industrial Areas shal mean that the predominant use of lands s0 designated shahl be for manufacturing, warehousing, assembly, processing, storage 0f goods and raw materials, utility functions and transportation terminais and similar uses." with the following: "Lands designated on Map 'A' as Industrial Areas shaîl mean that the predominant use of lands so designated may be for manufactu ring, ware- housing, assembly, processing including reclaiming and/or recycling, storage of goods :and materials, util ity functions and transportation terminais and similar uses." 1Information related f0 the proposed amendment is available in the offices of the Planning Department, 105 Consumers Drive, Whitby, Ontario, Li N 6A3, or by calling Mr. L. Kotseff, M.C.I.P., Planning Department, (416) 668-7731'. Subrnissions concerning the amendiment application must be forwarded to the Commiissioner of Planning, at the above-noted address, and must be re- ceived no later than Friday, January i 8th, 1980. R. Rose Dr. M. Michael, M.C.I.P., Chairman, Planning Committee Commissioner of Planning illil lui - millumai 11