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YE of London, Now -d ('HROVICLE will be sent ddrvss. free 0f postage, fog w!‘ year. payable in advance ll if not no paid. “that date 9. win!) is pmd is denoted by .15.“ label. Q No paper dis. -.« rs are pain, except at the 'al Dz'rectorv. .0? Han for the ï¬rst inscr- ( c but new line cach subse- )1: measure. Professional C u» imh $4. 00 per annum. m. speciï¬c directions will. and ( hmgrd accordingly. ‘1 uhient advertxsements 8 n .t, :F mmd.‘ ‘ For Sale." m. rtiun. .5 cents for each R 381 I) FENCE-COR W. J. McFadden, east of Knapp’s Hotel, Lower Town, Durham to 2 o’clock If DUATE. UNIVERSI: 1032 3T urge Streetsâ€"North of )fï¬ce huntsâ€"9.11a..m. elenhone No. 10. 1’}: o P RIL ‘T 0 R turn Director]! 3.20. 8L, Owen Sound. .y ad vernsements fur- e othce. . . ensure 1119021101) in ought. in not later than Telford. 'ed by strangers must Jackson. . LICENSED AUC- County of Grey. Sale?» to. Orders may be left \‘arerooms, McKinnon’s Chronicle Oflice. Dunn, )LICITOR ONT., rch. stocked with all thus affording fac- 3. COMMISSION DO! â€"Gvraâ€"d uate Royï¬l )f Ontario Branches. over Post Oï¬ce s new Jewellery am. Anyamount er cent. on farm '9 Residence op- out Pirate-lass “'91“ Standard ject. and I want to put "cm H ’ n ' loose. )M M ISSION- ~ tin’ up†to Anna May, but I’ll bet Insurance of good hard dollars that you we issueroot' Marc hnanclal bus: mighty particular how you acted _ T ) ~ you were in her presence. Then er own. nothing in the shape of courtes; â€â€" ‘ .. was any too hne for‘her who; ' all Money Agent. tied me. [Copyright. 19%, by C.. S. Yost] h Y DEAR JOHNâ€"Do you re- ':' member Colonel IIosea Per- ? £3 kins. who used to live just around the corner from us nu William street? Of course you do. Nutmdj: could forget that stately ï¬gure and that ceremonious bow with which he punctuated every greeting. Old Per- kins is dead now, but I’ll bet a horse that he's dotting his crown every two itiizit'tesâ€"tlmt is. if he’s gone to a place where crowns are supposed to be a necessary article of wearing apparel. lie was the most painfully polite man I ever saw. His genuflections and “beg pardons†used to get on my nerves until I could hardly refrain from a protest. He wouldn’t wear his hat in the presence of ladies. and I‘ve seen him standing on a street corner bareheaded in the broiling sun for an hour ya time while he talked with a female acquaintance. The Making of a Successful Husband I‘ll bet a horse I am reminded of Perkins by some = actions of yours that I noticed while , you and Anna May were visiting us last week. That old hypocrite was the embodiment of exaggerated courtesy to every one he met, with the single exception of his wife. Unless he had company he would drop his manners on his front porch and on the other side of his threshold become the most disagreeable reprobate that ever wore a long suffering woman to the grave. I don’t mean to intimate, my boy, ‘ that there is any resemblance between you and old Perkins, but I saw when you were here that you were already beginning to follow the general tend- ency of persons who wear trousers and forgetting at home some of the ameni- ties you would never overlook outside. It’s so easy to do. We are all naturally savages. prone to drop the social graces whenever we think nobody's looking and our families are supposed to kind- ly shut their eyes. Yet the little cere- monies and verbal expressions which constitute our everyday code of eti- quette were designed for the sole pur- pose of smoothing the rough edges of our intercourse with the world, the flesh and the devil and keep us from flying at one another's throat, as we would like so much to do. A Potent Force. Next to the Christian religion polite- ness is the most potent force in the world today. and it is just as effective in one‘s own home as it is in the house across the street. Now, without any more beating around the bush. I want to say a few things to you on this sub- Do Not Fail to Be Courteous at Home. Always Realizing That It Is More Judicious to Be Polite to Your Own Wife Than :0 Your Neighbor's. Jo Jo J. JO You meals. By CASPAR S. YOST. old man isn’t asleep. my so )es nod occasionally after and when I saw these ‘ of ingrowing selï¬shness it horse he’s dofling his crown every two minutes. W'ben vou have rem read it over agai 11 into your head so it ‘ Y 01] ther used to own down on the old farm. ' i t was a (risky critter, as all colts am. but father was very proud of it and de- lighted in showing it to visitors. As a rule. when he wanted to exhibit the colt it was in the pasture, and one of the most vivid recollections of my boy- hood days is that digniï¬ed old gentle- man chasing that dern fool colt over a ten acre ï¬eld. He would trot along and appeal to the colt intones of strained honey. He would pretend to offer a: reguiar cornucopia of things that ‘ horses are supposed to sigh for. The colt would coyly wait until he was al- most within reach; then, with a sniff of disdain. it would raise its tail straight up in the air and gallop to the other side of the pasture. Finally the little beast would allow itself to be caught. just like a woman, and once he had his hands on him the old gentleman would let loose a flood of unprofane cuss words that would Shlle the corn in the barn. "Contaminate your meas- ly hide." he would shout. "I feel like breaking every bone in your onregen- prate cart-asst" But he never did. My parent was a humane man, and, be- sides. the colt was valuable. Before and After. That's just the way with a great many men after they marry. They will p11: no a woman with sorghum elo- qu .iL'O, write sonnets on the classic outlines of her snub nose. crawl on 11- 011' eir knees before her like the devotees a heathen goddess and after they :1 her treat her like a convict or lose terest in her and let her get along he best way she can. And some of :ese fellows really love their wives 0. They simply think that the pretty anis and gentle courtesies of court- :ip are features of the chase and are :;.ertiuous and foolish after the cap- 111’. They seem to forget that getting mm» is one thing and keeping her is mtizcr. as the records of the divorce i'ï¬'g; show. but the same processes effective in both. l;;:1_ you say. a man can‘t always be a his best behavior; he can't always it around his own house in full dress; 0 r-an’t make daily use of the stilted a gentleman at home. The good opin ion of your wife is of more importance to you than the opinions of all the rest of the people of the world put to gether. Yet )ou would fail to $110"? to ‘ 1 . "\h her the courtesy which you we. . . stow upon another as a 11"2'. 01' course and feel ashamed if ;. ..i were remiss in the least particular. Cultivate Home Etiquette. No. you can’t do a better thing than to treat your wife at least as well as you do your neighbor‘s. She will ap- preciate it. I can say that with em. phasis, for nothing hurts a woman mo": than the apparent loss of that fine consideration which distinguishes the wooing days. No matter if she does feel sure of your love, no matter if you prove your affection in number- less other ways. she who has reigned as queen is never fully satisï¬ed with less than the honors due to royalty. Ami it is so easy to gratify her. It is uzziy necessary to keep in mind all the :ina- that your wife is a woman and that good breeding works as well in a smoking jacket as in a dress suit. I have a very strong recollection of a blacksmith who lived in the little village where I went to school when a boy. He was a great, brawny. rough looking fellow, whose face and hands were grimed by the smoke of the forge. He seldom wore a coat and never a collar except on Sunday. but he was one of the truest gentlemen I have ever known. and his wife was envied by every other woman in the village simnlv because of his deference to her I l l .‘v. 4 V‘- to treat y you do 31 predate i phasis, fl more tha‘ ï¬ne consi the wooil does feel 1:03'. He looking f were grit He seldo Coflar ex one of t ever kno simply beca 18 never fully satisï¬ed with less than the honor due to royalty. in private as well as in public. He was a rustic Bayard. but his chivalry was as pure and true as that of any broad- cloth attired city man. No, my son. genuine courtesy is not a matter of dress or of ceremony. and in practic- ing it at home you don’t have to sacri- ï¬ce your own comfort to an extent worthy of consideration. On the other hand, it pays wonderfully in the pleas- ure it gives to your wife and. by reflec- tion. to you. It gays in the grace it a feel sure on prove y x other wag gl“£‘s to your own character, and. bet- ter than all else. it pays in its influence mun the character of your family. >‘~-":‘.;-e of these days, unless you are dif- x‘ez'cm from the majority of mankind. yr-n. will be a father. Your children will he very much as you make them. and your actions will have more to do with the making than your commands. They will. consciously or unconscious- ly. copy your faults as well as your virtues. and the courtesy you display it: their presence will. in some part at least. become ï¬xed habits with them. Your own training has been such that I do not fear you will go far wrong in this particular. but notwithstanding this I have seen evidence that you are not holding up to the old man's stand- ard. and 1 want you to be rightâ€"all right. But Don’t Overdo It. Now. John. don’t misunderstand me. I don’t want you to be a jumping jack in the box at home or anywhere else. Extremes are :11- ways odious, and politeness may be so over- done that it be- comes a pain in- stead of a pleas- ure to its ob- ject. Men like old Perkins sim- ply make them- s el v e s ridicu- ldou’t wantyou to be long, True po- a jumping jack. liteness is nev- er obtrusive. The test of a well dressed man is your inability to re- member what he wore. If he be inclined. to foppishness, the conspicu- ousness of his attire Will arrest your attention, as well as your condemna- tion. On the other hand, the absence of any part of the correct costume or an exhibition of untidiness or careless- THE DURHAM (‘HRUNchE mess in' the wearing is always conspic- uous. So \\ ith politeness. It is greatly missed “hon it is absent. It should he unnoticeuLle W hen it is present. 'lhut is the lxxand to use in the home as well as outside of it. If you take it off when you hang your hat up in the hull, you can bet your sw eet life that Anna May will miss it. and the missing Will hurt Don‘t greet her with a grunt. but with a kiss. I wouldn’t advise you to apply that form of courtesy to others, but in the home the customary forms may be modiï¬ed, or, rather, magniï¬ed. for love and not custom dietates there. Don’t take the best chair in the room unless she commands it. She probably will insist on reserving the most com- fortable rocker for you, but you should never get into the habit of taking things for granted. Show her that you think of her ï¬rst, that her ease and health and happiness stand foremost in your thoughts. and there isn't any doubt about her reciprocation. Howev- er much he may Wish to do. the manr usually gets the best of the balgain in the matter of attentions at home, but he shouldn t get the idea into his nog- gin that nothing is expected of him. Everything that is tende1 and solic- itous and courteous and loving is ex- pected of him. It is so easy to feel that these things are of no avail be- She will insist on reserving the most com- formblc rocker for you.- cause they are so often unaccepted or apparentlv unnoticed, but you can’t make :1 them. Be polite to your wife, Jonn, wuewer you are at home or abroad. It doesnft cost you a red cent, it need not incon- venience you in the least, but it means an almighty lot to Anna May and just as much to you. Yours affectionately. JOHN SNEED. A Luxurious Conscript. A wealthy factory owner of Chaux- de-Fonds, Switzerland, who succeeded in evading the rigor of his service as a conscript by much hospitality toward his ol‘licers, has been sentenced to two days‘ conï¬nement to barracks and or- dered to begin military service over again. When ordered to report himself he arrived at the barracks at Colom- hicr in a motor car, accompanied by his valet. .-\t a fabulous price he se- cured a private room there. which be furnished luxuriously and stocked with tho ' “ \vines and cigars. Eventually he was permitted to live out of bar- racks and engaged a flat in the best hotel. where he entertained his ofï¬cers liberally and took them for rides in his motor car. By shamming illness be avoided all drill and the ordinary du- racks and hotel. when" liberally an motor car. avoided all From Behind the Counter. “The salesludy differentiated several classes of shoppers?" “Oh. yes. indeed! 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