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Durham Chronicle (1867), 18 Jun 1908, p. 7

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tlakw a good last'im- tâ€" impression. They L'g'ee. and working, mt if ul Roses With every sh. 64H) Roses to be ’chestra INS H dow Hat r the Music at own Prices ;ER’S SAMPLE .IRTS (5 U( ds 0!” Carpet l Parlors from Ireland ! 20. 1908 ardware en 8: Boys smnples of the new amuna and chiff- rylps. pleated and insâ€"0n sale $4.25 LAND Junelg ling browns, yard. 1 about 250 '011 9:01: your nit”? King“ l 1 0 FT asentvs. have i bdrm, even I. C Clored Fancv linen DOI $01119 ancv of browns. screen screen ("Peat Seasonable Goods [10W 1“ StOCkW IPeople’s Mills 'o.1 Manitoba wheat cannot be beat. Eur pure Manitoba flour, made from or either bakex's’ or domestic use. i made from selected winter whgaa IS a superior article for making pastry, etc. Korwtantly on hand the best brands {blend of . Manitoba and Q Ontario rheat and is a strictly first class family flour. special Reduction on Flour in 5 and 10 Bag Lots. IGOOdS delivered anywhere in town .ChODDing Done Every Day 3-3 Up-to-dato flour and feed 8111‘} grocers keep mu- flour for. sale. to 50“? grocer dues not keep 1t comeht the mill and we will use YO}! lgg ° Call us up by telephone 1‘0. . mkinds of Grain bought at Market Price. 74;; WV)?“ "In“ VA§ '75 ’INWWWW . Come early forvour share John McGowan. E. "(‘53 ABF‘ihin-g that makes the annpal 41mm: 91' spring houseâ€"cleamng ‘7? t‘néiw >1“ .nld be encouraged- in: that makes home more QW'HTKNP. more attractive. more rtzstic, >hmzh‘t he patronized. Our golds do all this. Scrubbing, stove 8: shoe ‘brushes with (lumber and handle, $0.81) Chips, ammonia. national p0hSh laundry soups, borax and pearl- ine, Try Naptha soap, t0 be used With cold or tepid water. . Reblenish vonr linen by pure-“ed Eur sheetmgs. Plain and um ed . Pillow cottons @ 200 per yard Table linen @ 25c to 50¢ per yd. Fedora 3 l) PASTRY FLOUR TRY OUR NE‘V CHOPPER. SOVEREIGN C. McArthur m? new prints and muslin . S at 10¢ per yd. and dotted for window trimming. ‘ 1908 ECLIPSE WE KEEP Will- 1111‘ ‘ltess "' t? 1111(1t31 { sat-in vs 00a sforla IX. 2111 I THE llf Next. to Swallows RESIDENCEâ€"Next \\'. J t Lawrence’s . Lawns <5 (’OOdS Inlel skirt-s Ltin umt-ings )1- ladies and x11 new and and inen Rubes. and b1 get! people. H Specialty on shortesz 11 '2 '44 '0 '. l'ui of laugh that would roll across the vil lage like a pea) of spring thunder. it: reverberations were infectious. and. in matter how worn and tired. no matte: how troubled; my fellow citizens would be. they would echo a smile. and peat-o and contentment would settle down upon the whole community. Why. I've seen town meetings of the most violen. character turned into love feasts b) the influence 0: that laugh pour a ‘ ed through tlu open Windows 1/” of the city hall ‘ .- ’ But that iSu'! \ 'x ’4’ what I wante.’ \ ‘3’“. ‘\ totellyouabout §~...-"4 ’ \ Mrs. Schreitlel ‘4 , . . . 5-9 believed in tau ? l She assaulted dirt. up to sunset after she was busy. Everything :1 her little house shone like new s‘ from the repeated scrubbing and pJ lug she gave it. She assaulted dirt the vehemeuce of an American am‘ thoroughness of a Teuton. {est w luxury she disdained. and yet she always healthy and always happy. “How is it, Mrs. Schreider.” 3!: often asked. “that you are so ha; the time?” "Ac-h. Gott!” she would exclaim, with that irresistible laugh. “I but no time for anyt’ings udder.” Sounds Very Well Indeed. You say your wife “shall never wor ' if you can help it.” That sounds quite heroic and looks very well on paper. but it’s ridiculous if you don't mean it and a serious mistake if you do. it isn't original with you. I have heard it a great many times in my life. Some of the men who said it did their best to live up to it. and some of them suc- ceeded, to the sorrow of their wives. but there were several who afterward made their wives work like slaves and occasionally beat them. Between the pampered and miserable doll and the persecuted and equally miserable house- ‘ hold slave there is a happy medium. and it isn’t hard to find it. 031 4/299 - 3;. ,. She ‘ Q“ 5355/, idle, She assaulted dirt. no to z There is an old axiom that “there is no excellence without great labor.” and it is equally true that there is no hap- piness without occupation. Work or some description is as necessary to our mental as food to our physical well being. We somehow cherish the delusion that well financed idleness is the acme of earthly bliss. and yet when we get a two weeks’ vacation. no matter how well filled our pockets. we begin to feel weary of it at the end of the first week and are impatient to get In Spite of the More or Less Pope uh: Beiief That Married Women Woe-k Too Hard. the Fact Remains 3-5.: There is No Real Happiaus Without Occupation. Jo Jo is up. Some can stand it longer than others, but there are mighty few who can contentedly do nothing for any considerable period of time. “Oh, but you’re talking about men." I hear you say. “Women are differâ€" ent." That’s just where you're wrong. my boy. Women in this respect are the M r‘ not different. They must have some- thing to do. and the man who imposes a life of idleness upon his wife. he- lieving he is thereby contributing to her happiness, is making a blunder that he will pay well for in after years. I grant that his intentions are good, but they are of the same charac- for paying material. and unless the wife is an invalid or is exceptionally constituted his object. prompted by love as it may , because nature h normal human mind a strong and over- whelming desire for action. The good, but they are or we same tun...» ter as those used in certain quarters for paving material. and unless the wife is an invalid or is exceptionally constituted his object. prompted by love as it may be, will not be attained. because nature has implanted in every (Copyright. 1905. by C. s. Yost.) Y. DEAR JOHNâ€"Your lette. reminds me of a German “'0 man who lived in the litth town of Missouri where 1 mm: d. She was a cheerful individua 1e Mrs. Wiggs type. and she had a Ll “an the hodcarrier‘s wueâ€"eac .. w- mite duty to perform and will find her greatest happiness in its perform- By CASPAR S. YOST. can stand it longer She was new: idle. me sux rd dirt W1 mere 1 wa: individual she had a is the vi] under. 11: IS. and. at no m. {tel mm W alt and peas. than others. at W0 rk the 5 .9--- _...._.. f the work her- . she continues to . plead for a Impeller! by a divinely given instinct. . would say housekeeping. But Not Drudgery. Among my acquaintances is a young man who has your-sides. very deem." impressed. When he was married. three or four years ago, he took his beautiful wife to a boarding house and has kept her there ever since. She pleaded for a home, but he would not have her soil her hands. The inactiv- ity of a boarding house was to her unbearable. She has a very fine voice and rare dramatic talent. He reluc- tantly consented to allow her to give music lessons. Now her income is lar- ger than his own a brilliant future is open to her, and yet home. just a lit- tle flat where she could do all self. where he just had to do SM has a very fine something. but voice. she would infinitely prefer the labors of a home, with its cares and its joys. to the triumphs of her profession. The home is the best place for the development and exercise of a wom- an’s talents for numerous reasons. most of which are entirely obvious. Wheth- er it is an original gift to the sex or the result of the training of thousands of years is immaterial. The fact re- mains that she shines with greatest brilliancy in the domestic atmosphere. and here she should be allowed to spar- kle unshadowed. The majority of wo- en realize their duties and responsibil- ities and. desire to fulfill them. They know that they can best be fulfilled in the home. and if let alone they will de- rive the greatest amount of satisfac- tion and contentment from the per- formance of the tasks which home and tion form: servic service brings to them. } I don’t believe that a woman should be a druda'e. 1 don‘t believe that she i should be required or allowed to do ‘ more than she wants to do. When her work ceases to be a pleasure. then it has passed the limit of eXpediency and defeats its most important object. Where the line should be drawn de. pends entirely upon her temperament and her physical strength. Some wo- men can do joyfully and with benefit to themselves an amount of labor that would destroy others. and there are some women. like some men. whose excess energy carries them far beyond their physical powers. Too much work is as bad as idleness. There is a golden mean. and instead of trying to prevent Anna May from doing any work at all you should exercise your authority or your influence. whichever you please to call it. to A keep her from - 1 doing too much. SO‘WW Of us 076 total a little reémmt abstainers. exercised for their own good. However. there are not many women who need a check- rein in the matter of work. They are a good deal like us men in that respect. Most of us believe in temperance when it comes to labor. and some of us are total abstainers. able amount of good. honest work ev- ery day. and fortunately the ones of either sex who are content to do noth- ing are comparatively few. ldleneis a Menace. Your wife must have something to do. and your silly pride should not stand in the way of the doing. Idle- ness provides more cases for the di- vorce courts than any other single agency. It doesn’t usually appear in I the evidence under that name. but it’s l responsible just the same. Most fre- 1 queutly it is disguised as incompatl- ‘ bility of temperament, which means that Mrs. Jones has sat in an easy chair and lolled away her happiness. Discontent invariably accompanies in- action. and in its train are the other mental and physical ills which make life unbearable to herself and bring misery to her mate. Yet if that same woman were given something to do. something that she felt compelled to do. either by duty or from the sheer love of it. the mere occupation would remove the shadows from her mind, ; bring the blood coursing through her veins. redden her cheeks and brighten her eyes. substitute a smile for a frown and give that zest to life and love which is the mainspring of happiness. where he she would [1 in all to other. She had to do ever she wants to do within the bounds of her capacity. If she takes pleasure in housework. don’t hinder her. There is nothing degrading about it. On the contrary. there is no more honorable employment tor-a wife. and there is none by which she can add so much to the peace and contentment of the homo and to the happiness of her husband. her children and herself. Talk as the “advanced woman" may about the en- 'I‘UE DURHAM (JuliuleLE cause I’ve got an idea that she's a hustler. and, while hus- tlers are admi- rable people as a rule, they need ’espousibil- em. 'l‘lze‘y fulfilled in ey will (10- ‘ .t' sati:<fac- ! 1 1"": T“)?- l largement of wbman’s sphere, she can- not get away from the fact that na- ture‘s inexorable laws have given her a field peculiarly her own, a field in which she has no rival, in which she can and does do her greatest work for humanity, and that field is bounded by the four walls of the home. It is true that housework has its cares, its myri. 21:1 annoyances, that often bring tears of vexation or discouragement. but no method of life has been yet discovered that does not have a few kinks in it, and there never will be. It would be a doggoned monotonous existence any- how. It’s the kinks in life that make existence really worth while. and they are as necessary to the making of :1 woman’s character as of a man’s, pro- vided, of course, there are not too many of them. When you start out for a drive you don’t care for a straight road unless your only object is the exhilaration of motion. If you want to get the greatest possible enjoyment, you choose a winding road. where curves bring new vistas into View at every turn. and so in life. But. here; it poetry in a minute. and of all things on earth deliver me from amateur po etry, particularly when it’s maudlin. Happiest Woman in the World. As I was saying. the housewife has her troubles, great bunches of ’em, but the woman who pounds a typewriter or who stands up behind a counter and murmurs “Cash!” can never know the joys that mingle with and overlap the cares of the wife who looks after her own household. Why, my boy, there never was a happier wo- man than your mother, and she has worked, worked h a r d, all her married life, not because she had to, for I’ve a l w a y 5 made enough to take care of her ' without it. but because she wanted to, 1 because she would have been unhappy { otherwise and I dare vou to sav that 1 your Anna May is an1 better than my 1 111feâ€"I just dare 1oul \‘o. John; let ; her 11' ork: let her do just as much as ! she pleases to do in reason. it won‘t i hurt herâ€"there is no better exercise in l the world than housew orkâ€"and it 11111 lmake her a better wife and please i I 1 keep on in this strain I’ll be writing I l i G I just dare you! God. a better mother when the time It is true there are some womenâ€"and it pains me to see the number growing larger all the timeâ€"who have a strong aversion to domestic labor. I don‘t lw~ lieve Anna May is one Of them; but. if she ls, let her follow her bent if it does not destroy your domestic relzi lions. There is 110 more pitiable objevl on earth than a woman of energy and talent compelled to live a life of inm- tion because her little tin god of a bus i band would consider himself (118"1'8t ed l if she were to do a little honorable work l on her own account. Don’t be that kind E of a champ. It's pure and unadulter- l ated selfishness. That’s all there is to i it. It you love your wife. give her free i dom. Let her do the work that pleases her best. for therein lies her greatest happiness. But keep her at home: keep ‘ her at home! I draw the line there. if her ambition takes her beyond the por- " tal for her labor. employ a housekeep E er, but preserve the home. 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